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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
I never assume just not accommodating meets cheating, I don't myself.
If profiles are upfront about being married its easy to avoid them. It's the ones who are hiding it that are harder to suss sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not being able to accommodate dose not mean cheating
Could be a number off things
They could house share
They could be a loger
Could be safety not wanting people to know whare they stay
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m single but can’t accommodate.. don’t think my 16 year old lad would appreciate me turning the house into a knocking shop.. "
Really? I'd expect the opposite  lol xx |
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Just move on.
As long as they are honest on their profile then you can choose if you wanted to cross that line or not.
It’s the people who don’t say anything on their profile and then tell you quite a bit into the chat which are frustrating.
If we are unsure then we walk away…if our gut instinct is highlighting a red flag and it’s not addressed properly, we walk away. Any red flags we walk away. That’s why we chat and chat to people…
One guy happily tried to justify the ring on his wedding ring finger was not because he was married but he was engaged instead 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m single but can’t accommodate.. don’t think my 16 year old lad would appreciate me turning the house into a knocking shop..
Really? I'd expect the opposite lol xx"
Haha… you have a point! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m single but can’t accommodate.. don’t think my 16 year old lad would appreciate me turning the house into a knocking shop..
Really? I'd expect the opposite lol xx
Haha… you have a point! "
Lol  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But OP, please don't think I'm being nasty or start..
My home's my home..I don't share it with just anyone, and for that matter I'm not too comfortable with going to the home of others...not straight off the bat |
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"either can't accommodate with something to hide or married want to play away with or without partners consent ...tired of it "
I'm also tired of married men messaging me to f%$# their wives, however I don't moan about it  ...just ignore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But OP, please don't think I'm being nasty or start..
My home's my home..I don't share it with just anyone, and for that matter I'm not too comfortable with going to the home of others...not straight off the bat"
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I agree. OP why don’t you accommodate |
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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
I don’t accommodate as my young child is at home. My wife knows full well I’m on here, just as I’m fully aware of the site she’s on for her preferred scene.
What you like or don’t like isn’t criteria for others to be members or not, OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't accommodate all the time because I have lodger who works odd hours and never tells me what there are . Makes it very difficult to arrange anything |
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Thank you for posting this! I was away with work for a few weeks and couldn't accommodate, just realised I never changed my preferences back when I returned.
Thought I was getting fewer replies.
D'oh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can’t, well , I won’t accommodate because I’m a single mum. So, I don’t think just because they can’t accommodate they are married.
That being said, it’s quite easy to figure out when someone is in a relationship they are trying to lie about.
It is quite annoying to be honest to speak to someone for a bit just to find out they’re attached. |
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I never accomodated when I was on my single profile because of my living arrangement at the time. I was not in a relationship but I received plenty of responses accusing me of being so, some completely out of the blue  
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I am not sure if I updated my profile but I can accommodate now I used to house share so was not easy.. But now it's not an issue I have an apartment in Bulgaria and let a couple stay in my bed and I slept on the sofa. |
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Agreed very annoying! It's when u get the ohh but it's not u cheating when I point out I wont knowingly meet atatched! I tell them no but I wont play a part in helping them cheat! I've been the cheated on! And why would I want to meet atatched men when theres single men x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can accomadate but it depends what stage my renovation house is at, the 2months while I reroofed it were a bit drafty to accomadate and the weeks with no central heating might have been a touch cold trying to explain to some one I'm stopping at my mum's for a few weeks while I do a messy job seems to instantly make me a married man. |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
My parents stay at mine a lot. He’s 81 and she’s 80. I think they’d be horrified if they knew I was on here let alone listen to me through the wall as I help some guy bang his wife!!!
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"either can't accommodate with something to hide or married want to play away with or without partners consent ...tired of it "
I'm always rather baffled as to why people care about things like this.
People who are not what you're looking for have no baring on your use of the site.
I also don't equate not accomodating with cheating. If I was a man, I wouldn't invite strangers to my home for sex. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I don't really see why but accommodating means someone is married. I don't accomadate because I have no interest in bringing people I don't know to my home or knowing where I live. And I presuame it's the same for men on her who don't. The only time I accomadate is when I meet someone regularly.
I do find it very prententious that people expect men to accommodate them on here why should they? Book a hotel or something instead of looking for someone else to accomadate you or accomadate at your home if you think it should be okay for men to.
And if you don't like who contacts you then use your filters and actually go look for yourself and find men that fit what you are looking for. |
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"I don't really see why but accommodating means someone is married. I don't accomadate because I have no interest in bringing people I don't know to my home or knowing where I live. And I presuame it's the same for men on her who don't. The only time I accomadate is when I meet someone regularly.
I do find it very prententious that people expect men to accommodate them on here why should they? Book a hotel or something instead of looking for someone else to accomadate you or accomadate at your home if you think it should be okay for men to.
And if you don't like who contacts you then use your filters and actually go look for yourself and find men that fit what you are looking for."
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"Here we go again I don't accommodate im cheating a lady don't accommodate she's been careful haha"
Exactly. It’s a bloody ridiculous assumption. I know plenty of men who’s children live with them half of the time. I wouldn’t accommodate someone from here in my children’s home in a million years and respect to the men who don’t either. As for people being married, they have as much right to use this site as anyone else. Just don’t meet them if you don’t like it.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Just because people can’t accommodate doesn’t mean their married
Yes true maybe their sharing a house and don't want all their hosemates to hear what's going on 
Or they have kids"
Or don't want strangers in their home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"that's we've found fed up with married males contacting us esp those who come up with sob story their wives don't understand them"
Why converse with them.
One question to ask - can you accommodate?
Their answer NO...
You move on, block if you wish...
End of conversation....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"that's we've found fed up with married males contacting us esp those who come up with sob story their wives don't understand them"
Maybe they don't.
You're in a lucky minority if you're on here happily swinging with your partner. End of the day, you don't know what's going on in someone's life . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"that's we've found fed up with married males contacting us esp those who come up with sob story their wives don't understand them
Maybe they don't.
You're in a lucky minority if you're on here happily swinging with your partner. End of the day, you don't know what's going on in someone's life ."
Are there are an abundance of married women on here fucking about behind their partner's backs....but they're "hot" & "naughty" apparently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're all on here for various reasons,married or single. My wife has gone right off sex due to a bad experience with a guy off here that she was seeing. However she's happy for me to play solo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m single but can’t accommodate.. don’t think my 16 year old lad would appreciate me turning the house into a knocking shop.. "
Oh - do you charge then? |
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"either can't accommodate with something to hide or married want to play away with or without partners consent ...tired of it "
Why just block them and move on .....we've all got our reasons for being on here |
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"either can't accommodate with something to hide or married want to play away with or without partners consent ...tired of it "
I don’t care if someone is married or not as long as it’s consensual. If you only want single men, chick the profiles and see if they accommodate etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being unable to accommodate combined with "discreet" mentioned is very often code for attached. I'd find it a great deal easier if men were upfront about it please. Instead of those who chat for weeks without saying anything and assumed I knew and was ok about it.
It's your choice to play around without your partner knowing but please give me the truth to make my own choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"that's we've found fed up with married males contacting us esp those who come up with sob story their wives don't understand them
Maybe they don't.
You're in a lucky minority if you're on here happily swinging with your partner. End of the day, you don't know what's going on in someone's life .
Are there are an abundance of married women on here fucking about behind their partner's backs....but they're "hot" & "naughty" apparently "
This ^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could try something radical like putting it in your profile."
Even if you put it on your profile, married men (the cheating kind) will still try their luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could try something radical like putting it in your profile.
Even if you put it on your profile, married men (the cheating kind) will still try their luck. "
Yep. That's what pisses me off. |
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"Just move on.
As long as they are honest on their profile then you can choose if you wanted to cross that line or not.
It’s the people who don’t say anything on their profile and then tell you quite a bit into the chat which are frustrating.
If we are unsure then we walk away…if our gut instinct is highlighting a red flag and it’s not addressed properly, we walk away. Any red flags we walk away. That’s why we chat and chat to people…
One guy happily tried to justify the ring on his wedding ring finger was not because he was married but he was engaged instead
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I'm a widower, when she died I combined her wedding ring with mine and wear it. He sounds like a plonker though lol |
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It's okay for couples and single ladies who can't accommodate and have a family at home to expect someone else to accommodate. But stop and think most single men have families and kids at home not including a partner. Shame on a lot of you for judging.
Look forward to the abuse and negative comments this will receive |
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There is probably a larger percentage of women that can't accommodate than men.
Does that mean they are also married cheaters?
I hate cheating, but I don't assume people are just because of a preference.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"either can't accommodate with something to hide or married want to play away with or without partners consent ...tired of it "
So because a “man” can’t accom means something to hide or playing away? Pretty presumptuous don’t you think |
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"Assumptions annoy me!
They’re great, aren’t they?
I particularly like it when people who’ve never met either me or my wife decide what our play dynamic is on our behalf. So special! "
These threads are always quite entertaining though . People telling others what they are and what they’re not and what they should and shouldn’t be doing! |
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it "
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be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could try something radical like putting it in your profile.
Even if you put it on your profile, married men (the cheating kind) will still try their luck. "
Nah just say you *will* meet married men. Then they won't hide it and you can tell them to sod off... |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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It pisses me right off that so many people make assumptions about others based on situations that they know nothing about.
If you don't want to meet married people, don't. If you don't want to meet single people, don't. If you don't want to meet circumcised men, or women with boob jobs, or single parents, don't (these were the first things that came to mind, I couldn't care less about any of these factors personally).
And if any of it matters that much to you, ask the person you're speaking to. And make a decision about whether or not they're being truthful. Personally, as long as someone is truthful to me, I don't see it as my business to judge.
People have been lying about themselves forever. It isn't a new thing. And they have their reasons. You would think that it was completely new and exclusive to fab from the way some people get all wound up and rant on the forum.
(Sorry. Will go back in my box now) |
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"Here we go again I don't accommodate im cheating a lady don't accommodate she's been careful haha
Exactly. It’s a bloody ridiculous assumption. I know plenty of men who’s children live with them half of the time. I wouldn’t accommodate someone from here in my children’s home in a million years and respect to the men who don’t either. As for people being married, they have as much right to use this site as anyone else. Just don’t meet them if you don’t like it.
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This exactly. Judgemental people on here that can't see beyond black and white. |
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"It pisses me right off that so many people make assumptions about others based on situations that they know nothing about.
If you don't want to meet married people, don't. If you don't want to meet single people, don't. If you don't want to meet circumcised men, or women with boob jobs, or single parents, don't (these were the first things that came to mind, I couldn't care less about any of these factors personally).
And if any of it matters that much to you, ask the person you're speaking to. And make a decision about whether or not they're being truthful. Personally, as long as someone is truthful to me, I don't see it as my business to judge.
People have been lying about themselves forever. It isn't a new thing. And they have their reasons. You would think that it was completely new and exclusive to fab from the way some people get all wound up and rant on the forum.
(Sorry. Will go back in my box now)"
This! I personally couldn’t give a flying fuck what others do and have never ever discussed what I do and don’t do on here. Makes for a much more pleasant existence.  |
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"It pisses me right off that so many people make assumptions about others based on situations that they know nothing about.
If you don't want to meet married people, don't. If you don't want to meet single people, don't. If you don't want to meet circumcised men, or women with boob jobs, or single parents, don't (these were the first things that came to mind, I couldn't care less about any of these factors personally).
And if any of it matters that much to you, ask the person you're speaking to. And make a decision about whether or not they're being truthful. Personally, as long as someone is truthful to me, I don't see it as my business to judge.
People have been lying about themselves forever. It isn't a new thing. And they have their reasons. You would think that it was completely new and exclusive to fab from the way some people get all wound up and rant on the forum.
(Sorry. Will go back in my box now)"
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"Here we go again I don't accommodate im cheating a lady don't accommodate she's been careful haha
Exactly. It’s a bloody ridiculous assumption. I know plenty of men who’s children live with them half of the time. I wouldn’t accommodate someone from here in my children’s home in a million years and respect to the men who don’t either. As for people being married, they have as much right to use this site as anyone else. Just don’t meet them if you don’t like it.
This exactly. Judgemental people on here that can't see beyond black and white."
Oh yes. The black and white thing! So so much of it on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"either can't accommodate with something to hide or married want to play away with or without partners consent ...tired of it "
What are you tired of? People having their preferences? I suggest you up your filters and conduct your own searches, you may find what you want |
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"Here we go again I don't accommodate im cheating a lady don't accommodate she's been careful haha
Exactly. It’s a bloody ridiculous assumption. I know plenty of men who’s children live with them half of the time. I wouldn’t accommodate someone from here in my children’s home in a million years and respect to the men who don’t either. As for people being married, they have as much right to use this site as anyone else. Just don’t meet them if you don’t like it.
This exactly. Judgemental people on here that can't see beyond black and white.
Oh yes. The black and white thing! So so much of it on here. "
Exactly. For a swinging site it's full of narrow minded people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got to say, I've always been slightly irritated by the insistence that I should accommodate."
Totally agree. There's privacy etc. Many of us have children living with us etc. Not always that we have something to hide.
Best to meet at a neutral point,50/50.
Who knows what may be decided down the line if its a regular setup.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to
be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol "
They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It pisses me right off that so many people make assumptions about others based on situations that they know nothing about.
If you don't want to meet married people, don't. If you don't want to meet single people, don't. If you don't want to meet circumcised men, or women with boob jobs, or single parents, don't (these were the first things that came to mind, I couldn't care less about any of these factors personally).
And if any of it matters that much to you, ask the person you're speaking to. And make a decision about whether or not they're being truthful. Personally, as long as someone is truthful to me, I don't see it as my business to judge.
People have been lying about themselves forever. It isn't a new thing. And they have their reasons. You would think that it was completely new and exclusive to fab from the way some people get all wound up and rant on the forum.
(Sorry. Will go back in my box now)"
Agreed. Married men and women should be welcome here like anyone else, if you don't want to meet them don't! Lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to
be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol
They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know? "
Thing is I did read that on your profile and I never messaged.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to
be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol
They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know?
Thing is I did read that on your profile and I never messaged. "
And I thank you for that |
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to
be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol
They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know? "
Oh yes I don’t disagree with that. I don’t have a problem with married men at all. I do have a problem with them lying about being married. Although it’s not happened to me. If it did I wouldn’t be too pleased. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to
be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol
They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know?
Thing is I did read that on your profile and I never messaged.
And I thank you for that "
Most welcome. (I really wanted to though) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to
be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol
They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know?
Oh yes I don’t disagree with that. I don’t have a problem with married men at all. I do have a problem with them lying about being married. Although it’s not happened to me. If it did I wouldn’t be too pleased. "
I am perfectly polite and understand that there are reasons. But I have been led on for some time by a guy who didn't tell me (too naive to know then). |
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to
be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol
They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know?
Oh yes I don’t disagree with that. I don’t have a problem with married men at all. I do have a problem with them lying about being married. Although it’s not happened to me. If it did I wouldn’t be too pleased.
I am perfectly polite and understand that there are reasons. But I have been led on for some time by a guy who didn't tell me (too naive to know then). "
Ah I see. Yeah that’s out of order. I’d have hung him by his bollocks x |
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It is possible for married men to be on here without cheating. Swinging and polyamory often involve having multiple partners and them being comfortable with that.
Why are hotwives championed on here but husbands vilified? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So by choosing to only talk to men who can accommodate you’re sacrificing talking to men who live with their children, have a lodger or are a lodger, live with their parents, don’t feel comfortable inviting people they don’t know very well to their house, just don’t like accommodating or have any other genuine reason for not wanting to accommodate because you think that any man who says they can’t accommodate is married and cheating on his wife....this seems very narrow minded and presumptuous to me.
I assume that any married men on here who are cheating on their wife won’t have a face picture on their profile either so why don’t you have the same reluctance to talk to anyone without a face picture?
Plus...there are so many threads now about not accommodating being an indication that the person is married that any married man on here with any sense will say that he can accommodate to throw people off the scent and then avoid having to accommodate by coming up with an excuse when you’re chatting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is possible for married men to be on here without cheating. Swinging and polyamory often involve having multiple partners and them being comfortable with that.
Why are hotwives championed on here but husbands vilified? "
I don't know that they're vilified
I guess there's just not as many women want to have sex with another (knowing) woman's husband as there are men who want to have sex with another ( knowing) man's wife |
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to
be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol
They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know?
Oh yes I don’t disagree with that. I don’t have a problem with married men at all. I do have a problem with them lying about being married. Although it’s not happened to me. If it did I wouldn’t be too pleased.
I am perfectly polite and understand that there are reasons. But I have been led on for some time by a guy who didn't tell me (too naive to know then). "
That's totally unfair on you. Married people should say upfront before meeting and then the person can make an informed decision. |
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to
be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol
They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know?
Oh yes I don’t disagree with that. I don’t have a problem with married men at all. I do have a problem with them lying about being married. Although it’s not happened to me. If it did I wouldn’t be too pleased.
I am perfectly polite and understand that there are reasons. But I have been led on for some time by a guy who didn't tell me (too naive to know then).
Ah I see. Yeah that’s out of order. I’d have hung him by his bollocks x"
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"Most fess up in their messages, if they don't have it on their profile. So they're easy to avoid if you're not down with it to
be fair it’s not hard to work out either even if they don’t fess up lol
They could just tell the damn truth to start with couldn't they? Why is the onus on me to spot the signs or ask? Why can't they read my profile where I clearly say don't message if you're attached and she doesn't know?
Oh yes I don’t disagree with that. I don’t have a problem with married men at all. I do have a problem with them lying about being married. Although it’s not happened to me. If it did I wouldn’t be too pleased.
I am perfectly polite and understand that there are reasons. But I have been led on for some time by a guy who didn't tell me (too naive to know then).
Ah I see. Yeah that’s out of order. I’d have hung him by his bollocks x"
There are those who would find that an acceptable price to pay.. |
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"It is possible for married men to be on here without cheating. Swinging and polyamory often involve having multiple partners and them being comfortable with that.
Why are hotwives championed on here but husbands vilified?
I don't know that they're vilified
I guess there's just not as many women want to have sex with another (knowing) woman's husband as there are men who want to have sex with another ( knowing) man's wife "
I've seen married men get far more negative attention and threads but then ...more men on the site by far. I don't think anyone needs to be vilified, I've chatted to enough people who are:have cheated to know it's not black and white. |
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