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What do you think of me; debrief
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
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Now that the thread has been running for a little while, I think that it’s time to review and take stock a little.
For those of you that have taken part, how do you think that it has gone?
Was it overwhelmingly positive? Did you get any surprises? If there were negatives, will you take them on board? Will it change how you post or how you approach fab?
This is a large part of the process folks so please, don’t hold back and be honest...
As an additional part of this, can I also ask that people post how many people they sent and received from please? That way it helps to understand the level of response |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've received pretty much all positive feedback, nothing negative. I appreciate it of course but I think people are too kind on here. Thank you lovely people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got in quite late but managed to send a few out and got 3 back which were quite nice. A masochistic part of me was hoping someone who hated me messaged and just laid into me though  |
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Sent 6, received 4. Only one received was sent first, the others were replies.
It was nice to see that others see me the way I see myself in the main.
I do understand one point made that it can confuse people if they don't know who they're interacting with. This is a couples account and we are happily married, but my husband does not come onto the forums.
I'm not sure I'll change the way I do things but I may try to be more obvious in the future with my posts to show it's the female half posting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Received + responded to 10
Sent 5 ... Although one of them was "Fucks sake  "
Mostly positive - one thought my profile wasn't very encouraging /welcoming, which I'm kinda OK with |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sent 6, received 4. Only one received was sent first, the others were replies.
It was nice to see that others see me the way I see myself in the main.
I do understand one point made that it can confuse people if they don't know who they're interacting with. This is a couples account and we are happily married, but my husband does not come onto the forums.
I'm not sure I'll change the way I do things but I may try to be more obvious in the future with my posts to show it's the female half posting "
Why not just sign off with your initial? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sent 5. I received 7.
As expected for the most part. I was actually surprised when I got a message to say someone was disappointed about my view on a hot topic BUT it wasn't in a nasty way - and we had a good chat about it to share our views which was refreshing. Rather than undermining comments.
"Fiesty" was a common word used to describe me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I sent 5. I received 7.
As expected for the most part. I was actually surprised when I got a message to say someone was disappointed about my view on a hot topic BUT it wasn't in a nasty way - and we had a good chat about it to share our views which was refreshing. Rather than undermining comments.
"Fiesty" was a common word used to describe me "
Feisty one you are |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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I sent 8 and received 11 - on the whole they were positive and people seem to perceive me how I hope I come across, a free spirited exhibitionist who is friendly once you get to know me seemed to be the general consensus - and one almost made me cry it was that spot on!
A lovely idea and great to get to chat to some people who you perhaps wouldn’t have before
Great idea OP
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really positive overall, as I received some further non-appearance related feedback! And it was pretty spot on too!
Off to send some of my own now.
Thanks for setting up this thread  |
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Feisty in a good way.. I hope 
