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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is a thread to say goodbye to the people or experiences that made you miserable this year. Leave them behind and start anew!
I'd like to nominate the guy who ghosted me in June. We dated for months and chatted daily until he disappeared. He doesn't deserve my energy. In the bin! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Negative family members. They've been in the bin for a few years but I'm taking them out to sea now and saying farewell for good. "
Life is too bloody short isn't it? Negativity saps you. Au revoir! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would like to say goodbye to all the people that have selfishly sap my energy on a constant basis but reminded me that I needed to reaffirm my boundaries and make them hard ones
Always a positive in a negative |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Negativity and anything or anyone that prevented me from being me can go in the bin!  "
That's a fantastic attitude to start a new year with. And you seem awesome! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love this dear..
I have already binned those but.. goodbye narcissistic liars who used my kindness. You taught me to have more self respect and not to stick around people who don't know my worth. you'll never learn your lessons but I'll always make sure you pay the price.
Goodbye to giving up on myself. I don't do that anymore. I am a fighter  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Worrying so much what others think and self doubt. No one is liked by all, it would be a miserable existence and not an authentic one if you try to please others constantly. I want to have fun, enjoy my relative youth so I can look back on it and think I lived. I'm a work in progress but that doesn't mean my life should stop. And my slight (very slight) intellectual snobbery. It doesn't serve me, doesn't serve others. It's not a positive way to be.
Off they fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would like to say goodbye to all the people that have selfishly sap my energy on a constant basis but reminded me that I needed to reaffirm my boundaries and make them hard ones
Always a positive in a negative"
I've found that too this year and boundaries are definitely the answer! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like to bin an experience I had earlier in the year when I tried to receive for the first time. And I don't mean receive in a Rugby sense. I mean a cock in me for the first time. I'm not ashamed to say I cried as it hurt so much. And I'll not be trying again. Thanks for listening. Very emotional  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People who push their luck after you’ve told them no can go in the bin. Arseholes in general can go in the bin"
This site is full of them isn't it? In the bin, cockwombles!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Family members for the both of us, you can't choose your family wish we could though, I want to stick them in the bin please. X"
Then in the bin they shall go. I hope 2022 is better without them in your life. |
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"Family members for the both of us, you can't choose your family wish we could though, I want to stick them in the bin please. X
Then in the bin they shall go. I hope 2022 is better without them in your life. "
Thank you .xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Love this dear..
I have already binned those but.. goodbye narcissistic liars who used my kindness. You taught me to have more self respect and not to stick around people who don't know my worth. you'll never learn your lessons but I'll always make sure you pay the price.
Goodbye to giving up on myself. I don't do that anymore. I am a fighter "
Thank you Rose 
Your comment made me a little teary - so close to my own experiences. And being resilient is one of the best things to be!
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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A couple of months ago I’d have said me, put me in the bin. Today I am feeling a little more positive and I’m focusing on better and brighter things. I’d still like to put 2021 in the bin though and 2020 can join it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Worrying so much what others think and self doubt. No one is liked by all, it would be a miserable existence and not an authentic one if you try to please others constantly. I want to have fun, enjoy my relative youth so I can look back on it and think I lived. I'm a work in progress but that doesn't mean my life should stop. And my slight (very slight) intellectual snobbery. It doesn't serve me, doesn't serve others. It's not a positive way to be.
Off they fuck. "
Off they fuck indeed, Meli! It's such a waste to spend our lives worrying about what others think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love this dear..
I have already binned those but.. goodbye narcissistic liars who used my kindness. You taught me to have more self respect and not to stick around people who don't know my worth. you'll never learn your lessons but I'll always make sure you pay the price.
Goodbye to giving up on myself. I don't do that anymore. I am a fighter
Thank you Rose
Your comment made me a little teary - so close to my own experiences. And being resilient is one of the best things to be!
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The way you make yourself rise up from the set back is how you become more and more resilient. Even if it seems like crawling up the steep wall.. no looking back no letting go of the grip. And I know you and I are both capable of that. X
One of the best reflective threads I came across in a while. Take that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd like to bin an experience I had earlier in the year when I tried to receive for the first time. And I don't mean receive in a Rugby sense. I mean a cock in me for the first time. I'm not ashamed to say I cried as it hurt so much. And I'll not be trying again. Thanks for listening. Very emotional "
 I'm sorry it was such a bad experience for you - it never should be painful. In the bin for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My torn tendon and ripped bicep can go in the bin but unfortunately its not that easy as it keep recycling its fucking self and won't go away "
Double ouch! I wish you luck in getting them in the bin for good. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A couple of months ago I’d have said me, put me in the bin. Today I am feeling a little more positive and I’m focusing on better and brighter things. I’d still like to put 2021 in the bin though and 2020 can join it. "
I think a lot of people would agree with you. I've certainly found this year pretty hard going. I'm glad things are looking up for you and hello from a fellow Hullensian |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Love this dear..
I have already binned those but.. goodbye narcissistic liars who used my kindness. You taught me to have more self respect and not to stick around people who don't know my worth. you'll never learn your lessons but I'll always make sure you pay the price.
Goodbye to giving up on myself. I don't do that anymore. I am a fighter
Thank you Rose
Your comment made me a little teary - so close to my own experiences. And being resilient is one of the best things to be!
The way you make yourself rise up from the set back is how you become more and more resilient. Even if it seems like crawling up the steep wall.. no looking back no letting go of the grip. And I know you and I are both capable of that. X
One of the best reflective threads I came across in a while. Take that "
Aw thank you, lovely. It's hard to get up again sometimes. But we keep on doing it.  |
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I would like to put in the bin guys who feel your ‘no-go’ areas are challenges - no means no it’s not a challenge!
Also when they don't deliver what they say they will, talk the talk but don’t walk the walk. I can do without those so in the bin they go |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would like to put in the bin guys who feel your ‘no-go’ areas are challenges - no means no it’s not a challenge!
Also when they don't deliver what they say they will, talk the talk but don’t walk the walk. I can do without those so in the bin they go "
Sounds like they thoroughly deserve to be in the bin! |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Negative family members. They've been in the bin for a few years but I'm taking them out to sea now and saying farewell for good. "
Oh I wish I was as brave as you ! I think I’m destined to have to put up with them out of duty, can’t see them ever changing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can’t really think of anything I’d like to chuck in the bin, not anything that’s under my control anyway. They tend to be the only things I stress over these days. |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
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The narcissistic ex who still thinks he has a hold over me, people who you think are your friends but would stab you in the back in an instance but most importantly my youngest’s worries and anxieties that have been a barrier for him this past year
Time to Chuck them in the fuck it bucket! |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Negativity of any kind. The only medicine to success is positivity and putting what you want out in the atmosphere and then it will happen!"
I’m liking the energy! Sound ready to do a Ted talk in 2022 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like this idea
Comparing myself to others, caring what people think, worrying that people don't like me and making myself feel less than!
More positive thoughts for 2022, wishing you all the best year ahead! |
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We can honestly say that there are no negative people we need to leave behind. We are surrounded with great family and a number of very special friends.
The only thing we wish we could leave in 2021 is covid. New year, new start without it impacting our lives would be perfect. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What would others like to put in the bin and leave in 2021?
Lockdown memories. "
No positive memories in there? I got a great deal closer to my kids in lockdowns, look back on them with some fondness. But I imagine most people don't! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can’t really think of anything I’d like to chuck in the bin, not anything that’s under my control anyway. They tend to be the only things I stress over these days. "
Good point. But we can choose how to react to things we have no control over? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I like this idea
Comparing myself to others, caring what people think, worrying that people don't like me and making myself feel less than!
More positive thoughts for 2022, wishing you all the best year ahead! "
I really love this. I hope that 2022 helps you realise you're more than. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The narcissistic ex who still thinks he has a hold over me, people who you think are your friends but would stab you in the back in an instance but most importantly my youngest’s worries and anxieties that have been a barrier for him this past year
Time to Chuck them in the fuck it bucket! "
My eldest was hit hard and is only just clawing his way back - you want to just solve it for them don't you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Negativity of any kind. The only medicine to success is positivity and putting what you want out in the atmosphere and then it will happen!
I’m liking the energy! Sound ready to do a Ted talk in 2022 "
This is actually turning out to be a thread filled with positive energy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A bit deep but memories from my past, I've been down a lot the past few years but I've promised my self I will go back to my old self, funny confident and positive |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like this idea
Comparing myself to others, caring what people think, worrying that people don't like me and making myself feel less than!
More positive thoughts for 2022, wishing you all the best year ahead! "
Comparisonitis can definitely go in the bin! It helps no-one. Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love this.
Female health issues in the bin.
Negative people in the bin.
Narcissists in the bin.
This doesn’t leave me with much now  "
Leaves Shiny Happy MissYeuxBleus |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We can honestly say that there are no negative people we need to leave behind. We are surrounded with great family and a number of very special friends.
The only thing we wish we could leave in 2021 is covid. New year, new start without it impacting our lives would be perfect."
Glad to hear you've had such a positive 2021 (Covid has been told to get in the bin ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Negativity of any kind. The only medicine to success is positivity and putting what you want out in the atmosphere and then it will happen!
I’m liking the energy! Sound ready to do a Ted talk in 2022 "
Going to start going to swinging clubs to do a talk before all the fun begins  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A bit deep but memories from my past, I've been down a lot the past few years but I've promised my self I will go back to my old self, funny confident and positive "
I hope you're able to return to your old self in the New Year |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Negativity of any kind. The only medicine to success is positivity and putting what you want out in the atmosphere and then it will happen!
I’m liking the energy! Sound ready to do a Ted talk in 2022
Going to start going to swinging clubs to do a talk before all the fun begins "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Id like to put Michael Masi in the bin for bringing the F1 sport into disrepute and gifting the Championship to the cocky Dutch driver.
So Michael Masi gets my vote. More so than Boris Johnson "
I've no idea who this is but let's put him AND Boris in the bin |
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"Id like to put Michael Masi in the bin for bringing the F1 sport into disrepute and gifting the Championship to the cocky Dutch driver.
So Michael Masi gets my vote. More so than Boris Johnson
I've no idea who this is but let's put him AND Boris in the bin "
Masi is the race director (referee) that manipulated the race result of the final lap of the F1 season.. He basically made up some rules never used or seen in the history of the sport, which cost Lewis Hamilton the Championship.
Thanks for putting him in
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Id like to put Michael Masi in the bin for bringing the F1 sport into disrepute and gifting the Championship to the cocky Dutch driver.
So Michael Masi gets my vote. More so than Boris Johnson
I've no idea who this is but let's put him AND Boris in the bin
Masi is the race director (referee) that manipulated the race result of the final lap of the F1 season.. He basically made up some rules never used or seen in the history of the sport, which cost Lewis Hamilton the Championship.
Thanks for putting him in
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If it makes you feel better, in he goes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would say my whole life but that's going too far so let's try and bin those feelings "
I think binning negativity about yourself is a great idea. Sometimes I feel like my whole life belongs in the bin too if it helps to know someone else feels the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Our family lodger, 2 months stay in June and he's still here, not gonna kick him out immediately, but a deadline is going to be imposed."
 definitely in the bin! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The England men’s test cricket team.
Oh for sure
(Smug Aussie here)"
You can enjoy the victories, they’re well deserved. I can say with impartiality that I’ve enjoyed watching the Aussies play. The bowling unit has been phenomenal. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Other peoples presumptions and expectations…get in the fucking bin "
Ooh there is a lot of that on Fab! People can presume and expect all they like but it doesn't mean they get it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The England men’s test cricket team.
Oh for sure
(Smug Aussie here)
You can enjoy the victories, they’re well deserved. I can say with impartiality that I’ve enjoyed watching the Aussies play. The bowling unit has been phenomenal."
Oh I feel crap now as I haven't watched any cricket. But Go Aussies!  |
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"Our family lodger, 2 months stay in June and he's still here, not gonna kick him out immediately, but a deadline is going to be imposed.
definitely in the bin!"
He had some mental issues to start with but has since formed a relationship and hopefully this Christmas has woken him to starting afresh. If not a deadline will be imposed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The England men’s test cricket team.
Oh for sure
(Smug Aussie here)
You can enjoy the victories, they’re well deserved. I can say with impartiality that I’ve enjoyed watching the Aussies play. The bowling unit has been phenomenal.
Oh I feel crap now as I haven't watched any cricket. But Go Aussies! "
Blame BT sport and the ECB. sellouts.
In fact, they can get in the bin too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a thread to say goodbye to the people or experiences that made you miserable this year. Leave them behind and start anew!
I'd like to nominate the guy who ghosted me in June. We dated for months and chatted daily until he disappeared. He doesn't deserve my energy. In the bin! "
His name wasn’t Pierre was it??
I had one of them too... he actually moved in with me then just whooosh vanished!!! |
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"This is a thread to say goodbye to the people or experiences that made you miserable this year. Leave them behind and start anew!
I'd like to nominate the guy who ghosted me in June. We dated for months and chatted daily until he disappeared. He doesn't deserve my energy. In the bin! "
OUT!
Wishing you fun, frolicks and all you deserve in 2022. Energy I'd finite, don't waste it on the wasters xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Our family lodger, 2 months stay in June and he's still here, not gonna kick him out immediately, but a deadline is going to be imposed.
definitely in the bin!
He had some mental issues to start with but has since formed a relationship and hopefully this Christmas has woken him to starting afresh. If not a deadline will be imposed."
I wish you luck with it all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The England men’s test cricket team.
Oh for sure
(Smug Aussie here)
You can enjoy the victories, they’re well deserved. I can say with impartiality that I’ve enjoyed watching the Aussies play. The bowling unit has been phenomenal.
Oh I feel crap now as I haven't watched any cricket. But Go Aussies!
Blame BT sport and the ECB. sellouts.
In fact, they can get in the bin too. "
 Ok Mr Soze! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is a thread to say goodbye to the people or experiences that made you miserable this year. Leave them behind and start anew!
I'd like to nominate the guy who ghosted me in June. We dated for months and chatted daily until he disappeared. He doesn't deserve my energy. In the bin!
His name wasn’t Pierre was it??
I had one of them too... he actually moved in with me then just whooosh vanished!!! "
No, he wasn't a Pierre but what kind of arsebiscuit behaves like that??!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My cancer struggle can go in the flipping bin. I'm determined to at least be back in the gym etc next year and trying to move on from the sadness of also just losing my beautiful mum. We all need a better year |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is a thread to say goodbye to the people or experiences that made you miserable this year. Leave them behind and start anew!
I'd like to nominate the guy who ghosted me in June. We dated for months and chatted daily until he disappeared. He doesn't deserve my energy. In the bin!
OUT!
Wishing you fun, frolicks and all you deserve in 2022. Energy I'd finite, don't waste it on the wasters xx"
Thank you, lovely! I know that you will be up to even more fun and frolics next year  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My cancer struggle can go in the flipping bin. I'm determined to at least be back in the gym etc next year and trying to move on from the sadness of also just losing my beautiful mum. We all need a better year "
Oh wow Dana, what a year you've had I'm very sorry to hear it and wish you all the best for remission and recovery. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ill health, both physical and mental can get to buggery next year.
Secondary schools and that whole system have been binned already by my kids so we are going freestyle from now on. Eek |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Negative people that tried dragging me down, ex husband & his new wife who hates me with a passion but is so obsessed with my life! Pneumonia that has spoilt my Xmas this year...Roll in 2022 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Until this afternoon I would have said nothing, as even the bad helps you learn, grow and strengthen.
Now a big arse drop kick to the ex who can’t follow basics of society, that’s being polite ! "
In the bin with him! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ill health, both physical and mental can get to buggery next year.
Secondary schools and that whole system have been binned already by my kids so we are going freestyle from now on. Eek "
Sorry to hear about illness. Home Ed works amazingly for so many people, schools can definitely be tough for so many kids. Best of luck with it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Negative people that tried dragging me down, ex husband & his new wife who hates me with a passion but is so obsessed with my life! Pneumonia that has spoilt my Xmas this year...Roll in 2022 "
Toxic people and illness - in the bin with you. I hope you recover to enjoy New Year - pneumonia can really take it out of you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Negative people that tried dragging me down, ex husband & his new wife who hates me with a passion but is so obsessed with my life! Pneumonia that has spoilt my Xmas this year...Roll in 2022
Toxic people and illness - in the bin with you. I hope you recover to enjoy New Year - pneumonia can really take it out of you! "
Awh thank you and hope you have a smashing New Year x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Negative people that tried dragging me down, ex husband & his new wife who hates me with a passion but is so obsessed with my life! Pneumonia that has spoilt my Xmas this year...Roll in 2022
Toxic people and illness - in the bin with you. I hope you recover to enjoy New Year - pneumonia can really take it out of you!
Awh thank you and hope you have a smashing New Year x "
Thank you, lovely |
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Throwing this last year in general in the bin, following 2020 too. Losing my brother to covid was a bad, bad start and I've struggled at times.
Professionally it's not been that bad, have been busy and have a challenging new job role to take on in the new year. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Those that have tried to manipulate and lie to me. I’ve no time for that shiz. In the bin. Not my kinda humans."
Nor mine. I don't take kindly to it. Only wish I could spot them from the off. Off you pop, manipulators and liars! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Throwing this last year in general in the bin, following 2020 too. Losing my brother to covid was a bad, bad start and I've struggled at times.
Professionally it's not been that bad, have been busy and have a challenging new job role to take on in the new year."
Ah I'm so sorry to hear of your loss And hard to navigate such a changed world when you're also navigating grief. All the best for 2022 and new challenges! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The man who has repeatedly broken my heart and left me wondering if I'll ever be good enough.
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You deserve better. He can get in the bloody bin and you can have a joyous 2022 with people who appreciate you! |
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"The man who has repeatedly broken my heart and left me wondering if I'll ever be good enough.
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Never mind the bin! He deserves to be set on fire and pushed off a cliff.
You are enough....
As for what I want to put in the bin, leftovers....Sodding leftovers, I cannot stop munching |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The Scottish (nothing against the rest of you) woman that future faked, ghosted me and tipped my mental health to a dangerous place!
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Had to look up future faking Really sorry to hear that and she's not worth any more of your energy. Into the bin with her and wishing you a positive New Year! |
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By *MCMan
over a year ago
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The girl who ghosted me after she attempted to plan about 34 more dates on the first day.. and then tried to make plans for the day after she ghosted me.. still baffled but we move. |
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I met a Dom for the first time in July, nice guy, then I was cat fished by someone who promised me more… stupidly I believed him, he spent one night with me, said he’d be back after work but ghosted me, didn’t even have the decency to explain! Took me a long time to stop feeling angry about it, about him, myself everything - he’s in the bottomless bin! |
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"Negative people that tried dragging me down, ex husband & his new wife who hates me with a passion but is so obsessed with my life! Pneumonia that has spoilt my Xmas this year...Roll in 2022 "
I feel for you with pneumonia, I’ve had bronchitis for 2.5 weeks and thankfully it’s clearing up now, on top of that I also have laryngitis, of which my voice is slowly returning but it’s still a struggle to speak. |
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"The girl who ghosted me after she attempted to plan about 34 more dates on the first day.. and then tried to make plans for the day after she ghosted me.. still baffled but we move."
I did a thread about ghosting recently - it helped me come to terms with it - they're not worth thinking about as they certainly didn't think about us. In the bin! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I met a Dom for the first time in July, nice guy, then I was cat fished by someone who promised me more… stupidly I believed him, he spent one night with me, said he’d be back after work but ghosted me, didn’t even have the decency to explain! Took me a long time to stop feeling angry about it, about him, myself everything - he’s in the bottomless bin! "
I can totally understand why you were so angry. It's so bewildering to have someone behave like that. Glad you've stopped feeling so angry - he's in the bin now! |
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By *MCMan
over a year ago
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"The girl who ghosted me after she attempted to plan about 34 more dates on the first day.. and then tried to make plans for the day after she ghosted me.. still baffled but we move.
I did a thread about ghosting recently - it helped me come to terms with it - they're not worth thinking about as they certainly didn't think about us. In the bin!"
I think I saw it, I just laugh about it and get on.. no point dwelling on it. |
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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago
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"The Scottish (nothing against the rest of you) woman that future faked, ghosted me and tipped my mental health to a dangerous place!
Had to look up future faking Really sorry to hear that and she's not worth any more of your energy. Into the bin with her and wishing you a positive New Year!"
Ghosting. The new word for liars. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My old job... I unexpectedly quit without thinking about it to set up my own business as the work environment was terrible... out with the old in with the new |
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By *MCMan
over a year ago
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"My old job... I unexpectedly quit without thinking about it to set up my own business as the work environment was terrible... out with the old in with the new "
Good luck with your new venture |
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"My old job... I unexpectedly quit without thinking about it to set up my own business as the work environment was terrible... out with the old in with the new
Good luck with your new venture"
Thank you... its currently going better than I could have imagined |
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By *oon999Man
over a year ago
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"The Scottish (nothing against the rest of you) woman that future faked, ghosted me and tipped my mental health to a dangerous place!
Had to look up future faking Really sorry to hear that and she's not worth any more of your energy. Into the bin with her and wishing you a positive New Year!
Ghosting. The new word for liars. "
Never knew what ghosting, future faking or even what a narcacist was until I met her! Tough lesson but onwards and upwards n
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"Throwing this last year in general in the bin, following 2020 too. Losing my brother to covid was a bad, bad start and I've struggled at times.
Professionally it's not been that bad, have been busy and have a challenging new job role to take on in the new year.
Ah I'm so sorry to hear of your loss And hard to navigate such a changed world when you're also navigating grief. All the best for 2022 and new challenges! "
Thank you very much x
I expected Christmas to be particularly painful and we all raised a glass to him.
Just a couple more days and the year can go in the bin. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The girl who ghosted me after she attempted to plan about 34 more dates on the first day.. and then tried to make plans for the day after she ghosted me.. still baffled but we move.
I did a thread about ghosting recently - it helped me come to terms with it - they're not worth thinking about as they certainly didn't think about us. In the bin!
I think I saw it, I just laugh about it and get on.. no point dwelling on it. "
I'm not sure everyone finds it as easy |
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"Bad work environments, people who do not understand no means no, and shit vibes. "
Can you leave the work environment? The others are hopefully easier to avoid. |
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"My old job... I unexpectedly quit without thinking about it to set up my own business as the work environment was terrible... out with the old in with the new
Good luck with your new venture
Thank you... its currently going better than I could have imagined "
That's fantastic! |
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"The Scottish (nothing against the rest of you) woman that future faked, ghosted me and tipped my mental health to a dangerous place!
Had to look up future faking Really sorry to hear that and she's not worth any more of your energy. Into the bin with her and wishing you a positive New Year!
Ghosting. The new word for liars.
Never knew what ghosting, future faking or even what a narcacist was until I met her! Tough lesson but onwards and upwards n
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It's a lesson we shouldn't have to have but it does help massively with boundaries. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People that say they are friends but don't treat you quite right, drop them in an empty bin bag and throw crap on top of them"
They are not friends if they don't treat you right. Into the bin! |
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"Throwing this last year in general in the bin, following 2020 too. Losing my brother to covid was a bad, bad start and I've struggled at times.
Professionally it's not been that bad, have been busy and have a challenging new job role to take on in the new year.
Ah I'm so sorry to hear of your loss And hard to navigate such a changed world when you're also navigating grief. All the best for 2022 and new challenges!
Thank you very much x
I expected Christmas to be particularly painful and we all raised a glass to him.
Just a couple more days and the year can go in the bin."
I am really looking forward to a fresh start in 22. I'd like to let some things go. |
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"Recurring headaches. Had them since I was a kid and never got to the bottom of it. Sick of 'em "
Oh nasty My father and sister both have them and take meds now. How can they find no reason after all this time? |
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