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By *phrodite OP   Woman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

between a hardened and a not hardened swinger?

I am curious about serious answers but dont mind if you post (SOME!!) silly ones

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not a hardened swinger = me ie scared of ny own shadow

Hardened swinger = someone who meets regularly butnot necessarily different people maybe a couple.of couples who meet often

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By *phrodite OP   Woman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Not a hardened swinger = me ie scared of ny own shadow

"

Just peeped at your profile and made me chuckle. YOU??? Scared of your shadow?;-)

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

lives and breathes swinging, it is central to their life, not an add on...... they log on first thing in the morning and log off last thing at night. they prioritise chatting and posting to their immediate family.... they log on when out with non swinging friends...they are obsessed & addicted with the attention and consider themselves akin to celebrities.......

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By *phrodite OP   Woman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"lives and breathes swinging, it is central to their life, not an add on...... they log on first thing in the morning and log off last thing at night. they prioritise chatting and posting to their immediate family.... they log on when out with non swinging friends...they are obsessed & addicted with the attention and consider themselves akin to celebrities......."
Thanks, View!

Now what about the hardened ones?

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By *couple412Man  over a year ago

faversham

Correct me if I am wrong, but a non hardened male swinger is not a lot of use to most people!

Joking aside (and I did want to get that one in their first!) I think peoples idea of a "hardened swinger" out side the swing community is someone who will turn up and fuck anyone with out bothering to get their names first.

Inside the swinger community I would guess its someone who probably plays most weeks and who frequents clubs etc, where there are lots of chances to play with lots of different people.

Essentially someone who feels right at home in a swinging situation, if you know what I mean.

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn


"lives and breathes swinging, it is central to their life, not an add on...... they log on first thing in the morning and log off last thing at night. they prioritise chatting and posting to their immediate family.... they log on when out with non swinging friends...they are obsessed & addicted with the attention and consider themselves akin to celebrities.......Thanks, View!

Now what about the hardened ones? "

all that but have numerous profiles that they have self verified and given themselves great feedback

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By *empnbunkCouple  over a year ago

south coast


"lives and breathes swinging, it is central to their life, not an add on...... they log on first thing in the morning and log off last thing at night. they prioritise chatting and posting to their immediate family.... they log on when out with non swinging friends...they are obsessed & addicted with the attention and consider themselves akin to celebrities.......Thanks, View!

Now what about the hardened ones? "

As above but with shaved heads and tatts

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn


"lives and breathes swinging, it is central to their life, not an add on...... they log on first thing in the morning and log off last thing at night. they prioritise chatting and posting to their immediate family.... they log on when out with non swinging friends...they are obsessed & addicted with the attention and consider themselves akin to celebrities.......Thanks, View!

Now what about the hardened ones?

As above but with shaved heads and tatts "

suck it Jessie

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I chat a lot but only meet once in a while. Chatting=hardened?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Correct me if I am wrong, but a non hardened male swinger is not a lot of use to most people!

Joking aside (and I did want to get that one in their first!) I think peoples idea of a "hardened swinger" out side the swing community is someone who will turn up and fuck anyone with out bothering to get their names first.

Inside the swinger community I would guess its someone who probably plays most weeks and who frequents clubs etc, where there are lots of chances to play with lots of different people.

Essentially someone who feels right at home in a swinging situation, if you know what I mean."

I was talking to somebody last night and was told that some people actually go to clubs, parties and have meets every weekend. I was a bit surprised - I mean each to their own... but that would mean that swinging rules one's life, wouldnt it?

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By *upitersmileCouple  over a year ago

Manchester


"Correct me if I am wrong, but a non hardened male swinger is not a lot of use to most people!

Joking aside (and I did want to get that one in their first!) I think peoples idea of a "hardened swinger" out side the swing community is someone who will turn up and fuck anyone with out bothering to get their names first.

Inside the swinger community I would guess its someone who probably plays most weeks and who frequents clubs etc, where there are lots of chances to play with lots of different people.

Essentially someone who feels right at home in a swinging situation, if you know what I mean.

I was talking to somebody last night and was told that some people actually go to clubs, parties and have meets every weekend. I was a bit surprised - I mean each to their own... but that would mean that swinging rules one's life, wouldnt it?"

Only every weekend?!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would think so, but each to their own

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By *empnbunkCouple  over a year ago

south coast


"Correct me if I am wrong, but a non hardened male swinger is not a lot of use to most people!

Joking aside (and I did want to get that one in their first!) I think peoples idea of a "hardened swinger" out side the swing community is someone who will turn up and fuck anyone with out bothering to get their names first.

Inside the swinger community I would guess its someone who probably plays most weeks and who frequents clubs etc, where there are lots of chances to play with lots of different people.

Essentially someone who feels right at home in a swinging situation, if you know what I mean.

I was talking to somebody last night and was told that some people actually go to clubs, parties and have meets every weekend. I was a bit surprised - I mean each to their own... but that would mean that swinging rules one's life, wouldnt it?

Only every weekend?! "

Lucky bassas lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

hard swingers don't fuck about,they demand face pics without even so much as a how you doing or kiss my arse,straight in no fucking around and theres usually 40 verificatons or more to prove they shag around with loads of people,unfortunately that puts my mrs off but as she calls me a male slut i don't care as long as people are happy

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By *londeCazWoman  over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Hardened fem...hasn't had a meet for ages, vag has healed up and hardened, therefore needs to be pried apart in order for there to be any amorous contact

Hardened male - took too many viagra in lustful anticipation of a meet with a "single fem" who didn't turn up

Hardened couple - has to pay Platinum site supporter fee as their veris take up an entire server

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley


"lives and breathes swinging, it is central to their life, not an add on...... they log on first thing in the morning and log off last thing at night. they prioritise chatting and posting to their immediate family.... they log on when out with non swinging friends...they are obsessed & addicted with the attention and consider themselves akin to celebrities.......Thanks, View!

Now what about the hardened ones?

all that but have numerous profiles that they have self verified and given themselves great feedback"

Well _iew to be fair most of them are up their own arse and as such can honestly say they have fucked them

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By *couple412Man  over a year ago

faversham


"

I was talking to somebody last night and was told that some people actually go to clubs, parties and have meets every weekend. I was a bit surprised - I mean each to their own... but that would mean that swinging rules one's life, wouldnt it? "

I guess.

But other than the sex involved, its not that much different to going to the football, or playing golf, or eating out every weekend... mind you, if your doing it right you are playing with balls and/or eating out I guess!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ha

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley


"Correct me if I am wrong, but a non hardened male swinger is not a lot of use to most people!

Joking aside (and I did want to get that one in their first!) I think peoples idea of a "hardened swinger" out side the swing community is someone who will turn up and fuck anyone with out bothering to get their names first.

Inside the swinger community I would guess its someone who probably plays most weeks and who frequents clubs etc, where there are lots of chances to play with lots of different people.

Essentially someone who feels right at home in a swinging situation, if you know what I mean.

I was talking to somebody last night and was told that some people actually go to clubs, parties and have meets every weekend. I was a bit surprised - I mean each to their own... but that would mean that swinging rules one's life, wouldnt it?"

Either that or they have no kids

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hardened fem...hasn't had a meet for ages, vag has healed up and hardened, therefore needs to be pried apart in order for there to be any amorous contact

Hardened male - took too many viagra in lustful anticipation of a meet with a "single fem" who didn't turn up

Hardened couple - has to pay Platinum site supporter fee as their veris take up an entire server"

Thats funny!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Hardened fem...hasn't had a meet for ages, vag has healed up and hardened, therefore needs to be pried apart in order for there to be any amorous contact

Hardened male - took too many viagra in lustful anticipation of a meet with a "single fem" who didn't turn up

Hardened couple - has to pay Platinum site supporter fee as their veris take up an entire server"

I persoanlly hold you responsible for me being a time waster on this site. I cannot not respond to your posts! Now does that make me a hardened, not hardened or simply odd?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"lives and breathes swinging, it is central to their life, not an add on...... they log on first thing in the morning and log off last thing at night. they prioritise chatting and posting to their immediate family.... they log on when out with non swinging friends...they are obsessed & addicted with the attention and consider themselves akin to celebrities......."

can you please answer the question now please

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn


"lives and breathes swinging, it is central to their life, not an add on...... they log on first thing in the morning and log off last thing at night. they prioritise chatting and posting to their immediate family.... they log on when out with non swinging friends...they are obsessed & addicted with the attention and consider themselves akin to celebrities.......

can you please answer the question now please "

ok I missed out a few other signs..... but there was a good bit in Criminal Minds on the telly

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By *etillanteWoman  over a year ago

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Hardened in any thing in life, i.e. a hardened criminal, I would take to mean someone who is unlikeley to change or someone who has come to see what they do as the norm.

And that is my sensible post for October

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By *londeCazWoman  over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Hardened fem...hasn't had a meet for ages, vag has healed up and hardened, therefore needs to be pried apart in order for there to be any amorous contact

Hardened male - took too many viagra in lustful anticipation of a meet with a "single fem" who didn't turn up

Hardened couple - has to pay Platinum site supporter fee as their veris take up an entire serverI persoanlly hold you responsible for me being a time waster on this site. I cannot not respond to your posts! Now does that make me a hardened, not hardened or simply odd? "

Odd of course

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley


"Hardened in any thing in life, i.e. a hardened criminal, I would take to mean someone who is unlikeley to change or someone who has come to see what they do as the norm.

And that is my sensible post for October "

You got it in early this month then

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them .

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

[Removed by poster at 02/10/12 15:11:53]

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By *etillanteWoman  over a year ago

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"Hardened in any thing in life, i.e. a hardened criminal, I would take to mean someone who is unlikeley to change or someone who has come to see what they do as the norm.

And that is my sensible post for October

You got it in early this month then "

Yes mean I can be stupid for the rest of the month

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By *phrodite OP   Woman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Hardened in any thing in life, i.e. a hardened criminal, I would take to mean someone who is unlikeley to change or someone who has come to see what they do as the norm.

And that is my sensible post for October "

Jeeze that does worry me as there are 29 days to go and I simply cannot see you not posting!!!

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

and I don't think there is anything wrong being a hardened swinger....... their/my choice

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley

I used to meet quite a bit in the past, but now I rarely meet, does that mean I was hard and now gone soft

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By *phrodite OP   Woman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . "
Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?

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By *etillanteWoman  over a year ago

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"Hardened in any thing in life, i.e. a hardened criminal, I would take to mean someone who is unlikeley to change or someone who has come to see what they do as the norm.

And that is my sensible post for October Jeeze that does worry me as there are 29 days to go and I simply cannot see you not posting!!! "

I have got a busy month

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By *phrodite OP   Woman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Hardened in any thing in life, i.e. a hardened criminal, I would take to mean someone who is unlikeley to change or someone who has come to see what they do as the norm.

And that is my sensible post for October Jeeze that does worry me as there are 29 days to go and I simply cannot see you not posting!!!

I have got a busy month"

Knowing you... you ll slip one in... or two;-)

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley


"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?"

What people seem to forget is that sex and orgasms release endorphins which are said to be more addictive than most drugs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?"
For some thay get there highs from sex ...... and it is .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?

What people seem to forget is that sex and orgasms release endorphins which are said to be more addictive than most drugs "

And your right xx And some need help as take over there life .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" (SOME!!) silly ones"

it's down to the resin...

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley


"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?

What people seem to forget is that sex and orgasms release endorphins which are said to be more addictive than most drugs And your right xx And some need help as take over there life ."

True, it's like all things in moderation things can be ok

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By *londeCazWoman  over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"

I was talking to somebody last night and was told that some people actually go to clubs, parties and have meets every weekend. I was a bit surprised - I mean each to their own... but that would mean that swinging rules one's life, wouldnt it?

"

Serious answer now...I had parties and clubbing organised for 5 or 6 weekends on the bounce recently and managed a few midweek meets too...it's my hobby so I see that as no different to a trainspotter spending some time each weekend jotting in their wee books or a birdwatcher doing whatever birdwatchers do in their wee huts...now I'm badly again I won't be able to meet for a couple of weeks, but after I get back off my hols, if I'm up to it, I've got a party first weekend back and club visit 2nd weekend...I'm lucky in that respect that I don't have any kids to bother about and my mam comes to feed the cats - but if a family emergency cropped up and I was needed at home, I'd cancel the party/club/meet like a shot, so it doesn't rule my life - I don't particularly like the word "hardened" anyway as I think it refers more to hardened criminals, etc. but would say I may be considered to be hardened by some - it's just another label

Silly head back on now - dunno what came over me there

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By *phrodite OP   Woman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


" (SOME!!) silly ones

it's down to the resin... "

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By *phrodite OP   Woman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Hardened fem...hasn't had a meet for ages, vag has healed up and hardened, therefore needs to be pried apart in order for there to be any amorous contact

Hardened male - took too many viagra in lustful anticipation of a meet with a "single fem" who didn't turn up

Hardened couple - has to pay Platinum site supporter fee as their veris take up an entire serverI persoanlly hold you responsible for me being a time waster on this site. I cannot not respond to your posts! Now does that make me a hardened, not hardened or simply odd?

Odd of course "

Only saw that one.. cheers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?

What people seem to forget is that sex and orgasms release endorphins which are said to be more addictive than most drugs And your right xx And some need help as take over there life .

True, it's like all things in moderation things can be ok "

For some nothing can be in moderation ... its just the way thay are as pepole can be food, sex, drink. fags no telling .. sex is just one more thing.

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley


"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?

What people seem to forget is that sex and orgasms release endorphins which are said to be more addictive than most drugs And your right xx And some need help as take over there life .

True, it's like all things in moderation things can be ok For some nothing can be in moderation ... its just the way thay are as pepole can be food, sex, drink. fags no telling .. sex is just one more thing."

But it is enjoyable

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By *phrodite OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?

What people seem to forget is that sex and orgasms release endorphins which are said to be more addictive than most drugs And your right xx And some need help as take over there life .

True, it's like all things in moderation things can be ok For some nothing can be in moderation ... its just the way thay are as pepole can be food, sex, drink. fags no telling .. sex is just one more thing."

I myself find some things difficult... in moderation

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley


"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?

What people seem to forget is that sex and orgasms release endorphins which are said to be more addictive than most drugs And your right xx And some need help as take over there life .

True, it's like all things in moderation things can be ok For some nothing can be in moderation ... its just the way thay are as pepole can be food, sex, drink. fags no telling .. sex is just one more thing.

I myself find some things difficult... in moderation "

Is it the drink

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?

What people seem to forget is that sex and orgasms release endorphins which are said to be more addictive than most drugs And your right xx And some need help as take over there life .

True, it's like all things in moderation things can be ok For some nothing can be in moderation ... its just the way thay are as pepole can be food, sex, drink. fags no telling .. sex is just one more thing.

But it is enjoyable "

sure is when your doing it with people you like. I hold of sex weeks months even as makes me love it even more and johns had bad backs , lol

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley


"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?

What people seem to forget is that sex and orgasms release endorphins which are said to be more addictive than most drugs And your right xx And some need help as take over there life .

True, it's like all things in moderation things can be ok For some nothing can be in moderation ... its just the way thay are as pepole can be food, sex, drink. fags no telling .. sex is just one more thing.

But it is enjoyable sure is when your doing it with people you like. I hold of sex weeks months even as makes me love it even more and johns had bad backs , lol"

Now how does that work I would have thought six minutes in room with you and they be begging for fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?

What people seem to forget is that sex and orgasms release endorphins which are said to be more addictive than most drugs And your right xx And some need help as take over there life .

True, it's like all things in moderation things can be ok For some nothing can be in moderation ... its just the way thay are as pepole can be food, sex, drink. fags no telling .. sex is just one more thing.

But it is enjoyable sure is when your doing it with people you like. I hold of sex weeks months even as makes me love it even more and johns had bad backs , lol

Now how does that work I would have thought six minutes in room with you and they be begging for fun "

lol well i have had lots og horse shows on , lol and yes i have some fill in for john , lol

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley


"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?

What people seem to forget is that sex and orgasms release endorphins which are said to be more addictive than most drugs And your right xx And some need help as take over there life .

True, it's like all things in moderation things can be ok For some nothing can be in moderation ... its just the way thay are as pepole can be food, sex, drink. fags no telling .. sex is just one more thing.

But it is enjoyable sure is when your doing it with people you like. I hold of sex weeks months even as makes me love it even more and johns had bad backs , lol

Now how does that work I would have thought six minutes in room with you and they be begging for fun lol well i have had lots og horse shows on , lol and yes i have some fill in for john , lol "

What is it about female horse riders and high sex drives, almost as high as social workers for needs and wants

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"between a hardened and a not hardened swinger?

I am curious about serious answers but dont mind if you post (SOME!!) silly ones"

The difference in any label placed on a person being prefixed by hardened or not hardened is experience.

The more you experience something, the less sensitive you are in that environment.

People often use 'hardened' in a detrimental way. I think those that use it that way do so to hide their own fear or jealousy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?

What people seem to forget is that sex and orgasms release endorphins which are said to be more addictive than most drugs And your right xx And some need help as take over there life .

True, it's like all things in moderation things can be ok For some nothing can be in moderation ... its just the way thay are as pepole can be food, sex, drink. fags no telling .. sex is just one more thing.

But it is enjoyable sure is when your doing it with people you like. I hold of sex weeks months even as makes me love it even more and johns had bad backs , lol

Now how does that work I would have thought six minutes in room with you and they be begging for fun lol well i have had lots og horse shows on , lol and yes i have some fill in for john , lol

What is it about female horse riders and high sex drives, almost as high as social workers for needs and wants "

social workers .. really .. dont come across alot tell you the truth. maybe thay like leg over at times too xx

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley


"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?

What people seem to forget is that sex and orgasms release endorphins which are said to be more addictive than most drugs And your right xx And some need help as take over there life .

True, it's like all things in moderation things can be ok For some nothing can be in moderation ... its just the way thay are as pepole can be food, sex, drink. fags no telling .. sex is just one more thing.

But it is enjoyable sure is when your doing it with people you like. I hold of sex weeks months even as makes me love it even more and johns had bad backs , lol

Now how does that work I would have thought six minutes in room with you and they be begging for fun lol well i have had lots og horse shows on , lol and yes i have some fill in for john , lol

What is it about female horse riders and high sex drives, almost as high as social workers for needs and wants social workers .. really .. dont come across alot tell you the truth. maybe thay like leg over at times too xx"

To be fair the last time I came across one she went mad

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?

What people seem to forget is that sex and orgasms release endorphins which are said to be more addictive than most drugs And your right xx And some need help as take over there life .

True, it's like all things in moderation things can be ok For some nothing can be in moderation ... its just the way thay are as pepole can be food, sex, drink. fags no telling .. sex is just one more thing.

But it is enjoyable sure is when your doing it with people you like. I hold of sex weeks months even as makes me love it even more and johns had bad backs , lol

Now how does that work I would have thought six minutes in room with you and they be begging for fun lol well i have had lots og horse shows on , lol and yes i have some fill in for john , lol

What is it about female horse riders and high sex drives, almost as high as social workers for needs and wants social workers .. really .. dont come across alot tell you the truth. maybe thay like leg over at times too xx

To be fair the last time I came across one she went mad "

Mad in a good way i hope ,

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By *etillanteWoman  over a year ago

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"Hardened in any thing in life, i.e. a hardened criminal, I would take to mean someone who is unlikeley to change or someone who has come to see what they do as the norm.

And that is my sensible post for October Jeeze that does worry me as there are 29 days to go and I simply cannot see you not posting!!!

I have got a busy monthKnowing you... you ll slip one in... or two;-) "

Oh I intend to starting Thursday

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley


"Some who go out to shag most nights and could not care who it is . Dont even have to like as its like a drug ,Its a sex fix .. thats hard swinger . Soft is just now and again and have to like , or now them . Does make you wonder how close it is to addiction, doesnt it?

What people seem to forget is that sex and orgasms release endorphins which are said to be more addictive than most drugs And your right xx And some need help as take over there life .

True, it's like all things in moderation things can be ok For some nothing can be in moderation ... its just the way thay are as pepole can be food, sex, drink. fags no telling .. sex is just one more thing.

But it is enjoyable sure is when your doing it with people you like. I hold of sex weeks months even as makes me love it even more and johns had bad backs , lol

Now how does that work I would have thought six minutes in room with you and they be begging for fun lol well i have had lots og horse shows on , lol and yes i have some fill in for john , lol

What is it about female horse riders and high sex drives, almost as high as social workers for needs and wants social workers .. really .. dont come across alot tell you the truth. maybe thay like leg over at times too xx

To be fair the last time I came across one she went mad Mad in a good way i hope , "

It was a slip honest

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By *phrodite OP   Woman  over a year ago

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People often use 'hardened' in a detrimental way. I think those that use it that way do so to hide their own fear or jealousy. "

Thats a very good point - I was more interested in what people thought it meant but yes, you are right it can be used in a pejorative sense.

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