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By *affron40 OP   Woman  over a year ago

manchester

Do you randomly say hello and introduce yourself to folks on here?

Non sexual.. just a hey I’ve noticed you’re new on the forum or I like the way you post… just random messages to let someone know they’re visible? I’m sure we all feel invisible here sometimes.

I do this occasionally and most likely sound a bit nuts as I very much write as I think.. it makes perfect sense to me and me alone…

Anyways.. if you don’t.. why not give it a go. Just say hi… Christ now I’m singing bloody reaching out (sweet Caroline) in my head…

Anyone else feeling slightly sociable?!?

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yep. I do.

That's why we are friends. Cos we are both mental.

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth

I've sent people a message of support if I can relate to something they're going through or want to offer advice.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I talk to everyone even if they don't want me to.

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

And now everyone you have never said hello to will expect one!

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By *elloIntrigueMan  over a year ago

North West UK

Putting a random hello out there!

Hope we are all ok!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I will message people off the back of forum threads, and I've made some lovely friends from it.

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

Do you mean like Lionel Richtea?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve had a few messages like this - about my contributions in the forum and so on - and they have been very well received.

Would I send one off my own bat? I’m not sure. Perhaps if someone really made an impression on me.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman  over a year ago

manchester


"And now everyone you have never said hello to will expect one!"

.. only works if it’s completely unexpected and is so random they wonder why the hell you’ve chosen them…

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By *affron40 OP   Woman  over a year ago

manchester


"Do you mean like Lionel Richtea? "

I know it’s me you’re looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you mean like Lionel Richtea? "

Hello. Is it tea you’re looking for?

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By *r SproutMan  over a year ago

the middle

I have done yes. I like to let people know their input is appreciated even if it gets ignored as some threads move quickly

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By *inAndTonic21Couple  over a year ago

Merseyside

Yes sometimes if people seem welcoming it’s nice to chat and meet new people

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By *elloIntrigueMan  over a year ago

North West UK


"Do you mean like Lionel Richtea?

Hello. Is it tea you’re looking for? "

Only with sweetener and semi skimmed milk

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do,but rarely get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do yes, I think its lovely to receive such messages and therefore I like to send them and make someone smile

NBVN x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS  over a year ago

Cheshire

I’ve put up a few emotional comments on threads, especially over marriage break up or my health issues.

I’ve always been appreciated when both men and women have private messaged me over each issue I’ve shared. No sexual content just checking I’m alright, often I wasn’t, but their messages did help.

There’s more good than bad out in the World and on this site, hidden at times but available if needed.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh golly yes i do

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By *asilyled1Man  over a year ago

ogmore valley

I did. But as it comes from a single male,a lot of women probably think I’m saying it to try and get more out of it so it usually goes ignored. I don’t bother much now tbh saff

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham

Sounds like a nice thing to do. I tend to only do it when prodded by a thread or if I think they look sexy!

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By *angtidy42Couple  over a year ago

Redditch

We do the same, as it gives you an insite into what people are like.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We don’t but it’s always nice when someone does it to us. If the talk turns sexual we usually end the conversation but we like just having a little chat every now and again

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By *oeBeansMan  over a year ago

Derby

Nope! I've had it happen to me a few times but worry I would overstep a mark if I veer off the thread as a message may not always be welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do occasionally

Made some good friends that way

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By *wist my nipplesCouple  over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Yes, I have done. Not for a while though as haven't been around as much.

Mrs TMN x

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By *yder RavishMan  over a year ago

Ware Hertfordshire

Hello from me, new to posting on the forum but always feel sociable.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman  over a year ago

manchester


"Hello from me, new to posting on the forum but always feel sociable."

Welcome great smile!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I do yes, I think its lovely to receive such messages and therefore I like to send them and make someone smile

NBVN x"

I think we are alike in our thinking here!!x

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By *yder RavishMan  over a year ago

Ware Hertfordshire


"Hello from me, new to posting on the forum but always feel sociable.

Welcome great smile! "

Awww thanks lovely

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By *itty9899Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island

Nothing wrong with a random hello, weather online of public.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yip I do I am just a very nice talking person

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham

Occasionally.

I get plenty from lurkers with no confidence to say something in the thread though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have received random hellos that I've really appreciated, when feeling low etc. Which have sometimes led to months of conversations. Always seem to come along when most needed. x

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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Sometimes but not very often to be honest. I tend to just stick to fangirling over their posts on the forum where I know it would be more welcome than an unwanted message.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hello I'm wonko and I'm the only sane person here

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By *ed VoluptaWoman  over a year ago

Wirral.


"Hello I'm wonko and I'm the only sane person here "

Ooh, Wonko. Are you in?

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By *iamondCougarWoman  over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I do sometimes but it’s not always welcome by the curt reply, or no reply at all. It’s only usually a really pic I’ve seen or an amusing status update I like. They are not usually forum users though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never had any introducing themselves. Received some in reply to a forum post.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman  over a year ago

Wirral.

In answer to your question, Saff, it's not something I've ever done but I think it's a lovely idea & I think I might just do it in future. And not just to sexy silver foxes c

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello I'm wonko and I'm the only sane person here

Ooh, Wonko. Are you in? "

In where?

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By *affron40 OP   Woman  over a year ago

manchester

I’m going to send some random hellos to folks who are not online and won’t see the thread… randomness incoming

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By *o new WinksMan  over a year ago

BSE

I do this. It is a nice way to pass time with, usually, good people.

Who are naughty too

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By *uriousscouserWoman  over a year ago

Wirral

I do sometimes, though not often enough. I tend to wait for an excuse: send a lovely message or ask in private, answer on the forum types of threads.

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By *batMan  over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Being a single guy, I doubt half of my unexpected messages would even be opened.

Gbat

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By *host63Man  over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Yes I do occasionally.

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By *ickshawedCouple  over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Not a random hello but I have messaged a couple of times due to forum threads. Once to admit they were on our hotlist, once when a man seemed particularly low and I wanted him to know he was appreciated and noticed.

Other people messaging us off the back of forum stuff is how I've made friends. And very lovely they are too

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By *host63Man  over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I admit even when you do say something that person blocks yiu is disheartening though. Specially when yiubare offering support or agreeing with them

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By *HaRiFMan  over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

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By *adyBugsWoman  over a year ago

cognito

I have done a couple of times when someone looked like they needed a ear to listen (well an eye to read as it’s text based) or if I knew of something that might help them when the discussion has been serious like domestic abuse.

Generally though I keep to myself or say hello in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hello, not many people speak to me..more "your photos are hot, do you want some nsa fun, you free now," type of conversations

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I try a "hey how you doing, this place is mad" which lets be honest it is mental some of us kinksters and whatnot being here but surprisingly barely ever had much success

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm never sure if people view chatty messages as something good (i.e. something better than just "hey bby wanna fuck"), or something bad (in the kind of "oh just get to the point, this is a swinger's site" sorta way).

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By *uddly GoblinMan  over a year ago

Manchester

Very rarely do I just randomly message someone on here atall never mind just to say hi, happy to do it at socials and club's but online is different for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I admit even when you do say something that person blocks yiu is disheartening though. Specially when yiubare offering support or agreeing with them"

Maybe they just don't have the headspace for chatting. Not necessarily your fault..

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By *good-being-badMan  over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I do send random messages often a joke, sometimes from forum threads, sometimes from picture uploads..

I don't expect a reply,sometimes they do saying thanks which is appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Interesting. That many don't respond (females). On the brother site, if any guy was to message they would message back even to say sorry not for me. Interesting how the others don't....

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By *erotic_adventureMan  over a year ago

Scotland , The North,,London

I think it's only natural as the site has a messaging function for this purpose unfortunately it's not always warranted and/or welcomed for whatever reason but that's fabs for you.

Rather than be guarded break out and say hello

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No , not really.

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By *ookie46Woman  over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I have done in the past

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I feel that it’s not always taken the right way from a guy..

I know some guys don’t help themselves with shitty one line messages.

It’s a lovely concept and a lovely thing to do , but I feel that some might find it creepy from a guy.. just my opinion

X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I do though it’s very varied responses

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What can get tiresome though, is messages sent as an extension to something said on a thread. So for example, on the ‘fuck, kiss, avoid’ threads, when someone comes back to you to say why they chose ‘fuck’.

Just keep it to the forum!

That’s different to what the OP is asking though. Non-sexual messages of appreciation are always lovely.

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38

Yes..I have done to both sizes.

In person I can also be the same ...like say good morning.

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38

Sexes*

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not on here because nobody would reply anyway.

But in real life, yes. All the time.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS  over a year ago

Stockport


"Yes..I have done to both sizes.

In person I can also be the same ...like say good morning."

I like the idea of saying hello to both sizes...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never just say hello

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By *r SxxMan  over a year ago

ashford

I try to, especially via the forums, as I just like meeting new people and friends and having a natter

..... No one replies, but still!

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By *uriousscouserWoman  over a year ago

Wirral


"What can get tiresome though, is messages sent as an extension to something said on a thread. So for example, on the ‘fuck, kiss, avoid’ threads, when someone comes back to you to say why they chose ‘fuck’.

Just keep it to the forum!

That’s different to what the OP is asking though. Non-sexual messages of appreciation are always lovely."

Fully agree on the private messages vs forum responses. There are some topics that suit a more private discussion but the vast majority send the first message related to the forum thread then follow it up with a FAF message or a request for wank fodder.

It gets old quickly!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I did. But as it comes from a single male,a lot of women probably think I’m saying it to try and get more out of it so it usually goes ignored. I don’t bother much now tbh saff "

What this guy has said.

Single males unfortunately get tarnished with the same brush (mostly) and a lot of people on here (single or coupled up) think a nice message has other agendas than just an appreciation of who they are, their pics or their input to forum topics.

I don’t bother now and will quote and reply in a forum.

Have received some lovely ones though so thank you to the ones who have sent to me

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By *ingle ex cuckMan  over a year ago

chester

Doesn’t work for me , there is very little market for sub males , when I split I should have put a vanilla profile up here - too late now tho

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By *nliveneTV/TS  over a year ago

Selby

Hello , bad habits lead to you

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By *astpoetMan  over a year ago

where the world takes me

Not a hello as such but I’ve sent messages of support, at the end of the day there’s always a human behind a profile and they might not always be feeling their most confident

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By *limfitladMan  over a year ago

Dublin

I have. Particularly based on status updates..

I'm usually not expecting a reply... just trying to share some good karma or something. Some day I'm sure I'll need some.

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By *stbury DavenportMan  over a year ago

Nottingham

Nope. Last thing most people on here want is being pestered by yet another single man.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I do. Some are receptive and others are not.

I’ve had a couple of really good exchanges but they are rare. I some are just small talk and fizzle to nothing but they were polite too.

I often drop an icebreaker or a quick hello, why shouldn’t we.

(You quickly find out who is too busy to give you time on here)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Every now and then yes but due to the way some people message I probably get deleted as another stalking pervert. Normally just ask how they are doing and how fab is going for them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a hello as such but I’ve sent messages of support, at the end of the day there’s always a human behind a profile and they might not always be feeling their most confident "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Think if a woman sends the message it will get seen and responded to, the other way not so sure as I know most women get inundated with messages from complete ********

Although the same, really nice thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I did. But as it comes from a single male,a lot of women probably think I’m saying it to try and get more out of it so it usually goes ignored. I don’t bother much now tbh saff

What this guy has said.

Single males unfortunately get tarnished with the same brush (mostly) and a lot of people on here (single or coupled up) think a nice message has other agendas than just an appreciation of who they are, their pics or their input to forum topics.

I don’t bother now and will quote and reply in a forum.

Have received some lovely ones though so thank you to the ones who have sent to me "

You should. You’re a great guy to chat to

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By *rank7737Man  over a year ago

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Yeah i would do it as its just nice to be nice sometimes and hopefully people appreciate the hello if there having a shit day now and again.

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By *rixieMeWoman  over a year ago

Farfarfar away

I have literally just done this, first time ever, but the profile, and yes I read it all, was so good I wanted to get to know them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I did. But as it comes from a single male,a lot of women probably think I’m saying it to try and get more out of it so it usually goes ignored. I don’t bother much now tbh saff

What this guy has said.

Single males unfortunately get tarnished with the same brush (mostly) and a lot of people on here (single or coupled up) think a nice message has other agendas than just an appreciation of who they are, their pics or their input to forum topics.

I don’t bother now and will quote and reply in a forum.

Have received some lovely ones though so thank you to the ones who have sent to me

You should. You’re a great guy to chat to "

We got chatting because I messaged you to steal your profile text some months back. I do randomly message people, usually once I have a sense of what they're like from the forums. I've messaged to say thank you for backing me up in a thread / for contributing to a thread I started / to ask if they're ok. If people message me randomly (and don't appear to be after sex) I will reply.

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By *uietlycheekyMan  over a year ago

aberdeen

Definitely trying this … should help me break the ice a little being new and all

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By *tephanjMan  over a year ago

Kettering

Very occasionally I do but as I'm mostly only here to chat these days. Most are all about meets so I have to be selective

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By *HoneyWoman  over a year ago

Hertfordshire

No because people might think I want to fuck them on a site like this unless they explicitly say in their message. I’ve not said hello either for that reason. But I’m actually generally up for good banter without sexy intentions

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