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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective... "

I was PresentsInMyDrawers btw.

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Hello you!

I personally am excellent in bed.

I hardly move and my sleep talking can be entertaining

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think enjoying it makes up a big part of it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective...

I was PresentsInMyDrawers btw."

I do like the new name. I prefer it in fact.

Here is my answer.

All men are different. Sort it out with the one you are in bed with

Thank you. My bill is in the post.

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By *orthern StarsCouple  over a year ago

Durham

Does lying there like a sack of spuds mean I'm good in bed?

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective... "

Confidence

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hello you!

I personally am excellent in bed.

I hardly move and my sleep talking can be entertaining "

Why hello! I'm sure Bob will be along with a testimonial!

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Does lying there like a sack of spuds mean I'm good in bed? "

Yes. Cos that's what I do and as I said, I'm excellent in bed.

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London

Relax, undress him and take in his body.

Touch him all over with your hands, then your lips and tongue.

Stroke his cock, as you kiss him, until you have to take it in your mouth.

Awww man, I really need to do this to someone soon

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Does lying there like a sack of spuds mean I'm good in bed? "

Sure does if you are being compliant and obedient

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

When she’s asleep

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Relax, undress him and take in his body.

Touch him all over with your hands, then your lips and tongue.

Stroke his cock, as you kiss him, until you have to take it in your mouth.

Awww man, I really need to do this to someone soon "

Someone needs to get laid.

I know the feeling

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think enjoying it makes up a big part of it "

Huh. That's probably why my ex said I was crap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective...

I was PresentsInMyDrawers btw.

I do like the new name. I prefer it in fact.

Here is my answer.

All men are different. Sort it out with the one you are in bed with

Thank you. My bill is in the post. "

Why thank you Granny

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford

I just go with the flow! Can b quite athletic lol x

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"Relax, undress him and take in his body.

Touch him all over with your hands, then your lips and tongue.

Stroke his cock, as you kiss him, until you have to take it in your mouth.

Awww man, I really need to do this to someone soon

Someone needs to get laid.

I know the feeling "

And someone is going to get it good and proper when it happens

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Hello you!

I personally am excellent in bed.

I hardly move and my sleep talking can be entertaining

Why hello! I'm sure Bob will be along with a testimonial!"

You don't want to believe what he says...... he will be all "she's enthusiastic and lively and strangely bendy for a fat bird (he will kill me for that comment) and gets really into the sex, and creates not just a wet patch but a swimming pool"

Men

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By *-4pleasureCouple  over a year ago

Belfast


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective... "

A pulse…..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah confidence I’d say is the main thing. It’s harder than it sounds to be confident. I’d go out on a limb here and say most if not all men don’t notice the shit about ourselves that we notice. It seems like a natural thing to say oh don’t look at my ***** it don’t touch my ***** when the reality is they don’t even care about whatever hang ups we have, they’re just happy to have a warm willing body that wants to have sex with them.

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By *sBlueWoman  over a year ago

Up North

She brings snacks

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"My bill is in the post. "

Ay up mi Duck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Relax, undress him and take in his body.

Touch him all over with your hands, then your lips and tongue.

Stroke his cock, as you kiss him, until you have to take it in your mouth.

Awww man, I really need to do this to someone soon

Someone needs to get laid.

I know the feeling

And someone is going to get it good and proper when it happens "

I don’t doubt it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Relax, undress him and take in his body.

Touch him all over with your hands, then your lips and tongue.

Stroke his cock, as you kiss him, until you have to take it in your mouth.

Awww man, I really need to do this to someone soon "

How unexpected that this thread would make me want to have sex even more!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Relax and have confidence, undress him slowly whilst kissing passionately, examine every inch of his body with your hands and mouth , take in his scent and let out little moans and whimpers of pleasure as you do so, ending up kneeling infront of him, looking at up and catching his gaze whilst you take him in your warm soft mouth inch by glorious inch

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Relax, undress him and take in his body.

Touch him all over with your hands, then your lips and tongue.

Stroke his cock, as you kiss him, until you have to take it in your mouth.

Awww man, I really need to do this to someone soon

Someone needs to get laid.

I know the feeling "

Oh god yes. So what I've done to ensure that is...say I am not meeting and turn off messages. Ingenious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hello you!

I personally am excellent in bed.

I hardly move and my sleep talking can be entertaining

Why hello! I'm sure Bob will be along with a testimonial!

You don't want to believe what he says...... he will be all "she's enthusiastic and lively and strangely bendy for a fat bird (he will kill me for that comment) and gets really into the sex, and creates not just a wet patch but a swimming pool"

Men

"

Damn him for being so nice about you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think enjoying it makes up a big part of it "

Yes, this.

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Relax, undress him and take in his body.

Touch him all over with your hands, then your lips and tongue.

Stroke his cock, as you kiss him, until you have to take it in your mouth.

Awww man, I really need to do this to someone soon "

Shudder…..

You just reminded me exactly why I like to keep rope in the bedroom

Do as he tells you , when he tells you abs call him Daddy

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yeah confidence I’d say is the main thing. It’s harder than it sounds to be confident. I’d go out on a limb here and say most if not all men don’t notice the shit about ourselves that we notice. It seems like a natural thing to say oh don’t look at my ***** it don’t touch my ***** when the reality is they don’t even care about whatever hang ups we have, they’re just happy to have a warm willing body that wants to have sex with them. "

Oh it's very hard to have the confidence! I should stop looking in the mirror at the bits I don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Relax, undress him and take in his body.

Touch him all over with your hands, then your lips and tongue.

Stroke his cock, as you kiss him, until you have to take it in your mouth.

Awww man, I really need to do this to someone soon

Someone needs to get laid.

I know the feeling

Oh god yes. So what I've done to ensure that is...say I am not meeting and turn off messages. Ingenious. "

Yeah, that approach could maybe do with a rethink ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Relax and have confidence, undress him slowly whilst kissing passionately, examine every inch of his body with your hands and mouth , take in his scent and let out little moans and whimpers of pleasure as you do so, ending up kneeling infront of him, looking at up and catching his gaze whilst you take him in your warm soft mouth inch by glorious inch "

Is this a lady or a man writing?

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Hello you!

I personally am excellent in bed.

I hardly move and my sleep talking can be entertaining

Why hello! I'm sure Bob will be along with a testimonial!

You don't want to believe what he says...... he will be all "she's enthusiastic and lively and strangely bendy for a fat bird (he will kill me for that comment) and gets really into the sex, and creates not just a wet patch but a swimming pool"

Men

Damn him for being so nice about you!!!"

Actually that's a point. He hasn't for ages! I'm gonna have a word.....

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By *ack688Man  over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Confidence as many have said, but also passion, wanting to be pleasured and a willingness to pleasure your partner. Being open about what you like and want and equally what you don’t like as well as taking time to listen to their wants and desires too, and finding a way to communicate those in a way that doesn’t seem clinical or ‘sex by numbers’. Kiss them and touch them in a way that makes them feel desired, be active and don’t hold back on letting it be obvious when you’re really enjoying things.

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By *eardybobMan  over a year ago

the Goldilocks Zone


"Hello you!

I personally am excellent in bed.

I hardly move and my sleep talking can be entertaining

Why hello! I'm sure Bob will be along with a testimonial!

You don't want to believe what he says...... he will be all "she's enthusiastic and lively and strangely bendy for a fat bird (he will kill me for that comment) and gets really into the sex, and creates not just a wet patch but a swimming pool"

Men

"

^ true story!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Relax, undress him and take in his body.

Touch him all over with your hands, then your lips and tongue.

Stroke his cock, as you kiss him, until you have to take it in your mouth.

Awww man, I really need to do this to someone soon

Shudder…..

You just reminded me exactly why I like to keep rope in the bedroom

Do as he tells you , when he tells you abs call him Daddy "

Sounds fairly easy to follow

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Relax, undress him and take in his body.

Touch him all over with your hands, then your lips and tongue.

Stroke his cock, as you kiss him, until you have to take it in your mouth.

Awww man, I really need to do this to someone soon

Someone needs to get laid.

I know the feeling

Oh god yes. So what I've done to ensure that is...say I am not meeting and turn off messages. Ingenious.

Yeah, that approach could maybe do with a rethink ... "

don't know what you mean...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Relax and have confidence, undress him slowly whilst kissing passionately, examine every inch of his body with your hands and mouth , take in his scent and let out little moans and whimpers of pleasure as you do so, ending up kneeling infront of him, looking at up and catching his gaze whilst you take him in your warm soft mouth inch by glorious inch

Is this a lady or a man writing? "

The lady its only ever me who writes on our profile xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definitely it’s all about confidence and some training.

What I mean by training is, the more sex you have , the more you become disinhibited and you can try things in the bedroom to please yourself and your man!

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

If they can fold those tight corners and put a duvet cover on single handedly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd say enthusiasm. Men want to feel desired just as much as women do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Confidence as many have said, but also passion, wanting to be pleasured and a willingness to pleasure your partner. Being open about what you like and want and equally what you don’t like as well as taking time to listen to their wants and desires too, and finding a way to communicate those in a way that doesn’t seem clinical or ‘sex by numbers’. Kiss them and touch them in a way that makes them feel desired, be active and don’t hold back on letting it be obvious when you’re really enjoying things. "

Very thoughtful answer, thank you Jack

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Relax and have confidence, undress him slowly whilst kissing passionately, examine every inch of his body with your hands and mouth , take in his scent and let out little moans and whimpers of pleasure as you do so, ending up kneeling infront of him, looking at up and catching his gaze whilst you take him in your warm soft mouth inch by glorious inch

Is this a lady or a man writing?

The lady its only ever me who writes on our profile xxx"

Well I'm sure he thoroughly agrees with every word and so do I. From what I can remember.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hello you!

I personally am excellent in bed.

I hardly move and my sleep talking can be entertaining

Why hello! I'm sure Bob will be along with a testimonial!

You don't want to believe what he says...... he will be all "she's enthusiastic and lively and strangely bendy for a fat bird (he will kill me for that comment) and gets really into the sex, and creates not just a wet patch but a swimming pool"

Men

^ true story! "

Wow that was a quick response Bob. Almost as though you'd been reminded.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Definitely it’s all about confidence and some training.

What I mean by training is, the more sex you have , the more you become disinhibited and you can try things in the bedroom to please yourself and your man!"

It's been a slow year for training...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If they can fold those tight corners and put a duvet cover on single handedly. "

Goddamn it Celibate for life now...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

She knows how to play strip poker.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A realistic attitude that the first time it happens with a new partner it's unlikely to be mind blowing

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'd say enthusiasm. Men want to feel desired just as much as women do."

Very relieved to hear this. Was worried bendiness was required.

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By *eardybobMan  over a year ago

the Goldilocks Zone


"Hello you!

I personally am excellent in bed.

I hardly move and my sleep talking can be entertaining

Why hello! I'm sure Bob will be along with a testimonial!

You don't want to believe what he says...... he will be all "she's enthusiastic and lively and strangely bendy for a fat bird (he will kill me for that comment) and gets really into the sex, and creates not just a wet patch but a swimming pool"

Men

^ true story!

Wow that was a quick response Bob. Almost as though you'd been reminded. "

I have absolutely no idea what you mean...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No right answer....just be with someone and explore each other

Have fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"She knows how to play strip poker. "

I could Google it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you’re going to eat toast then make sure you pick up all the crumbs. No snoring or Dutch ovens please

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"A realistic attitude that the first time it happens with a new partner it's unlikely to be mind blowing "

I am nothing if not realistic!

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"Relax, undress him and take in his body.

Touch him all over with your hands, then your lips and tongue.

Stroke his cock, as you kiss him, until you have to take it in your mouth.

Awww man, I really need to do this to someone soon

Shudder…..

You just reminded me exactly why I like to keep rope in the bedroom

Do as he tells you , when he tells you abs call him Daddy "

Would feel strange calling someone Daddy who is much younger than me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Has to be confidence for me and the cheeky glint in the eye and behind the smile also just improves every woman in bed, to me anyway!

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By *ackformore100Man  over a year ago

Tin town


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective... "

Rhythm

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hello you!

I personally am excellent in bed.

I hardly move and my sleep talking can be entertaining

Why hello! I'm sure Bob will be along with a testimonial!

You don't want to believe what he says...... he will be all "she's enthusiastic and lively and strangely bendy for a fat bird (he will kill me for that comment) and gets really into the sex, and creates not just a wet patch but a swimming pool"

Men

^ true story!

Wow that was a quick response Bob. Almost as though you'd been reminded.

I have absolutely no idea what you mean... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No right answer....just be with someone and explore each other

Have fun x"

Taking notes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The ability to go with the flow and a good set of lungs

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Relax, undress him and take in his body.

Touch him all over with your hands, then your lips and tongue.

Stroke his cock, as you kiss him, until you have to take it in your mouth.

Awww man, I really need to do this to someone soon

Shudder…..

You just reminded me exactly why I like to keep rope in the bedroom

Do as he tells you , when he tells you abs call him Daddy

Would feel strange calling someone Daddy who is much younger than me."

I've called guys daddy who were much younger. Surprised me how much I liked it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective...

Rhythm"

Oh now I'm stuffed

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If you’re going to eat toast then make sure you pick up all the crumbs. No snoring or Dutch ovens please "

What kind of sex do you have?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Has to be confidence for me and the cheeky glint in the eye and behind the smile also just improves every woman in bed, to me anyway!"

Cheeky, gotcha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just turn up

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"Relax, undress him and take in his body.

Touch him all over with your hands, then your lips and tongue.

Stroke his cock, as you kiss him, until you have to take it in your mouth.

Awww man, I really need to do this to someone soon

Shudder…..

You just reminded me exactly why I like to keep rope in the bedroom

Do as he tells you , when he tells you abs call him Daddy

Would feel strange calling someone Daddy who is much younger than me.

I've called guys daddy who were much younger. Surprised me how much I liked it. "

I'll give it a go next time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you’re going to eat toast then make sure you pick up all the crumbs. No snoring or Dutch ovens please

What kind of sex do you have?! "

Is this about sex?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just turn up "

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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I like the name change. I'll come back to you when I think of something OP, going to try and not waffle - 25 words max.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Also, listening and watching, noticing reactions.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you can ride a cock like a cowgirl. Your sorted..

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By *host63Man  over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective... "

Just go with the flow is wHt makes good swx for men or women and being sensitive to each other needs.

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By *iaisonseekerMan  over a year ago

Liverpool


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective... "

Just put a bit of minge round it and you'll be grand

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman  over a year ago

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I ride like sea biscuit. Seems to work

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The ability to go with the flow and a good set of lungs "

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham

Openness. That they are eager and happy to please. That they are confident with their body and not hiding parts that the think I'll hate, but that I actually love. Maybe vocal in the pleasure so I get some feedback. So vocal feedback if they like dislike something. Compatible that we have similar likes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Just turn up "

Think I need a thread on what makes a man good in bed to accompany this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective...

Just put a bit of minge round it and you'll be grand "

Be still my beating heart!

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By *omerset1976Man  over a year ago

Burnham

Communication!! Tell partner what u like… what u want to try… what u don’t like… fantasies maybe even… u never know!

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By *opman121Man  over a year ago

stoke on trent

Who cares as long u both have fun and both satisfied after

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective...

Just put a bit of minge round it and you'll be grand

Be still my beating heart! "

ironically a pulse is all i need for a woman in bed

that and some sexy lingerie

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

She sleeps on the wet patch..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A sense of humour. If you are in bed with me you may need one..

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham


"She sleeps on the wet patch.."

You are a trooper.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If you’re going to eat toast then make sure you pick up all the crumbs. No snoring or Dutch ovens please

What kind of sex do you have?!

Is this about sex?"

Erm...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I like the name change. I'll come back to you when I think of something OP, going to try and not waffle - 25 words max."

Thanks Meli!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If you can ride a cock like a cowgirl. Your sorted.."

No rhythm

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective...

Just go with the flow is wHt makes good swx for men or women and being sensitive to each other needs."

Always tried to do this

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I ride like sea biscuit. Seems to work "

I need some practice at that...

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman  over a year ago

.


"I ride like sea biscuit. Seems to work

I need some practice at that... "

Just grind those hips baby

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham


"I ride like sea biscuit. Seems to work

I need some practice at that... "

Do you want me to get my riding crop out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Openness. That they are eager and happy to please. That they are confident with their body and not hiding parts that the think I'll hate, but that I actually love. Maybe vocal in the pleasure so I get some feedback. So vocal feedback if they like dislike something. Compatible that we have similar likes. "

I think a lot of women don't feedback much from what I can gather. Either shyness or lack of confidence about saying something. I am sub so find that a particular challenge!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think confidence, not being shy and for me not worrying about my wobbly bits!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I ride like sea biscuit. Seems to work

I need some practice at that...

Just grind those hips baby "

I hate being on top! I get self conscious and any rhythm I have goes out the window. Any grinding from would probably make a man laugh himself silly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I ride like sea biscuit. Seems to work

I need some practice at that... Do you want me to get my riding crop out? "

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective...

Just put a bit of minge round it and you'll be grand

Be still my beating heart!

ironically a pulse is all i need for a woman in bed

that and some sexy lingerie "

That is ..kinda insulting to women. Was it meant as a joke?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"She sleeps on the wet patch..

You are a trooper. "

it's why I'm shit I refuse to do it..

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Communication!! Tell partner what u like… what u want to try… what u don’t like… fantasies maybe even… u never know!"

I wonder if this is easier via messaging for some people? I get a bit tongue tied in person at times but will happily blurt out fantasies in messages.

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By *ancer36Woman  over a year ago

Stirling

The ability to just let go, no hang ups, worrying about what you look like or this or that, just get lost in that moment, communicate, eye contact, don’t rush…foreplay is often over looked, show him you want him but equally don’t be afraid to say what you want!

Unleash your inner everything, slutty, sensual, passionate, animalistic, tender, kink..whatever it your into just bloody go for it!

Have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The ability to just let go, no hang ups, worrying about what you look like or this or that, just get lost in that moment, communicate, eye contact, don’t rush…foreplay is often over looked, show him you want him but equally don’t be afraid to say what you want!

Unleash your inner everything, slutty, sensual, passionate, animalistic, tender, kink..whatever it your into just bloody go for it!

Have fun x"

^^^^^100% this!

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By *drianukMan  over a year ago

Spain, Lancs

She has to enjoy herself

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham


"She sleeps on the wet patch..

You are a trooper. it's why I'm shit I refuse to do it.. "

You are a deserter.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can’t ride like a cowgirl. I’m crap on top and that would be my least confident position. Only time I’m ever really on top is when I’m inserting him whilst he’s still asleep orrr if I’m on top but kind of boobs and face pressed against him, and then it’s kinda just like the dude holding my bum cheeks and fucking into me, zero effort on my part.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think confidence, not being shy and for me not worrying about my wobbly bits!!! "

I'd love to get to that place too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you’re going to eat toast then make sure you pick up all the crumbs. No snoring or Dutch ovens please

What kind of sex do you have?!

Is this about sex?

Erm..."

I don’t know then

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire

Definitely confidence and leaving insecurities at the door. Someone who is sexually adventurous and willing to try things . Someone who can laugh in bed

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple  over a year ago

Cumbria

Funny loving conferences.

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"Does lying there like a sack of spuds mean I'm good in bed? "

Only if you call it Starfishing

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"I think confidence, not being shy and for me not worrying about my wobbly bits!!!

I'd love to get to that place too "

I'd say it's easy. In that, if you've met a man from here, then just believe he wants you, relax and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The ability to just let go, no hang ups, worrying about what you look like or this or that, just get lost in that moment, communicate, eye contact, don’t rush…foreplay is often over looked, show him you want him but equally don’t be afraid to say what you want!

Unleash your inner everything, slutty, sensual, passionate, animalistic, tender, kink..whatever it your into just bloody go for it!

Have fun x"

All I could think of is that I can't do this with just anyone. There has got to be more than just sexual attraction there has to be trust. And then it's this good!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Reading this thread is making me wanna do it it. Got that Kevin&Perry song in my head. All I wanna do is do it

Just thinking about the build up to it. Like laying clothes on the sofa watching tv first but spooning and touching and wanting to go further and the sexual frustration and all that jazz OMG.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think confidence, not being shy and for me not worrying about my wobbly bits!!!

I'd love to get to that place too

I'd say it's easy. In that, if you've met a man from here, then just believe he wants you, relax and enjoy

"

I don't trust most men from here. Blunt truth. In six months here I am more cynical than I've ever been. It's not easy if you don't want to feel like a used piece of meat afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"She sleeps on the wet patch..

You are a trooper. it's why I'm shit I refuse to do it..

You are a deserter. "

I could possibly be persuaded otherwise

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"All I could think of is that I can't do this with just anyone. There has got to be more than just sexual attraction there has to be trust. And then it's this good!"

I agree with you, I've not met anyone for years now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Reading this thread is making me wanna do it it. Got that Kevin&Perry song in my head. All I wanna do is do it

Just thinking about the build up to it. Like laying clothes on the sofa watching tv first but spooning and touching and wanting to go further and the sexual frustration and all that jazz OMG. "

Sorry! I feel the same way if that's any help

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"All I could think of is that I can't do this with just anyone. There has got to be more than just sexual attraction there has to be trust. And then it's this good!

I agree with you, I've not met anyone for years now. "

Ah I am sorry to hear that. I trusted someone earlier this year, and we had great sex but he ghosted so maybe it wasn't all that for him.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Warm feet

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

When she serves up bacon butties in the morning.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Get on your back and get wet

Easy peasy

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Funny loving conferences."

Erm, what?

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham


"She sleeps on the wet patch..

You are a trooper. it's why I'm shit I refuse to do it..

You are a deserter. I could possibly be persuaded otherwise "

You are a trooper again

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Warm feet"

Damn it, my feet are freezing always!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"When she serves up bacon butties in the morning. "

Are you sure about this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Get on your back and get wet

Easy peasy "

You certainly make it sound easy....

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"When she serves up bacon butties in the morning.

Are you sure about this? "

Yes. A blowjob too is a bonus.

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By *urvelover39Man  over a year ago

Somewhere

A pulse

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"A pulse "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It’s all in the look.. if you gaze/ look deeply into the eyes before you kiss.. as you touch each other..

That builds the intensity and continue to look each other in eyes as you fuck

(noted not doggy style as that requires exorcist style head spinning )

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By *itty9899Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective... "

Enthusiasm and adventurous.

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By *hloevtTV/TS  over a year ago

norwich


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective...

Enthusiasm and adventurous. "

Don't say "Just close your eyes and hold your breath, I will be done in a couple of secs" x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It’s all in the look.. if you gaze/ look deeply into the eyes before you kiss.. as you touch each other..

That builds the intensity and continue to look each other in eyes as you fuck

(noted not doggy style as that requires exorcist style head spinning )"

I can look intense. Unless I'm blindfolded of course

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If she can get all four corners of the sheet to stay on the mattress I'll be dammed if I can!!

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By *amesy85Man  over a year ago

Bristol

Be bloody filthy, works for me haha

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham

A pulse helps

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Confidence

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham

If she appreciates you getting out of bed to make bacon butties and coffee

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective...

Enthusiasm and adventurous. "

I think on this site adventurous is a given!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If she appreciates you getting out of bed to make bacon butties and coffee "
that goes without saying

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple  over a year ago

Lincoln

Being able to spend hours tucked up in the covers while someone brings you snacks... I think

LvM

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By *uteness69Woman  over a year ago

Walthamstow


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective... "

Letting go, talking about what drives you both wild beforehand!

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"If she appreciates you getting out of bed to make bacon butties and coffee that goes without saying "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Responsiveness

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"If she appreciates you getting out of bed to make bacon butties and coffee "

Coffee as well - now you're pushing it.

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By *ooBulMan  over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Would she mind putting up with EFL Football on the television as we kiss in the background? Must have Quest or Quest+!!!

With those lucky lips could she also get Nottingham Forest into the play-offs (I know that's a tall order but, if yer gonna kiss you might as well attempt at throwing in the kitchen sink in so to speak in a Kismet sense type of thing....)?

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"If she appreciates you getting out of bed to make bacon butties and coffee

Coffee as well - now you're pushing it. "

You promised

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If she can get all four corners of the sheet to stay on the mattress I'll be dammed if I can!! "

Just fuck on the floor...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Being happy and confident, enjoyment and a little bit of a cheeky laugh too

E

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Being able to spend hours tucked up in the covers while someone brings you snacks... I think

LvM"

You lot are obsessed with food + sex!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If she can get all four corners of the sheet to stay on the mattress I'll be dammed if I can!!

Just fuck on the floor... "

always plan b Haha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Would she mind putting up with EFL Football on the television as we kiss in the background? Must have Quest or Quest+!!!

With those lucky lips could she also get Nottingham Forest into the play-offs (I know that's a tall order but, if yer gonna kiss you might as well attempt at throwing in the kitchen sink in so to speak in a Kismet sense type of thing....)? "

Seems a wee bit niche?

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan  over a year ago

London

Be relaxed…being relaxed in each other’s company builds electricity and in turn increases the intensity

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Being happy and confident, enjoyment and a little bit of a cheeky laugh too

E "

I love laughter-filled sex, it's the best

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By *ooBulMan  over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’


"Would she mind putting up with EFL Football on the television as we kiss in the background? Must have Quest or Quest+!!!

With those lucky lips could she also get Nottingham Forest into the play-offs (I know that's a tall order but, if yer gonna kiss you might as well attempt at throwing in the kitchen sink in so to speak in a Kismet sense type of thing....)?

Seems a wee bit niche? "

Oh, Ok getting into the play-offs is a little bit too much to ask I suppose.... what about Quest or Quest+ then?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective...

Enthusiasm and adventurous.

I think on this site adventurous is a given!"

You'd of thought so wouldn't you but believe me, it doesn't follow suit always.

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By *ooBulMan  over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Op, on a more serious note....

Throwing in the kitchen sink when kissing (not actually though - that would be a tad aggressive!)

That would give me a serious Marco Van Basten Nut-meg (through the legs & weak at the knees.)

Nothing better than kissing at 110% as a football analogy goes though.....

Really trying her best. That would make me feel horny!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A great kisser + enthusiasm

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not being lazy and expecting the man to do it all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Being there

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Be relaxed…being relaxed in each other’s company builds electricity and in turn increases the intensity "

Comes back to trust I think (for me at least). I'm very relaxed and up for anything when I trust.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Im sure it will all cum flooding back to you...like riding a bike x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Op, on a more serious note....

Throwing in the kitchen sink when kissing (not actually though - that would be a tad aggressive!)

That would give me a serious Marco Van Basten Nut-meg (through the legs & weak at the knees.)

Nothing better than kissing at 110% as a football analogy goes though.....

Really trying her best. That would make me feel horny!!!! "

I think passionate kissing is ..a necessity.

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS  over a year ago

Ramsey

If she brings bacon sandwiches to the party

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By *astpoetMan  over a year ago

where the world takes me

Sounds like a cop out but for me it boils down to two things, confidence and belief that they’re sexy.

Both come from knowing yourself and both are sexier than anything else in this world.

Oh and for me, knowing what she wants and taking it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not being lazy and expecting the man to do it all "

Thanks for your contribution

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By *ebjonnsonMan  over a year ago

Maldon


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective... "

What haven’t you had sex for a while?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Being there"

I think you're the third/fourth guy to write this kind of comment. "A pulse" etc. It's insulting to women and not funny.

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By *ames-77Man  over a year ago

milton keynes


"Hello you!

I personally am excellent in bed.

I hardly move and my sleep talking can be entertaining "

This !!!! Hahaha absolutely brilliant !! What a comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Sounds like a cop out but for me it boils down to two things, confidence and belief that they’re sexy.

Both come from knowing yourself and both are sexier than anything else in this world.

Oh and for me, knowing what she wants and taking it "

Of course you can know yourself and still have no confidence and not think you're sexy...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Sounds like a cop out but for me it boils down to two things, confidence and belief that they’re sexy.

Both come from knowing yourself and both are sexier than anything else in this world.

Oh and for me, knowing what she wants and taking it "

Not a cop out at all. And something many others have said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By *astpoetMan  over a year ago

where the world takes me


"Sounds like a cop out but for me it boils down to two things, confidence and belief that they’re sexy.

Both come from knowing yourself and both are sexier than anything else in this world.

Oh and for me, knowing what she wants and taking it

Of course you can know yourself and still have no confidence and not think you're sexy... "

That is sadly very true and we’ve all been there I’m sure, I find that sometimes the best way to get your mojo back is to be self indulgent and even vein, and if all else fails just be downright up front about your kinks in public (or on fab) because someone will like them and damn does it feel good when they do

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As I haven't had sex for a while, remind me what I should be doing when I get some please? I know it's subjective...

What haven’t you had sex for a while? "

Why? The usual reasons people don't have sex...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Sounds like a cop out but for me it boils down to two things, confidence and belief that they’re sexy.

Both come from knowing yourself and both are sexier than anything else in this world.

Oh and for me, knowing what she wants and taking it

Of course you can know yourself and still have no confidence and not think you're sexy...

That is sadly very true and we’ve all been there I’m sure, I find that sometimes the best way to get your mojo back is to be self indulgent and even vein, and if all else fails just be downright up front about your kinks in public (or on fab) because someone will like them and damn does it feel good when they do "

There is some truth in that. But can't say I think I'd show too much of my kinky side on Fab. Too much judgement here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Op, on a more serious note....

Throwing in the kitchen sink when kissing (not actually though - that would be a tad aggressive!)

That would give me a serious Marco Van Basten Nut-meg (through the legs & weak at the knees.)

Nothing better than kissing at 110% as a football analogy goes though.....

Really trying her best. That would make me feel horny!!!!

I think passionate kissing is ..a necessity. "

That's when the lungs come in handy

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By *esthetic21Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

What might make one woman good in bed might not make the other if that makes sense

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