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Can you tell if she fakes an orgasn.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I think I’d know, but why someone would fake it is a mystery. I’m really aware of subtle things, core muscles, pupils dilating, lips swelling it’s not just about vocals, and often my hands over her mouth anyway |
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I don't as many could tell as they think they could, not really.
I've been asked before "how many times did you cum?"
Well none actually.
Other times I've got very vocal coz it's hurt and they thought that was me having an orgasm. No mate, I'm trying to pull away coz my cervix is taking a beating and my words dont work coz it's knocked the wind outta me, not coz I'm so sensitive from cumming.
I've faked before many moons ago to get things over with. |
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"If they're faking it then they're idiots
Or bored and want to bring him to an end. One persons orgasm often makes the other have one. I would imagine sex workers fake it all the time "
That's very true. There are lots of peeps who "hold on" until the person they're banging has cum. They almost feel they've then earned their own orgasm and let go.
Defo happened with me before now. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I have. Have they noticed? No. Too busy getting their own rocks off, which is why it was faked.
I can’t be arsed tutoring men I may never see again in the art of giving me an orgasm. Sometimes I’m happy just to be penetrated by a warm Willy. The orgasm isn’t always the goal. |
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over a year ago
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"I have. Have they noticed? No. Too busy getting their own rocks off, which is why it was faked.
I can’t be arsed tutoring men I may never see again in the art of giving me an orgasm. Sometimes I’m happy just to be penetrated by a warm Willy. The orgasm isn’t always the goal."
*waves a warm willy @ you* |
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No man has ever noticed when I’ve faked it and I’ve faked it a lot. Maybe that makes me an idiot, but maybe it just means that the guys I were with were making no effort with me and I wasn’t enjoying myself. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"I have. Have they noticed? No. Too busy getting their own rocks off, which is why it was faked.
I can’t be arsed tutoring men I may never see again in the art of giving me an orgasm. Sometimes I’m happy just to be penetrated by a warm Willy. The orgasm isn’t always the goal.
*waves a warm willy @ you*"
My favourite kind!  |
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Thankyou for your honesty.
I dont get sex without effort just seems like a pointless waise of energy, if you going to do it do it to your best of ability as they say. but i know their are some people that dont put the effort in. |
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I may be an idiot then. I used to fake orgasms with an ex for an easy life and to get it over with. If I didn’t have sex with him he’d kick off, and it wasn’t worth the upset. (Hence why he’s now an ex)
He could never tell I was faking.
Nowadays, I’m more than happy to tell someone they’re not doing it right, or to try it another way etc. it doesn’t mean I’m not enjoying myself, and an orgasm for me isn’t the be all and end all, I find pleasure in all things sexual, if they get offended by me making suggestions then they’re not worth the effort. Every body is different and it takes time and patience to learn how to satisfy an individual. (Unless you’re one of those lucky buggers who can orgasm at any point  )
So my name is MYB and i’m an idiot  |
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I have unfortunately had to speed things along by making the man believe he has given me the best orgasm, when in reality I'm bored. They have always left feeling amazing, I just don't see them again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men think they can tell. My experience is that they can’t.
It’s funny when they say they can tell "
This made me smile, this is so true. Sorry guys.
Spent many years faking with my ex and on meets, nobody had a clue. It got to the point I don't think I even knew as it had become the norm. Then a lovely on lady decided to change that, maybe she knew because she had been doing the same. I'm glad she did.
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"So why fake it if your happy to be penetrated and its not the goal."
Because most men don’t react reasonably to being told that they didn’t actually make you cum.
Did you know there are some men out there who count out loud the number of orgasms they (think) they have given you? Like 1, 2 that was definitely 3, 4…. all in one session.
Now whilst I’m sure there are women who cum that easily and that many times in one session, I’m pretty sure it’s not standard.
Now imagine telling that stud that you didn’t even reach 1….
That would go down like the Titanic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm an idiot than. When I was in my early 20s if I always faked cumming, I was glad of the intimacy and there was no real emotion in it for me. As long as the guy got off I was happy.
Rest of my 20/30 had no sex so didn't need to. Joined here and thankfully because can be open with guys on here, I don't cum or orgasm but the sex is better and I enjoy it a helluva lot more. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I may be an idiot then. I used to fake orgasms with an ex for an easy life and to get it over with. If I didn’t have sex with him he’d kick off, and it wasn’t worth the upset. (Hence why he’s now an ex)
He could never tell I was faking.
Nowadays, I’m more than happy to tell someone they’re not doing it right, or to try it another way etc. it doesn’t mean I’m not enjoying myself, and an orgasm for me isn’t the be all and end all, I find pleasure in all things sexual, if they get offended by me making suggestions then they’re not worth the effort. Every body is different and it takes time and patience to learn how to satisfy an individual. (Unless you’re one of those lucky buggers who can orgasm at any point )
So my name is MYB and i’m an idiot "
It’s not always the guy “not doing it right’ some women take a very long time, even by themselves and some women struggle to orgasm at all through penetration. Some women cum almost instantly as you penetrate them or hit the spot for 10-15 mins and can repeat easily if you do the same . Guys are the same I imagine, I know I can sometimes take a couple hours especially after the first but we can laugh and take time out , I have very little control over when my decides he’s ready!!!! I’d never fake it though and if someone I was with did , they can just be gone, not my type. |
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"I may be an idiot then. I used to fake orgasms with an ex for an easy life and to get it over with. If I didn’t have sex with him he’d kick off, and it wasn’t worth the upset. (Hence why he’s now an ex)
He could never tell I was faking.
Nowadays, I’m more than happy to tell someone they’re not doing it right, or to try it another way etc. it doesn’t mean I’m not enjoying myself, and an orgasm for me isn’t the be all and end all, I find pleasure in all things sexual, if they get offended by me making suggestions then they’re not worth the effort. Every body is different and it takes time and patience to learn how to satisfy an individual. (Unless you’re one of those lucky buggers who can orgasm at any point )
So my name is MYB and i’m an idiot
It’s not always the guy “not doing it right’ some women take a very long time, even by themselves and some women struggle to orgasm at all through penetration. Some women cum almost instantly as you penetrate them or hit the spot for 10-15 mins and can repeat easily if you do the same . Guys are the same I imagine, I know I can sometimes take a couple hours especially after the first but we can laugh and take time out , I have very little control over when my decides he’s ready!!!! I’d never fake it though and if someone I was with did , they can just be gone, not my type."
Not doing it right for me. I can’t speak for every other woman. So that’s why I said I’ve no problem telling them rather than fake it now. I’d rather have an orgasm, believe me. |
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over a year ago
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This thread was a bit of a sad read. Lots of good points made but still sad. Comments from some guys along the lines of, ‘well im not bothered if she does’. Seems a bit selfish.
Both people should be trying to make each other feel good and enjoy sex, otherwise whats the point. Communicating and learning from each other.
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"This thread was a bit of a sad read. Lots of good points made but still sad. Comments from some guys along the lines of, ‘well im not bothered if she does’. Seems a bit selfish.
Both people should be trying to make each other feel good and enjoy sex, otherwise whats the point. Communicating and learning from each other.
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Yes i love this. |
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"This thread was a bit of a sad read. Lots of good points made but still sad. Comments from some guys along the lines of, ‘well im not bothered if she does’. Seems a bit selfish.
Both people should be trying to make each other feel good and enjoy sex, otherwise whats the point. Communicating and learning from each other.
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Exactly, feel good and enjoy sex. At no point should orgasm trump enjoyment and lead others to physically hurt you because they've got so fucking rough in an attempt to get ya to orgasm.
Feeling like a human being rather than a challenge is likely to get me to orgasm..... Once they've gone and I get myself off, instead of sitting in the shower with a swollen cunt, feeling like shit coz I've picked another moron. |
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I've told you all about the time a guy was so upset that I hadn't had an orgasm that despite the fact I was already dressed he rushed off to get his wife's wand...
The moment had long since passed as it does for me if there's an interruption for mundane things like getting dressed  and I had genuinely enjoyed myself. |
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"I've told you all about the time a guy was so upset that I hadn't had an orgasm that despite the fact I was already dressed he rushed off to get his wife's wand...
The moment had long since passed as it does for me if there's an interruption for mundane things like getting dressed and I had genuinely enjoyed myself. "
That's the shitter tho ain't it. Half the time it's their attitude about it that turns what was a decent time up until that point to a sour one. |
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"I've told you all about the time a guy was so upset that I hadn't had an orgasm that despite the fact I was already dressed he rushed off to get his wife's wand...
The moment had long since passed as it does for me if there's an interruption for mundane things like getting dressed and I had genuinely enjoyed myself.
That's the shitter tho ain't it. Half the time it's their attitude about it that turns what was a decent time up until that point to a sour one."
Yes. I was quite happy, I told him I was quite happy, his social conditioning told him that I couldn't be.
I really wish everyone could be honest about this stuff and everyone could therefore accept that what came out of people's mouth is the truth. |
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By *j72Man
over a year ago
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Personally would rather know and work together to try and make it happen next time. Life is about learning and you can't get better at anything if you think you're already brilliant.
That said I've faked it a couple of times. Won't go into graphic details on how  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure I could tell if an orgasm was faked or not. Making a woman orgasm isn't the main goal for me, but to enjoy each others bodies and getting to know each other, communicating to each other of what's good, and what's not working for them. All about learning I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think you can tell if a girl fakes it?
I wouldn't know what to look for cos it's never happened 
Smooth  "
To be honest I've been having sex with the same person for 30 years and I still don't always know if she's got off or not.
Sometimes I don't think she has and she tells me she's had several. Other times I think we're done and she's still got work to finish
So I don't think I'm the best judge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think you can tell if a girl fakes it?
I wouldn't know what to look for cos it's never happened
Smooth
To be honest I've been having sex with the same person for 30 years and I still don't always know if she's got off or not.
Sometimes I don't think she has and she tells me she's had several. Other times I think we're done and she's still got work to finish
So I don't think I'm the best judge."
Again as I said with my post a little further up, I think it's not great to have your sole purpose to make a woman orgasm, and I don't mean that to be just all about get your nut and never mind her. But as long as you are enjoying yourselves being intimate in the moment(s).
There's certainly times where I haven't been able to orgasm, but would class as being up there in some of best sex I've had.. if that makes sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the past yes, when it has been too long and I'm either sore or the libido has gone.
Recently, no. If I'm not there, you'll have to just work harder. Or I'll tell you I need a break.
I don't see the point anymore of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women have not had to fake it with me because it's obvious we aren't always chasing an orgasm as some sort of Holy Grail. It's the fun we are having in the moment, wherever and however it ends.
I'd hope any woman would be comfortable enough with me to know it isn't necessary to do so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Noone has ever been able to tell when I have faked it.
Conversely I don't bother any more. If I'm not having fun I try to explain why, nothing changes then I put a stop to things. |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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I think sometimes theres to much pressure for woman to cum some men are totally obessed with it, "ive never been with a woman thats never cum and i make u cum that for sure" not sure why men think its the most important thing to achieve in sex ,as enjoyment and cumming are totally different things |
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"Women have not had to fake it with me because it's obvious we aren't always chasing an orgasm as some sort of Holy Grail. It's the fun we are having in the moment, wherever and however it ends.
I'd hope any woman would be comfortable enough with me to know it isn't necessary to do so."
You're just fuckin ace mate |
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"I think sometimes theres to much pressure for woman to cum some men are totally obessed with it, "ive never been with a woman thats never cum and i make u cum that for sure" not sure why men think its the most important thing to achieve in sex ,as enjoyment and cumming are totally different things "
I've not always made a girl orgasm and was told it's not always about that. SO I listened and learned. |
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"I think sometimes theres to much pressure for woman to cum some men are totally obessed with it, "ive never been with a woman thats never cum and i make u cum that for sure" not sure why men think its the most important thing to achieve in sex ,as enjoyment and cumming are totally different things
I've not always made a girl orgasm and was told it's not always about that. SO I listened and learned. "
A lesson there for many |
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"I think sometimes theres to much pressure for woman to cum some men are totally obessed with it, "ive never been with a woman thats never cum and i make u cum that for sure" not sure why men think its the most important thing to achieve in sex ,as enjoyment and cumming are totally different things "
I don't cum with meets and don't want or need to.
Distraction works great. Make him cum and he forgets I exist so no need to fake it. |
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"I think sometimes theres to much pressure for woman to cum some men are totally obessed with it, "ive never been with a woman thats never cum and i make u cum that for sure" not sure why men think its the most important thing to achieve in sex ,as enjoyment and cumming are totally different things
I've not always made a girl orgasm and was told it's not always about that. SO I listened and learned.
A lesson there for many "
Ego's innit? Get in the way of growth. |
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"Can she tell if I fake it?
*i am a pretty good performer "
Having seen this post, I'm going to confess that I've 'faked it' with a woman - the hotwife who I visited on-and-off for three years...
....I'd already cum in her once, and some 45 minutes or so later she was expecting me to again - except I'd fucked my own wife less than 24 hours earlier, and really couldn't manage it...
....so, ending up doggie-style as always, I went through the usual motions and made the usual noises, but didn't actually cum in her for a second time - and she apparently didn't realise, because she reacted as she usually did...
....unless, of course, she was faking it too?  |
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"I think sometimes theres to much pressure for woman to cum some men are totally obessed with it, "ive never been with a woman thats never cum and i make u cum that for sure" not sure why men think its the most important thing to achieve in sex ,as enjoyment and cumming are totally different things "
The most important thing to me is to feel valued (if even only temporarily) appreciated, considered, respected.
If I wanna be treated like a piano to be played or a tough piece of meat that needs tenderising I'll ask for it to be that way. |
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"I think sometimes theres to much pressure for woman to cum some men are totally obessed with it, "ive never been with a woman thats never cum and i make u cum that for sure" not sure why men think its the most important thing to achieve in sex ,as enjoyment and cumming are totally different things
I've not always made a girl orgasm and was told it's not always about that. SO I listened and learned.
A lesson there for many
Ego's innit? Get in the way of growth. "
Women can be just as guilty in that respect. Expecting an instant orgasm.
These days I'm just grateful if my toy stays on charge long enough |
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"I think sometimes theres to much pressure for woman to cum some men are totally obessed with it, "ive never been with a woman thats never cum and i make u cum that for sure" not sure why men think its the most important thing to achieve in sex ,as enjoyment and cumming are totally different things
The most important thing to me is to feel valued (if even only temporarily) appreciated, considered, respected.
If I wanna be treated like a piano to be played or a tough piece of meat that needs tenderising I'll ask for it to be that way."
This is the thing really. Either a one night or marriage and everything in between, I couldn't do anything with someone I didn't want to. Which I guess means I value them whatever the situation or arrangement. |
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"Women have not had to fake it with me because it's obvious we aren't always chasing an orgasm as some sort of Holy Grail. It's the fun we are having in the moment, wherever and however it ends.
I'd hope any woman would be comfortable enough with me to know it isn't necessary to do so.
You're just fuckin ace mate "
Hello you handsome fellow!! I like the highway robber look. |
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"Women have not had to fake it with me because it's obvious we aren't always chasing an orgasm as some sort of Holy Grail. It's the fun we are having in the moment, wherever and however it ends.
I'd hope any woman would be comfortable enough with me to know it isn't necessary to do so.
You're just fuckin ace mate
Hello you handsome fellow!! I like the highway robber look. "
Your honey or your wife!! |
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"I think sometimes theres to much pressure for woman to cum some men are totally obessed with it, "ive never been with a woman thats never cum and i make u cum that for sure" not sure why men think its the most important thing to achieve in sex ,as enjoyment and cumming are totally different things
I've not always made a girl orgasm and was told it's not always about that. SO I listened and learned. "
Wise man. |
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"Women have not had to fake it with me because it's obvious we aren't always chasing an orgasm as some sort of Holy Grail. It's the fun we are having in the moment, wherever and however it ends.
I'd hope any woman would be comfortable enough with me to know it isn't necessary to do so.
You're just fuckin ace mate
Hello you handsome fellow!! I like the highway robber look.
Your honey or your wife!!"
You can take my honey any time. |
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"I think sometimes theres to much pressure for woman to cum some men are totally obessed with it, "ive never been with a woman thats never cum and i make u cum that for sure" not sure why men think its the most important thing to achieve in sex ,as enjoyment and cumming are totally different things
I've not always made a girl orgasm and was told it's not always about that. SO I listened and learned.
A lesson there for many
Ego's innit? Get in the way of growth.
Women can be just as guilty in that respect. Expecting an instant orgasm.
These days I'm just grateful if my toy stays on charge long enough "
If you feed him well, I'm sure your toy can remain charged for a very long time. |
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I think I could tell if a woman faked an orgasm whilst receiving oral, they'd need amazing control of their stomach muscles to fake that reaction, along with the shaking legs. Penetrative orgasm can be easily faked.
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"I think sometimes theres to much pressure for woman to cum some men are totally obessed with it, "ive never been with a woman thats never cum and i make u cum that for sure" not sure why men think its the most important thing to achieve in sex ,as enjoyment and cumming are totally different things
I've not always made a girl orgasm and was told it's not always about that. SO I listened and learned.
A lesson there for many
Ego's innit? Get in the way of growth.
Women can be just as guilty in that respect. Expecting an instant orgasm.
These days I'm just grateful if my toy stays on charge long enough
If you feed him well, I'm sure your toy can remain charged for a very long time. "
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"Yes there are things that are hard to fake, the spasms, the flushed look etc now that depends on the intensity of the orgasms , some are little some or more intense lol "
And we don't all react the same way. And certainly not every time |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes there are things that are hard to fake, the spasms, the flushed look etc now that depends on the intensity of the orgasms , some are little some or more intense lol
And we don't all react the same way. And certainly not every time "
exactly this |
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I fear some of the replies on this thread promotes the need for some women to “fake” it .
I don’t always cum , it has nothing to do with the skills of the partners , heck I can’t always make myself cum either and I’m certainly not frigid. I’m still having a ball, enjoying every moment, wanting it to last forever but my body who is not a machine doesn’t always produce the “elusive” orgasms that seems to be expected .
Questions like “ how many times did you cum ?” Is a right mood killer, let me be ! If I wasn’t having a blast you’d soon know and found yourself on the pavement 
In the same vein I have met guys that seldom cum without resorting to furiously wank, I don’t take it personally, many have been repeat friends and some I have shared with swingers girlfriends and girlie gossips confirmed that the pattern repeated itself with them too.
At the end of the day for some of us , orgasms isn’t always the priority. The pleasure of sharing intimate moments comes in many different forms  |
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"Do you think you can tell if a girl fakes it?
I wouldn't know what to look for cos it's never happened
Smooth
To be honest I've been having sex with the same person for 30 years and I still don't always know if she's got off or not.
Sometimes I don't think she has and she tells me she's had several. Other times I think we're done and she's still got work to finish
So I don't think I'm the best judge.
Again as I said with my post a little further up, I think it's not great to have your sole purpose to make a woman orgasm, and I don't mean that to be just all about get your nut and never mind her. But as long as you are enjoying yourselves being intimate in the moment(s).
There's certainly times where I haven't been able to orgasm, but would class as being up there in some of best sex I've had.. if that makes sense."
I think our situation is maybe different to most commenting in that we don't have any hang ups or feel like we need to prove anything to each other.
If she doesn't get off from whatever we've done together she just finishes the job off herself.
I see a fair few people saying orgasm isn't the be all and end all etc. but I know for certain she wouldn't agree with that (for her). |
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"I like to think yes I could. there would be a server lack of eye rolling and non of the really good grippy pushy sensation "
Roll your eyes, twitch of the leg, squeeze of the pelvic floor muscles, heavier breathing, slight arch of the back, intake of breath....yeah can fake all those. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Love how men think they can tell "
Yep.
Get a bit sweaty.
Do those kegels.
Do a bit of breathing (not too exaggerated mind, got to make it believable).
Roll those eyes a bit, ya know, in sexual ecstasy soooooo strong you're leaving your body through your vagina.
Tremble those thighs a bit. God he's so damn good he makes your legs go funny.
(Note to any men who have put their willies in me recently, you're fine. Not faked one for some time now. Years in fact)
Definitely the pressure to orgasm that made me fake it before. Like sex isn't fun in itself, it has to become a performative art of what you're doing rather than who you're with. |
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"I like to think yes I could. there would be a server lack of eye rolling and non of the really good grippy pushy sensation "
Love that description, grippy and pushy |
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"I like to think yes I could. there would be a server lack of eye rolling and non of the really good grippy pushy sensation
Roll your eyes, twitch of the leg, squeeze of the pelvic floor muscles, heavier breathing, slight arch of the back, intake of breath....yeah can fake all those."
Yes you can fake a passport to but it’s difficult to get all the _ases covered at once. Surely there’s no need to fake it unless you really just want to break track and get the hell out of there anyway. |
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"I like to think yes I could. there would be a server lack of eye rolling and non of the really good grippy pushy sensation
Roll your eyes, twitch of the leg, squeeze of the pelvic floor muscles, heavier breathing, slight arch of the back, intake of breath....yeah can fake all those.
Yes you can fake a passport to but it’s difficult to get all the _ases covered at once. Surely there’s no need to fake it unless you really just want to break track and get the hell out of there anyway. "
Multitasking...comes easy to us females |
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Honestly, probably not but I hope it wouldn't come (hehe) to that. Ideally she would be open with me and tell me what I'm doing wrong or what she wants me to focus on |
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"I like to think yes I could. there would be a server lack of eye rolling and non of the really good grippy pushy sensation
Roll your eyes, twitch of the leg, squeeze of the pelvic floor muscles, heavier breathing, slight arch of the back, intake of breath....yeah can fake all those.
Yes you can fake a passport to but it’s difficult to get all the _ases covered at once. Surely there’s no need to fake it unless you really just want to break track and get the hell out of there anyway.
Multitasking...comes easy to us females "
And some of us modern men like to think that maybe just maybe we’ve torn down some of these stereotypes and are equally as good at multi tasking…… I mean, take the pokey bum wank for example |
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"I like to think yes I could. there would be a server lack of eye rolling and non of the really good grippy pushy sensation
Roll your eyes, twitch of the leg, squeeze of the pelvic floor muscles, heavier breathing, slight arch of the back, intake of breath....yeah can fake all those.
Yes you can fake a passport to but it’s difficult to get all the _ases covered at once. Surely there’s no need to fake it unless you really just want to break track and get the hell out of there anyway.
Multitasking...comes easy to us females
And some of us modern men like to think that maybe just maybe we’ve torn down some of these stereotypes and are equally as good at multi tasking…… I mean, take the pokey bum wank for example"
You were the one that said it was difficult |
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"I like to think yes I could. there would be a server lack of eye rolling and non of the really good grippy pushy sensation
Roll your eyes, twitch of the leg, squeeze of the pelvic floor muscles, heavier breathing, slight arch of the back, intake of breath....yeah can fake all those.
Yes you can fake a passport to but it’s difficult to get all the _ases covered at once. Surely there’s no need to fake it unless you really just want to break track and get the hell out of there anyway.
Multitasking...comes easy to us females
And some of us modern men like to think that maybe just maybe we’ve torn down some of these stereotypes and are equally as good at multi tasking…… I mean, take the pokey bum wank for example
You were the one that said it was difficult "
Difficult the opposite of understanding and persistence I guess |
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"If they're faking it then they're idiotswhy are they idiots ? They might be just tryin to make you feel good and ot like a shit lover kind of thing
That's probably his issue."
maybe who knows |
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"I like to think yes I could. there would be a server lack of eye rolling and non of the really good grippy pushy sensation
Roll your eyes, twitch of the leg, squeeze of the pelvic floor muscles, heavier breathing, slight arch of the back, intake of breath....yeah can fake all those.
Yes you can fake a passport to but it’s difficult to get all the _ases covered at once. Surely there’s no need to fake it unless you really just want to break track and get the hell out of there anyway.
Multitasking...comes easy to us females
And some of us modern men like to think that maybe just maybe we’ve torn down some of these stereotypes and are equally as good at multi tasking…… I mean, take the pokey bum wank for example
You were the one that said it was difficult
Difficult the opposite of understanding and persistence I guess"
It's at this point I'd be faking an orgasm... |
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"Does someone want to fake a orgasm for me so I can tell in the future?
We will need to be sat on your cock to give you the full experience 
Should we be forming an orderly queue? "
Yes please, I need to experience a few different fake orgasms from different people to get good knowledge |
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over a year ago
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"Does someone want to fake a orgasm for me so I can tell in the future?
We will need to be sat on your cock to give you the full experience
Should we be forming an orderly queue?
Yes please, I need to experience a few different fake orgasms from different people to get good knowledge "
Good idea - do you have a lab coat and a clip board for notes? |
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"I like to think yes I could. there would be a server lack of eye rolling and non of the really good grippy pushy sensation
Roll your eyes, twitch of the leg, squeeze of the pelvic floor muscles, heavier breathing, slight arch of the back, intake of breath....yeah can fake all those.
Yes you can fake a passport to but it’s difficult to get all the _ases covered at once. Surely there’s no need to fake it unless you really just want to break track and get the hell out of there anyway.
Multitasking...comes easy to us females
And some of us modern men like to think that maybe just maybe we’ve torn down some of these stereotypes and are equally as good at multi tasking…… I mean, take the pokey bum wank for example
You were the one that said it was difficult
Difficult the opposite of understanding and persistence I guess
It's at this point I'd be faking an orgasm..."
And off I go to continue reading my original 1970’s copy of the joy of sex that I found while Christmas present hunting I’m my parents room whilst I was 10. Well played |
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"Does someone want to fake a orgasm for me so I can tell in the future?
We will need to be sat on your cock to give you the full experience
Should we be forming an orderly queue?
Yes please, I need to experience a few different fake orgasms from different people to get good knowledge
Good idea - do you have a lab coat and a clip board for notes? "
I don't have a lab coat but I know someone I can borrow one from |
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"I like to think yes I could. there would be a server lack of eye rolling and non of the really good grippy pushy sensation
Roll your eyes, twitch of the leg, squeeze of the pelvic floor muscles, heavier breathing, slight arch of the back, intake of breath....yeah can fake all those.
Yes you can fake a passport to but it’s difficult to get all the _ases covered at once. Surely there’s no need to fake it unless you really just want to break track and get the hell out of there anyway.
Multitasking...comes easy to us females
And some of us modern men like to think that maybe just maybe we’ve torn down some of these stereotypes and are equally as good at multi tasking…… I mean, take the pokey bum wank for example
You were the one that said it was difficult
Difficult the opposite of understanding and persistence I guess
It's at this point I'd be faking an orgasm...
And off I go to continue reading my original 1970’s copy of the joy of sex that I found while Christmas present hunting I’m my parents room whilst I was 10. Well played "
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"Love how men think they can tell
Oh theres some terrible actors out there.
I'm an amazing actress
I'd like to you to audition for a film I'm making "
I stopped making those kinda films years ago |
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"Love how men think they can tell
Oh theres some terrible actors out there.
I'm an amazing actress
I'd like to you to audition for a film I'm making
I stopped making those kinda films years ago"
Did I say it was that kind of film? Lol |
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"If you decide to fake it instead of communicate to your partner what you like, who is to blame really? "
The question was if a guy can tell, not why we'd do it. |
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over a year ago
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"If you decide to fake it instead of communicate to your partner what you like, who is to blame really? "
the thing is of here they not really partners, could be one time meets, and by telling them you could be opening doors u really dont want to ,
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"If you decide to fake it instead of communicate to your partner what you like, who is to blame really? the thing is of here they not really partners, could be one time meets, and by telling them you could be opening doors u really dont want to , "
Yeah let’s not open the “good sex” door
Let’s leave that entirely closed |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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"If you decide to fake it instead of communicate to your partner what you like, who is to blame really? the thing is of here they not really partners, could be one time meets, and by telling them you could be opening doors u really dont want to ,
Yeah let’s not open the “good sex” door
Let’s leave that entirely closed "
but they say when one door closes another one opens |
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"If you decide to fake it instead of communicate to your partner what you like, who is to blame really? the thing is of here they not really partners, could be one time meets, and by telling them you could be opening doors u really dont want to , "
Wait. We men are simple folk. if they are not sexual partners who you are willing to communicate with, why are you having sex in the first place? |
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"If you decide to fake it instead of communicate to your partner what you like, who is to blame really? the thing is of here they not really partners, could be one time meets, and by telling them you could be opening doors u really dont want to ,
Wait. We men are simple folk. if they are not sexual partners who you are willing to communicate with, why are you having sex in the first place?"
i didnt say i was,i was talking in general not about myself |
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"If you decide to fake it instead of communicate to your partner what you like, who is to blame really? the thing is of here they not really partners, could be one time meets, and by telling them you could be opening doors u really dont want to ,
Wait. We men are simple folk. if they are not sexual partners who you are willing to communicate with, why are you having sex in the first place?"
Because we is horny |
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"If you decide to fake it instead of communicate to your partner what you like, who is to blame really? the thing is of here they not really partners, could be one time meets, and by telling them you could be opening doors u really dont want to ,
Wait. We men are simple folk. if they are not sexual partners who you are willing to communicate with, why are you having sex in the first place?
Because we is horny"
We should just talk with our bodies |
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"If you decide to fake it instead of communicate to your partner what you like, who is to blame really? the thing is of here they not really partners, could be one time meets, and by telling them you could be opening doors u really dont want to ,
Yeah let’s not open the “good sex” door
Let’s leave that entirely closed but they say when one door closes another one opens "
Same can be said for legs |
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"As they're difficult to even be scientifically measured, I'm going to say no. I personally have different kinds of orgasms and some are probably more obvious than others. "
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"As they're difficult to even be scientifically measured, I'm going to say no. I personally have different kinds of orgasms and some are probably more obvious than others.
Does that mean you don't want to be part of my research? "
Depends what it is. Could be fun even if not scientifically useful . |
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over a year ago
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"If you decide to fake it instead of communicate to your partner what you like, who is to blame really? the thing is of here they not really partners, could be one time meets, and by telling them you could be opening doors u really dont want to ,
Yeah let’s not open the “good sex” door
Let’s leave that entirely closed but they say when one door closes another one opens
Same can be said for legs "
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"As they're difficult to even be scientifically measured, I'm going to say no. I personally have different kinds of orgasms and some are probably more obvious than others.
Does that mean you don't want to be part of my research?
Depends what it is. Could be fun even if not scientifically useful . "
I need you to fake orgasms while I sleep with you, it will be useful to me and that's about it |
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over a year ago
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"As they're difficult to even be scientifically measured, I'm going to say no. I personally have different kinds of orgasms and some are probably more obvious than others.
Does that mean you don't want to be part of my research?
Depends what it is. Could be fun even if not scientifically useful .
I need you to fake orgasms while I sleep with you, it will be useful to me and that's about it "
maybe women already have and u just didnt no it |
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"If you decide to fake it instead of communicate to your partner what you like, who is to blame really? the thing is of here they not really partners, could be one time meets, and by telling them you could be opening doors u really dont want to ,
Wait. We men are simple folk. if they are not sexual partners who you are willing to communicate with, why are you having sex in the first place?
Because we is horny"
I'm going to need a full list of service level agreements and outcome expectations.. |
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"Wait. We men are simple folk. if they are not sexual partners who you are willing to communicate with, why are you having sex in the first place?"
I think sometimes it may come back to a point already raised earlier in the thread- how do you know how someone will react to perceived criticism? |
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"As they're difficult to even be scientifically measured, I'm going to say no. I personally have different kinds of orgasms and some are probably more obvious than others.
Does that mean you don't want to be part of my research?
Depends what it is. Could be fun even if not scientifically useful .
I need you to fake orgasms while I sleep with you, it will be useful to me and that's about it maybe women already have and u just didnt no it "
This is why I need to do some research |
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There are definitely times when it's obviously not faked. Then there are times when a partner has cum and I've not realised, there's times I've been unsure if it was or not and times I know they haven't. I'm quite sure I could be fooled - it's always easier to get someone to believe something they want to be true.
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"Wait. We men are simple folk. if they are not sexual partners who you are willing to communicate with, why are you having sex in the first place?
I think sometimes it may come back to a point already raised earlier in the thread- how do you know how someone will react to perceived criticism? "
Maybe that's where there hasn't been much communication prior? With my past fwbs we had chatted for ages before we ever met and had discussed our tastes and preferences so when we did actually get it on, we didn't feel like total strangers. Also, we were both open to a little direction from the other about what worked best for us. |
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"If you decide to fake it instead of communicate to your partner what you like, who is to blame really? the thing is of here they not really partners, could be one time meets, and by telling them you could be opening doors u really dont want to ,
Wait. We men are simple folk. if they are not sexual partners who you are willing to communicate with, why are you having sex in the first place?
Because we is horny
I'm going to need a full list of service level agreements and outcome expectations.."
That sounds like a lot of admin |
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"As they're difficult to even be scientifically measured, I'm going to say no. I personally have different kinds of orgasms and some are probably more obvious than others.
Does that mean you don't want to be part of my research?
Depends what it is. Could be fun even if not scientifically useful .
I need you to fake orgasms while I sleep with you, it will be useful to me and that's about it "
Sounds erm... Fun?  |
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"As they're difficult to even be scientifically measured, I'm going to say no. I personally have different kinds of orgasms and some are probably more obvious than others.
Does that mean you don't want to be part of my research?
Depends what it is. Could be fun even if not scientifically useful .
I need you to fake orgasms while I sleep with you, it will be useful to me and that's about it
Sounds erm... Fun? "
Depends if you fake it or not |
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"As they're difficult to even be scientifically measured, I'm going to say no. I personally have different kinds of orgasms and some are probably more obvious than others.
Does that mean you don't want to be part of my research?
Depends what it is. Could be fun even if not scientifically useful .
I need you to fake orgasms while I sleep with you, it will be useful to me and that's about it
Sounds erm... Fun?
Depends if you fake it or not "
But you told me to fake it |
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"As they're difficult to even be scientifically measured, I'm going to say no. I personally have different kinds of orgasms and some are probably more obvious than others.
Does that mean you don't want to be part of my research?
Depends what it is. Could be fun even if not scientifically useful .
I need you to fake orgasms while I sleep with you, it will be useful to me and that's about it
Sounds erm... Fun?
Depends if you fake it or not
But you told me to fake it "
I know, we might have to keep trying until you get to the "just get on with it" stage |
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"As they're difficult to even be scientifically measured, I'm going to say no. I personally have different kinds of orgasms and some are probably more obvious than others.
Does that mean you don't want to be part of my research?
Depends what it is. Could be fun even if not scientifically useful .
I need you to fake orgasms while I sleep with you, it will be useful to me and that's about it
Sounds erm... Fun?
Depends if you fake it or not
But you told me to fake it
I know, we might have to keep trying until you get to the "just get on with it" stage "
Ahh so you want me to fail at faking? |
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"As they're difficult to even be scientifically measured, I'm going to say no. I personally have different kinds of orgasms and some are probably more obvious than others.
Does that mean you don't want to be part of my research?
Depends what it is. Could be fun even if not scientifically useful .
I need you to fake orgasms while I sleep with you, it will be useful to me and that's about it
Sounds erm... Fun?
Depends if you fake it or not
But you told me to fake it
I know, we might have to keep trying until you get to the "just get on with it" stage
Ahh so you want me to fail at faking? "
I'd be lying if I said no |
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No guy has made me orgasm for around 13yrs but that’s fine.
It’s not the be all and end all for me.
I get my pleasure from foreplay and then hard sex.
I also get a lot of pleasure from pleasing the guy I’m with.
I tell all my meets not to be disappointed if I don’t come.
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"As they're difficult to even be scientifically measured, I'm going to say no. I personally have different kinds of orgasms and some are probably more obvious than others.
Does that mean you don't want to be part of my research?
Depends what it is. Could be fun even if not scientifically useful .
I need you to fake orgasms while I sleep with you, it will be useful to me and that's about it
Sounds erm... Fun?
Depends if you fake it or not
But you told me to fake it
I know, we might have to keep trying until you get to the "just get on with it" stage
Ahh so you want me to fail at faking?
I'd be lying if I said no "
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"If you decide to fake it instead of communicate to your partner what you like, who is to blame really? the thing is of here they not really partners, could be one time meets, and by telling them you could be opening doors u really dont want to ,
Wait. We men are simple folk. if they are not sexual partners who you are willing to communicate with, why are you having sex in the first place?
Because we is horny
I'm going to need a full list of service level agreements and outcome expectations..
That sounds like a lot of admin"
There is a quick start option...but you may miss out on some more advanced features.. |
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"No guy has made me orgasm for around 13yrs but that’s fine.
It’s not the be all and end all for me.
I get my pleasure from foreplay and then hard sex.
I also get a lot of pleasure from pleasing the guy I’m with.
I tell all my meets not to be disappointed if I don’t come.
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At least you have communicated that...makes all the difference. |
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I used to fake it with my ex mainly because he use to get grumpy if I didn’t come and go on and on about how he couldn’t satisfy me. Then one night he asked if I had and I was honest and said no. He’s reply was ‘oh well that’s your fault then’ and rolled over and went to sleep lol |
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"If they're faking it then they're idiots
Or bored and want to bring him to an end. One persons orgasm often makes the other have one. I would imagine sex workers fake it all the time "
I get that. So say something. Putting up with it is daft if you ask me |
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Yes I can. My focus isn’t on me when I’m with someone. So it’s not just noise it’s feel, it’s movement, it’s so much more than a boom and loud moan. But sex is about so much more than an orgasm so if the aim is just to cum I suppose a lot wouldn’t notice or care.
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"No guy has made me orgasm for around 13yrs but that’s fine.
It’s not the be all and end all for me.
I get my pleasure from foreplay and then hard sex.
I also get a lot of pleasure from pleasing the guy I’m with.
I tell all my meets not to be disappointed if I don’t come.
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How many DM's have you had offering to solve this issue for you?
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