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By *ynda1978 OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Liverpool |
What did you do for your 1st meet/social? Was it a drink, something to eat? I would imagine some are a little raunchy too 
How did you combat your nerves or were you bold and confident. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What did you do for your 1st meet/social? Was it a drink, something to eat? I would imagine some are a little raunchy too
How did you combat your nerves or were you bold and confident. "
Met for coffee , nearly changed our minds at last minute.
Chat got very naughty. Met up again a week later for our first ever FFM which was amazing |
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First fab social was in a coffee shop with a follow up a few weeks later in another coffee shop which in turn was followed by an hotel meet a month after that and resulted in me leaving fab because of the lunacy. |
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By *urio77Man
over a year ago
northampton |
She came over to my house.We enjoyed a few relaxed drinks, good conversation and had a good laugh together. Things progressed and we both had a great night. It happened exactly how I hoped it would. Drama free NSA. Loved it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went for cake & coffee
Cake & hot drinks always make for good socials
Others have included McDonalds and a walk round an antiques centre with lunch and a natter  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First meet when I signed up on previous account couple of years ago, I'd always been in relationships so never met anyone like this...
Picked her up in the car for a "drive" was very nervous, she lunges for my cock 2 mins into driving had me horny as fuck so we find a country lane and she sucked me til completion was the best BJ I'd had up until then 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our first meet he actually came to ours  we'd been chatting for quite a while though.
Our second meet which was a social we met for drinks at a halfway point then went out for a meal and back out for a couple more drinks. It was great, loved it! |
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First one who actually turned up was coffee on a saturday morning. Wasn't particularly nervous, he was a delight although we never took it any further.
A quick coffee turned into 4 hours of chatting and laughing, which is always good news! |
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"Met for a coffee, I went off him when he got froth on his lip and tried to lick it off seductively going 'mmmmmmmmm' at the same time!  "
Oh god, how can anyone keep a straight face watching that?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First Fab group social... I picked a bloke up by the side of the road. We went into the social place and it was weird as. People just standing around staring and not really chatting. Text book Swinger stuff.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First Fab group social... I picked a bloke up by the side of the road. We went into the social place and it was weird as. People just standing around staring and not really chatting. Text book Swinger stuff. "
This sounds awfully familiar |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"First Fab group social... I picked a bloke up by the side of the road. We went into the social place and it was weird as. People just standing around staring and not really chatting. Text book Swinger stuff.
This sounds awfully familiar "
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Excluding the friend who introduced me to Fab. Lunchtime drinks around the corner from my office. Got on like a house on fire and 6 years on we are still friends.
I am lucky that I am in the perfect geographical location for lunchtime socials during the week. You know you only have to endure a short time of you are not enjoying it. |
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At a feed store when I went to collect horse feed. He worked close by so it was convenient. Ended up stood next to my car chatting for about an hour and I ended up very sunburnt!! We met again a week or so later at my house and it was a much less civilised meet |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Met for a coffee, I went off him when he got froth on his lip and tried to lick it off seductively going 'mmmmmmmmm' at the same time!
Oh god, how can anyone keep a straight face watching that? "
My face was a  kind of face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Met for a coffee, I went off him when he got froth on his lip and tried to lick it off seductively going 'mmmmmmmmm' at the same time!
Oh god, how can anyone keep a straight face watching that?
My face was a kind of face "
That’s hilarious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meals can be quite awkward on a first meet unless you have developed a good rapport whith them previously and ice already broken. If you find there is not chemistry (being polite) kind of stuck with them, stilted conversation and false niceties. Atleast for the meal.
We normally would meet for drinks only for the first meet, progessing to maybe a meal or more if there is a chemistry there.
Everyone is different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chatted for a few weeks then she came over to mine one evening for a drink. Was a really pleasant evening, lots of good chat and giggles eventually leading into the bedroom, good times! |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire |
"What did you do for your 1st meet/social? Was it a drink, something to eat? I would imagine some are a little raunchy too
How did you combat your nerves or were you bold and confident. "
1st meet was supposed to be social only and we got on like a house on fire and things moved on pretty quickly.
We were both nervous but settled quickly as I managed to do a "Frank Spencer" impression.
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
I went to his house, he seduced me with an unbelievable Thai tapas meal and banging tunes, we drank, ate, danced and laughed - I felt 100% relaxed and like we had met before - probably why he’s still a fwb x
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
My very first social was with a single female and I went as always with no expectations at all and shaking like a leaf, within 10 seconds of her sitting in my passenger seat our lips met and it escalated very quickly, totally threw me.
Second social was more respectful an normal with a couple in their own house and an hour long drinking coffee and chatting about general things and this site, it went well and led to further meets, I was less nervous and more confident and go to each social with more confidence every time. Best thing is to expect nothing but a pleasant chat to feel more relaxed and help the other person be more relaxed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine was going to their house to meet the f of the couple... I talk for England when I'm nervous so it was OK but she was really shy and nervous but kept playing with her tongue bar which really turned me on.... I was well behaved though and didn't act upon it. Was back within 4 days for a playdate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Went to a couples house for coffee and they made me feel totally at ease and despite my nervousness we actually had an intelligent chat.
Gorgeous kiss on the way out which sealed the deal.
Met 2 weeks later for some very nice playtime
Good fwb's 2 years later. |
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"What did you do for your 1st meet/social? Was it a drink, something to eat? I would imagine some are a little raunchy too
How did you combat your nerves or were you bold and confident. "
We went to a pub, it was the ladies suggestion, she didn’t realise it was a folk open mic night! It was awesome and terrible but great! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First Fab group social... I picked a bloke up by the side of the road. We went into the social place and it was weird as. People just standing around staring and not really chatting. Text book Swinger stuff. "
This is what makes us nervous of attending clubs......queue the barrage of people saying its not like that.... We have read loads of verifications to say the opposite but its still makes us nervous about the pressure etc. we might try one day
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I met a couple at their place and he stayed downstairs while me and her went upstairs to play. I was nervous for a bit when first arrived but they went when she took her gown off to reveal her completely naked body |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
First meet on here went for a “hike” in the local forestry park. Never again, he was a super fast walker and I almost died trying to keep pace!!
We’re still in touch though
Usually it’s just a coffee. I wish I could do drive by socials, where you just get a wee glimpse and drive on with a yay or a nay. First meets make me so anxious. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Met for a coffee, I went off him when he got froth on his lip and tried to lick it off seductively going 'mmmmmmmmm' at the same time!
 feckin hilarious... Is he on the forum
No!!!!
Most things only women can make look sexy, it's such a cruel world "
Isn't it? He nearly put me off mankind tbh! I think I burnt my tongue on my drink I just had to get outta there |
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"Met for a coffee, I went off him when he got froth on his lip and tried to lick it off seductively going 'mmmmmmmmm' at the same time!
feckin hilarious... Is he on the forum
No!!!!
Most things only women can make look sexy, it's such a cruel world
Isn't it? He nearly put me off mankind tbh! I think I burnt my tongue on my drink I just had to get outta there "
I guess this is a lesson all guys should take note of, don't order cream if on a coffee social |
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She was a pilot for a major airline.
First meet was afternoon tea in the City.
Second meet was in a flight simulator near Gatwick.
The third meet, during a quiet Bank Holiday, was back in the flight simulator...this time there wasn't much 'flying'.
I now know why they call it The Cockpit.  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Met up both had few bottles of wine was late at night so booked a room and enjoyed what time we had together until morning
We Both were confident as we'd been chatting for months until both had free time available.I've always been this way |
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I’m married so have to be very discreet - I find it quite hard juggling when I can meet but first would be a social perhaps in a coffee shop and then hopefully a nice walk somewhere where there are a few secluded spots |
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"Met for a coffee, I went off him when he got froth on his lip and tried to lick it off seductively going 'mmmmmmmmm' at the same time! "
Had to read that again, I thought he tried to lick your lip at first!!! |
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He came to our hotel room where Mary was blindfolded and sitting on the bed. We played with her for an hour or so then had a break we’re he went to next door bar and we changed and then met for a couple of drinks and a chat to make sure everyone was happy to continue then we followed Mary back to the room for the continuation of the evening.
Worked so well that we repeated it with our next meet with a new guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My very first social was a chat in a car me and the lady in the back whilst her hubby was in the front
It was only meant to be a chat to see if we all liked each other
Rest assured we liked each other  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first and only was a coffee and a very detailed duscussion about my intentions and playing safe. Respected every question and gave totally honest answers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met in an Italian and got to know a little more about one another and had a little flirt. Personality is a big one for me so this was only after we had casually messaged for a while. I was nervous but I think it adds to the excitement. We made sure all involved knew it was strictly a social and then invited him around to ours for a meal and debauchery the second meet |
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"What did you do for your 1st meet/social? Was it a drink, something to eat? I would imagine some are a little raunchy too
How did you combat your nerves or were you bold and confident. "
Met in Costas on a Tuesday afternoon for a coffee and a chat. |
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