I've been here a while now and I understand what the site it about. I also have a way of conducting my meets as set out in my profile!
This week I've had 2, yes two! guys wanting to meet up, but when I say about the public meet etc etc I get told, they don't meet in public but will come to my place!
As a single female, I want to feel safe in another person's company with no pressure on either side, to walk away if things don't click.
I've just been told, it's not a dating site, but I do like the social side of things but above all I want to be safe!
Am I wrong in the way I'm conducting my meets? |
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You stick to your guns girl, you are in control and it is all on your terms, or guess what? They don't get to play :o) I do exactly the same, I feel safer. No, it is not a dating site but guess what guys, it is a SWING site, not a fuck site. You can get that from those lovely ladies giving street services :o)Swinging is very much based on the social side first and foremost and then fun and games if all parties are happy.
Carry on as you are lovely, their loss :o) xx |
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Carry on as you are - total agreement that social meets are great ways to "try before you buy" (in a non monetary way lol) and as you say if either of you not happy; you just walk away; add to that the whole risk factor to |
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Your meet your rules, their loss
We would always want the opportunity to meet socially, we may carry on to have fun that night, or choose to talk it over and make plans for a separate night, or the opportunity to rush home and block |
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