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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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These past couple of years have certainly given us all a chance to reflect on what makes us happy, what we would like to change and goals for when normality is back. I've been doing a lot of this myself lately so I'm curious to know has this weird time changed your attitude towards swinging?
If not, what would be the thing that would make you turn your back on this lifestyle for good? Or are you confident it will always be a part of your life?
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not sure if it will always be a part of my life. I'm not really a swinger in all honesty, the past couple of years have helped me realise that I'm more a poly, junior slute with insatiable curiosity and deviance rather than a swinger.  As well as that, I've realised I've spent the past decade being relatively... vanilla. And I'd like to change that as my confidence in my self grows. Enjoy sex because it's fun and enjoy my body while I'm still quite young and reasonably doable.
Maybe it will always be a part of my life and I'll just take extended breaks as necessary. Who knows. |
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I joined here to try and expand my sexual experiences and I wouldn't bday I'm a true swinger as I'm not really a huge fan of clubs and things like that.
If I found the right person, I think it would be fairly easy for me to leave this site behind if they weren't on here  |
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By *HoneyWoman
over a year ago
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I’m not entirely sure I’d want to give it up. My ex properly introduced me to this website a few months ago. We met some couples and I found it really hot when I saw him with another woman.
Swinging has been part of my life for many years, since I was in my 20’s. Although I’ve only been on this site since this year x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure if it will always be a part of my life. I'm not really a swinger in all honesty, the past couple of years have helped me realise that I'm more a poly, junior slute with insatiable curiosity and deviance rather than a swinger. As well as that, I've realised I've spent the past decade being relatively... vanilla. And I'd like to change that as my confidence in my self grows. Enjoy sex because it's fun and enjoy my body while I'm still quite young and reasonably doable.
Maybe it will always be a part of my life and I'll just take extended breaks as necessary. Who knows."
Reasonably doable. Love this.  |
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I’m not a swinger I’m a kinkster in the right company. The transient nature of relationships here doesn’t work with how my mind works so I’m making a conscious effort next year to move away from here and to stop making mistakes that I can see in advance. I’ve made the best circle of humans here who I’m absolutely keeping. But I’ll be concentrating efforts to meet new people in other places. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes it’s changed when things go back to normally if you could call it that
It’s time to stop worrying about what others think and just injoy life to the fullest
Would I turn my back on the life style
Yes and no if a meet someone who wasn’t in to it and they were worth give it up I would in a heartbeat
But the ultimate true gole is to find someone who accepts me for the real me
And fully open both ways for both sexes but starting to come to the reality that’s a dream
But still dosent mean I can’t injoy the journey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not a swinger but I am ENM and Poly. Fab itself may not always be part of my life but something somewhere probably will be. I'm also a kinkster, I couldn't give that up of I tried, it's part of who I am. |
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My polycule (stable) relationships are something I hold dear to my heart and would not give up, Its been my lifestyle since I were 18 and naturally fits with our wants and needs.
If I ever found a primary partner then he would have to be polyamourous as that's a part of my soul  |
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Erm... I feel I've already turned my back on it in all honesty.
Knowing I've done whatever is within my capacity to prevent others getting taken advantage of or ending up being cheated on has pretty much put the nail in my swinging coffin, coz all I can realistically do to ensure I don't find myself in that situation where I am an enabler is to avoid people altogether.
I value people more than sex and my psyche couldn't handle another blow to my integrity.
That's not to say all other people value sex more and I'm some kind of martyr, I simply can't take another helping of guilt or confusion regarding it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve always been polyamorous but losing my wife and swinging partner 6 years ago really left me in a dark place mentally and physically. I’ve spent the past couple of years clawing my way back and recently rejoined Fab, but I still can’t bring myself to meet couples or go to clubs, and I’m not sure I ever will again. I’ve tried ‘regular’ dating sites and met some lovely women but a spark has remained elusive. I really don’t know what 2022 will bring but I’ll continue to be positive and work on being the best version of me that I can be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wanted to explore my kink side more which i am doing.. But i don't seem to be swinging... However, I think i am sated currently and happy with my lot... Fab also gives my exhibitionist side a safe, anonymous space that i can control, where I am free to just be 'me' |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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My reasons (wants desires needs) for joining many years ago are vastly diffefent if I joined today.
I'm pretty open in my profile and on threads I'm looking for something more than just frisky frolics,
I'm on mainstream dating apps and stay on fab reasoning it leaves another aVenue to find that lady, if the right lady came along and this wasn't what we wanted... Syonara fab. |
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