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By *ttmcdguy OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Milton Keynes |
Ive just been blocked by a guy who contacted me a few days ago asking to meet me
Well i didnt think we were a match from reading his profile so politely declined
I had a meet with a guy today and he asked me about it
So i skipped over the juicy details
He then said he didnt want to meet anyone who meets with others !!
Am i right in thinking we are mostly here to meet for sex
Or are we here to look for a marriage ?
If so im in the wrong place ! |
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I think you'd be surprised how many people don't want to acknowledge that the people they meet are having sex with others. An awful lot of people can only do this stuff if they explain it to themselves as something more meaningful than it actually is.
It's actually the cause of quite a lot of heartache from what I see. |
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We're here to do whatever it is we are comfortable with.
For some that will mean shagging as many people as possible as often as possible, for others that will mean one person at a time and exclusivity for however long that may be.
Showing people respect for their wishes and desires doesn't equate to marriage and any spouting of that just because its different to how someone thinks and does things is quite frankly absurd. It equates to saying "that's not for me thank you, I hope you find who you're looking for"
People are allowed to do things their way, as are you. |
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I mean, if I'm gonna go down the REALLY sensible route it could be something as simple as routine testing.
They say to get tested every time you have a new partner (and that's based on monogamy) so maybe they don't fancy spending every other day with a swab down their piss hole coz the person they're banging is dick deep in others.
Ya know, just to put that out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well some of us do get married to a person we meet on here! 
Everyone has different needs and expectations from this site. I don't necessarily think it was a problem that he asked that but it's probably that you are not a match. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you'd be surprised how many people don't want to acknowledge that the people they meet are having sex with others. An awful lot of people can only do this stuff if they explain it to themselves as something more meaningful than it actually is.
It's actually the cause of quite a lot of heartache from what I see."
The non-swinging swingers? 
It is all in the mind - trust and sharing - not in the act and trying to be daring. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're here to do whatever it is we are comfortable with.
For some that will mean shagging as many people as possible as often as possible, for others that will mean one person at a time and exclusivity for however long that may be.
Showing people respect for their wishes and desires doesn't equate to marriage and any spouting of that just because its different to how someone thinks and does things is quite frankly absurd. It equates to saying "that's not for me thank you, I hope you find who you're looking for"
People are allowed to do things their way, as are you."
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"We're here to do whatever it is we are comfortable with.
For some that will mean shagging as many people as possible as often as possible, for others that will mean one person at a time and exclusivity for however long that may be.
Showing people respect for their wishes and desires doesn't equate to marriage and any spouting of that just because its different to how someone thinks and does things is quite frankly absurd. It equates to saying "that's not for me thank you, I hope you find who you're looking for"
People are allowed to do things their way, as are you. "
Now I'm humming it.
Do doop, do doop, do dooo do doop! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean, if I'm gonna go down the REALLY sensible route it could be something as simple as routine testing.
They say to get tested every time you have a new partner (and that's based on monogamy) so maybe they don't fancy spending every other day with a swab down their piss hole coz the person they're banging is dick deep in others.
Ya know, just to put that out there."
Then why come to fab at all? Would they not be better on match.com ? Asking for a friend. |
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"I mean, if I'm gonna go down the REALLY sensible route it could be something as simple as routine testing.
They say to get tested every time you have a new partner (and that's based on monogamy) so maybe they don't fancy spending every other day with a swab down their piss hole coz the person they're banging is dick deep in others.
Ya know, just to put that out there.
Then why come to fab at all? Would they not be better on match.com ? Asking for a friend. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive just been blocked by a guy who contacted me a few days ago asking to meet me
Well i didnt think we were a match from reading his profile so politely declined
I had a meet with a guy today and he asked me about it
So i skipped over the juicy details
He then said he didnt want to meet anyone who meets with others !!
Am i right in thinking we are mostly here to meet for sex
Or are we here to look for a marriage ?
If so im in the wrong place ! "
Maybe he is married and doesn't want to take an STI home to his missus. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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Nop, looking for fellow  cake fetishists
Ummmm....cake fetishists? Not sure if that's a thing but sounds like my kind of fetish since I have a baked products addiction."
Baked products addiction?? ... welcome, you are in the right place and amongst friends |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
I'm presuming that sometimes jealousy can happen even among friends. I found that out when I was visiting clubs. I've always been truthful and open over who I meet and play with. Some can accept that, some can't it seems |
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