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True purpose of a 'Hotlist'
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Based on your current Hotlist, what is it more of? A 'wait for the right moment list' or is it looking more like a 'pervlist'
Be honest we don't judge. Well I don't at least. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When I first signed up before I knew how things really worked here i would add all the accounts that caught my attention to the Hotlist, so i could pop up when I got my account up to scratch. But since then ive never ended up speaking with any of them but there pics are nice so I keep forgetting to remove them.  |
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"Based on your current Hotlist, what is it more of? A 'wait for the right moment list' or is it looking more like a 'pervlist'
Be honest we don't judge. Well I don't at least. "
A mixture of both!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perusal list.
Keeping an eye on you list.
Add to friends one day list.
What's the conversion rate, im curios? "
Opportunities do arise through forum/messages of the back of the threads/group socials. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to keep my eye on people for lots of reasons, I do message sometimes depending on their status updates and if my Quip/reply/one liner/input is relevant.
It’s a good list too, some funny people,
They know who they are  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I also have another question. For the ladies. Is it a turn on knowing there's probably 100's of accounts who have you saved in a list of people to perv on??
I assume it doesn't put you off as this is a swingers site. Buti could be wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also have another question. For the ladies. Is it a turn on knowing there's probably 100's of accounts who have you saved in a list of people to perv on??
I assume it doesn't put you off as this is a swingers site. Buti could be wrong"
Being on someone's hotlist doesn't really do anything for me. Alot of men aren't picky (don't all shoot me at once). I appreciate the people more who actually enjoy the thought that goes into some of them. Erotic, classy, not too graphic. And those people are the ones that tend to message and say so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also have another question. For the ladies. Is it a turn on knowing there's probably 100's of accounts who have you saved in a list of people to perv on??
I assume it doesn't put you off as this is a swingers site. Buti could be wrong"
Don't care. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also have another question. For the ladies. Is it a turn on knowing there's probably 100's of accounts who have you saved in a list of people to perv on??
I assume it doesn't put you off as this is a swingers site. Buti could be wrong"
A turn on been on 100's ( maybe 10's) of accounts belonging to horny guys who most would fuck/wank off to anyone? Definitely not.
More of a turn on the one guy I actually fancy liking one of my pics. |
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"I also have another question. For the ladies. Is it a turn on knowing there's probably 100's of accounts who have you saved in a list of people to perv on??
I assume it doesn't put you off as this is a swingers site. Buti could be wrong"
Bless anyone who puts me on a hotlist when there are genuinely hot people on here! I'd probably feel a bit sorry for them - my photos aren't hot and I very rarely post a status update. |
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Hotlist of ladies I fancy the pants off. Tend to keep an eye, perv/lurk for a while and watch what they say or do. Too many negative status updates etc but me off of what seemed like an attractive profile at first.
The few that stay (no point having loads as not enough time) in the list I contact, get nuked by and then back to the drawing board |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a threeway split;
Some hot ladies who post pics I don’t like to miss out on;
Some ladies I would like to get to know;
Some profiles I want to avoid, but like to keep an eye on…"
Same but the male equivalent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also have another question. For the ladies. Is it a turn on knowing there's probably 100's of accounts who have you saved in a list of people to perv on??
I assume it doesn't put you off as this is a swingers site. Buti could be wrong"
I don…..oh sorry. It’s a question for the ladies.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hotlist of ladies I fancy the pants off. Tend to keep an eye, perv/lurk for a while and watch what they say or do. Too many negative status updates etc but me off of what seemed like an attractive profile at first.
The few that stay (no point having loads as not enough time) in the list I contact, get nuked by and then back to the drawing board "
I sometimes use it for that too. Observe for a wee while and if they're an arsey status kind of person, I won't bother messaging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mostly locals that are way out of my league haha.
It would be nice if your profile showed how many hotlists you are in.... although seeing a big fat 0 could be depressing  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mostly locals that are way out of my league haha.
It would be nice if your profile showed how many hotlists you are in.... although seeing a big fat 0 could be depressing "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only add people as friends once we’ve met so we use the hotlist for people we’ve chatted to and would meet in future. There is one or two on there just for perving purposes though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My hotlist is a perve list/future potential meet list. Everyone I have met or going to meet moves to the friend list."
I think you got the most organised list |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anybody have people in their hotlist who are outside of your age range?
I have a couple in their 70s who always have something funny to post"
And the misses is very tantalising  but |
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Surely the purpose of a hot list is when you see someone and they look nice and you think, oh I'll message them later, and then you put them in your hot list and never get around to messaging them.
Or when they are so hot and you want to keep abreast of their breasts. |
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"Ours is a "we really want to message him/her/them but they're way out of our league" list 
(Bry)"
Why are you doing yourselves down? The worst that can happen is a no/no reply, abuse can ve reported and says more about them than you.
We were pretty embarrassed when somebody said that to us, they were a beautiful couple.
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"Ours is a "we really want to message him/her/them but they're way out of our league" list
(Bry)
Why are you doing yourselves down? The worst that can happen is a no/no reply, abuse can ve reported and says more about them than you.
We were pretty embarrassed when somebody said that to us, they were a beautiful couple.
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Exactly - and you two don’t be shy about asking me to join you for some life changing sexual experiences too!! You’ll never have had someone kneel on your hair like
I do…. Call me… pm me…  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its a hot and NOT list, using the note function to say why.
Pleased to say this year in particular a good few Hots have gone to our friends list instead."
I should use that note function more often |
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"Its a hot and NOT list, using the note function to say why.
Pleased to say this year in particular a good few Hots have gone to our friends list instead.
I should use that note function more often"
The note function is the only reason I pay the site supporter fee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Based on your current Hotlist, what is it more of? A 'wait for the right moment list' or is it looking more like a 'pervlist'
Be honest we don't judge. Well I don't at least. "
A revenge list cause they all knocked me back !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She can’t be bothered trawling through profiles so I add guys that she might want to take a look at.
I know roughly what she likes and she can delete or wink.
Up to her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perv list as I'm not meeting. Also some exceptionally good photos which may provide some inspiration for my own pics. And one guy with an incredibly comfortable looking face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perv list as I'm not meeting. Also some exceptionally good photos which may provide some inspiration for my own pics. And one guy with an incredibly comfortable looking face
Hotlist +1 "
You're in cracking shape |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A bit of both.
Some fabbers are too far away, despite being a straight up 10/10 so hotlisting them is a bit like following them on other socials.
Others get hotlisted to wait for the right time. |
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By *heerFlirtMan
over a year ago
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"Perv list as I'm not meeting. Also some exceptionally good photos which may provide some inspiration for my own pics. And one guy with an incredibly comfortable looking face
Hotlist +1
You're in cracking shape "
Now that's the first time I've blushed in a long time!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perv list as I'm not meeting. Also some exceptionally good photos which may provide some inspiration for my own pics. And one guy with an incredibly comfortable looking face "
Hotlisted! Beautiful pics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perv list as I'm not meeting. Also some exceptionally good photos which may provide some inspiration for my own pics. And one guy with an incredibly comfortable looking face
Hotlisted! Beautiful pics "
Now I am blushing!!! |
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By *heerFlirtMan
over a year ago
Quite near Bath usually |
"Perv list as I'm not meeting. Also some exceptionally good photos which may provide some inspiration for my own pics. And one guy with an incredibly comfortable looking face
Hotlisted! Beautiful pics
Now I am blushing!!! "
Hotlist +1 +1...
Do you come as a pair? |
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