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By *rooperRed OP Man
over a year ago
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Looked at two local profiles whom I've mailed previously (one replied, busy, ta) and noticed they both had the same dude in their verifications. Clicked on him, two line profile, nothing else. Guess some guys just have it...
Go figure. 
I'm off to the gym, because why not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s there to figure? "
How to replicate the success rate would be my guess?
Or, without knowing the population sample in the local area what the probability if a mutual verification might be?
So many options to ponder.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All profiles have a real person behind them. I prefer profiles with no pics/ no text. I want to meet discreet people.
I don't like profiles with more than 4 veris showing or loads of pics. |
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You can get away with "fill in later" if your opening message is good enough!
Mind you, I once met up with someone whose opening message was "fancy a drink?". I genuinely did fancy a drink right at that moment though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What’s there to figure?
How to replicate the success rate would be my guess?
Or, without knowing the population sample in the local area what the probability if a mutual verification might be?
So many options to ponder.
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Too many options   |
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"Looked at two local profiles whom I've mailed previously (one replied, busy, ta) and noticed they both had the same dude in their verifications. Clicked on him, two line profile, nothing else. Guess some guys just have it...
Go figure.
I'm off to the gym, because why not."
Maybe you are not as good looking as you think.. |
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"Maybe you are not as good looking as you think..
Oh, I don't have any delusions on that front.  7 on a good day."
Just pull your leg but try adjusting your mindset to (that great for him I am going out there to smash it) you would look a lot less bitter. |
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By *rooperRed OP Man
over a year ago
Littlehampton |
"Maybe you are not as good looking as you think..
Oh, I don't have any delusions on that front. 7 on a good day.
Just pull your leg but try adjusting your mindset to (that great for him I am going out there to smash it) you would look a lot less bitter."
I'm really not bitter about it. Honestly. Been here too long for that. It's how his place rolls. I think it should have big sign that says "For novelty purposes only." It works for some, and it's really mostly for the people who do the clubs and stay active on the scene. I've had a couple of meets off here so probably done better than most tbf.
Just sometimes the absurdity hits a whole new level. But again, laugh and move on.  |
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"Maybe you are not as good looking as you think..
Oh, I don't have any delusions on that front. 7 on a good day.
Just pull your leg but try adjusting your mindset to (that great for him I am going out there to smash it) you would look a lot less bitter.
I'm really not bitter about it. Honestly. Been here too long for that. It's how his place rolls. I think it should have big sign that says "For novelty purposes only." It works for some, and it's really mostly for the people who do the clubs and stay active on the scene. I've had a couple of meets off here so probably done better than most tbf.
Just sometimes the absurdity hits a whole new level. But again, laugh and move on. "
It's not absurd tho. The site is a tool that encompasses the swinging community and provides a place where people and clubs etc can share knowledge and information.
It doesn't pretend to be a site that will guarantee sex or any old bollocks like that. Some folks here do use it for instant gratification and instant meets yes, but like others have said, there's the very real probability they met the dude at a club by chance and that's how he gets his veris. Some don't feel the need to create an all singing all dancing profile because they get themselves known in person simply by being in the right places. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe you are not as good looking as you think..
Oh, I don't have any delusions on that front. 7 on a good day.
Just pull your leg but try adjusting your mindset to (that great for him I am going out there to smash it) you would look a lot less bitter.
I'm really not bitter about it. Honestly. Been here too long for that. It's how his place rolls. I think it should have big sign that says "For novelty purposes only." It works for some, and it's really mostly for the people who do the clubs and stay active on the scene. I've had a couple of meets off here so probably done better than most tbf.
Just sometimes the absurdity hits a whole new level. But again, laugh and move on. "
Bit it does work for quite a few people?
You only have to look at local updates to see people getting veris.
If it’s not working for you, look at what you can change? |
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