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When people say there will meet and never turn up

By *lackie OP Man over a year ago

Swinton

Hi I hate it when you arrange a meet and you give them your address and there say they will be over in half an hour and you wait and they do not turn up,you go back to there polfile and they are not there or you can't see their polfile

This happen to me twice this morning

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Should you really be giving out your address to strangers on the internet though?

A little more diligence and caution perhaps?

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By *urls and DressesWoman over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Perhaps don’t give away your address Willy nilly. I won’t lie, I’ve not turned up before, conversation went along the lines of…

Him - wanna meet?

Me - yeah sure, where?

H - my place.

M - what’s your address?

H - gives his address

M - I’ll be there in 30 mins.

Of course I wasn’t going to meet because I’m more than a hole to fuck. The comment of it happening twice to you this morning suggests they’re feeling the same as me. This isn’t a hook up and fuck site, have some respect

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By *lackie OP Man over a year ago

Swinton

I did not give them my address straight away, I had a conversation with them first

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

In my time here one thing I have noticed.

Women generally don't arrange such quick meets, although there are exceptions.

Men will, although there are exceptions.

Men pretending to be women will.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had it the other way around. Got "Shit I was joking, and the door shut in my face"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just meet them in public and have a plan B activity. When I say plan B I mean something non fab related. If they don't turn up I'll go to cinema/for a walk/visit a friend for a cuppa/anything not to feel miserable.

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that..

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By *astpoetMan over a year ago

where the world takes me

"Just meet them in public and have a plan B activity. When I say plan B I mean something non fab related. If they don't turn up I'll go to cinema/for a walk/visit a friend for a cuppa/anything not to feel miserable.

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that.."

Is it bad that the idea of you doing your plan b but dressed for a meet turns me on massively

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always a public meeting and always have a back up even if just popping to sainsburys after being blown out

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"Hi I hate it when you arrange a meet and you give them your address and there say they will be over in half an hour and you wait and they do not turn up,you go back to there polfile and they are not there or you can't see their polfile

This happen to me twice this morning "

Cruel thing to do! If they no intention of meeting they shd just say so! That said I wouldnt just Rock up at a strangers house or hotel room either x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that..

Is it bad that the idea of you doing your plan b but dressed for a meet turns me on massively

Yeah women always wear lingerie and heels for social meets. I see them all the time grumping round Asda with a packet of sandwiches stuffed down one stocking because they didn't bother getting a trolley.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my time here one thing I have noticed.

Women generally don't arrange such quick meets, although there are exceptions.

Men will, although there are exceptions.

Men pretending to be women will.

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By *astpoetMan over a year ago

where the world takes me

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that..

Is it bad that the idea of you doing your plan b but dressed for a meet turns me on massively

Spoilsport

Though I’m not a woman and have worn stockings and suspenders under my clothes for a social meet, just in case

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that..

Is it bad that the idea of you doing your plan b but dressed for a meet turns me on massively

Spoilsport

Though I’m not a woman and have worn stockings and suspenders under my clothes for a social meet, just in case

Oh now that's hot!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I did not give them my address straight away, I had a conversation with them first "

Wow. A whole conversation with a stranger online. I’d be more careful with your address.

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By *astpoetMan over a year ago

where the world takes me

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that..

Is it bad that the idea of you doing your plan b but dressed for a meet turns me on massively

Spoilsport

Though I’m not a woman and have worn stockings and suspenders under my clothes for a social meet, just in case

Oh now that's hot!!

I try

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By *2000ManMan over a year ago

Worthing

It happens to the best of us o/p. Hope next year better for you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that..

Is it bad that the idea of you doing your plan b but dressed for a meet turns me on massively

I'm giggling here..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that..

Is it bad that the idea of you doing your plan b but dressed for a meet turns me on massively

Nah. Not bad. But I usually have some sexy dress on under that coat you know

however I agree with Outsider. Hot and nice effort to have just lingerie underneath

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that..

Is it bad that the idea of you doing your plan b but dressed for a meet turns me on massively

I'm giggling here.."

You'll drop your sandwich.

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By *astpoetMan over a year ago

where the world takes me

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that..

Is it bad that the idea of you doing your plan b but dressed for a meet turns me on massively

Nah. Not bad. But I usually have some sexy dress on under that coat you know

however I agree with Outsider. Hot and nice effort to have just lingerie underneath

You two will make me blush here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that..

Is it bad that the idea of you doing your plan b but dressed for a meet turns me on massively

I'm giggling here..

You'll drop your sandwich."

I have a pot of jelly too. Down my bra! Back up. Always have a back up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that..

Is it bad that the idea of you doing your plan b but dressed for a meet turns me on massively

I'm giggling here..

You'll drop your sandwich.

I have a pot of jelly too. Down my bra! Back up. Always have a back up

Jelly??? If knew that you would always get a meet!!

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By *astpoetMan over a year ago

where the world takes me

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that..

Is it bad that the idea of you doing your plan b but dressed for a meet turns me on massively

I'm giggling here..

You'll drop your sandwich.

I have a pot of jelly too. Down my bra! Back up. Always have a back up

That’s why I keep a marmalade sandwich under my hat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that..

Is it bad that the idea of you doing your plan b but dressed for a meet turns me on massively

I'm giggling here..

You'll drop your sandwich.

I have a pot of jelly too. Down my bra! Back up. Always have a back up

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By *rad670Man over a year ago

South Lakes

This happen to me twice this morning "

Sounds like someone is winding you up if the same thing happened twice in a short period, probably the same person. I would have alarm bells ringing if someone wanted to meet even after exchange of a few messages. From experience it takes a lot of time before a female or couple will even hint they will meet you and I would say it's rare they would agree to come round to your house, normally it would be a neutral semi public place for the safety of all for a social. I think i your case with these instances it was a "too good to be true" scenario, mostly nice genuine people on here but there is a fair few who will join just to wind people up for the kick.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that..

Is it bad that the idea of you doing your plan b but dressed for a meet turns me on massively

I'm giggling here..

You'll drop your sandwich.

I have a pot of jelly too. Down my bra! Back up. Always have a back up

That’s why I keep a marmalade sandwich under my hat"

Haha. All the love for the Paddington reference

Sorry OP for derailing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that..

Is it bad that the idea of you doing your plan b but dressed for a meet turns me on massively

I'm giggling here..

You'll drop your sandwich.

I have a pot of jelly too. Down my bra! Back up. Always have a back up

Jelly??? If knew that you would always get a meet!!"

Aww thanks. I was struggling before i discovered that trick. My jelly brings all the boys to the yard

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By *astpoetMan over a year ago

where the world takes me

Have you spoken to them on the phone or cam before giving your address? Verify them as much as possible before that..

Is it bad that the idea of you doing your plan b but dressed for a meet turns me on massively

I'm giggling here..

You'll drop your sandwich.

I have a pot of jelly too. Down my bra! Back up. Always have a back up

That’s why I keep a marmalade sandwich under my hat

Haha. All the love for the Paddington reference

Sorry OP for derailing

I rewatched both films over Xmas and they’re so fucking good.

Also from fantasy to cross dressing to Paddington, yup it’s safe to say this has been hugely derailed

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By *lackie OP Man over a year ago

Swinton

They said in their polfile that they were looking to meet today I sandals the other I been talking to for about 3months

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By *othicslaveCouple over a year ago

Norfolk

We have had this happen to us quite a few times, frustrating isn't the word for it!

When your free time is like gold, we just block them, simply solved)

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By *othicslaveCouple over a year ago

Norfolk

"In my time here one thing I have noticed.

Women generally don't arrange such quick meets, although there are exceptions.

Men will, although there are exceptions.

Men pretending to be women will.

I do the arranging on our page and talk on messages and live chat and forum.

-sl@ve

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