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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do couples send the first message to single men ? "
I have had it before however unless you’re exactly what they want/are looking for it won’t happen
I always tend to wink and if it’s reciprocated i message however it always comes across lazy i feel but its more a i think you’re attractive etc before a message as theres alot of singles to couples on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course not. How else am I going to know your a decent person without you reading our profile, jumping through 5000 hoops and declaring a word of our choice in your opening message? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course not. How else am I going to know your a decent person without you reading our profile, jumping through 5000 hoops and declaring a word of our choice in your opening message? "
But god forbid you don’t as it’s an immediate block and report to admin  |
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"Of course not. How else am I going to know your a decent person without you reading our profile, jumping through 5000 hoops and declaring a word of our choice in your opening message? "
haha true this tho |
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"Of course not. How else am I going to know your a decent person without you reading our profile, jumping through 5000 hoops and declaring a word of our choice in your opening message? "
Thats exactly how it feels pmsl |
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We’ve messaged singles first quite a bit.
We are after decent guys with a good profile and pics - someone who’s made an effort as we feel these are the types of people we’ll get along with.
Someone we can converse with first before getting naked.
A number of guys just send messages with dick pics or have nothing in their profile which is attracting us. So sometimes it’s easier to go hunting ourselves 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We actually haven't  I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x"
I doubt you would get rejected by many in here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x"
It does take guts definitely especially if they read and ignore but it’s all part of it i guess |
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It might just be the area I live or maybe I'm just ugly, but unless your huge like a horse it's very rare couples want single men. It all couples or single females, if I do ever message they're just read and ignored. I always try to be polite..... Maybe that's what wrong, feel like giving up sometimes. |
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"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x"
Can't see why you think you'd get rejected as you both look good. Question is what do you want from the first message? I've tried all sorts and all get ignored. |
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I have. I have sent the first message to maybe 7 or 8 single men now. Sometimes one will wink and something about their profile will get me interested. Or I'll have noticed them in the forum.
It doesn't always lead to meeting but have had some pleasant chats |
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By (user no longer on site)
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They do, on the 13th full moon of the year at midnight. That's when they start browsing profiles, and by the 3rd Roosters crow a message will appear in a single lads box! |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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"Do couples send the first message to single men ? "
They do yes...but it's mostly the boyfriend/husband that sends the message, and it's usually something cringe, like " you look like the type of guy who should be fucking my wife" ...  uhm OK thanks  |
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"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x
I doubt you would get rejected by many in here "
Aw thank you x that's really kind of you x  |
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"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x
Can't see why you think you'd get rejected as you both look good. Question is what do you want from the first message? I've tried all sorts and all get ignored. "
I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Bad experiences when I was younger and not as "well looked after" as I am now, aka I was a well dodgy looking youngster lol x rejection leaves its mark.
We always love humour, a humorous bio, a tongue in cheek message, something that intrigues us x be different x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah once.. I panicked and didn’t know what to say! I don’t think Iv got the balls to take up an offer from a couple haha
I was the same at first ,but if its all good it works "
I wouldn’t know where to start mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have. I have sent the first message to maybe 7 or 8 single men now. Sometimes one will wink and something about their profile will get me interested. Or I'll have noticed them in the forum.
It doesn't always lead to meeting but have had some pleasant chats "
Those lucky buggers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x
Can't see why you think you'd get rejected as you both look good. Question is what do you want from the first message? I've tried all sorts and all get ignored.
I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Bad experiences when I was younger and not as "well looked after" as I am now, aka I was a well dodgy looking youngster lol x rejection leaves its mark.
We always love humour, a humorous bio, a tongue in cheek message, something that intrigues us x be different x "
We all had the dodgy youngster looking moments….my worst look was the Mullet in 2005….went proper Fun House crazy with it
Don’t let the issues of the past affect your present….you’re lovely  |
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"Yeah once.. I panicked and didn’t know what to say! I don’t think Iv got the balls to take up an offer from a couple haha
I was the same at first ,but if its all good it works
I wouldn’t know where to start mate "
Same as me ,we had a social first ,we were all uneasy at first ,but then things clicked and we met again ,mr was happy to sit back and watch ,then on the next meet we all got involved,once your comfortable with it ,it all falls into place mate |
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"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x
Can't see why you think you'd get rejected as you both look good. Question is what do you want from the first message? I've tried all sorts and all get ignored.
I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Bad experiences when I was younger and not as "well looked after" as I am now, aka I was a well dodgy looking youngster lol x rejection leaves its mark.
We always love humour, a humorous bio, a tongue in cheek message, something that intrigues us x be different x
We all had the dodgy youngster looking moments….my worst look was the Mullet in 2005….went proper Fun House crazy with it
Don’t let the issues of the past affect your present….you’re lovely "
Thank you so much x loved fun house hahahaha!! Pat Sharp and the twins rocked lol x |
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"Do couples send the first message to single men ? "
Some do, just keep your wits about you; a non-verified profile, with no pics and not even photo-verified by the site, is likely to just be a sweaty closet gay looking for cock pics |
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