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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m really struggling to find a lady or a couple with interest in any men under 30. It’s not something I’m ticking off a bucket list or anything like that I just prefer the maturity and experience of an older woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!"
Same! I’ve had relatively very few partners, and no idea what I want  I dislike the assumption that because I’m older, I should have all this stuff in the bag! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!"
Maybe my choice of words has let me down. My apologies. The experience thing is more just because some younger women I’ve been with don’t seem to know what they want and what they like in the bedroom.
As for mature causing offence, my apologies, I guess I spend too much time being a perv online  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Maybe my choice of words has let me down. My apologies. The experience thing is more just because some younger women I’ve been with don’t seem to know what they want and what they like in the bedroom.
As for mature causing offence, my apologies, I guess I spend too much time being a perv online "
The older I get the more I just like nice bedding in the bedroom. Oh and good lighting, maybe a fluffy rug.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Same! I’ve had relatively very few partners, and no idea what I want I dislike the assumption that because I’m older, I should have all this stuff in the bag!"
My mistake it seems I’ve got a lot to learn |
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Maybe my choice of words has let me down. My apologies. The experience thing is more just because some younger women I’ve been with don’t seem to know what they want and what they like in the bedroom.
As for mature causing offence, my apologies, I guess I spend too much time being a perv online "
The only thing I know I want in the bedroom is a man around my own age |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Maybe my choice of words has let me down. My apologies. The experience thing is more just because some younger women I’ve been with don’t seem to know what they want and what they like in the bedroom.
As for mature causing offence, my apologies, I guess I spend too much time being a perv online
The older I get the more I just like nice bedding in the bedroom. Oh and good lighting, maybe a fluffy rug...."
Haha! Nice bedding, good lighting and a fluffy rug are extremely essential, guess I must be getting old  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Same! I’ve had relatively very few partners, and no idea what I want I dislike the assumption that because I’m older, I should have all this stuff in the bag!"
I'm not hugely experienced either. I've had the attraction explained to me by other men though - it's more that older women give fewer fucks, care less what people think and can see what's important. And mostly as we get older don't remain quite as hung up on specific body issues. That's sexy to a lot of younger men. I am generalising! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Maybe my choice of words has let me down. My apologies. The experience thing is more just because some younger women I’ve been with don’t seem to know what they want and what they like in the bedroom.
As for mature causing offence, my apologies, I guess I spend too much time being a perv online
The only thing I know I want in the bedroom is a man around my own age "
Very helpful, thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s ok Andy. You didn’t set out to be offensive  It’s just the older woman stereotype that pisses a few of us off!
Good luck anyway x"
Thanks I appreciate it x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Same! I’ve had relatively very few partners, and no idea what I want I dislike the assumption that because I’m older, I should have all this stuff in the bag!
I'm not hugely experienced either. I've had the attraction explained to me by other men though - it's more that older women give fewer fucks, care less what people think and can see what's important. And mostly as we get older don't remain quite as hung up on specific body issues. That's sexy to a lot of younger men. I am generalising! "
Kind of hit the nail on the head a bit with some of that yeah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the age is not the problem its how you appoach things that matter ....my limits are 22 - 66 ... and ive met many in that range ... i must sexually fancy then and then with the messages there must be a connect of sort .... plus add to that there are zillions of you to chose from ... so you will struggle just as any other age group male will... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"the age is not the problem its how you appoach things that matter ....my limits are 22 - 66 ... and ive met many in that range ... i must sexually fancy then and then with the messages there must be a connect of sort .... plus add to that there are zillions of you to chose from ... so you will struggle just as any other age group male will..."
Yeah completely understand that. The issue is 99% of women’s profiles I click on and try to message but they don’t allow messages from under 40’s under 30’s. Don’t even get a look in! But it’s just their preference can’t argue it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the age is not the problem its how you appoach things that matter ....my limits are 22 - 66 ... and ive met many in that range ... i must sexually fancy then and then with the messages there must be a connect of sort .... plus add to that there are zillions of you to chose from ... so you will struggle just as any other age group male will...
Yeah completely understand that. The issue is 99% of women’s profiles I click on and try to message but they don’t allow messages from under 40’s under 30’s. Don’t even get a look in! But it’s just their preference can’t argue it "
Then perhaps cold messaging on here isn't the way forward? Could try socials / clubs or chat in the forums and participate in challenges etc. Take a more indirect route. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"the age is not the problem its how you appoach things that matter ....my limits are 22 - 66 ... and ive met many in that range ... i must sexually fancy then and then with the messages there must be a connect of sort .... plus add to that there are zillions of you to chose from ... so you will struggle just as any other age group male will...
Yeah completely understand that. The issue is 99% of women’s profiles I click on and try to message but they don’t allow messages from under 40’s under 30’s. Don’t even get a look in! But it’s just their preference can’t argue it
Then perhaps cold messaging on here isn't the way forward? Could try socials / clubs or chat in the forums and participate in challenges etc. Take a more indirect route. "
Thank you for the advice I’ll be taking it on board, it’s much appreciated! X |
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Maybe my choice of words has let me down. My apologies. The experience thing is more just because some younger women I’ve been with don’t seem to know what they want and what they like in the bedroom.
As for mature causing offence, my apologies, I guess I spend too much time being a perv online "
Who says I do, I know I didn't when I left my ex husband who I'd lost my virginity to and was with for 20 years.
As for offence, you caused none. But I wouldn't want to fuck someone who made me feel old. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a son older than you OP, it would be a no.
I've got pants older than him.
Should probably get them thrown out then
But they're experienced  "
Fair play I see what you did there, that was good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Same! I’ve had relatively very few partners, and no idea what I want I dislike the assumption that because I’m older, I should have all this stuff in the bag!"
You are both assuming he means sexual experience. It could well be he just appreciates a woman who is more mature and that doesn't mean old. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Maybe my choice of words has let me down. My apologies. The experience thing is more just because some younger women I’ve been with don’t seem to know what they want and what they like in the bedroom.
As for mature causing offence, my apologies, I guess I spend too much time being a perv online
Who says I do, I know I didn't when I left my ex husband who I'd lost my virginity to and was with for 20 years.
As for offence, you caused none. But I wouldn't want to fuck someone who made me feel old. "
You’re right completely I never looked at it that way. Thanks for that insight it’s been a lesson for me. I never had any intention of making any woman feel old, in matter of fact I’d rather the opposite and make them feel younger |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!"
There was a presumption that the experience he meant was sexual (though his layer answers maybe show that presumption was correct) and a bigger presumption that this needs to come from multiple partners.
Older people have life experience - I'm a different person to who I was 25 years ago. I also got to the age of 38 with very few sexual partners but knew what I liked and didn't like sexually very well, I've experimented a lot since then but not really changed those preferences in any meaningful way.
I like to think of myself as young at heart still, playful and childish at times but the reality is that I can choose to behave in those ways but am aware of other options that I may not have been years ago.
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Same! I’ve had relatively very few partners, and no idea what I want I dislike the assumption that because I’m older, I should have all this stuff in the bag!
You are both assuming he means sexual experience. It could well be he just appreciates a woman who is more mature and that doesn't mean old. "
You’re right there. When I used the word experience I did mean life experience but I also meant sexual as well. They’re right in what they’re saying still. Also when I used the word mature I did just mean in terms of maturity and not age |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
There was a presumption that the experience he meant was sexual (though his layer answers maybe show that presumption was correct) and a bigger presumption that this needs to come from multiple partners.
Older people have life experience - I'm a different person to who I was 25 years ago. I also got to the age of 38 with very few sexual partners but knew what I liked and didn't like sexually very well, I've experimented a lot since then but not really changed those preferences in any meaningful way.
I like to think of myself as young at heart still, playful and childish at times but the reality is that I can choose to behave in those ways but am aware of other options that I may not have been years ago.
Mr"
Very much nail on the head |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Same! I’ve had relatively very few partners, and no idea what I want I dislike the assumption that because I’m older, I should have all this stuff in the bag!
You are both assuming he means sexual experience. It could well be he just appreciates a woman who is more mature and that doesn't mean old.
You’re right there. When I used the word experience I did mean life experience but I also meant sexual as well. They’re right in what they’re saying still. Also when I used the word mature I did just mean in terms of maturity and not age"
I'm sorry you've had to justify yourself because you are entitled to a preference just as anybody else is and there is nothing offensive Whatsoever ever in using the word mature. I hope you find what you are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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clubs is the way forward as fab is clooged with men ...go to a club get to know people by being polite but also have fun you'll find the doors will open so much quicker then the veri's come and then people will take notice ....
we knew of a 20yr old that did this hes now 24 years old and has about 70 play veris so it does work |
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Same! I’ve had relatively very few partners, and no idea what I want I dislike the assumption that because I’m older, I should have all this stuff in the bag!
You are both assuming he means sexual experience. It could well be he just appreciates a woman who is more mature and that doesn't mean old. "
This |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Same! I’ve had relatively very few partners, and no idea what I want I dislike the assumption that because I’m older, I should have all this stuff in the bag!
You are both assuming he means sexual experience. It could well be he just appreciates a woman who is more mature and that doesn't mean old.
You’re right there. When I used the word experience I did mean life experience but I also meant sexual as well. They’re right in what they’re saying still. Also when I used the word mature I did just mean in terms of maturity and not age
I'm sorry you've had to justify yourself because you are entitled to a preference just as anybody else is and there is nothing offensive Whatsoever ever in using the word mature. I hope you find what you are looking for. "
Thanks very much, I appreciate that! X |
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Maybe my choice of words has let me down. My apologies. The experience thing is more just because some younger women I’ve been with don’t seem to know what they want and what they like in the bedroom.
As for mature causing offence, my apologies, I guess I spend too much time being a perv online
Who says I do, I know I didn't when I left my ex husband who I'd lost my virginity to and was with for 20 years.
As for offence, you caused none. But I wouldn't want to fuck someone who made me feel old.
You’re right completely I never looked at it that way. Thanks for that insight it’s been a lesson for me. I never had any intention of making any woman feel old, in matter of fact I’d rather the opposite and make them feel younger"
You're more than welcome. Language is a funny thing the age range you are looking at are approaching perimenopause, going through it or are menopausal. We want to feel we're still young. Maybe alter your approach and suggest what you may offer them not what they offer you. Be different from the rest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"clubs is the way forward as fab is clooged with men ...go to a club get to know people by being polite but also have fun you'll find the doors will open so much quicker then the veri's come and then people will take notice ....
we knew of a 20yr old that did this hes now 24 years old and has about 70 play veris so it does work"
Point taken on board thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Maybe my choice of words has let me down. My apologies. The experience thing is more just because some younger women I’ve been with don’t seem to know what they want and what they like in the bedroom.
As for mature causing offence, my apologies, I guess I spend too much time being a perv online
Who says I do, I know I didn't when I left my ex husband who I'd lost my virginity to and was with for 20 years.
As for offence, you caused none. But I wouldn't want to fuck someone who made me feel old.
You’re right completely I never looked at it that way. Thanks for that insight it’s been a lesson for me. I never had any intention of making any woman feel old, in matter of fact I’d rather the opposite and make them feel younger
You're more than welcome. Language is a funny thing the age range you are looking at are approaching perimenopause, going through it or are menopausal. We want to feel we're still young. Maybe alter your approach and suggest what you may offer them not what they offer you. Be different from the rest. "
I agree. I will absolutely be bearing that in mind going forward. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have children older so a no from me. "
I’m very used to that. Such a shame as it’s being immediately ruled out without given any sort of chance but I totally understand the reason |
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By *uxom redCouple
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"We have children older so a no from me.
I’m very used to that. Such a shame as it’s being immediately ruled out without given any sort of chance but I totally understand the reason"
Get to a club no one asks ages there |
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
There was a presumption that the experience he meant was sexual (though his layer answers maybe show that presumption was correct) and a bigger presumption that this needs to come from multiple partners.
Older people have life experience - I'm a different person to who I was 25 years ago. I also got to the age of 38 with very few sexual partners but knew what I liked and didn't like sexually very well, I've experimented a lot since then but not really changed those preferences in any meaningful way.
I like to think of myself as young at heart still, playful and childish at times but the reality is that I can choose to behave in those ways but am aware of other options that I may not have been years ago.
Mr"
To be fair he did try to guess my boob size on a different thread. So that it bias my response somewhat
But I'm a simple creature Mr, the OP asked why he might struggle finding women my age to meet. I gave the answers I thought were sensible, from my own personal experience on here, so he could maybe change his approach and be more successful. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Unfortunately or fortunately, I am 30, which means I am immature and have no experience. Unsure how I get out of bed in the morning, if I'm honest. "
Appears you’ve completely missed the point or misunderstood… or a bit of banter |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
There was a presumption that the experience he meant was sexual (though his layer answers maybe show that presumption was correct) and a bigger presumption that this needs to come from multiple partners.
Older people have life experience - I'm a different person to who I was 25 years ago. I also got to the age of 38 with very few sexual partners but knew what I liked and didn't like sexually very well, I've experimented a lot since then but not really changed those preferences in any meaningful way.
I like to think of myself as young at heart still, playful and childish at times but the reality is that I can choose to behave in those ways but am aware of other options that I may not have been years ago.
Mr
To be fair he did try to guess my boob size on a different thread. So that it bias my response somewhat
But I'm a simple creature Mr, the OP asked why he might struggle finding women my age to meet. I gave the answers I thought were sensible, from my own personal experience on here, so he could maybe change his approach and be more successful. "
Oh I did didn’t I! Showed my immaturity there…I never found out if I was correct though |
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
There was a presumption that the experience he meant was sexual (though his layer answers maybe show that presumption was correct) and a bigger presumption that this needs to come from multiple partners.
Older people have life experience - I'm a different person to who I was 25 years ago. I also got to the age of 38 with very few sexual partners but knew what I liked and didn't like sexually very well, I've experimented a lot since then but not really changed those preferences in any meaningful way.
I like to think of myself as young at heart still, playful and childish at times but the reality is that I can choose to behave in those ways but am aware of other options that I may not have been years ago.
Mr
To be fair he did try to guess my boob size on a different thread. So that it bias my response somewhat
But I'm a simple creature Mr, the OP asked why he might struggle finding women my age to meet. I gave the answers I thought were sensible, from my own personal experience on here, so he could maybe change his approach and be more successful.
Oh I did didn’t I! Showed my immaturity there…I never found out if I was correct though "
You did, and you'll never find out either OP |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I meet younger guys it all depends on there level of maturity and as for me I’m certainly more sexually experienced than I was when I was younger but I know that’s not always age based "
Lucky guys I say! I like to think I’m quite mature, not too much but definitely far from from immature. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
There was a presumption that the experience he meant was sexual (though his layer answers maybe show that presumption was correct) and a bigger presumption that this needs to come from multiple partners.
Older people have life experience - I'm a different person to who I was 25 years ago. I also got to the age of 38 with very few sexual partners but knew what I liked and didn't like sexually very well, I've experimented a lot since then but not really changed those preferences in any meaningful way.
I like to think of myself as young at heart still, playful and childish at times but the reality is that I can choose to behave in those ways but am aware of other options that I may not have been years ago.
Mr
To be fair he did try to guess my boob size on a different thread. So that it bias my response somewhat
But I'm a simple creature Mr, the OP asked why he might struggle finding women my age to meet. I gave the answers I thought were sensible, from my own personal experience on here, so he could maybe change his approach and be more successful.
Oh I did didn’t I! Showed my immaturity there…I never found out if I was correct though
You did, and you'll never find out either OP "
Ah bugger! I do love a good mystery though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unfortunately or fortunately, I am 30, which means I am immature and have no experience. Unsure how I get out of bed in the morning, if I'm honest.
Appears you’ve completely missed the point or misunderstood… or a bit of banter "
Haha I'm never serious on here |
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I wouldn't be comfortable meeting someone over 20 years younger than me op and many will have children your age or older.
However not all will feel that way and some women do like a younger bloke.
Some clubs do have cubs and cougar nights also.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unfortunately or fortunately, I am 30, which means I am immature and have no experience. Unsure how I get out of bed in the morning, if I'm honest. "
I think that's very unfair because he hasn't said that in the slightest. I really don't think the OP deserves a lot of what has been said on this thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unfortunately or fortunately, I am 30, which means I am immature and have no experience. Unsure how I get out of bed in the morning, if I'm honest.
I think that's very unfair because he hasn't said that in the slightest. I really don't think the OP deserves a lot of what has been said on this thread. "
Lorna, he has been an absolute sport and has been extremely gracious in his responses. And many of us have replied in kind. I’m sure he’s fine! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh fuck, I'm older 
Me too. Younger guys make me feel old! "
Not that it matters but the 51 year old woman I met last had quite the opposite to say afterwards |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh fuck, I'm older
Me too. Younger guys make me feel old!
Not that it matters but the 51 year old woman I met last had quite the opposite to say afterwards "
Can hardly say your struggling to meet then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Unfortunately or fortunately, I am 30, which means I am immature and have no experience. Unsure how I get out of bed in the morning, if I'm honest.
I think that's very unfair because he hasn't said that in the slightest. I really don't think the OP deserves a lot of what has been said on this thread. "
Thanks Lorna it’s all good though some comments were unhelpful and pointless majority has been good a discussion and a good lesson |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh fuck, I'm older
Me too. Younger guys make me feel old!
Not that it matters but the 51 year old woman I met last had quite the opposite to say afterwards
Can hardly say your struggling to meet then "
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By *handsMan
over a year ago
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"the age is not the problem its how you appoach things that matter ....my limits are 22 - 66 ... and ive met many in that range ... i must sexually fancy then and then with the messages there must be a connect of sort .... plus add to that there are zillions of you to chose from ... so you will struggle just as any other age group male will..."
hit the nail on the head, no matter the age of the man for him to stand out is difficult given males massively outweighs the female members on here, im going down the route of clubs and would suggest the op looks at cougars/ cubs nights near them, get to meet the ladies and see in person if there is that spark between them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because there's a presumption that I have more experience. I've probably had less sexual partners than you have.
As for mature, that makes me feel old and like my mam!!
Same! I’ve had relatively very few partners, and no idea what I want I dislike the assumption that because I’m older, I should have all this stuff in the bag!"
^^ This!
Also my age preference give a large gap between my childrens age. For me Im happy with an age gap above my age, not below. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many of us have grown children so aren’t into much younger guys and I HATE the term mature! I’m just here for the forums though so doesn’t really matter in my case! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Many of us have grown children so aren’t into much younger guys and I HATE the term mature! I’m just here for the forums though so doesn’t really matter in my case! "
Mature doesn’t always mean old, a lot of younger women are immature and I find it a big put off for me, that’s why I stated mature. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A mature under 30 who is comfortable and competent sexually, sure I'd meet him.
But I'm not there to teach him..."
I don’t look to be taught anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate the terms mature or milfs. Age doesn't define us nor does it say we have a wealth of experience.
For me, my age has brought me a confidence I didn't possess when I was younger and I most certainly don't come with the Karma Sutra of knowledge! |
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I think there are so many issues here and really it depends on the person.
Yes "older/mature" makes me feel like my granny but I do understand there aren't many ways to state it. YesI have a lot of experience sexually but mostly with my husband for the past 25 years. Yes I am more into enjoying myself then worrying about my body but I'm also very conscious of how much hotter most 25 year old look.
There also needs to be a level of maturity, respect and an ability connect and some people still don't have that in the 20s.
If your profile reflects your preferences and you are showing an ability to converse like an articulate grown up then I don't see the problem. You just need to bare in mind everyone is different and sweeping generalisations don't help. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hate the terms mature or milfs. Age doesn't define us nor does it say we have a wealth of experience.
For me, my age has brought me a confidence I didn't possess when I was younger and I most certainly don't come with the Karma Sutra of knowledge! "
I’ve not called anyone a milf, I wouldn’t either as I imagine 99% of women would not appreciate that.
Again mature doesn’t always mean old.
That confidence your age has brought you is one of the many factors of why I seek women older than me. |
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"Many of us have grown children so aren’t into much younger guys and I HATE the term mature! I’m just here for the forums though so doesn’t really matter in my case!
Mature doesn’t always mean old, a lot of younger women are immature and I find it a big put off for me, that’s why I stated mature."
Combined with the 40 plus headline though mature will read as old! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think there are so many issues here and really it depends on the person.
Yes "older/mature" makes me feel like my granny but I do understand there aren't many ways to state it. YesI have a lot of experience sexually but mostly with my husband for the past 25 years. Yes I am more into enjoying myself then worrying about my body but I'm also very conscious of how much hotter most 25 year old look.
There also needs to be a level of maturity, respect and an ability connect and some people still don't have that in the 20s.
If your profile reflects your preferences and you are showing an ability to converse like an articulate grown up then I don't see the problem. You just need to bare in mind everyone is different and sweeping generalisations don't help."
Thank you! |
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"Many of us have grown children so aren’t into much younger guys and I HATE the term mature! I’m just here for the forums though so doesn’t really matter in my case!
Mature doesn’t always mean old, a lot of younger women are immature and I find it a big put off for me, that’s why I stated mature."
And age doesn’t always bring maturity so I’m unsure of your point! |
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Op
So sad to see all the flack that you’re getting.
You’re basically just wanting to shag someone older than yourself, as that’s something you’d like to experience!
You were probably hoping for positive replies with women that like the younger guy, rather than being made to feel like you have to keep explaining yourself or being given a telling of by your mum!
Keep smiling and I’m sure you’ll find someone that likes the younger guy! |
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over a year ago
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"Unfortunately or fortunately, I am 30, which means I am immature and have no experience. Unsure how I get out of bed in the morning, if I'm honest.
I think that's very unfair because he hasn't said that in the slightest. I really don't think the OP deserves a lot of what has been said on this thread.
Lorna, he has been an absolute sport and has been extremely gracious in his responses. And many of us have replied in kind. I’m sure he’s fine!"
I did say I was joking when op replied. I don't think I've ever replied to a thread in a nasty way and has always been light hearted. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What a rollercoaster ride this was
Thanks for everyone’s input regardless of opinions and what have you! I’ve learnt some valuable things!
Now seriously…who wants a shag?
Ps I’m taking the piss there in case anyone doesn’t see that as banter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh fuck, I'm older
Me too. Younger guys make me feel old!
You look incredible though. Must have been a very short paper round "
Just a shit load of Botox and a healthy amount of surgery haha  |
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"Oh fuck, I'm older
Me too. Younger guys make me feel old!
You look incredible though. Must have been a very short paper round
Just a shit load of Botox and a healthy amount of surgery haha "
Well in that case it’s money well spent haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unfortunately or fortunately, I am 30, which means I am immature and have no experience. Unsure how I get out of bed in the morning, if I'm honest.
I think that's very unfair because he hasn't said that in the slightest. I really don't think the OP deserves a lot of what has been said on this thread.
Lorna, he has been an absolute sport and has been extremely gracious in his responses. And many of us have replied in kind. I’m sure he’s fine!"
That may be the case I just feel some of these comments were completely and utterly unnecessary and unfair. |
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