so, I'm many things in my life, one that features in this kinda site is my x-dressing. It takes a tiny part of my time, is great fun and I'll be damned if i apologise or worry about it.
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i can't and won't wear the tranny uniform...you know; suspenders and heels , fake boobies and 'slut' or 'sissy' in my profile.
maybe id look okey in suspenders and heels, maybe i have a little sissy in me, maybe i can be a bit slut, but i just won't or can't bring myself to conform to the clichè.
i know I'm a contrary kinda person so I'm happy to take my own path , and buck the trend (with no anti to those who do that thing)
It's mine and i do it my way.
Question is, what cliché do you avoid, or embrace ? Even when maybe it puts you out of the loop
or maybe because it puts you In the loop .
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In my younger years, when casual misogyny was normalised and more rife, I used to really struggle with the whole ‘bimbo blonde’ stereotype. I have tried to live my life proving the opposite! |
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"I try to avoid the older woman, knows what she wants and how to get it cliché "
Oh God yeah, that is a lazy and annoying one.
Let’s face it, we’re confused as fuck same as the rest of them.
I realise this flies in the face of my earlier blonde comment  |
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What an excellent question! A lot to it. Clothes as identity, hypersexualisation in cross dressing, perception vs reality, cliche as crass stereotype or truism, contrarianism vs the desire to belong and how/why all of these play a part in people coming to and how they play on Fab.
Too many to answer. So will lurk instead. Hopefully not just a meta "woohoo check out my profile" post.  |
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"I try to avoid the older woman, knows what she wants and how to get it cliché
Ha ha ha is it true? Asking for a friend  "
It's true that I try to avoid it and not true that older women know what they want and how to get it. Show me a menu with several choices of dessert and the waiters will be turning lights off and putting chairs on tables before I've decided  |
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"I try to avoid the older woman, knows what she wants and how to get it cliché
Ha ha ha is it true? Asking for a friend
It's true that I try to avoid it and not true that older women know what they want and how to get it. Show me a menu with several choices of dessert and the waiters will be turning lights off and putting chairs on tables before I've decided "
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"I embrace all of my cliches and couldn’t really give a fuck about the opinions of those that I don’t love "
Hah, hug the cliches close ! some part of me digs heels in when i feel im getting cliche,,,even when it's not really in my interest |
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"What an excellent question! A lot to it. Clothes as identity, hypersexualisation in cross dressing, perception vs reality, cliche as crass stereotype or truism, contrarianism vs the desire to belong and how/why all of these play a part in people coming to and how they play on Fab.
Too many to answer. So will lurk instead. Hopefully not just a meta "woohoo check out my profile" post. "
check out my profile post ! oh but wait, that's a bit...cliché |
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