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Why am I not having much success with the ladies
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
....how long have you got? I charge by the hour."
any criticism appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
You've been here 5 minutes in fab time and covid is making things harder "
That's not a symptom I'm aware of  |
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
....how long have you got? I charge by the hour. any criticism appreciated "
Fair. Men outnumber women in here like 1000 to 1
So you gotta really put your best foot forward
Honestly ask yourself
Is 2 flaccid penis pics and “my gf doesn’t know I’m on here” really the best you got?
If you was a woman getting 500 messages a day, would you pick you? |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
Nottinghamshire |
"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
You've been here 5 minutes in fab time and covid is making things harder
That's not a symptom I'm aware of "
me either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
....how long have you got? I charge by the hour."
I was being silly....but.
Improve your pics.
Change your carpet.
Get involved on the forum to show a bit of personality.
Do not bombard women with messages. (No reply means no interest).
And don't take any shite. Nobody likes a walk over.
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
You've been here 5 minutes in fab time and covid is making things harder
That's not a symptom I'm aware of "
You always make me harder  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong"
Like anything else in life no right or wrong answer!
If what you are doing is not giving you the result You want then!!!
YOU have to try something different until you find what works for you!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
....how long have you got? I charge by the hour.
I was being silly....but.
Improve your pics.
Change your carpet.
Get involved on the forum to show a bit of personality.
Do not bombard women with messages. (No reply means no interest).
And don't take any shite. Nobody likes a walk over.
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Change your carpet  |
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Women are like visitors from outer space hiding in your garage, leave a trail of Reese’s Pieces across the backyard into the kitchen towards a nice plate of cake and a glass of wine and you will get your reward.
(Note: if you have a speak and spell handy you are golden) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Expect nothing and you'll be good."
What she said, don’t go hunting for it, fab isn’t a site for shooting fish in a barrel. Be yourself and it might just find you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
....how long have you got? I charge by the hour.
I was being silly....but.
Improve your pics.
Change your carpet.
Get involved on the forum to show a bit of personality.
Do not bombard women with messages. (No reply means no interest).
And don't take any shite. Nobody likes a walk over.
Change your carpet "
This made me laugh too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
....how long have you got? I charge by the hour.
I was being silly....but.
Improve your pics.
Change your carpet.
Get involved on the forum to show a bit of personality.
Do not bombard women with messages. (No reply means no interest).
And don't take any shite. Nobody likes a walk over.
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thank you,I’ll take all of that on board xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
....how long have you got? I charge by the hour.
I was being silly....but.
Improve your pics.
Change your carpet.
Get involved on the forum to show a bit of personality.
Do not bombard women with messages. (No reply means no interest).
And don't take any shite. Nobody likes a walk over.
Change your carpet
This made me laugh too "
Aye ..I mean c'mon to fuck. Looks like Dexter has been in there! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
....how long have you got? I charge by the hour.
I was being silly....but.
Improve your pics.
Change your carpet.
Get involved on the forum to show a bit of personality.
Do not bombard women with messages. (No reply means no interest).
And don't take any shite. Nobody likes a walk over.
Change your carpet
This made me laugh too "
Best advice ever |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
Nottinghamshire |
"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
Awful profile.
Does your gf know?"
that irrelevant, there both males and females on here who partners dont no , |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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We can't tell what you're doing "wrong", OP. Partly because we don't know what you're doing and partly because all the ladies on here are different and will have different opinions as to what the right and wrong things are.
Just keep on keeping on, get involved in the forum, have no expectations and don't treat fab as more important than it is.
Hope that helps. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We can't tell what you're doing "wrong", OP. Partly because we don't know what you're doing and partly because all the ladies on here are different and will have different opinions as to what the right and wrong things are.
Just keep on keeping on, get involved in the forum, have no expectations and don't treat fab as more important than it is.
Hope that helps."
it does,thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
You've been here 5 minutes in fab time and covid is making things harder
That's not a symptom I'm aware of
You always make me harder "
Are you comparing me to covid |
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
You've been here 5 minutes in fab time and covid is making things harder
That's not a symptom I'm aware of "
Actually, more likely to be the opposite in that department |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The usual response is, have you been to a club?
Have you?
Well OP?"
To be fair he said he's not having fun "on here" ...so maybe clubs don't interest him.
(Throwing you a lifeline here OP!) |
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
You've been here 5 minutes in fab time and covid is making things harder
That's not a symptom I'm aware of
You always make me harder
Are you comparing me to covid "
No that would do the opposite |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The usual response is, have you been to a club?
Have you? not confident enough to go to a club"
Fair enough. Take on board all the advice everyone else have gave you and maybe work on your confidence. People will pick up on a lack of confidence in your messages and how you word them. |
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
You've been here 5 minutes in fab time and covid is making things harder
That's not a symptom I'm aware of
Actually, more likely to be the opposite in that department "
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Women are like visitors from outer space hiding in your garage, leave a trail of Reese’s Pieces across the backyard into the kitchen towards a nice plate of cake and a glass of wine and you will get your reward.
(Note: if you have a speak and spell handy you are golden) "
Cake  ...someone said the magic word??
Offer more cake, that lures us in like flies |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
West Mids |
"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
Awful profile.
Does your gf know? that irrelevant, there both males and females on here who partners dont no , "
Still doesn't make it right. Cheating puts many people off. |
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
Awful profile.
Does your gf know? that irrelevant, there both males and females on here who partners dont no ,
Still doesn't make it right. Cheating puts many people off."
I wouldnt want to meet a cheater, I don't care how good looking they're either because I'd feel bad for the partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
....how long have you got? I charge by the hour.
I was being silly....but.
Improve your pics.
Change your carpet.
Get involved on the forum to show a bit of personality.
Do not bombard women with messages. (No reply means no interest).
And don't take any shite. Nobody likes a walk over.
"
change your carpet |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
West Mids |
"Ask your girlfriend why she thinks your not having any luck....
Maybe she's on here too, with a different carpet, having the time of her life
BF doesn't know "
Hopefully she is!
Wouldn't that be funny!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look at me thread
And certainly hasn't worked out as the OP intended.actually has,asked for constructive criticism and got it mostly "
Getting the advice is one thing, going and acting on it is the next step.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll bounce that question back to you, why do you think you're not having much success with the ladies?
What do you class as success? "
Reaching Prestige Master |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
From looking at your profile it lacks effort, shows dishonesty toward your gf, one dick pic and a lack lustre bio
There is little to entice woman and little about yourself or what you desire other that ‘haven’t had sex for a while’ which would imply that you joined here thinking it be easy to get just that.
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"From looking at your profile it lacks effort, shows dishonesty toward your gf, one dick pic and a lack lustre bio
There is little to entice woman and little about yourself or what you desire other that ‘haven’t had sex for a while’ which would imply that you joined here thinking it be easy to get just that.
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I agree.
It's almost like those who are cheating expect everyone else to have as little respect or compassion for their partner as they do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
Awful profile.
Does your gf know? that irrelevant, there both males and females on here who partners dont no ,
Still doesn't make it right. Cheating puts many people off."
But at least it's there so people can make an informed choice. He's not lying or pretending to be someone he isn't which is what happens. Maybe is people felt less judged about their relationship status then they'd be less inclined to hide it...
OP stick around the forums, get involved and have a look at different profiles to get ideas. One thing I will say is make sure you reflect out your personality instead of reflecting out what you think others want to see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yiu are a single man unless yiu look like a Greek god with a dick to natch or are BBC or have a ton of money you have no chance at all"
Well someone's a little cynical |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yiu are a single man unless yiu look like a Greek god with a dick to natch or are BBC or have a ton of money you have no chance at all"
Judging by your veris you must tick all the boxes |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
Awful profile.
Does your gf know? that irrelevant, there both males and females on here who partners dont no ,
Still doesn't make it right. Cheating puts many people off.
But at least it's there so people can make an informed choice. He's not lying or pretending to be someone he isn't which is what happens. Maybe is people felt less judged about their relationship status then they'd be less inclined to hide it...
OP stick around the forums, get involved and have a look at different profiles to get ideas. One thing I will say is make sure you reflect out your personality instead of reflecting out what you think others want to see."
It’s not the relationship status people are judging/passing comment on - it’s the lack of knowledge his gf has that he has chosen to look for sex elsewhere - I’m not judging couples who are fully aware of each others play with others - I just don’t condone lying there’s a difference. As a female I will always think how I’d feel if I was told my partner was on a sex site - it’s about reflecting on how all parties feel here, the OP clearly wants more sex but either hasn’t conversed with his partner about it or has abs they haven’t been on the same page, perhaps he doesn’t find her desirable any longer or and most likely there relationship isn’t working so he will chance his arm here for a moment of satisfaction but keep her around for convenience/comfort - that’s the bit I detest! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yiu are a single man unless yiu look like a Greek god with a dick to natch or are BBC or have a ton of money you have no chance at all"
Not true at all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
Awful profile.
Does your gf know? that irrelevant, there both males and females on here who partners dont no ,
Still doesn't make it right. Cheating puts many people off.
But at least it's there so people can make an informed choice. He's not lying or pretending to be someone he isn't which is what happens. Maybe is people felt less judged about their relationship status then they'd be less inclined to hide it...
OP stick around the forums, get involved and have a look at different profiles to get ideas. One thing I will say is make sure you reflect out your personality instead of reflecting out what you think others want to see.
It’s not the relationship status people are judging/passing comment on - it’s the lack of knowledge his gf has that he has chosen to look for sex elsewhere - I’m not judging couples who are fully aware of each others play with others - I just don’t condone lying there’s a difference. As a female I will always think how I’d feel if I was told my partner was on a sex site - it’s about reflecting on how all parties feel here, the OP clearly wants more sex but either hasn’t conversed with his partner about it or has abs they haven’t been on the same page, perhaps he doesn’t find her desirable any longer or and most likely there relationship isn’t working so he will chance his arm here for a moment of satisfaction but keep her around for convenience/comfort - that’s the bit I detest! "
Yeah I understand that. You can't stop people in relationships using the site but at least if his profile clarifies it then people can make that choice.
Like I say I don't believe anyone should be passing judgements on others regardless. Do what you do and take your measures to protect that but don't vilify others for their choices. |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
West Mids |
"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
Awful profile.
Does your gf know? that irrelevant, there both males and females on here who partners dont no ,
Still doesn't make it right. Cheating puts many people off.
But at least it's there so people can make an informed choice. He's not lying or pretending to be someone he isn't which is what happens. Maybe is people felt less judged about their relationship status then they'd be less inclined to hide it...
OP stick around the forums, get involved and have a look at different profiles to get ideas. One thing I will say is make sure you reflect out your personality instead of reflecting out what you think others want to see.
It’s not the relationship status people are judging/passing comment on - it’s the lack of knowledge his gf has that he has chosen to look for sex elsewhere - I’m not judging couples who are fully aware of each others play with others - I just don’t condone lying there’s a difference. As a female I will always think how I’d feel if I was told my partner was on a sex site - it’s about reflecting on how all parties feel here, the OP clearly wants more sex but either hasn’t conversed with his partner about it or has abs they haven’t been on the same page, perhaps he doesn’t find her desirable any longer or and most likely there relationship isn’t working so he will chance his arm here for a moment of satisfaction but keep her around for convenience/comfort - that’s the bit I detest! "
We agree totally.
We see this an awful lot, people deciding that they want fun elsewhere, then denying their partner the freedom of choice as to whether their behaviour is acceptable.
Greedy and pathetic.
People want to play around, then keep their partners as back up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yiu are a single man unless yiu look like a Greek god with a dick to natch or are BBC or have a ton of money you have no chance at all"
That’s not true, for the majority of women I’d say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t seem to be having much luck on here with the girls,any advice as to what I’m doin wrong
Awful profile.
Does your gf know? that irrelevant, there both males and females on here who partners dont no ,
Still doesn't make it right. Cheating puts many people off.
But at least it's there so people can make an informed choice. He's not lying or pretending to be someone he isn't which is what happens. Maybe is people felt less judged about their relationship status then they'd be less inclined to hide it...
OP stick around the forums, get involved and have a look at different profiles to get ideas. One thing I will say is make sure you reflect out your personality instead of reflecting out what you think others want to see.
It’s not the relationship status people are judging/passing comment on - it’s the lack of knowledge his gf has that he has chosen to look for sex elsewhere - I’m not judging couples who are fully aware of each others play with others - I just don’t condone lying there’s a difference. As a female I will always think how I’d feel if I was told my partner was on a sex site - it’s about reflecting on how all parties feel here, the OP clearly wants more sex but either hasn’t conversed with his partner about it or has abs they haven’t been on the same page, perhaps he doesn’t find her desirable any longer or and most likely there relationship isn’t working so he will chance his arm here for a moment of satisfaction but keep her around for convenience/comfort - that’s the bit I detest! "
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"Why not try a conventional dating site with nice pics but word it that you are not vanilla ? "
In my online dating experience, five years ago, I met some nice women. When I changed my profile header to ‘ not an Angel but far from a player’ , I started to attract some very sexy women. |
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