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By *X2019 OP Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Hey. Had good fun with the 'would you rather' threads the other day. Thought we could do something similar and open it to more questions this time.
Say you're in, private message someone a question, await the answer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In again.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say, intense, wild, kinky sex for many, many hours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always in! |
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To be more confident and try a few clubs and meets with people from here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah go on then, I’ll jump in for a bit. |
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Be braver, get travelling again, stay healthy, run a sub 40 10km and if I can have one Fab related one, attend a private party |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Him |
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By *X2019 OP Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Nah not for me haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im in. Ask away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are confident, charming, but I think the over confidence is a cover for not being so sure |
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By *X2019 OP Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Was receiving a BJ from a hot blonde, blindfolded in front of me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in as this was fun last time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In for a bit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go on I’m in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Count me in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A blindfolded mmmf. Maybe another M for good measures |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In and sent  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly, and without irony, my Mums meat and potato pie…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A wee bit of Welsh rarebit always goes down well for breakfast  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To keep working through that fucket list, which has being airtight, and being dominated by both my Dom and a Domme together, amongst other things. |
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Far too classy to land myself in that situation |
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By *X2019 OP Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Difficult choice but probably kaley cuoco |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In before bedtime |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Indulging in a 3sum with a bi couple on a live aboard dive boat on holiday in Egypt about 20 years ago. Every hole got used. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Made pea and ham soup"
With a chicken  |
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Malmaison or a walk down the Thames with a picnic
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t tend to make resolutions, I change something when it needs to be done, rather than wait for a date on the calendar to do it.
My goals this year are to lose around 25kg in body fat, and to start training for a long distance cycling challenge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in |
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To find a local FWB that we can see regular and establish a friendship in and out of the bedroom.
To carry on with our ‘to do list’ and to just be open to new opportunities… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go on then |
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If I got on well with a 43 Yr old, and fancied the pants off them then I would meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd orgasm twice a day till the end  |
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There’s a few on our list we’ve yet to try - well actually we’ve tried them but with less people
So a couple we’ve yet to try and will get done this year…
A kinky dinner party…small and intimate with games and all people on the same page and open minded
Cling film wrapped |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fucklicked in the Amazon position during an FFM. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We used a Satisfyer pro. Mrs held it on her clit while I sucked and played with her nipples. She came in about 2 minutes (if you’ve used one before you’ll understand) and then after she caught her breath we had sex. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
Most daring would have been a blindfold meet organised by an ex fb |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My last sex based day dream was today after reading a post on fab from a woman whose fantasy involved having a boyfriend but there being another older man who Dom'd her......I just happen to be older |
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Currently in my bar watching footy and having a pint |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was in the shower, water warm on my skin then felt strong arms snake round my waist from behind pulling me towards him....  |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
I've not been to a club before
I guess it would be have some drinks and meet some great people and have a lot of fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any questions as I’m out in 5 mins for a while |
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By *X2019 OP Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Fab 2021 was ok. Obviously lockdowns didn't help and I drifted away from here for a bit, a few times. But spoke to some more lovely people from here.
2022.... start meeting hopefully  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By *X2019 OP Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Sexual: having a hot girl to tie up and try bondage stuff with
Non sexual: travel more but not sure where yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t believe I them, I’m more of a spontaneous bloke, or I like to think I am
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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40 but may go younger if we connect. |
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I’d have a threesome with Joey and of course Phoebe |
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Fab hasn't really changed my life, except to give me yet another way to waste time on forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, neck kisses and a slow hand running up my thigh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to disappoint but there's been nothing weird up there hahaha ya eejit lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha, I could possibly explain away being caught with Jimmy Cranky, but with Boris I would have to say I was trying desperately to find where he was hiding his intellect. |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
No resolutions, but just hope to have a better year than this one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You would be joining in!!
I'd get you to kiss me hard then whilst you stand there I'll kiss you from your mouth to your cock.. to begin with x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No
No
Oh and hell no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very late but in please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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MFM with DVP. You’d be able to do whatever you wanted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You would be joining in!!
I'd get you to kiss me hard then whilst you stand there I'll kiss you from your mouth to your cock.. to begin with x "
Sweet baby jesus |
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If i could, I'd go back and stop myself from getting involved with an ex.
That was a very big mistake. Can laugh about it now though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pushed against a door while passionately kissing and a finger or two slipping in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ideas for new photos next year for me are more fuller length ones with more use of lighting.
Using lighting isn’t that difficult as all you need is a dark room and a ring light or 2.
Some tips for guys.
1) Listen and read in the forums what people like and don’t like and use your imagination.
2) Take a look at other guys profile and see what pics you like and recreate them the best you can or put your own slant on them.
3) Google male boudoir photos for other ideas
4) Keep the mixture good between naked, close ups and clothes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Club events |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would have to be the really good kisser one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Deffo more of the same,but there's always room for improvement |
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Would be just a social, and would involve coffee and cake somewhere nice, where we can talk freely, without worry about being overheard about vanilla and not so vanilla topics.
There would be an obviously level of sexual chemistry and the meet would end with a kiss and the next meet being organised for a hotel within a few days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Difficult to answer who I'd rather be tied to depends on context |
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Not had anything outrageous happen during a meet
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Something quirky maybe mooch around a food festival or pop up bars/market, plenty of laughs, flirtation…nice easy going, relaxed environment…all being well a kiss that makes me want more at the end of it x |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
I would love to do a proper boudoir photo shoot, like 1920s styling - I haven’t quite taken the plunge yet x |
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We'd have a drink and a chat, flirt a little. See if we click |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go on then , in for a while |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m back in for a while |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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her tied standing submissive to my touch, prolonged teasing building the tension  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in.. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take those boxers off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m a simple soul so my date would enjoy an evening of my cooking a delicious dinner, and sipping cocktails. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
One with me draped across you x |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Soul music, anything with a beat that just speaks to your body, a depth, a raspy voice a complete rawness that you can’t help but shake your arse too x |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
I would like to explore my bi sexuality more, perhaps considering more social events and parties
Couples profile - that’s a ‘no chance’ for now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A white halter neck, figure hugging, full length dress. Your figure looks incredible and I think you’d look incredible in something like that. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
I'm watching Die Hard.....not hiding my breathe for a question xxxxx Suzi |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
In short…no
Much of what you said isn’t my thing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Count me in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A little late, but I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like Christmas pudding :/ |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
I trained with Scottish ballet, attended dance college, worked on the westend for several years so yes I’d say I can x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope.. I hardly wear them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In by the way lol |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Scottish born and bred - I’ve travelled quite a bit in my life including spending a year in the States, lived in London for 5yrs and a few other places
I would love to live in Europe in later life, sipping wine, eating great food and ogling foreign men till I pop my clogs, but Scotland will always be where I feel most at home xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Assuming there's already petrol in my car, I'd take us for a nice walk in the Peak District where we could just talk. I'd even pack us a lunch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Possibly custard |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
My message box is flooded, not from this thread though . So leaving the thread to chat. Byeeee. N have fun xxxx Suzi |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
It be a toss up between a firm hand spanking and flogger x |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
No I’m not in a relationship, I’m open minded, if one one comes along and it takes that natural course then I’d go with it if it felt right, nothing is a never for me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I’m not in a relationship, I’m open minded, if one one comes along and it takes that natural course then I’d go with it if it felt right, nothing is a never for me x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After we’d been to a club, and played with others in the same room, and watched each other’s pleasure, then we went home and reconnected, fucking, talking about what we’d done. It was so intense and passionate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You meet and as you look the person in the eyes, you get that funny feeling in your stomach … everything seems to click , conversation is like you’ve know each other for years , nothing is forced or awkward.. talk for hours until the sun is coming up. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Tuesday - no he always stimulates me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A face pic is the only one we’d need to see |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not that I can remember but I have lost shoes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being able to hear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If Time Travel was a super power I’d have that, no more mistakes ever again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sure! Why not. I'm in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m going to whip a bodysuit out of my lingerie drawer, hold ups and heels, hair pulled back so it’s not in the way, and a swipe of eyeliner. Done! |
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forever be able to come repeatedly but always after 60 seconds with 5 minutes soft in-between goes |
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The boy likes to use a dragon tail or a flogger! Kitty likes to use pinwheels and ticklers. |
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Nothing but boring predictable masturbation “game”! |
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We had a great meet with are best swing friends in Exeter in adjacent hotel rooms! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m new to the forums but in . Happy to be asked anything and will disclose anything honestly . Feel free to read about me or check out my gallery which could lead to a question or two. Thankyou. |
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We feel very lucky and making the most of it too…fate has given us a new lease of life and we are running with it for as long as it lasts |
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He’s understanding of limits and boundaries. He’s funny, makes a great cocktail and his fingering technique is epic! |
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Black lace with suspenders and stockings. It's a classic for a reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Innnnnnnnn |
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That depends on the eggs and whether i have anything to wash them with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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French Knickers.. or thong, depends what I'm wearing |
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You’d be blindfolded and used for pleasure and you’d only have the delicious images in your mind to look back upon…and the fingernail marks across your chest as a reminder… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's two questions!!! I live in the arse end of nowhere, so I think I would come down and take her to a BDSM room at your local club - a wee discussion beforehand and we'd come up with a plan to have fantastically depraved night of pleasure!! |
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