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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, it's been a while since I posted in fab. Maybe a few months.
Lots of name changes but profile pictures I think I remember.
My point is, how does everyone begin again when they've been away? How do you get back in the flow of what's going on?
Do you just watch the forum evolve from a distance and assess the dynamic or are you straight in there without a care in the world? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven’t been away completely - the odd response here and there still - but when I’m back on I’m full-on saying too much and being a nano-second too late to do the one minute delete option  |
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Watch the forum from a distance?
For the dynamic?
Bro, 90% of the dynamic is “say something nice about the person above” dribble. It’s like talking to a bit of snot in a jar most of the time
Just join in. Your overthinking it x99999 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Watch the forum from a distance?
For the dynamic?
Bro, 90% of the dynamic is “say something nice about the person above” dribble. It’s like talking to a bit of snot in a jar most of the time
Just join in. Your overthinking it x99999"
First time in my life I've ever been referred to as 'bro'
You just made my night  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Welcome back.
Many faces are new but there are still plenty of us old hands around xx
This is true. So many people have not been in yet they are still on the site  "
Some of the funniest aren’t able to use the forums anymore  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m back after some time away. I just post with abandon, what’s the worst that could happen…someone actually reads it? Lol"
I think I was known for my rambling posts and waffling on with no actual purpose. I was full of abandon.
This time I'm thinking of the more discreet approach |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hello OP, nice to read you again. Just post as normal, people will either get you or not. Don't overthink it."
Meli, you know I always overthink
Good to see you as well xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get stuck in and have a mingle, or send a message to someone who takes your eye x
I used to do that and it got me in trouble  "
Please elaborate on 'trouble'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello OP, nice to read you again. Just post as normal, people will either get you or not. Don't overthink it.
Meli, you know I always overthink
Good to see you as well xx "
My advice is GET IN THERE GAL |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get stuck in and have a mingle, or send a message to someone who takes your eye x
I used to do that and it got me in trouble
Please elaborate on 'trouble'? "
I could, but then I might be in even more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m back after some time away. I just post with abandon, what’s the worst that could happen…someone actually reads it? Lol
I think I was known for my rambling posts and waffling on with no actual purpose. I was full of abandon.
This time I'm thinking of the more discreet approach "
Discreet approach? Where's the fun in that? Abandon yourself, I say. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Hello OP, nice to read you again. Just post as normal, people will either get you or not. Don't overthink it.
Meli, you know I always overthink
Good to see you as well xx
My advice is GET IN THERE GAL "
Waffle free, straight to the point... take this advice! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just get stuck in. Stick to threads you’re comfortable with and can contribute to but don’t overthink it or you’ll never jump in.
I love the forums. It’s probably the only reason I stay  "
It's always been mine too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, it's been a while since I posted in fab. Maybe a few months.
Lots of name changes but profile pictures I think I remember.
My point is, how does everyone begin again when they've been away? How do you get back in the flow of what's going on?
Do you just watch the forum evolve from a distance and assess the dynamic or are you straight in there without a care in the world? "
I just post what I want and people either like it or they don't |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hello OP, nice to read you again. Just post as normal, people will either get you or not. Don't overthink it.
Meli, you know I always overthink
Good to see you as well xx
My advice is GET IN THERE GAL
Waffle free, straight to the point... take this advice! "
I don't do waffle free, you should know that |
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"Just get stuck in. Stick to threads you’re comfortable with and can contribute to but don’t overthink it or you’ll never jump in.
I love the forums. It’s probably the only reason I stay
It's always been mine too. "
In that case glad you have you back! Fancy a brew? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just get stuck in. Stick to threads you’re comfortable with and can contribute to but don’t overthink it or you’ll never jump in.
I love the forums. It’s probably the only reason I stay "
It's the only reason I stay. I like bumping into familiar faces, boobs, bums and cocks here.
Cheers to the New Year everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get stuck in and have a mingle, or send a message to someone who takes your eye x
I used to do that and it got me in trouble
Please elaborate on 'trouble'?
I could, but then I might be in even more "
That sounds promising. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello OP, nice to read you again. Just post as normal, people will either get you or not. Don't overthink it.
Meli, you know I always overthink
Good to see you as well xx
My advice is GET IN THERE GAL
Waffle free, straight to the point... take this advice! "
I second that. Courtesy of the King of Wafflers. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just get stuck in. Stick to threads you’re comfortable with and can contribute to but don’t overthink it or you’ll never jump in.
I love the forums. It’s probably the only reason I stay
It's the only reason I stay. I like bumping into familiar faces, boobs, bums and cocks here.
Cheers to the New Year everyone."
Have you been on the gin?? |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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I’m back on after quite a long absence. I find I type out posts on threads and then change my mind and delete a lot of the time. Not all the time but more often that not at the moment. The more you post, the easier it gets though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m back on after quite a long absence. I find I type out posts on threads and then change my mind and delete a lot of the time. Not all the time but more often that not at the moment. The more you post, the easier it gets though. "
I remember you too. So many still here from last time. |
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"Just get stuck in. Stick to threads you’re comfortable with and can contribute to but don’t overthink it or you’ll never jump in.
I love the forums. It’s probably the only reason I stay
It's the only reason I stay. I like bumping into familiar faces, boobs, bums and cocks here.
Cheers to the New Year everyone."
Happy new year to you too fella! Love the diversity of your pics |
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"So, it's been a while since I posted in fab. Maybe a few months.
Lots of name changes but profile pictures I think I remember.
My point is, how does everyone begin again when they've been away? How do you get back in the flow of what's going on?
Do you just watch the forum evolve from a distance and assess the dynamic or are you straight in there without a care in the world? "
Comment on what’s relevant to you end what you have an opinion on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just get stuck in. Stick to threads you’re comfortable with and can contribute to but don’t overthink it or you’ll never jump in.
I love the forums. It’s probably the only reason I stay
It's the only reason I stay. I like bumping into familiar faces, boobs, bums and cocks here.
Cheers to the New Year everyone.
Have you been on the gin?? "
I don't drink. Can you imagine me if I did!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just get stuck in. Stick to threads you’re comfortable with and can contribute to but don’t overthink it or you’ll never jump in.
I love the forums. It’s probably the only reason I stay
It's the only reason I stay. I like bumping into familiar faces, boobs, bums and cocks here.
Cheers to the New Year everyone.
Happy new year to you too fella! Love the diversity of your pics "
Ah, thank you very much. Very kind of you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It will drive you mad recognising avatars but not names, but just jump straight back in. "
That's what I've gone with but then you wonder if you're right. I guess it's like barging into a room of close friends and chipping in on the conversation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I jumped straight in. Got overlooked at first, but I've managed to be enough of a fly in the ointment to get a response now.
The chatrooms are a harder nut to crack... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I jumped straight in. Got overlooked at first, but I've managed to be enough of a fly in the ointment to get a response now.
The chatrooms are a harder nut to crack... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been here for while and find it difficult to get conversations started or replies
On Fab or the Forum in
particular?
Both
Might be how you approach a topic?"
Do you have any tips for me ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It will drive you mad recognising avatars but not names, but just jump straight back in.
That's what I've gone with but then you wonder if you're right. I guess it's like barging into a room of close friends and chipping in on the conversation "
Fab is like one of those friendships that it doesnt matter how long it's been, it's like you never left once you're back. X |
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"It will drive you mad recognising avatars but not names, but just jump straight back in.
That's what I've gone with but then you wonder if you're right. I guess it's like barging into a room of close friends and chipping in on the conversation
Fab is like one of those friendships that it doesnt matter how long it's been, it's like you never left once you're back. X"
Yes. My friends also ignore we when I speak |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It will drive you mad recognising avatars but not names, but just jump straight back in.
That's what I've gone with but then you wonder if you're right. I guess it's like barging into a room of close friends and chipping in on the conversation
Fab is like one of those friendships that it doesnt matter how long it's been, it's like you never left once you're back. X
Yes. My friends also ignore we when I speak "
you need new friends |
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