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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's overwhelmingly a male thing, in my experience.
Not my cup of tea. "
I think generally it is. Although there is a couple of couples I speak too. Mainly I'm only speaking to the female when the male asks her to x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the VERY rare occasion I have done this, it’s to help the guy out. I get literally nothing from it, and would imagine it’s the same for most females.
Sorry, but that’s the brutal reality of the situation.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was in a relationship and circumstances didn't allow us to to do the real thing.
Then it makes sense if the horn was on.
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Yeah, I can totally see that. And then you wouldn’t be left with the trashy feeling as above. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes me feel like trash so..I don't do it anymore.
I like feeling like trash:p x"
It hacks away at me afterwards so not worth the sexy high for me. It's just very personal I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alreet everyone?
You know what is rather hot. Whatsapp voicenote sexting. I must say, you start off just casually flirting your way into it and suddenly you're essentially you're in a sexted up phone frenzy  MEGA HOT! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was in a relationship and circumstances didn't allow us to to do the real thing.
Then it makes sense if the horn was on.
Yeah, I can totally see that. And then you wouldn’t be left with the trashy feeling as above."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was in a relationship and circumstances didn't allow us to to do the real thing.
Then it makes sense if the horn was on.
Yeah, I can totally see that. And then you wouldn’t be left with the trashy feeling as above."
Last few times I was in a relationship! It's just not for me. Same with video calls. I end up in bits. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes me feel like trash so..I don't do it anymore.
I like feeling like trash:p x
It hacks away at me afterwards so not worth the sexy high for me. It's just very personal I guess. "
I get that. For me, it’s a pretty one-way transaction, which probably doesn’t help!
Transaction a pretty poor choice of word there, but you know what I mean! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes me feel like trash so..I don't do it anymore.
I like feeling like trash:p x
It hacks away at me afterwards so not worth the sexy high for me. It's just very personal I guess.
I get that. For me, it’s a pretty one-way transaction, which probably doesn’t help!
Transaction a pretty poor choice of word there, but you know what I mean!"
I do! It is quite transactional as I don't get off from it but he does. Maybe that's why it feels so crap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These days it's more about getting to know each other to develop a connection which is difficult to portray in text.
In a relationship both parties would have to enjoy it otherwise I can see how one side can be left to feel like some of the comments above. Then you don't do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes me feel like trash so..I don't do it anymore.
I like feeling like trash:p x
It hacks away at me afterwards so not worth the sexy high for me. It's just very personal I guess.
I get that. For me, it’s a pretty one-way transaction, which probably doesn’t help!
Transaction a pretty poor choice of word there, but you know what I mean!
I do! It is quite transactional as I don't get off from it but he does. Maybe that's why it feels so crap. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m giggling to myself as I imagine guys reading this thinking ‘but I thought she was as turned on as I was’.  "
As he was spaffing his muck everywhere, she was writing out the shopping list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m giggling to myself as I imagine guys reading this thinking ‘but I thought she was as turned on as I was’.
As he was spaffing his muck everywhere, she was writing out the shopping list. "
Or cleaning the bathroom grouting with a toothbrush. |
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