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To be too nice to be sexy ?
I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?  
I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .
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"To be too nice to be sexy ?
I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?
I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .
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is being a woman's friend a bad thing?
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I think you can be nice and have a streak which suggests you aren’t always nice.
But it’ll change with different people as to what level of both you need.
You’ll be the right level for the right people 
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I think there's an element of truth in it, but not enough to warrant changing your approach. People can be put off by the strangest of things, I once saw a woman say she wouldn't meet blokes who wear a polo shirt. So yeah, I can easily imagine someone mistakenly thinking you'll be a bit dull in the sack because your nice.  |
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"To be too nice to be sexy ?
I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?
I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .
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You can be nice and sexy  |
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if your a nice person then why are you trying to sell it ....let others decide if your nice or not ... saying your nice means nothing to others other than a gimmick to sale yourself |
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"To be too nice to be sexy ?
I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?
I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .
is being a woman's friend a bad thing?
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Not at all but it’d be nice to be wanted sexually sometime . I just tend to become friends with ladies |
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"To be too nice to be sexy ?
I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?
I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .
You can be nice and sexy "
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"if your a nice person then why are you trying to sell it ....let others decide if your nice or not ... saying your nice means nothing to others other than a gimmick to sale yourself"
Hey before you jump to me selling it !
It’s what I’ve been told
“Ahh you’re lovely, you’re so nice, you’re such a sweetheart”
Never “fuck your sexy “
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I'm Polite nice and friendly it's the way my parents have bought me up and it hasn't failed me yet
As for whether it makes me sexy I'll leave that for the friends that I have made on here to decide
With that said I'm having a whale of a time  |
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I think you can be too nice E.g. You'd think a woman would appreciate a man being accommodating enough to wank himself dry before a meet to guarantee staying power but they're oddly ungrateful after an hour of laborious lovemaking |
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"I think you can be too nice E.g. You'd think a woman would appreciate a man being accommodating enough to wank himself dry before a meet to guarantee staying power but they're oddly ungrateful after an hour of laborious lovemaking "
Do people make love on fab… ?
I thought the just fucked and screwed 
But yes I think I don’t have the edge some bad boys / alpha’s have which women find sexy  |
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"To be too nice to be sexy ?
I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?
I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .
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I'd like a polite and friendly guy to chat with, but who has a cheeky side to him. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No; I don't think so. I'd much rather someone approached me as a potential friend with a flirty nature than a fuck. There's nothing wrong with being genuinely nice and not a Nice Guy - it's good to be considerate and kind. |
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Nice can still be sexy. Ultimately I want to feel respected and treated well by anyone I play with.
I do know what you mean though as I hate being described as nice too. I just sounds so boring and unremarkable.
Kx
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"To be too nice to be sexy ?
I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?
I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .
I'd like a polite and friendly guy to chat with, but who has a cheeky side to him."
Don’t mean to blow my own trumpet …. 
But that sums me up perfectly |
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"To be too nice to be sexy ?
I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?
I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .
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I think that anyone who calls them self a “nice” or “good” person, probably isn’t. Polite and friendly is exactly what gets a response - from me, anyway. I can’t speak for others. |
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"Nice can still be sexy. Ultimately I want to feel respected and treated well by anyone I play with.
I do know what you mean though as I hate being described as nice too. I just sounds so boring and unremarkable.
Kx
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I think some people think im boring sometimes …
I’d say I lead a more exciting life than your average joe but I don’t do drugs and rarely get d*unk
They don’t know and never find out I’m the best kisser in the north of England and I’m a comical genius  |
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"To be too nice to be sexy ?
I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?
I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .
I think that anyone who calls them self a “nice” or “good” person, probably isn’t. Polite and friendly is exactly what gets a response - from me, anyway. I can’t speak for others. "
I don’t call myself nice … its what I’ve been called
I have great manners , self respect and respect for others  |
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"To be too nice to be sexy ?
I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?
I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .
I think that anyone who calls them self a “nice” or “good” person, probably isn’t. Polite and friendly is exactly what gets a response - from me, anyway. I can’t speak for others.
I don’t call myself nice … its what I’ve been called
I have great manners , self respect and respect for others "
That’s a good thing most women don’t want to be treated like shit
But I know a few people who fall into the friend zone or are unlucky with women not because they are too “nice” but they lack the confidence to step up and move things to the next level
Women feel free to offer an alternative view but most women know within 10 seconds if they fancy you by the way you look and conduct yourself that’s your foot in the door
Personality, sense of humour and treating them well is what gets you through the door and keeps you there |
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"To be too nice to be sexy ?
I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?
I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .
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Polite and friendly doesn't equal nice guy or Nice Guy. The "Nice Guy" is the lapdog with 0 edge and no hint of having integrated his shadow in Jungian terms. Im polite and friendly and used to be a Nice Guy but in my mid 30s my attitude changed a bit and my success with women i meet has increased. In a bar or a club same old slightly cheeky and pretend to be confident but women who I meet sober and in the day i say to myself, if im attracted to her, im not interested in gaining her as a friend to be friend zoned by! That way leads to unrequited bollocks. If you meet a woman you are attracted to and the ocassion allows you to flirt a bit, just flirt.
Women like a confident guy who has the appearance of high social value and is valued by other women. You need to be someone they see as having the possibility of protecting her if needed but in total control of their aggression. |
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"To be too nice to be sexy ?
I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?
I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .
Polite and friendly doesn't equal nice guy or Nice Guy. The "Nice Guy" is the lapdog with 0 edge and no hint of having integrated his shadow in Jungian terms. Im polite and friendly and used to be a Nice Guy but in my mid 30s my attitude changed a bit and my success with women i meet has increased. In a bar or a club same old slightly cheeky and pretend to be confident but women who I meet sober and in the day i say to myself, if im attracted to her, im not interested in gaining her as a friend to be friend zoned by! That way leads to unrequited bollocks. If you meet a woman you are attracted to and the ocassion allows you to flirt a bit, just flirt.
Women like a confident guy who has the appearance of high social value and is valued by other women. You need to be someone they see as having the possibility of protecting her if needed but in total control of their aggression."
Not necessarily, I quite like shy guys too |
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"To be too nice to be sexy ?
I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?
I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .
is being a woman's friend a bad thing?
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I’ve loads of female friends. |
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"Bad boys make my fanny flutter
Nice guys get more conversation
Each could lead to something "
I’d like to be someone that makes fannies flutter
I’m more the guy that’ll make your old Nan (named fanny) laugh and spit her tea out and maybe her false teeth |
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"To be too nice to be sexy ?
I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?
I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .
is being a woman's friend a bad thing?
I’ve loads of female friends. "
Me too |
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"Bad boys make my fanny flutter
Nice guys get more conversation
Each could lead to something "
Just punched an old lady and mugged her at a cash machine.. how you doin |
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"To be too nice to be sexy ?
I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?
I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .
Polite and friendly doesn't equal nice guy or Nice Guy. The "Nice Guy" is the lapdog with 0 edge and no hint of having integrated his shadow in Jungian terms. Im polite and friendly and used to be a Nice Guy but in my mid 30s my attitude changed a bit and my success with women i meet has increased. In a bar or a club same old slightly cheeky and pretend to be confident but women who I meet sober and in the day i say to myself, if im attracted to her, im not interested in gaining her as a friend to be friend zoned by! That way leads to unrequited bollocks. If you meet a woman you are attracted to and the ocassion allows you to flirt a bit, just flirt.
Women like a confident guy who has the appearance of high social value and is valued by other women. You need to be someone they see as having the possibility of protecting her if needed but in total control of their aggression.
Not necessarily, I quite like shy guys too "
I’m not really shy
I’d like to think I’m just an all round nice fella
But I’ll let you ladies be the judge |
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"Bad boys make my fanny flutter
Nice guys get more conversation
Each could lead to something
I’d like to be someone that makes fannies flutter
I’m more the guy that’ll make your old Nan (named fanny) laugh and spit her tea out and maybe her false teeth "
Well my nans dead so if you can do that call me |
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I think you read my mind from the other day OP.
I do honestly believe that nice guys win in the end but I get what you are saying. Nice guys don’t bring with them the rollercoaster of emotions. We are just solid. Yes you can drive some excitement and be sexy but it will never be the highs and lows as we are anchored to being nice |
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If a guy is polite and friendly to me I assume that he's interested in being my friend and nothing more. I need some sort of signal that he's interested in me in other ways. I quite often return from social meets with men from fab convinced that they aren't interested in taking things further because they haven't given any verbal clues. |
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"To be too nice to be sexy ?
I mean do women lust over nice guys or is it just bad boys and alpha males that make you lust full ?
I think I may be friendzoned very quickly because I’m too polite and friendly .
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One of my man friends is very nice. Too nice.
I prefer the one who wants to bang the fuck out of me and makes that very clear. |
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"Bad boys make my fanny flutter
Nice guys get more conversation
Each could lead to something
I’d like to be someone that makes fannies flutter
I’m more the guy that’ll make your old Nan (named fanny) laugh and spit her tea out and maybe her false teeth
Well my nans dead so if you can do that call me "
Sorry to hear that
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