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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can someone tell us what this means ? We see it on some profiles. Usually in relation to single guys - ‘Will meet couples, singles ladies and EXCEPTIONAL MALES’.
Is this not just some cliched, profile claptrap ?
What do they need to be exceptional at ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over inflated use of words that sometimees the end product can not be delivered.
It's a sales pitch of want want want and hitting above any weight!!
Many should state what they bring to the table in some or many ways!
Then maybe share a view of what they are seeking and would like in other people,women men,couples.
I strongly say and believe you can not overlook face to face social meets & connections. And even a brief phone call to get a flow and vibes.
Many are dismissing people over a text in here and over photo's which only show a minute Glimpse of any person.
Very shallow and on the surface crap style,and it's gonna be far worse in 2022.
Genuine and real upfront people's are yearning to meet the same.
Peace.
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"Over inflated use of words that sometimees the end product can not be delivered.
It's a sales pitch of want want want and hitting above any weight!!
Many should state what they bring to the table in some or many ways!
Then maybe share a view of what they are seeking and would like in other people,women men,couples.
I strongly say and believe you can not overlook face to face social meets & connections. And even a brief phone call to get a flow and vibes.
Many are dismissing people over a text in here and over photo's which only show a minute Glimpse of any person.
Very shallow and on the surface crap style,and it's gonna be far worse in 2022.
Genuine and real upfront people's are yearning to meet the same.
Peace.
Well put m8 x
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"Over inflated use of words that sometimees the end product can not be delivered.
It's a sales pitch of want want want and hitting above any weight!!
Many should state what they bring to the table in some or many ways!
Then maybe share a view of what they are seeking and would like in other people,women men,couples.
I strongly say and believe you can not overlook face to face social meets & connections. And even a brief phone call to get a flow and vibes.
Many are dismissing people over a text in here and over photo's which only show a minute Glimpse of any person.
Very shallow and on the surface crap style,and it's gonna be far worse in 2022.
Genuine and real upfront people's are yearning to meet the same.
Peace.
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Well said, sites like fabs and apps like tinder/bumble have brought about a time when expectations are sky high and personal delivery is at an all time low. They can ask for exceptional and offer little in return because the numbers say so. When demand is ultra high, the quality supplied can go down |
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I don't like to brag, but I'mt exceptionally exceptional. Not a lot of call for that though. Whenever I respond to an "exceptional male required" post I keep getting rejected because I'm overqualified. C'est la vie... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m sure what they mean by that is a man that fits what they are looking for, not just anyone. Maybe they are looking for certain attributes  "
Agree with that totally buddy . But we never see them asking for ‘exceptional couples’ or ‘exceptional single ladies’ (not saying no one has that on their profile before anyone says). But surely the same parameters must hold true for those 2 groups. We just think it smacks a bit of ‘we know there are a lot of you. You better be the best of the fuckin’ best if you want to come anywhere near our inbox’. Basically they want Maverick from Top Gun ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Over inflated use of words that sometimees the end product can not be delivered.
It's a sales pitch of want want want and hitting above any weight!!
Many should state what they bring to the table in some or many ways!
Then maybe share a view of what they are seeking and would like in other people,women men,couples.
I strongly say and believe you can not overlook face to face social meets & connections. And even a brief phone call to get a flow and vibes.
Many are dismissing people over a text in here and over photo's which only show a minute Glimpse of any person.
Very shallow and on the surface crap style,and it's gonna be far worse in 2022.
Genuine and real upfront people's are yearning to meet the same.
Peace.
Well put m8 x
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Cheers mate
Only Trying to be honest for the real nice people on here whom are paying to keep things flowing. Many are clouding the waters and fouling the play & boundaries.
Pls don't put up with crap,Discrimination., Bullying of any type towards anyone.
Challenge and call it out!!
Today it is somebody else. Tomorrow it could be me. You,us,we..
Patriotism and holding firm to it is bullshite , it is only a T-shirt!!
TRUTH IS TRUTH!! NO matter whom speaks it.
Without Knowledge, facts info, & experience! Everything else is a Asumption, daydream and a lie..
Any genuine yearn to meet face to face. Cool connections that last or real experiences.
Pls pm I shall reply!!
If any of the camp " its my prefference" keep walking. You have a long journey and much to learn about yourself first, then about others.
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By *rian4uMan
over a year ago
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"Can someone tell us what this means ? We see it on some profiles. Usually in relation to single guys - ‘Will meet couples, singles ladies and EXCEPTIONAL MALES’.
Is this not just some cliched, profile claptrap ?
What do they need to be exceptional at ?"
Its the American use of the word exceptionalism, meaning that the laws of the land, rules of the game do not apply to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exceptional…Sounds way to polished for me, imperfections are what make a person stand out from the crowd, little quirks and understated physical attributes are endearing xx"
I agree totally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Over inflated use of words that sometimees the end product can not be delivered.
It's a sales pitch of want want want and hitting above any weight!!
Many should state what they bring to the table in some or many ways!
Then maybe share a view of what they are seeking and would like in other people,women men,couples.
I strongly say and believe you can not overlook face to face social meets & connections. And even a brief phone call to get a flow and vibes.
Many are dismissing people over a text in here and over photo's which only show a minute Glimpse of any person.
Very shallow and on the surface crap style,and it's gonna be far worse in 2022.
Genuine and real upfront people's are yearning to meet the same.
Peace.
Well said, sites like fabs and apps like tinder/bumble have brought about a time when expectations are sky high and personal delivery is at an all time low. They can ask for exceptional and offer little in return because the numbers say so. When demand is ultra high, the quality supplied can go down "
Yes. How many actually meet face to face??
Coz like the dragons den, you will be found out!!
All my connections experiences tastes ,passions,sexploits have all been old skool meets of where you show whom you really are,the real you. Face to face skills of chat banter vibe flow sex appeal the lot. Then allow the other person to decide what action they wish to take if further!! .
We are in a massive decline. Its going to hurt everybody the chain has links many cannot see. They heart and minds and closed
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can someone tell us what this means ? We see it on some profiles. Usually in relation to single guys - ‘Will meet couples, singles ladies and EXCEPTIONAL MALES’.
Is this not just some cliched, profile claptrap ?
What do they need to be exceptional at ?"
I've always wondered about what that phrase means though I can take an educated guess  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tall, big cock, very handsome
And an intellectual.
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.cocks tits pussy. Assholes have IQ of 150 plus.
No heart and brain or personality.
People encourage dire crap,that's why it is what it is.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many people fuck men who they think are not exceptional?
What do we call them?
"Oh, you'll do"."
People make allowances for whom they want..
For the rest they make sky high rules!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can someone tell us what this means ? We see it on some profiles. Usually in relation to single guys - ‘Will meet couples, singles ladies and EXCEPTIONAL MALES’.
Is this not just some cliched, profile claptrap ?
What do they need to be exceptional at ?"
What do you both think it is? Or could mean?
You both look wise mature experienced of people and this life.
Pls enlighten us. |
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Exceptional =
Tall,
Ripped in muscles from top to toe,
9" cock when flaccid,
Hairless body,
Fucks all night,
Repeat cummer,
Does house chores and ironing during sessions,
Makes the tea,
Checks oil, coolant and tyre pressures before he leaves.
First things that come to mind |
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"Exceptional =
Tall,
Ripped in muscles from top to toe,
9" cock when flaccid,
Hairless body,
Fucks all night,
Repeat cummer,
Does house chores and ironing during sessions,
Makes the tea,
Checks oil, coolant and tyre pressures before he leaves.
First things that come to mind "
Reloads the dishwasher, the right way mind… |
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"Exceptional =
Tall,
Ripped in muscles from top to toe,
9" cock when flaccid,
Hairless body,
Fucks all night,
Repeat cummer,
Does house chores and ironing during sessions,
Makes the tea,
Checks oil, coolant and tyre pressures before he leaves.
First things that come to mind "
Oh and weird and wonderful things happen when he shouts "Jumanji" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m sure what they mean by that is a man that fits what they are looking for, not just anyone. Maybe they are looking for certain attributes
Agree with that totally buddy . But we never see them asking for ‘exceptional couples’ or ‘exceptional single ladies’ (not saying no one has that on their profile before anyone says). But surely the same parameters must hold true for those 2 groups. We just think it smacks a bit of ‘we know there are a lot of you. You better be the best of the fuckin’ best if you want to come anywhere near our inbox’. Basically they want Maverick from Top Gun !"
Yeah I get what you mean, I think it’s more they are saying they usually meet with couples but if a single man catches their eye they will meet him… I think anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can someone tell us what this means ? We see it on some profiles. Usually in relation to single guys - ‘Will meet couples, singles ladies and EXCEPTIONAL MALES’.
Is this not just some cliched, profile claptrap ?
What do they need to be exceptional at ?"
When I come across a profile like this.
I move on very quickly  |
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We have this on our profile as we are looking for guys that stand out, that have made an effort, who look after themselves and are going to enhance our play and we all have the same outlook.
We don’t put a list of no’s on our profile as we feel it detracts but if you’ve just got cock pics, no chat or a FaF type profile then you aren’t what we are after.
If you are put off by us having that on our profile then you aren’t our type of person anyway. We will always welcome guys who match our ethos… 
K |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Exceptional =
Tall,
Ripped in muscles from top to toe,
9" cock when flaccid,
Hairless body,
Fucks all night,
Repeat cummer,
Does house chores and ironing during sessions,
Makes the tea,
Checks oil, coolant and tyre pressures before he leaves.
First things that come to mind
Oh and weird and wonderful things happen when he shouts "Jumanji""
Both forgot the master of sourcing exceedingly good cakes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's a load of shite if I'm honest. Just a way of inflating their own ego"
Fully agreed. Way too many buffed up Ego's.
What will change.
Change oneself for the better.
We all ain't got infinite time on our hands..
Live a little
But no many don't want that way so smoothly.
We live in false hope.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's just a way of hopefully keeping the inbox not so filled with messages from blank profiles.
A way to feel comfortable ignoring messages.
Or they're not so fussy with Women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exceptional…Sounds way to polished for me, imperfections are what make a person stand out from the crowd, little quirks and understated physical attributes are endearing xx"
If imperfections and quirks are your thing, I am loaded with both!.... |
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"Exceptional =
Tall,
Ripped in muscles from top to toe,
9" cock when flaccid,
Hairless body,
Fucks all night,
Repeat cummer,
Does house chores and ironing during sessions,
Makes the tea,
Checks oil, coolant and tyre pressures before he leaves.
First things that come to mind
Oh and weird and wonderful things happen when he shouts "Jumanji""
F**k that this sounds like my replacement |
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I think they just mean that they are not interested in most men, so any man they are interested in is the exception rather than the rule. What makes a man the exception somebody is interested will vary from situation to situation. It seems pretty simple to me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think they just mean that they are not interested in most men, so any man they are interested in is the exception rather than the rule. What makes a man the exception somebody is interested will vary from situation to situation. It seems pretty simple to me. "
So why don’t they state exceptional couples or exceptional females ? Sounds like they are saying we can’t get couples or females so we will shag anyone showing the slightest bit of interest. Oh but not you single guys. You’re ten to a penny so we can be picky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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think it just used to filter more from not replying ...dont see anything wrong with it if it works for them if others dont like it the dont message rather than get your knickers in a twist over something no one else can control |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think they just mean that they are not interested in most men, so any man they are interested in is the exception rather than the rule. What makes a man the exception somebody is interested will vary from situation to situation. It seems pretty simple to me.
So why don’t they state exceptional couples or exceptional females ? Sounds like they are saying we can’t get couples or females so we will shag anyone showing the slightest bit of interest. Oh but not you single guys. You’re ten to a penny so we can be picky. "
All comes down to personal perception.
We all know single Men outnumber ladies and couples combined, so to me it seems they're saying though looking for single guys, it's not their primary choice.
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"I think they just mean that they are not interested in most men, so any man they are interested in is the exception rather than the rule. What makes a man the exception somebody is interested will vary from situation to situation. It seems pretty simple to me.
So why don’t they state exceptional couples or exceptional females ? Sounds like they are saying we can’t get couples or females so we will shag anyone showing the slightest bit of interest. Oh but not you single guys. You’re ten to a penny so we can be picky. "
We can only speak for ourselves but we have exceptional guys on our profile because we are after the type of men who know how to talk to a lady/couple…a lot of guys seem to talk with their dicks in their hands…
We get a lot of messages from guys and we’d say 90% are just an instant delete because of the one liners, FaF messages, no effort, dick pics…
Single girls don’t send us messages with pussy pics, asking if we FaF…couples don’t tend to either.
So that’s why we’ve distinctly only ask for exceptional guys as basically we want normal guys, not the wanking dead!
Nothing to do with us being picky or thinking guys are ten a penny…we are ing out the guys who really can’t be bothered making any effort.
K
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over inflated use of words that sometimees the end product can not be delivered.
It's a sales pitch of want want want and hitting above any weight!!
Many should state what they bring to the table in some or many ways!
Then maybe share a view of what they are seeking and would like in other people,women men,couples.
I strongly say and believe you can not overlook face to face social meets & connections. And even a brief phone call to get a flow and vibes.
Many are dismissing people over a text in here and over photo's which only show a minute Glimpse of any person.
Very shallow and on the surface crap style,and it's gonna be far worse in 2022.
Genuine and real upfront people's are yearning to meet the same.
Peace.
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Couldn't agree more .
Especially when you view some pics and see what they have on offer .. some very double standard.. but every one to their own |
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"Thats a good answer
Sounds like the bar is set pretty low then to be considered ‘exceptional’ if that’s how the majority or guys on here act. "
The bar is unfortunately set low by a lot of guys on here.
You’d know this if you accepted single guys to message you but as you don’t then you wouldn’t know the standard of some guys that message, which kinda makes it a strange reason you are chastising profiles that seek more… 
We have met exceptional guys so the bar has been set high and will remain high
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
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"I’m sure what they mean by that is a man that fits what they are looking for, not just anyone. Maybe they are looking for certain attributes
Agree with that totally buddy . But we never see them asking for ‘exceptional couples’ or ‘exceptional single ladies’ (not saying no one has that on their profile before anyone says). But surely the same parameters must hold true for those 2 groups. We just think it smacks a bit of ‘we know there are a lot of you. You better be the best of the fuckin’ best if you want to come anywhere near our inbox’. Basically they want Maverick from Top Gun !"
Maverick from Top Gun would not get passed their age and height filters |
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"Can someone tell us what this means ? We see it on some profiles. Usually in relation to single guys - ‘Will meet couples, singles ladies and EXCEPTIONAL MALES’.
Is this not just some cliched, profile claptrap ?
What do they need to be exceptional at ?"
I think it means they'll leave the toilet seat down after use |
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