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By *andamo OP Couple
over a year ago
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So we've been friends for 8-9 years. The new dad seems to love her but is VERY jealous. He has set up two acc. One for him and a couple thing. It seems like cheating but I don't know the ins and outs. I feel like a duck because I am non-comfrontational and I can't have that conversation. My Mrs knows but won't say anything. One might say it's not my business but she's our friend, and sprogs are. |
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"So we've been friends for 8-9 years. The new dad seems to love her but is VERY jealous. He has set up two acc. One for him and a couple thing. It seems like cheating but I don't know the ins and outs. I feel like a duck because I am non-comfrontational and I can't have that conversation. My Mrs knows but won't say anything. One might say it's not my business but she's our friend, and sprogs are."
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over a year ago
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"So we've been friends for 8-9 years. The new dad seems to love her but is VERY jealous. He has set up two acc. One for him and a couple thing. It seems like cheating but I don't know the ins and outs. I feel like a duck because I am non-comfrontational and I can't have that conversation. My Mrs knows but won't say anything. One might say it's not my business but she's our friend, and sprogs are."
What do you mean he's jealous?
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My thoughts would be that I don't know their relationship dynamic. They may swing as a couple for all I know or give each other permission to play with others.
The only time I'd get involved in someone else's relationship would be if there was some kind of abuse involved and one of them needed help. Other than that, none of my business and not my drama.
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"So we've been friends for 8-9 years. The new dad seems to love her but is VERY jealous. He has set up two acc. One for him and a couple thing. It seems like cheating but I don't know the ins and outs. I feel like a duck because I am non-comfrontational and I can't have that conversation. My Mrs knows but won't say anything. One might say it's not my business but she's our friend, and sprogs are."
Sorry but with all respect, it's not in detail enough for me... So if you're having a difficult time describing. Then I wouldn't get involved at all.
Unless you don't value the friendship.....Messy situation, isn't it! |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Like you said you don't know the ins and outs but have decided to jump to conclusions it seems.
If you feel you have to tell her do but be ready for repercussions if you are wrong and sometimes even when you are right it can end a friendship. |
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"She's you're friend at the end of the day, do what's best "
But explore more to try to get more facts.
You can be your own detective, setting up a second covert profile and see how he responds.
Don't rush in and spoil a friendship.
Also look at your own motives in this whole dynamic. Are you feeling over protective because you have developed some feelings for the woman? The wording of your posting rather indicates that as possible. You may be unaware of those feelings.
Tread carefully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm generally pretty good at deciphering typo's (I need to be to read my own messages back) and reasonable at working out what people are trying to say but I can't work out this one out OP.
Who is the new dad? - should that be new man as in new b/f for your friend?
Is your friend on the couples profile?
Do you think she/he doesn't know this profile exists? Or that the single one exists?
Sorry, I'm just confused.
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm generally pretty good at deciphering typo's (I need to be to read my own messages back) and reasonable at working out what people are trying to say but I can't work out this one out OP.
Who is the new dad? - should that be new man as in new b/f for your friend?
Is your friend on the couples profile?
Do you think she/he doesn't know this profile exists? Or that the single one exists?
Sorry, I'm just confused.
Mr"
I’m glad you’ve asked this as I’ve read the OP a few times and thought it was just me that was confused |
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