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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear  xx |
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Your bio is clever but says nothing. Your username is a bit blunt for me. I like clever ones, plays on words anything with dick, cock, pussy etc just immediately put me off but that's just my opinion x put some effort in your bio. |
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Your profile doesn't say anything. One of your photos doesn't even have you in it and two are of your cock.
Why exactly would you expect somebody to leap at the Message button when they see your profile? What do you think they are going to respond to? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You look like an attractive bloke. So how about a few more face pics? Or part face?"
Aww thanks for the message you look good urself
And yeah I understand, and deffo would take that in too consideration, but you might have to teach me how to smile like you honestly you got a really lovely smile x |
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"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx"
So tell me.... what is the idea of the website?
What experience are you wanting? |
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- Out of five pictures, two are of your dick and one is just random sex toys.
- You have literally no information in your bio, and the "legal" statement has absolutely no weight, its pointless.
- Your bio should sell you and tell people about what you're looking for.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What profile?  "
I think it’s gone into witness protection
Haha jokes
I get what you mean, I just put this up as a bio recently
Thought I’ll try something new, as my other bio wasn’t getting much attention too
Maybe I’m not writing the correct stuff
Any advice on what you should put on there?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You look like an attractive bloke. So how about a few more face pics? Or part face?
Aww thanks for the message you look good urself
And yeah I understand, and deffo would take that in too consideration, but you might have to teach me how to smile like you honestly you got a really lovely smile x"
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx"
Your profile is shop window to the world… as nice as the attempt at the pictures are, your profile actually says nothing! |
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"What profile?
I think it’s gone into witness protection
Haha jokes
I get what you mean, I just put this up as a bio recently
Thought I’ll try something new, as my other bio wasn’t getting much attention too
Maybe I’m not writing the correct stuff
Any advice on what you should put on there?
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Why do you need advice on what to put? Just be yourself, coz that's who people will be expecting to talk to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx
So tell me.... what is the idea of the website?
What experience are you wanting?"
Honestly I’ve always had a kinky side to me which I’ve felt I’ve never really explored to it’s fullest potential, so mainly I’m looking to step into the scene I think and I understand myself more.
Other than that I’m looking to just make friends and have a good time
Hopefully that answer urs questions x |
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"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx
So tell me.... what is the idea of the website?
What experience are you wanting?
Honestly I’ve always had a kinky side to me which I’ve felt I’ve never really explored to it’s fullest potential, so mainly I’m looking to step into the scene I think and I understand myself more.
Other than that I’m looking to just make friends and have a good time
Hopefully that answer urs questions x"
And how can the site help with kink exploration?
(Not being cunty... I'm leading you to your own answers) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx"
You claim to be athletic...show more of your body but lose the dick pics. |
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"What profile?
I think it’s gone into witness protection
Haha jokes
I get what you mean, I just put this up as a bio recently
Thought I’ll try something new, as my other bio wasn’t getting much attention too
Maybe I’m not writing the correct stuff
Any advice on what you should put on there?
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Honest things, no b/s. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What profile?
I think it’s gone into witness protection
Haha jokes
I get what you mean, I just put this up as a bio recently
Thought I’ll try something new, as my other bio wasn’t getting much attention too
Maybe I’m not writing the correct stuff
Any advice on what you should put on there?
Why do you need advice on what to put? Just be yourself, coz that's who people will be expecting to talk to."
100% I agree with that, and I’m gna make a new one. Thought it was creative so people would like it lol.
I am myself when people see me, I just find it difficult to write down what I want and who I am if you know what I mean. I’m not very good with words like that tbh.
Soz guys don’t wanna sound like im fighting just letting you guys know why I’ve not done it yet. But I am taking ur advice and wills deffo change my profile x |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
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Any advice on what you should put on there?
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3 words… you be you
Don’t ask others for what should go in a profile… you are your own best seller! Who knows you better than you!!!
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By *ickJMan
over a year ago
Hemel Hempstead |
I'd say keep the photos of part face and torso, lose the sex toy one and maybe the dick pics (maybe not, some people might like them)
The text art is good but tells us nothing about you. The only bit you have written yourself is "ask", which means people have to make an effort (send you a message asking, then wait for the reply) to find out anything about you, rather than be able to read it straight away. If you write what you're looking for, it lets people see if they fit that, and a bit about you lets them see if you're likely to fit their needs.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx
So tell me.... what is the idea of the website?
What experience are you wanting?
Honestly I’ve always had a kinky side to me which I’ve felt I’ve never really explored to it’s fullest potential, so mainly I’m looking to step into the scene I think and I understand myself more.
Other than that I’m looking to just make friends and have a good time
Hopefully that answer urs questions x
And how can the site help with kink exploration?
(Not being cunty... I'm leading you to your own answers) "
Haha Naa I got what you were doing and I appreciate x
Ermmm probably hoping it’ll give me access to new people who are involved init and new experiences that I would not come across in my normal day to day life |
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"What profile?
I think it’s gone into witness protection
Haha jokes
I get what you mean, I just put this up as a bio recently
Thought I’ll try something new, as my other bio wasn’t getting much attention too
Maybe I’m not writing the correct stuff
Any advice on what you should put on there?
Why do you need advice on what to put? Just be yourself, coz that's who people will be expecting to talk to.
100% I agree with that, and I’m gna make a new one. Thought it was creative so people would like it lol.
I am myself when people see me, I just find it difficult to write down what I want and who I am if you know what I mean. I’m not very good with words like that tbh.
Soz guys don’t wanna sound like im fighting just letting you guys know why I’ve not done it yet. But I am taking ur advice and wills deffo change my profile x"
I think the picture you've made is great, others will too and if you like it, keep it.
There's room for information too is all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Any advice on what you should put on there?
3 words… you be you
Don’t ask others for what should go in a profile… you are your own best seller! Who knows you better than you!!!
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Mate I love that. It’s best way man.
And I’m deffo taking advice from you after seeing all ur meets - haha jokes don’t want it to sound condescending but I’m deffo jealous lol |
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"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx
So tell me.... what is the idea of the website?
What experience are you wanting?
Honestly I’ve always had a kinky side to me which I’ve felt I’ve never really explored to it’s fullest potential, so mainly I’m looking to step into the scene I think and I understand myself more.
Other than that I’m looking to just make friends and have a good time
Hopefully that answer urs questions x
And how can the site help with kink exploration?
(Not being cunty... I'm leading you to your own answers)
Haha Naa I got what you were doing and I appreciate x
Ermmm probably hoping it’ll give me access to new people who are involved init and new experiences that I would not come across in my normal day to day life"
Understood.
So... access to new people who do kink. Makes sense. How do you intend in accessing those people? How will you find them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx
So tell me.... what is the idea of the website?
What experience are you wanting?
Honestly I’ve always had a kinky side to me which I’ve felt I’ve never really explored to it’s fullest potential, so mainly I’m looking to step into the scene I think and I understand myself more.
Other than that I’m looking to just make friends and have a good time
Hopefully that answer urs questions x
And how can the site help with kink exploration?
(Not being cunty... I'm leading you to your own answers)
Haha Naa I got what you were doing and I appreciate x
Ermmm probably hoping it’ll give me access to new people who are involved init and new experiences that I would not come across in my normal day to day life
Understood.
So... access to new people who do kink. Makes sense. How do you intend in accessing those people? How will you find them?"
I was thinking through this site to be honest
But I got a feeling that’s probably not the correct answer lol |
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"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx
So tell me.... what is the idea of the website?
What experience are you wanting?
Honestly I’ve always had a kinky side to me which I’ve felt I’ve never really explored to it’s fullest potential, so mainly I’m looking to step into the scene I think and I understand myself more.
Other than that I’m looking to just make friends and have a good time
Hopefully that answer urs questions x
And how can the site help with kink exploration?
(Not being cunty... I'm leading you to your own answers)
Haha Naa I got what you were doing and I appreciate x
Ermmm probably hoping it’ll give me access to new people who are involved init and new experiences that I would not come across in my normal day to day life
Understood.
So... access to new people who do kink. Makes sense. How do you intend in accessing those people? How will you find them?
I was thinking through this site to be honest
But I got a feeling that’s probably not the correct answer lol"
It certainly could be the correct answer but HOW?
How will they find you? How will they know by looking at your profile that's why you're here and potentially a prospective match for a meet?
Which parts of the site have you looked through?
Where else do you think could be a good place to access new people in person? |
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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Kink is generally connection based so you'll have to build networks in person. Look for local munches and events.
And the reality is that even a great profile won't see you inundated with messages, women and couples can largely take a pretty passive role here and not have to send the first messages. A good profile will however improve your reply rate when you do send messages. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx
So tell me.... what is the idea of the website?
What experience are you wanting?
Honestly I’ve always had a kinky side to me which I’ve felt I’ve never really explored to it’s fullest potential, so mainly I’m looking to step into the scene I think and I understand myself more.
Other than that I’m looking to just make friends and have a good time
Hopefully that answer urs questions x
And how can the site help with kink exploration?
(Not being cunty... I'm leading you to your own answers)
Haha Naa I got what you were doing and I appreciate x
Ermmm probably hoping it’ll give me access to new people who are involved init and new experiences that I would not come across in my normal day to day life
Understood.
So... access to new people who do kink. Makes sense. How do you intend in accessing those people? How will you find them?
I was thinking through this site to be honest
But I got a feeling that’s probably not the correct answer lol
It certainly could be the correct answer but HOW?
How will they find you? How will they know by looking at your profile that's why you're here and potentially a prospective match for a meet?
Which parts of the site have you looked through?
Where else do you think could be a good place to access new people in person?"
Answer 1) change my profile so it says more about myself. Done!
Answer 2) I’ve looked abit of every where. But have now fully started to explore the forums page abit more. And they deffo seem good. A lot of funny people on here . Previously I just messaged people randomly with no look tbh
Answer 3) I’m not quite sure as to where else.have you got any ideas? |
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"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx
So tell me.... what is the idea of the website?
What experience are you wanting?
Honestly I’ve always had a kinky side to me which I’ve felt I’ve never really explored to it’s fullest potential, so mainly I’m looking to step into the scene I think and I understand myself more.
Other than that I’m looking to just make friends and have a good time
Hopefully that answer urs questions x
And how can the site help with kink exploration?
(Not being cunty... I'm leading you to your own answers)
Haha Naa I got what you were doing and I appreciate x
Ermmm probably hoping it’ll give me access to new people who are involved init and new experiences that I would not come across in my normal day to day life
Understood.
So... access to new people who do kink. Makes sense. How do you intend in accessing those people? How will you find them?
I was thinking through this site to be honest
But I got a feeling that’s probably not the correct answer lol
It certainly could be the correct answer but HOW?
How will they find you? How will they know by looking at your profile that's why you're here and potentially a prospective match for a meet?
Which parts of the site have you looked through?
Where else do you think could be a good place to access new people in person?
Answer 1) change my profile so it says more about myself. Done!
Answer 2) I’ve looked abit of every where. But have now fully started to explore the forums page abit more. And they deffo seem good. A lot of funny people on here . Previously I just messaged people randomly with no look tbh
Answer 3) I’m not quite sure as to where else.have you got any ideas?"
Soooooo, there are many many clubs and events up and down the country. Clubs do different nights with different themes. There are other events (or in kink terms, munches) where you can go and learn, try new things/equipment etc. Aaaand, meet new people into some of the things you're into.
Now, if you make a decent impression with those peeps and they do you, you can either exchange numbers OR..... profile names. So you can use the site to keep in touch that way.
If you take a look at the swinging clubs and events section of the site, you may find something that interests you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx
So tell me.... what is the idea of the website?
What experience are you wanting?
Honestly I’ve always had a kinky side to me which I’ve felt I’ve never really explored to it’s fullest potential, so mainly I’m looking to step into the scene I think and I understand myself more.
Other than that I’m looking to just make friends and have a good time
Hopefully that answer urs questions x
And how can the site help with kink exploration?
(Not being cunty... I'm leading you to your own answers)
Haha Naa I got what you were doing and I appreciate x
Ermmm probably hoping it’ll give me access to new people who are involved init and new experiences that I would not come across in my normal day to day life
Understood.
So... access to new people who do kink. Makes sense. How do you intend in accessing those people? How will you find them?
I was thinking through this site to be honest
But I got a feeling that’s probably not the correct answer lol
It certainly could be the correct answer but HOW?
How will they find you? How will they know by looking at your profile that's why you're here and potentially a prospective match for a meet?
Which parts of the site have you looked through?
Where else do you think could be a good place to access new people in person?
Answer 1) change my profile so it says more about myself. Done!
Answer 2) I’ve looked abit of every where. But have now fully started to explore the forums page abit more. And they deffo seem good. A lot of funny people on here . Previously I just messaged people randomly with no look tbh
Answer 3) I’m not quite sure as to where else.have you got any ideas?
Soooooo, there are many many clubs and events up and down the country. Clubs do different nights with different themes. There are other events (or in kink terms, munches) where you can go and learn, try new things/equipment etc. Aaaand, meet new people into some of the things you're into.
Now, if you make a decent impression with those peeps and they do you, you can either exchange numbers OR..... profile names. So you can use the site to keep in touch that way.
If you take a look at the swinging clubs and events section of the site, you may find something that interests you. "
Okay “sooooo” clubs Yh I’ve never been before the way you stretch your words make me laugh I can almost here you saying it lol
But that does sound exciting, and it is something that I am interested in. I would have to check it out.
What clubs have you been too, and is there anything I would need to know before going? |
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"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx
So tell me.... what is the idea of the website?
What experience are you wanting?
Honestly I’ve always had a kinky side to me which I’ve felt I’ve never really explored to it’s fullest potential, so mainly I’m looking to step into the scene I think and I understand myself more.
Other than that I’m looking to just make friends and have a good time
Hopefully that answer urs questions x
And how can the site help with kink exploration?
(Not being cunty... I'm leading you to your own answers)
Haha Naa I got what you were doing and I appreciate x
Ermmm probably hoping it’ll give me access to new people who are involved init and new experiences that I would not come across in my normal day to day life
Understood.
So... access to new people who do kink. Makes sense. How do you intend in accessing those people? How will you find them?
I was thinking through this site to be honest
But I got a feeling that’s probably not the correct answer lol
It certainly could be the correct answer but HOW?
How will they find you? How will they know by looking at your profile that's why you're here and potentially a prospective match for a meet?
Which parts of the site have you looked through?
Where else do you think could be a good place to access new people in person?
Answer 1) change my profile so it says more about myself. Done!
Answer 2) I’ve looked abit of every where. But have now fully started to explore the forums page abit more. And they deffo seem good. A lot of funny people on here . Previously I just messaged people randomly with no look tbh
Answer 3) I’m not quite sure as to where else.have you got any ideas?
Soooooo, there are many many clubs and events up and down the country. Clubs do different nights with different themes. There are other events (or in kink terms, munches) where you can go and learn, try new things/equipment etc. Aaaand, meet new people into some of the things you're into.
Now, if you make a decent impression with those peeps and they do you, you can either exchange numbers OR..... profile names. So you can use the site to keep in touch that way.
If you take a look at the swinging clubs and events section of the site, you may find something that interests you.
Okay “sooooo” clubs Yh I’ve never been before the way you stretch your words make me laugh I can almost here you saying it lol
But that does sound exciting, and it is something that I am interested in. I would have to check it out.
What clubs have you been too, and is there anything I would need to know before going?"
Have a Google. They have websites and a few have virtual tours.
You'll find all the info you need, but as for advice... just be yourself. You'll either click with people or you won't and that's that. |
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"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx
So tell me.... what is the idea of the website?
What experience are you wanting?
Honestly I’ve always had a kinky side to me which I’ve felt I’ve never really explored to it’s fullest potential, so mainly I’m looking to step into the scene I think and I understand myself more.
Other than that I’m looking to just make friends and have a good time
Hopefully that answer urs questions x
And how can the site help with kink exploration?
(Not being cunty... I'm leading you to your own answers)
Haha Naa I got what you were doing and I appreciate x
Ermmm probably hoping it’ll give me access to new people who are involved init and new experiences that I would not come across in my normal day to day life
Understood.
So... access to new people who do kink. Makes sense. How do you intend in accessing those people? How will you find them?
I was thinking through this site to be honest
But I got a feeling that’s probably not the correct answer lol
It certainly could be the correct answer but HOW?
How will they find you? How will they know by looking at your profile that's why you're here and potentially a prospective match for a meet?
Which parts of the site have you looked through?
Where else do you think could be a good place to access new people in person?
Answer 1) change my profile so it says more about myself. Done!
Answer 2) I’ve looked abit of every where. But have now fully started to explore the forums page abit more. And they deffo seem good. A lot of funny people on here . Previously I just messaged people randomly with no look tbh
Answer 3) I’m not quite sure as to where else.have you got any ideas?
Soooooo, there are many many clubs and events up and down the country. Clubs do different nights with different themes. There are other events (or in kink terms, munches) where you can go and learn, try new things/equipment etc. Aaaand, meet new people into some of the things you're into.
Now, if you make a decent impression with those peeps and they do you, you can either exchange numbers OR..... profile names. So you can use the site to keep in touch that way.
If you take a look at the swinging clubs and events section of the site, you may find something that interests you.
Okay “sooooo” clubs Yh I’ve never been before the way you stretch your words make me laugh I can almost here you saying it lol
But that does sound exciting, and it is something that I am interested in. I would have to check it out.
What clubs have you been too, and is there anything I would need to know before going?
Have a Google. They have websites and a few have virtual tours.
You'll find all the info you need, but as for advice... just be yourself. You'll either click with people or you won't and that's that. "
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"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx
So tell me.... what is the idea of the website?
What experience are you wanting?
Honestly I’ve always had a kinky side to me which I’ve felt I’ve never really explored to it’s fullest potential, so mainly I’m looking to step into the scene I think and I understand myself more.
Other than that I’m looking to just make friends and have a good time
Hopefully that answer urs questions x
And how can the site help with kink exploration?
(Not being cunty... I'm leading you to your own answers)
Haha Naa I got what you were doing and I appreciate x
Ermmm probably hoping it’ll give me access to new people who are involved init and new experiences that I would not come across in my normal day to day life
Understood.
So... access to new people who do kink. Makes sense. How do you intend in accessing those people? How will you find them?
I was thinking through this site to be honest
But I got a feeling that’s probably not the correct answer lol
It certainly could be the correct answer but HOW?
How will they find you? How will they know by looking at your profile that's why you're here and potentially a prospective match for a meet?
Which parts of the site have you looked through?
Where else do you think could be a good place to access new people in person?
Answer 1) change my profile so it says more about myself. Done!
Answer 2) I’ve looked abit of every where. But have now fully started to explore the forums page abit more. And they deffo seem good. A lot of funny people on here . Previously I just messaged people randomly with no look tbh
Answer 3) I’m not quite sure as to where else.have you got any ideas?
Soooooo, there are many many clubs and events up and down the country. Clubs do different nights with different themes. There are other events (or in kink terms, munches) where you can go and learn, try new things/equipment etc. Aaaand, meet new people into some of the things you're into.
Now, if you make a decent impression with those peeps and they do you, you can either exchange numbers OR..... profile names. So you can use the site to keep in touch that way.
If you take a look at the swinging clubs and events section of the site, you may find something that interests you.
Okay “sooooo” clubs Yh I’ve never been before the way you stretch your words make me laugh I can almost here you saying it lol
But that does sound exciting, and it is something that I am interested in. I would have to check it out.
What clubs have you been too, and is there anything I would need to know before going?
Have a Google. They have websites and a few have virtual tours.
You'll find all the info you need, but as for advice... just be yourself. You'll either click with people or you won't and that's that.
Unless yourself is a stalkery creepoid. Don't be him."
Errr I can imagine there’ll be plenty of people like that. Perverts put me off so I’m deffo not one of them, I’m just gna go and have some fun. And yeah I’ll Google it. I’ve heard of a few in Leeds so might pop down and hopefully I enjoy myself x
Thanks for all the advise I really appreciate it
I think that’s all I need
And before I go let me just say you look really cute and i can tell ur funny and kind so again thanks x |
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"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx
So tell me.... what is the idea of the website?
What experience are you wanting?
Honestly I’ve always had a kinky side to me which I’ve felt I’ve never really explored to it’s fullest potential, so mainly I’m looking to step into the scene I think and I understand myself more.
Other than that I’m looking to just make friends and have a good time
Hopefully that answer urs questions x
And how can the site help with kink exploration?
(Not being cunty... I'm leading you to your own answers)
Haha Naa I got what you were doing and I appreciate x
Ermmm probably hoping it’ll give me access to new people who are involved init and new experiences that I would not come across in my normal day to day life
Understood.
So... access to new people who do kink. Makes sense. How do you intend in accessing those people? How will you find them?
I was thinking through this site to be honest
But I got a feeling that’s probably not the correct answer lol
It certainly could be the correct answer but HOW?
How will they find you? How will they know by looking at your profile that's why you're here and potentially a prospective match for a meet?
Which parts of the site have you looked through?
Where else do you think could be a good place to access new people in person?
Answer 1) change my profile so it says more about myself. Done!
Answer 2) I’ve looked abit of every where. But have now fully started to explore the forums page abit more. And they deffo seem good. A lot of funny people on here . Previously I just messaged people randomly with no look tbh
Answer 3) I’m not quite sure as to where else.have you got any ideas?
Soooooo, there are many many clubs and events up and down the country. Clubs do different nights with different themes. There are other events (or in kink terms, munches) where you can go and learn, try new things/equipment etc. Aaaand, meet new people into some of the things you're into.
Now, if you make a decent impression with those peeps and they do you, you can either exchange numbers OR..... profile names. So you can use the site to keep in touch that way.
If you take a look at the swinging clubs and events section of the site, you may find something that interests you.
Okay “sooooo” clubs Yh I’ve never been before the way you stretch your words make me laugh I can almost here you saying it lol
But that does sound exciting, and it is something that I am interested in. I would have to check it out.
What clubs have you been too, and is there anything I would need to know before going?
Have a Google. They have websites and a few have virtual tours.
You'll find all the info you need, but as for advice... just be yourself. You'll either click with people or you won't and that's that.
Unless yourself is a stalkery creepoid. Don't be him.
Errr I can imagine there’ll be plenty of people like that. Perverts put me off so I’m deffo not one of them, I’m just gna go and have some fun. And yeah I’ll Google it. I’ve heard of a few in Leeds so might pop down and hopefully I enjoy myself x
Thanks for all the advise I really appreciate it
I think that’s all I need
And before I go let me just say you look really cute and i can tell ur funny and kind so again thanks x"
Don't tell everyone I have a kind side.... most of them thunk I'm a cunt |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get around 30 views a day but no messages
Just wanting some advice on where I’m going wrong on my profile tbh.
Don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I love the idea of this website, I just wanna get the experience from it too.
I’m on open minded east going lad so don’t hold back, tell me what I need to hear xx
So tell me.... what is the idea of the website?
What experience are you wanting?
Honestly I’ve always had a kinky side to me which I’ve felt I’ve never really explored to it’s fullest potential, so mainly I’m looking to step into the scene I think and I understand myself more.
Other than that I’m looking to just make friends and have a good time
Hopefully that answer urs questions x
And how can the site help with kink exploration?
(Not being cunty... I'm leading you to your own answers)
Haha Naa I got what you were doing and I appreciate x
Ermmm probably hoping it’ll give me access to new people who are involved init and new experiences that I would not come across in my normal day to day life
Understood.
So... access to new people who do kink. Makes sense. How do you intend in accessing those people? How will you find them?
I was thinking through this site to be honest
But I got a feeling that’s probably not the correct answer lol
It certainly could be the correct answer but HOW?
How will they find you? How will they know by looking at your profile that's why you're here and potentially a prospective match for a meet?
Which parts of the site have you looked through?
Where else do you think could be a good place to access new people in person?
Answer 1) change my profile so it says more about myself. Done!
Answer 2) I’ve looked abit of every where. But have now fully started to explore the forums page abit more. And they deffo seem good. A lot of funny people on here . Previously I just messaged people randomly with no look tbh
Answer 3) I’m not quite sure as to where else.have you got any ideas?
Soooooo, there are many many clubs and events up and down the country. Clubs do different nights with different themes. There are other events (or in kink terms, munches) where you can go and learn, try new things/equipment etc. Aaaand, meet new people into some of the things you're into.
Now, if you make a decent impression with those peeps and they do you, you can either exchange numbers OR..... profile names. So you can use the site to keep in touch that way.
If you take a look at the swinging clubs and events section of the site, you may find something that interests you.
Okay “sooooo” clubs Yh I’ve never been before the way you stretch your words make me laugh I can almost here you saying it lol
But that does sound exciting, and it is something that I am interested in. I would have to check it out.
What clubs have you been too, and is there anything I would need to know before going?
Have a Google. They have websites and a few have virtual tours.
You'll find all the info you need, but as for advice... just be yourself. You'll either click with people or you won't and that's that.
Unless yourself is a stalkery creepoid. Don't be him.
Errr I can imagine there’ll be plenty of people like that. Perverts put me off so I’m deffo not one of them, I’m just gna go and have some fun. And yeah I’ll Google it. I’ve heard of a few in Leeds so might pop down and hopefully I enjoy myself x
Thanks for all the advise I really appreciate it
I think that’s all I need
And before I go let me just say you look really cute and i can tell ur funny and kind so again thanks x
Don't tell everyone I have a kind side.... most of them thunk I'm a cunt "
Haha don’t worry it’ll be our little secret
And don’t you think that’s a compliment I’ve had plenty of people call me a cunt, and I’ve always thanked them afterwards |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
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It’s already been mentioned. Ditch the last “legal notice” paragraph.
It’s useless.
The site actually asks you not to use them.
It’s stems from a years old hoax.
Some people will see your use of it as very gullible and not bother with you.
Think it through. If you found somebody had copied your pictures and used them for their own purposes, HOW would you take legal action?
How do you track them down to serve the summons?
Do you serve it or employ someone else?
How much are you prepared to pay for a solicitor/Barrister to act for you in court?
Would you go to the police and ask them to start a criminal enquiry?
If you get to court, are you prepared to stand up in court and prove your cock pics from a swinger’s site are indeed yours?
What if they are in Kazakhstan? What then?
Get my drift?
And I’d ditch the vibrator pic. It does nothing.
Best of luck,
Gbat |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s already been mentioned. Ditch the last “legal notice” paragraph.
It’s useless.
The site actually asks you not to use them.
It’s stems from a years old hoax.
Some people will see your use of it as very gullible and not bother with you.
Think it through. If you found somebody had copied your pictures and used them for their own purposes, HOW would you take legal action?
How do you track them down to serve the summons?
Do you serve it or employ someone else?
How much are you prepared to pay for a solicitor/Barrister to act for you in court?
Would you go to the police and ask them to start a criminal enquiry?
If you get to court, are you prepared to stand up in court and prove your cock pics from a swinger’s site are indeed yours?
What if they are in Kazakhstan? What then?
Get my drift?
And I’d ditch the vibrator pic. It does nothing.
Best of luck,
Gbat "
Have you ever watched “taken”
If you get my drift
yeah I’ll delete it tho thanks for the advise mate |
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Your username and text speak in your bio is going to put you on the back foot before someone even reads your profile.
Your profile is a shop…if people are put off before they’ve even set foot in the door then you are losing footfall.
On FAB you’ve got to look for ways to increase the traffic into your profile so I’d change them two things straight off.
Your face pic could be a lot more appealing  …not sure if you’re trying to get the mean and moody look down but it just looks like you’re snarling and not a smiley type…if that pic was first impressions, would you be happy with that?
More body shots - a variety of pics would help sell you…
Good luck  |
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