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over a year ago
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Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.
What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene  |
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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago
trouble most likely, or creating it :) |
"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.
What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene "
I won't do 121.. only do club stuff x |
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"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.
What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene I won't do 121.. only do club stuff x "
. . . Just being nosey but why ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.
What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene I won't do 121.. only do club stuff x "
Same here. |
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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago
trouble most likely, or creating it :) |
"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.
What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene I won't do 121.. only do club stuff x . . . Just being nosey but why ?"
its more relaxed at clubs than private meets |
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"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.
What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene "
I only do gang bangs. It's rare for me to do a 1 to 1. |
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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago
trouble most likely, or creating it :) |
"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.
What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene
I only do gang bangs. It's rare for me to do a 1 to 1. "
that's pretty much me to be fair x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Each has its benefits…. I’ve only been to Pandora’s once and that was for one of Feisty Butterfly’s events & I really enjoyed the social side, especially having chatted in a group beforehand and knowing who I was going to meet there. It felt safe and inclusive as a single woman. Also I liked the fact that that there were limited single & verified men there, so I felt I could observe without getting pounced on! Not saying I’m all that, either! 
The clubs really need to get air con - I’d rather have fun at home!! But that comes with risks. Maybe check out 11th Feb event at Pandora’s and depending how I feel on the day - I might see you there!
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"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.
What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene
I only do gang bangs. It's rare for me to do a 1 to 1. "
I enjoy 1-1 as I get to spend all my time solely on her. More of a connection |
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"I can get very shy in groups so I get you completely."
I’m not really a shy person, If there’s a group I tend to sit back and observe which is all I do haha. Where as if it’s just me and 1-2 people I can talk for hours none stop. |
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"Each has its benefits…. I’ve only been to Pandora’s once and that was for one of Feisty Butterfly’s events & I really enjoyed the social side, especially having chatted in a group beforehand and knowing who I was going to meet there. It felt safe and inclusive as a single woman. Also I liked the fact that that there were limited single & verified men there, so I felt I could observe without getting pounced on! Not saying I’m all that, either!
The clubs really need to get air con - I’d rather have fun at home!! But that comes with risks. Maybe check out 11th Feb event at Pandora’s and depending how I feel on the day - I might see you there!
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Yeah, some of us made a kik group for leeds socials etc and I was going to attend one but then I didn’t go. In my opinion I just wouldn’t enjoy it haha. Too many new people to meet haha. I prefer staying to my self which is good and bad  |
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"Each has its benefits…. I’ve only been to Pandora’s once and that was for one of Feisty Butterfly’s events & I really enjoyed the social side, especially having chatted in a group beforehand and knowing who I was going to meet there. It felt safe and inclusive as a single woman. Also I liked the fact that that there were limited single & verified men there, so I felt I could observe without getting pounced on! Not saying I’m all that, either!
The clubs really need to get air con - I’d rather have fun at home!! But that comes with risks. Maybe check out 11th Feb event at Pandora’s and depending how I feel on the day - I might see you there!
Yeah, some of us made a kik group for leeds socials etc and I was going to attend one but then I didn’t go. In my opinion I just wouldn’t enjoy it haha. Too many new people to meet haha. I prefer staying to my self which is good and bad "
I felt the same until I went. I took a friend with me and we enjoyed the social side more that we thought we would. We’ve both since met people, who we met on that night, so they do have their perks lol |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.
What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene I won't do 121.. only do club stuff x "
I don't blame you Little Miss Cali, a hundred and twenty one be far too much even for you |
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"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.
What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene "
But if you go to clubs and socialise, you’re then more likely to meet people who will socialise with you in smaller groups or 1-1.
It doesn’t have to be one or the other… |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Clubs, purpose built rooms, less entitlement and always more options regarding numbers and sexuality.
Only time I enter into 1-2-1’s is if a D/s relationship is developing and things need exploring in a more sensitive way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attended a few clubs, a greedy girls event, all years a ago. Came away thinking they're not for me..same with meeting couples..
What I learnt about myself is that I'm very 'vanilla'. I prefer 1-2-1, I'm not a swinger, I just don't do well in groups as a rule..
I'm reconsidering that position..but not for clubs though, that's absolutely out. |
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"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.
What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene "
I've found the club scene very disappointing to be a solo male in; if you're not with "an established group of friends" forget it. Much prefer private meets in more comfortable, intimate surroundings  |
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"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.
What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene "
When in a club I mainly onl 1 to 1s, it's not mandatory to only partake in group activities |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can get very shy in groups so I get you completely.
I’m not really a shy person, If there’s a group I tend to sit back and observe which is all I do haha. Where as if it’s just me and 1-2 people I can talk for hours none stop. "
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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago
trouble most likely, or creating it :) |
"Does anyone, like myself, enjoy one to ones better than group events, because I usually get told to go to clubs to make friends etc but I just don’t enjoy groups of people, I’d rather enjoy 1-3 people socials.
What’s your thoughts on this and the club scene I won't do 121.. only do club stuff x
I don't blame you Little Miss Cali, a hundred and twenty one be far too much even for you "
oh I'd give it a damned good try lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the feedback, it’s nice knowing I’m not the only one that prefers 1-2-1’s haha. I shall think about clubs, won’t put it completely off lol"
If you’ve never tried, you’ll never know for sure. Can you come back and update us when you try one? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can get very shy in groups so I get you completely.
I’m not really a shy person, If there’s a group I tend to sit back and observe which is all I do haha. Where as if it’s just me and 1-2 people I can talk for hours none stop.
This is me "
Haha snaps |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks for the feedback, it’s nice knowing I’m not the only one that prefers 1-2-1’s haha. I shall think about clubs, won’t put it completely off lol
If you’ve never tried, you’ll never know for sure. Can you come back and update us when you try one? "
I highly doubt I will but never say never. From previous group gatherings I’ve been to in the past I never enjoy them |
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