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I know Mimi is invested, so that was the go ahead for a thread 
It’s 2.45 hours away. And I’m shitting my pants (not literally, although I might be in the next hour)
I haven’t had a date for over 7 years. He knows I’m a sexual fiend and non monogamous, I’m going to show him fab. Do you think that’s wise and Do you think he’ll stick around?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He is a lucky man. Just be yourself and see how it goes. If you show him and he runs then it wasn't to be as they need to accept the whole of you not just parts. Hope that makes sense and good luck for tonight. I don't think you will need it though. |
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Good questions.
Hmm, I’ll just mention it and that I’m on it.
It may be an issue at first I guess because I’m not invested in him yet. I don’t know. I haven’t done this for so long.
Im hoping he’ll sign up |
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"Good questions.
Hmm, I’ll just mention it and that I’m on it.
It may be an issue at first I guess because I’m not invested in him yet. I don’t know. I haven’t done this for so long.
Im hoping he’ll sign up "
Offer to help him with some profile pics, I'm sure he'll jump at the chance  |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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The only thing that I’ll say is that the fantasy is often very far removed from the reality. Lots of people think that they’ll be cool with non monogamy, most aren’t, so don’t rush him to be ok with it |
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Good advice.
I think I’m a pretty good judge of character so I’ll look out for his reactions.
If he’s cool with it, happy days.
I don’t want to fall into the trap of liking someone but feeling suppressed.
I’m already over thinking it!  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"The only thing that I’ll say is that the fantasy is often very far removed from the reality. Lots of people think that they’ll be cool with non monogamy, most aren’t, so don’t rush him to be ok with it"
Just go and have fun, see if you want to take it further before broaching the topic. |
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"I know Mimi is invested, so that was the go ahead for a thread
It’s 2.45 hours away. And I’m shitting my pants (not literally, although I might be in the next hour)
I haven’t had a date for over 7 years. He knows I’m a sexual fiend and non monogamous, I’m going to show him fab. Do you think that’s wise and Do you think he’ll stick around? "
Enjoy yourself, if he knows all of this then I’m sure he’ll stick around - and if he struggles with that side of you, then you’ve got a decision to make and whatever will be, will be. Good luck x |
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"The only thing that I’ll say is that the fantasy is often very far removed from the reality. Lots of people think that they’ll be cool with non monogamy, most aren’t, so don’t rush him to be ok with it"
This is so true. Don't know if there is a way to introduce/explain it better (but clearly I don't know it!). |
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"Aw thank you so much everyone. See, if it doesn’t work out, I’ll be fine. I have a fab family.
As per, I’m running late  this is why men don’t date me. I’m never on time
I’ve got legs to shave! "
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"Aw thank you so much everyone. See, if it doesn’t work out, I’ll be fine. I have a fab family.
As per, I’m running late this is why men don’t date me. I’m never on time
I’ve got legs to shave!
Cue an inbox meltdown with offers to help "
I purposely left other parts unshaved so that I wasn’t tempted..
Yeah it didn’t work.
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By *LiamMan
over a year ago
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"Aw thank you so much everyone. See, if it doesn’t work out, I’ll be fine. I have a fab family.
As per, I’m running late this is why men don’t date me. I’m never on time
I’ve got legs to shave!
Cue an inbox meltdown with offers to help
I purposely left other parts unshaved so that I wasn’t tempted..
Yeah it didn’t work.
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"Aw thank you so much everyone. See, if it doesn’t work out, I’ll be fine. I have a fab family.
As per, I’m running late this is why men don’t date me. I’m never on time
I’ve got legs to shave!
Cue an inbox meltdown with offers to help
I purposely left other parts unshaved so that I wasn’t tempted..
Yeah it didn’t work.
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I didn’t get around to mentioning fab, we were talking vanilla stuff for ages. But we touched on kink. He’s got a very open mind! Yessssssss!!! And a bit of a sub side, which plays well to me.
But then, saying goodnight, his hand accidentally slipped down my knickers while we were kissing. How did that happen?!? Clumsy man! Could have quite easily asked him back to mine. He made me orgasm, then told me to go home home and watch the Witcher (to perv Henry Cavill). Followed by a kiss on the forehead. (Been a long time since anyone did that )
And he’s text me since saying “we are going to have a lot of fun”
I’d say it went quite well? No? |
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"I didn’t get around to mentioning fab, we were talking vanilla stuff for ages. But we touched on kink. He’s got a very open mind! Yessssssss!!! And a bit of a sub side, which plays well to me.
But then, saying goodnight, his hand accidentally slipped down my knickers while we were kissing. How did that happen?!? Clumsy man! Could have quite easily asked him back to mine. He made me orgasm, then told me to go home home and watch the Witcher (to perv Henry Cavill). Followed by a kiss on the forehead. (Been a long time since anyone did that )
And he’s text me since saying “we are going to have a lot of fun”
I’d say it went quite well? No? "
Sounds pretty good Honestly my money was on you updating the thread from this bathroom
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"I didn’t get around to mentioning fab, we were talking vanilla stuff for ages. But we touched on kink. He’s got a very open mind! Yessssssss!!! And a bit of a sub side, which plays well to me.
But then, saying goodnight, his hand accidentally slipped down my knickers while we were kissing. How did that happen?!? Clumsy man! Could have quite easily asked him back to mine. He made me orgasm, then told me to go home home and watch the Witcher (to perv Henry Cavill). Followed by a kiss on the forehead. (Been a long time since anyone did that )
And he’s text me since saying “we are going to have a lot of fun”
I’d say it went quite well? No?
Sounds pretty good Honestly my money was on you updating the thread from this bathroom
LvM"
My money was in that too!!
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"I didn’t get around to mentioning fab, we were talking vanilla stuff for ages. But we touched on kink. He’s got a very open mind! Yessssssss!!! And a bit of a sub side, which plays well to me.
But then, saying goodnight, his hand accidentally slipped down my knickers while we were kissing. How did that happen?!? Clumsy man! Could have quite easily asked him back to mine. He made me orgasm, then told me to go home home and watch the Witcher (to perv Henry Cavill). Followed by a kiss on the forehead. (Been a long time since anyone did that )
And he’s text me since saying “we are going to have a lot of fun”
I’d say it went quite well? No? "
Very well! Extraordinary how his hand fell down and gave you an orgasm  |
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"I didn’t get around to mentioning fab, we were talking vanilla stuff for ages. But we touched on kink. He’s got a very open mind! Yessssssss!!! And a bit of a sub side, which plays well to me.
But then, saying goodnight, his hand accidentally slipped down my knickers while we were kissing. How did that happen?!? Clumsy man! Could have quite easily asked him back to mine. He made me orgasm, then told me to go home home and watch the Witcher (to perv Henry Cavill). Followed by a kiss on the forehead. (Been a long time since anyone did that )
And he’s text me since saying “we are going to have a lot of fun”
I’d say it went quite well? No?
Very well! Extraordinary how his hand fell down and gave you an orgasm "
I know! I’m actually astounded he managed to get it out
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"Ha ha! Just found this and caught up.
Definitely sounds promising... But sometimes it's getting the second date that can be an issue.
Fingers crossed "
Well, this is the thing. He sent a lovely good morning text. I sent one back. Then nothing since. I’m not sure how to play this one. I would have liked a round two, but I’m not one to double text. (Although very nearly sent a FAF message tonight) Perhaps he’s finger deep again
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"Ha ha! Just found this and caught up.
Definitely sounds promising... But sometimes it's getting the second date that can be an issue.
Fingers crossed
Well, this is the thing. He sent a lovely good morning text. I sent one back. Then nothing since. I’m not sure how to play this one. I would have liked a round two, but I’m not one to double text. (Although very nearly sent a FAF message tonight) Perhaps he’s finger deep again
How long would you give it before assuming you’ve the victim of a finger and go? "
Did he tell you if he was married? Do you think he might be? If not, I’d give him a day or two… but definitely don’t give him a FAF in the meantime… especially if you actually might like the guy! x |
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"Ha ha! Just found this and caught up.
Definitely sounds promising... But sometimes it's getting the second date that can be an issue.
Fingers crossed
Well, this is the thing. He sent a lovely good morning text. I sent one back. Then nothing since. I’m not sure how to play this one. I would have liked a round two, but I’m not one to double text. (Although very nearly sent a FAF message tonight) Perhaps he’s finger deep again
How long would you give it before assuming you’ve the victim of a finger and go? "
Just wait. Don't chase. Us men go off the boil if life is too easy. Wait till Tuesday at the earliest. And if he texts you before. Leave it an hour or so before your reply.
There's a lot of truth in the old adage, treat them mean keep them keen. |
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"Ha ha! Just found this and caught up.
Definitely sounds promising... But sometimes it's getting the second date that can be an issue.
Fingers crossed
Well, this is the thing. He sent a lovely good morning text. I sent one back. Then nothing since. I’m not sure how to play this one. I would have liked a round two, but I’m not one to double text. (Although very nearly sent a FAF message tonight) Perhaps he’s finger deep again
How long would you give it before assuming you’ve the victim of a finger and go?
Did he tell you if he was married? Do you think he might be? If not, I’d give him a day or two… but definitely don’t give him a FAF in the meantime… especially if you actually might like the guy! x"
He said he’s been divorced for about 18 months. And he was married a long time. So I’m playing it very cool with this one. He may still be raw from that.
Advice taken though. Don’t send a FAF. x |
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"Ha ha! Just found this and caught up.
Definitely sounds promising... But sometimes it's getting the second date that can be an issue.
Fingers crossed
Well, this is the thing. He sent a lovely good morning text. I sent one back. Then nothing since. I’m not sure how to play this one. I would have liked a round two, but I’m not one to double text. (Although very nearly sent a FAF message tonight) Perhaps he’s finger deep again
How long would you give it before assuming you’ve the victim of a finger and go?
Did he tell you if he was married? Do you think he might be? If not, I’d give him a day or two… but definitely don’t give him a FAF in the meantime… especially if you actually might like the guy! x
He said he’s been divorced for about 18 months. And he was married a long time. So I’m playing it very cool with this one. He may still be raw from that.
Advice taken though. Don’t send a FAF. x"
There’s a chance he’s lying. I hear blokes do that sometimes…
Just remember that you’re lovely and he’d be very lucky to have you! Hope he’s worthy of you xx |
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"Ha ha! Just found this and caught up.
Definitely sounds promising... But sometimes it's getting the second date that can be an issue.
Fingers crossed
Well, this is the thing. He sent a lovely good morning text. I sent one back. Then nothing since. I’m not sure how to play this one. I would have liked a round two, but I’m not one to double text. (Although very nearly sent a FAF message tonight) Perhaps he’s finger deep again
How long would you give it before assuming you’ve the victim of a finger and go?
Did he tell you if he was married? Do you think he might be? If not, I’d give him a day or two… but definitely don’t give him a FAF in the meantime… especially if you actually might like the guy! x
He said he’s been divorced for about 18 months. And he was married a long time. So I’m playing it very cool with this one. He may still be raw from that.
Advice taken though. Don’t send a FAF. x"
Ooh have you heard anything more yet?
It's a funny time of year to arrange second dates with family stuff going on over Christmas...just bide your time |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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When I said to take things slowly, this is part of that.
Take it slowly, dating takes time not hours, not days, weeks!
There’s nothing wrong with double texting but he might be busy, letting the evening sink in or not wanting to rush.
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I have heard from him. But it’s a bit of a weird one. I’m not sure how to respond.
Almost 24 hours since his last text.
“So how did I do?”
I’m confused. Is he playing hard to get and now wants reassurance because I haven’t chased?
I suck at this.  |
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By *LiamMan
over a year ago
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"Ha ha! Just found this and caught up.
Definitely sounds promising... But sometimes it's getting the second date that can be an issue.
Fingers crossed
Well, this is the thing. He sent a lovely good morning text. I sent one back. Then nothing since. I’m not sure how to play this one. I would have liked a round two, but I’m not one to double text. (Although very nearly sent a FAF message tonight) Perhaps he’s finger deep again
How long would you give it before assuming you’ve the victim of a finger and go?
Did he tell you if he was married? Do you think he might be? If not, I’d give him a day or two… but definitely don’t give him a FAF in the meantime… especially if you actually might like the guy! x
He said he’s been divorced for about 18 months. And he was married a long time. So I’m playing it very cool with this one. He may still be raw from that.
Advice taken though. Don’t send a FAF. x
There’s a chance he’s lying. I hear blokes do that sometimes…
Just remember that you’re lovely and he’d be very lucky to have you! Hope he’s worthy of you xx"
jheez mate give the guy a break you don't even know him and you've accused him of being married and lying |
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Maybe he's just trying to make conversation. He might want to ask how you felt about the date and he's trying to do it in a light hearted way.
Just let him know how you think it went and if you'd like to see him again. |
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"I have heard from him. But it’s a bit of a weird one. I’m not sure how to respond.
Almost 24 hours since his last text.
“So how did I do?”
I’m confused. Is he playing hard to get and now wants reassurance because I haven’t chased?
I suck at this. "
With what? The date or the finger blasting ? |
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"Maybe he's just trying to make conversation. He might want to ask how you felt about the date and he's trying to do it in a light hearted way.
Just let him know how you think it went and if you'd like to see him again. "
Good suggestion |
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"I have heard from him. But it’s a bit of a weird one. I’m not sure how to respond.
Almost 24 hours since his last text.
“So how did I do?”
I’m confused. Is he playing hard to get and now wants reassurance because I haven’t chased?
I suck at this. "
He's basically asking if what he did is making you want to see him again |
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I responded and told him I had a nice time. And that I thought he did a good job
Ffs!
I’ve also asked if we are on for a second date.
If it takes another 24 hours for a response then I’m assuming it’s a no. I’m too impatient for text games! I need to know where I stand with people.
That isn’t unreasonable is it?  |
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"I responded and told him I had a nice time. And that I thought he did a good job
Ffs!
I’ve also asked if we are on for a second date.
If it takes another 24 hours for a response then I’m assuming it’s a no. I’m too impatient for text games! I need to know where I stand with people.
That isn’t unreasonable is it? "
Nothing's particularly unreasonable when it comes to dating. You state what you want and if the other doesn't like it, fine, you move on to the next person. Same goes for them and their wants
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I think you did the right thing in asking if there's a 2nd date. If you liked the guy then what's the point in playing mind games, I hope he replies with a "yes" but if he doesn't then at least you know and can move on to the next |
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"I responded and told him I had a nice time. And that I thought he did a good job
Ffs!
I’ve also asked if we are on for a second date.
If it takes another 24 hours for a response then I’m assuming it’s a no. I’m too impatient for text games! I need to know where I stand with people.
That isn’t unreasonable is it? "
I'm like you, waiting a day for a response isn't on, you could have work and kids etc but at some point it's easy to leave a short reply and say we'll catch up properly later.
All this treat em mean, keep them keen is just games, who really likes to be played like that |
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"I responded and told him I had a nice time. And that I thought he did a good job
Ffs!
I’ve also asked if we are on for a second date.
If it takes another 24 hours for a response then I’m assuming it’s a no. I’m too impatient for text games! I need to know where I stand with people.
That isn’t unreasonable is it? "
Has he replied yet?
It's a busy time of year. But still, it doesn't take a minute to send a text.  |
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"I responded and told him I had a nice time. And that I thought he did a good job
Ffs!
I’ve also asked if we are on for a second date.
If it takes another 24 hours for a response then I’m assuming it’s a no. I’m too impatient for text games! I need to know where I stand with people.
That isn’t unreasonable is it?
Has he replied yet?
It's a busy time of year. But still, it doesn't take a minute to send a text. "
Exactly.. I'm busy but never to busy to quickly reply to a text |
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"I responded and told him I had a nice time. And that I thought he did a good job
Ffs!
I’ve also asked if we are on for a second date.
If it takes another 24 hours for a response then I’m assuming it’s a no. I’m too impatient for text games! I need to know where I stand with people.
That isn’t unreasonable is it? "
Nope! I hope he isn’t replied as I kinda feel you deserve better. |
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over a year ago
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"I responded and told him I had a nice time. And that I thought he did a good job
Ffs!
I’ve also asked if we are on for a second date.
If it takes another 24 hours for a response then I’m assuming it’s a no. I’m too impatient for text games! I need to know where I stand with people.
That isn’t unreasonable is it?
Has he replied yet?
It's a busy time of year. But still, it doesn't take a minute to send a text.
Exactly.. I'm busy but never to busy to quickly reply to a text "
This. Unless your texts are the equivalent of War & Peace, it only takes a minute!
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"A bloke that is actually interested doesn’t take a day to reply to a message.
Hope you got a reply.
With all due respect, that’s absolute rubbish. "
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"A bloke that is actually interested doesn’t take a day to reply to a message.
Hope you got a reply.
With all due respect, that’s absolute rubbish.
Why is it rubbish?"
Because of them ridiculous rules that done people still follow. Like trying not to look too keen. Especially if he's been out of the dating scene for a while. People used to say don't call back until day 3.
All just ridiculous games. Just get on with it. |
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"A bloke that is actually interested doesn’t take a day to reply to a message.
Hope you got a reply.
With all due respect, that’s absolute rubbish.
Why is it rubbish?
Because of them ridiculous rules that done people still follow. Like trying not to look too keen. Especially if he's been out of the dating scene for a while. People used to say don't call back until day 3.
All just ridiculous games. Just get on with it. "
I agree that it's all just ridiculous games.
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"I responded and told him I had a nice time. And that I thought he did a good job
Ffs!
I’ve also asked if we are on for a second date.
If it takes another 24 hours for a response then I’m assuming it’s a no. I’m too impatient for text games! I need to know where I stand with people.
That isn’t unreasonable is it? "
Did he respond?  |
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Aw god sorry everyone. I haven’t caught up.
Right so the latest…
After I told him he did well () he replied with “glad to hear it, would love to be FWB’s and see where it goes”
I said “we can see how that goes after a second date ”
That was yesterday. Nothing until this morning “morning baby”
Baby?! Aw god. That’s the worst thing someone can call me.
But I said good morning. And nothing since!
I think I should just let this one fizzle out. |
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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago
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"A bloke that is actually interested doesn’t take a day to reply to a message.
Hope you got a reply.
With all due respect, that’s absolute rubbish. "
In your opinion it’s rubbish. In mine it’s not. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"Aw god sorry everyone. I haven’t caught up.
Right so the latest…
After I told him he did well () he replied with “glad to hear it, would love to be FWB’s and see where it goes”
I said “we can see how that goes after a second date ”
That was yesterday. Nothing until this morning “morning baby”
Baby?! Aw god. That’s the worst thing someone can call me.
But I said good morning. And nothing since!
I think I should just let this one fizzle out. "
Mmmmmm I’m a bit taken aback he came out with the FWB’s bit if it had been a date you were on initially. But then I’m very old fashioned and to me dating is dating
I mean you can date someone and still finger them, why go straight to FWB’s after the first date?
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"Aw god sorry everyone. I haven’t caught up.
Right so the latest…
After I told him he did well () he replied with “glad to hear it, would love to be FWB’s and see where it goes”
I said “we can see how that goes after a second date ”
That was yesterday. Nothing until this morning “morning baby”
Baby?! Aw god. That’s the worst thing someone can call me.
But I said good morning. And nothing since!
I think I should just let this one fizzle out.
Mmmmmm I’m a bit taken aback he came out with the FWB’s bit if it had been a date you were on initially. But then I’m very old fashioned and to me dating is dating
I mean you can date someone and still finger them, why go straight to FWB’s after the first date?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah OK, you didn't actually say 'are we having a second date?'..you just hinted at 'we'll see how it goes after a second date...
...so he doesn't have to respond yes or no to it because it wasn't really a question. (if I'm reading it right) |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"A bloke that is actually interested doesn’t take a day to reply to a message.
Hope you got a reply.
With all due respect, that’s absolute rubbish.
Why is it rubbish?
Because of them ridiculous rules that done people still follow. Like trying not to look too keen. Especially if he's been out of the dating scene for a while. People used to say don't call back until day 3.
All just ridiculous games. Just get on with it. "
Or he could have a busy life, he might not have the chance to respond, he might have the notifications turned off on his ap!
Not everything is a game or straightforward but also in regards to dating, being too eager is a big no no |
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"Aw god sorry everyone. I haven’t caught up.
Right so the latest…
After I told him he did well () he replied with “glad to hear it, would love to be FWB’s and see where it goes”
I said “we can see how that goes after a second date ”
That was yesterday. Nothing until this morning “morning baby”
Baby?! Aw god. That’s the worst thing someone can call me.
But I said good morning. And nothing since!
I think I should just let this one fizzle out.
Mmmmmm I’m a bit taken aback he came out with the FWB’s bit if it had been a date you were on initially. But then I’m very old fashioned and to me dating is dating
I mean you can date someone and still finger them, why go straight to FWB’s after the first date?
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Agree!
Bin him OP. Sounds like he will be the type to just want a FB he can call on when horny. |
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"A bloke that is actually interested doesn’t take a day to reply to a message.
Hope you got a reply.
With all due respect, that’s absolute rubbish.
Why is it rubbish?
Because of them ridiculous rules that done people still follow. Like trying not to look too keen. Especially if he's been out of the dating scene for a while. People used to say don't call back until day 3.
All just ridiculous games. Just get on with it.
Or he could have a busy life, he might not have the chance to respond, he might have the notifications turned off on his ap!
Not everything is a game or straightforward but also in regards to dating, being too eager is a big no no"
If you can't spare 3 mins to send a text, you probably haven't got time for a relationship. |
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"A bloke that is actually interested doesn’t take a day to reply to a message.
Hope you got a reply.
With all due respect, that’s absolute rubbish.
Why is it rubbish?
Because of them ridiculous rules that done people still follow. Like trying not to look too keen. Especially if he's been out of the dating scene for a while. People used to say don't call back until day 3.
All just ridiculous games. Just get on with it.
Or he could have a busy life, he might not have the chance to respond, he might have the notifications turned off on his ap!
Not everything is a game or straightforward but also in regards to dating, being too eager is a big no no"
How eager is too eager?
Not everyone wants to approach dating like an emotionally unavailable coy adolescent |
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"A bloke that is actually interested doesn’t take a day to reply to a message.
Hope you got a reply.
With all due respect, that’s absolute rubbish.
Why is it rubbish?
Because of them ridiculous rules that done people still follow. Like trying not to look too keen. Especially if he's been out of the dating scene for a while. People used to say don't call back until day 3.
All just ridiculous games. Just get on with it.
Or he could have a busy life, he might not have the chance to respond, he might have the notifications turned off on his ap!
Not everything is a game or straightforward but also in regards to dating, being too eager is a big no no"
You’re the eagerest beaver I know!
I don’t get all this.. if you’re eager be eager. If you’re laid back be laid back.. I’m too straight forward for all this malarkey. What happened to saying what you see? |
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"A bloke that is actually interested doesn’t take a day to reply to a message.
Hope you got a reply.
With all due respect, that’s absolute rubbish.
Why is it rubbish?
Because of them ridiculous rules that done people still follow. Like trying not to look too keen. Especially if he's been out of the dating scene for a while. People used to say don't call back until day 3.
All just ridiculous games. Just get on with it.
Or he could have a busy life, he might not have the chance to respond, he might have the notifications turned off on his ap!
Not everything is a game or straightforward but also in regards to dating, being too eager is a big no no
How eager is too eager?
Not everyone wants to approach dating like an emotionally unavailable coy adolescent "
I tend to agree. I’m just giving reasons as to why he might not be responding immediately |
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"A bloke that is actually interested doesn’t take a day to reply to a message.
Hope you got a reply.
With all due respect, that’s absolute rubbish.
Why is it rubbish?
Because of them ridiculous rules that done people still follow. Like trying not to look too keen. Especially if he's been out of the dating scene for a while. People used to say don't call back until day 3.
All just ridiculous games. Just get on with it.
Or he could have a busy life, he might not have the chance to respond, he might have the notifications turned off on his ap!
Not everything is a game or straightforward but also in regards to dating, being too eager is a big no no
How eager is too eager?
Not everyone wants to approach dating like an emotionally unavailable coy adolescent
I tend to agree. I’m just giving reasons as to why he might not be responding immediately"
What might possibly be the reasons? |
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