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This years focus….
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Rather than saying what’s your resolution …. What is it you want to achieve this year?
Resolutions tend to fail because we put too much pressure in them or they’re a bit of a fad, but if there’s something you want to achieve you tend to plan it and see it through…
So what’s yours? New house? New job? More family time? More filthy fuckery…. You can decide just tell us all what you think you will get done   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So instead of using 'resolve' we use 'focus' .......
Cos if we resolve we fail but if we focus we succeed ? "
Perhaps…. Focus …. Perhaps…. Determination….perhaps…plan…perhaps… keep up with the jones’ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I resolve to focus on having sex.
What type?
There's different types  "
That’s what they told me…. Is it a myth ….I need to write a letter to Santa he’ll tell me the truth…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I resolve to focus on having sex.
What type?
There's different types
That’s what they told me…. Is it a myth ….I need to write a letter to Santa he’ll tell me the truth…. "
He's a guy, I doubt it |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Start a new job at the end of January, aside from that I hope to finally pass my driving test after 2yrs of cancellations and pissing lesson money into the wind! To continue to grow my dance/fitness business and hopefully find an open minded woman for some filthy fuckery x |
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New career, more fab party socials, less health issues hopefully, weight loss of my last lockdown stone, swimming again, fun weekends away...
Lots on again this year and that makes me happy. So love the moment you are happy in cos you don't know when it's going to disappear |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I resolve to focus on having sex.
What type?
There's different types
That’s what they told me…. Is it a myth ….I need to write a letter to Santa he’ll tell me the truth….
He's a guy, I doubt it "
He is a guy to some … she is a woman to others…. A mystical creature to some…. If a guy then I am sure there is a woman guiding him  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Start a new job at the end of January, aside from that I hope to finally pass my driving test after 2yrs of cancellations and pissing lesson money into the wind! To continue to grow my dance/fitness business and hopefully find an open minded woman for some filthy fuckery x"
All aspects covered it seems |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"New career, more fab party socials, less health issues hopefully, weight loss of my last lockdown stone, swimming again, fun weekends away...
Lots on again this year and that makes me happy. So love the moment you are happy in cos you don't know when it's going to disappear "
Very thought provoking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My new focus is purely gym based from a fitness POV 
What’s the goal? "
To get back to where I was a few years ago with running ultras but with more bulk this time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My new focus is purely gym based from a fitness POV
What’s the goal?
To get back to where I was a few years ago with running ultras but with more bulk this time "
What’s your key to bulk? |
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This year is about me.
I have been in relationships where I have gladly given myself up,my wants and needs sidelined, so that I could make the lady of my life just that...my life.
I am going to fight to the surface and allow me to be me. No more watering down my attitudes or opinions.
In the past I have held back, simmered and then blown up. I no longer accept this as something a person who cares about themself does.
So, no goals, no direction. Just be me. Love myself enough to put myself 2nd...after my mum who is everything.
I am buying a house and will concentrate on that and renovating my other houses as well. This will form my core concentration.
I will be on here chatting pants in my quiet moments.
I will, at some point, allow myself to let love in again. In what form, who knows but, when I get a garden in another house, a dog is looking good atm.
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"New career, more fab party socials, less health issues hopefully, weight loss of my last lockdown stone, swimming again, fun weekends away...
Lots on again this year and that makes me happy. So love the moment you are happy in cos you don't know when it's going to disappear
Very thought provoking "
I nearly lost a close friend to cancer last year so life took on a new meaning for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My new focus is purely gym based from a fitness POV
What’s the goal?
To get back to where I was a few years ago with running ultras but with more bulk this time
What’s your key to bulk?"
Food and heavy weights. Keeping it simple |
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My focus this year is on enjoyment.
I've just started a job I enjoy and my kids are more settled after I separated from their dad so I think I can take some time for me this year.
I'm going to plan in more weekends away - by myself, with friends and for fab fun as well as working on my inner critic and learning to love myself again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Focus entirely on me, got a few ops to do this year
And also will focus on a new career x 
Put some stressful stuff behind in 2021, so I’m hopeful to a year of self love actually x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This year is about me.
I have been in relationships where I have gladly given myself up,my wants and needs sidelined, so that I could make the lady of my life just that...my life.
I am going to fight to the surface and allow me to be me. No more watering down my attitudes or opinions.
In the past I have held back, simmered and then blown up. I no longer accept this as something a person who cares about themself does.
So, no goals, no direction. Just be me. Love myself enough to put myself 2nd...after my mum who is everything.
I am buying a house and will concentrate on that and renovating my other houses as well. This will form my core concentration.
I will be on here chatting pants in my quiet moments.
I will, at some point, allow myself to let love in again. In what form, who knows but, when I get a garden in another house, a dog is looking good atm.
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Got to love yourself before anyone else can.
And love a good renovation… big changes? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Making a home for myself and my kids. Moving in a few weeks.
How lovely…. New beginnings
Definitely! First place I've bought by myself."
Love it…. I loved my first gaff… make it your own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Learning a new skill relating to my job
Continual improvement in fitness around weight training and better cardio
Put a bit more effort in to try and get meets from Fab  |
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"My focus this year is on enjoyment.
I've just started a job I enjoy and my kids are more settled after I separated from their dad so I think I can take some time for me this year.
I'm going to plan in more weekends away - by myself, with friends and for fab fun as well as working on my inner critic and learning to love myself again."
Good luck with all your goals, and a successful 2022 x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"New career, more fab party socials, less health issues hopefully, weight loss of my last lockdown stone, swimming again, fun weekends away...
Lots on again this year and that makes me happy. So love the moment you are happy in cos you don't know when it's going to disappear
Very thought provoking
I nearly lost a close friend to cancer last year so life took on a new meaning for me "
The big moments tend to provoke change |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My focus this year is on enjoyment.
I've just started a job I enjoy and my kids are more settled after I separated from their dad so I think I can take some time for me this year.
I'm going to plan in more weekends away - by myself, with friends and for fab fun as well as working on my inner critic and learning to love myself again."
Self
Love |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Focus entirely on me, got a few ops to do this year
And also will focus on a new career x
Put some stressful stuff behind in 2021, so I’m hopeful to a year of self love actually x "
Perfect |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not end the year alone.
Getting over my financial worries.
Get my business off the ground.
Overcome my social anxiety.
Lots to work on. And I'm supposed to be a coach."
take little steps |
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"My focus this year is on enjoyment.
I've just started a job I enjoy and my kids are more settled after I separated from their dad so I think I can take some time for me this year.
I'm going to plan in more weekends away - by myself, with friends and for fab fun as well as working on my inner critic and learning to love myself again.
Good luck with all your goals, and a successful 2022 x"
Thank you xx |
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"This year is about me.
I have been in relationships where I have gladly given myself up,my wants and needs sidelined, so that I could make the lady of my life just that...my life.
I am going to fight to the surface and allow me to be me. No more watering down my attitudes or opinions.
In the past I have held back, simmered and then blown up. I no longer accept this as something a person who cares about themself does.
So, no goals, no direction. Just be me. Love myself enough to put myself 2nd...after my mum who is everything.
I am buying a house and will concentrate on that and renovating my other houses as well. This will form my core concentration.
I will be on here chatting pants in my quiet moments.
I will, at some point, allow myself to let love in again. In what form, who knows but, when I get a garden in another house, a dog is looking good atm.
Got to love yourself before anyone else can.
And love a good renovation… big changes? "
Not really. Just a full refurb of 4 bed 2 bathroom, georgian semi...about 45k.
My other house that is urgent after tenants move out, hasn't been touched for 15 yrs apart from repairs. About 35k on that one. All basic stuff really.
The Georgian one I am buying is as a result of my moving 100 miles to be someone who I was never going to make happy. 
So a long way from home and building a new life and perhaps property business.
I wouldnt say I would ever love myself, but I need to fall in like at least |
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I'm going to be putting myself 1st, carry on healing myself and finding me.
I changed myself quite a few yeaes ago, so I could fit in with others and I always put my friends and family before me, I was a people pleaser. I actually didn't like the person I became and I took a good hard look and myself and started changing the bits I didn't like. I have started to like the person I'm becoming. I have not contacted people who I thought were my friends, and they haven't contacted me either.
I would like to find someone to have a relationship with, to grow with, to go on our personal journey and all the things that go with it.
My middle child(26) is moving out of the family home in the next few months, this will also give me space to grow more.
And I am thinking very hard about moving away from this town.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm going to be putting myself 1st, carry on healing myself and finding me.
I changed myself quite a few yeaes ago, so I could fit in with others and I always put my friends and family before me, I was a people pleaser. I actually didn't like the person I became and I took a good hard look and myself and started changing the bits I didn't like. I have started to like the person I'm becoming. I have not contacted people who I thought were my friends, and they haven't contacted me either.
I would like to find someone to have a relationship with, to grow with, to go on our personal journey and all the things that go with it.
My middle child(26) is moving out of the family home in the next few months, this will also give me space to grow more.
And I am thinking very hard about moving away from this town.
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Lots to think about…. How come you want to move? |
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