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We have a question, which we can't seem to get our heads around: why do people hide themselves from other people's 'who's looked at me' page? We get people liking pics but then hide themselves, which just means we don't bother checking profiles. Can anyone shed some light? |
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over a year ago
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I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.
And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet.  |
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over a year ago
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"It's so I can perve pictures in peace and quiet. And not just messages from people saying hello you looked at me. I may have looked and not liked. Essentially makes my life easier  "
This  Let us perv in peace! |
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"I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.
And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet. "
That makes sense.. |
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As above. I don't like getting messages because I looked at a profile.
Just because I look doesn't mean I want to meet them but some don't understand this concept.
I don't often fab pictures for the same reasons. |
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"I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.
And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet. "
This |
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I can imagine this is a big thing for a lot of women. There are loads of reasons why someone might typically look at your profile and not all are sexual.
Given that loads of people are having inbox conversations with themselves, if people took a profile view as interest, the reactions would be too much to handle in many instances.
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"As above. I don't like getting messages because I looked at a profile.
Just because I look doesn't mean I want to meet them but some don't understand this concept.
I don't often fab pictures for the same reasons. "
I guess being a couple and getting lots of people viewing us, it never crossed our minds to contact someone if they've only checked us out. If someone's looked at us and not messaged or winked, we've happily taken it as probably not interested. Thanks for clarifying from a single woman's perspective. Makes total sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's so I can perve pictures in peace and quiet. And not just messages from people saying hello you looked at me. I may have looked and not liked. Essentially makes my life easier
This Let us perv in peace! "
What she said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So I can look at pictures multiple times without them thinking I'm a stalker. I also like to do my bit for the community and look through the "new" profiles and find the fakes to report to admin. I obviously don't want those people messaging me so hiding from looked at helps massively! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown 
If that's the case deactivate stealth mode
Ummmmm no
Thought not  "
He's perving!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I view the same persons profile over and over again to check for new veris, pics etc. I don’t need them to know I’m doing this lol. And it’s not random people but people I am actually fucking… |
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over a year ago
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"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown
If that's the case deactivate stealth mode
Ummmmm no
Thought not
He's perving!! "
I’m so not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown
If that's the case deactivate stealth mode
Ummmmm no
Thought not
He's perving!!
I’m so not "
Me thinks the gentleman doth protest too much! |
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"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown
If that's the case deactivate stealth mode
Ummmmm no
Thought not
He's perving!!
I’m so not "
Thou doth protest too much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't tend to message people unless they appear in my last viewed regularly...and by regularly I mean every day for ages.
Looking at a profile shouldn't open a lady up to unwanted messages, you'll probably get enough of them as it is |
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"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown
If that's the case deactivate stealth mode
Ummmmm no
Thought not
He's perving!!
I’m so not
Me thinks the gentleman doth protest too much! "
Waaa snap again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown
If that's the case deactivate stealth mode
Ummmmm no
Thought not
He's perving!!
I’m so not
Me thinks the gentleman doth protest too much!
Waaa snap again "
Just because you two perv on my pics on the daily don’t tar me with the same brush |
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"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown
If that's the case deactivate stealth mode
Ummmmm no
Thought not
He's perving!!
I’m so not
Me thinks the gentleman doth protest too much!
Waaa snap again
Just because you two perv on my pics on the daily don’t tar me with the same brush "
I mean you'd block me if you knew how many times I looked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown
If that's the case deactivate stealth mode
Ummmmm no
Thought not
He's perving!!
I’m so not
Me thinks the gentleman doth protest too much!
Waaa snap again
Just because you two perv on my pics on the daily don’t tar me with the same brush "
Jeez! Sensitive! |
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"So I can look at pictures multiple times without them thinking I'm a stalker. I also like to do my bit for the community and look through the "new" profiles and find the fakes to report to admin. I obviously don't want those people messaging me so hiding from looked at helps massively! "
Another reason that makes total sense. Thanks. |
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"For those that perv in stealth mode, would you click off this mode to show someone you liked that you looked, perhaps to pique their curiousity/interest?"
No I'd just message them directly and say hello |
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"I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.
And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet. "
Yeh same here |
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"We have a question, which we can't seem to get our heads around: why do people hide themselves from other people's 'who's looked at me' page? We get people liking pics but then hide themselves, which just means we don't bother checking profiles. Can anyone shed some light? "
Don’t waste your time trying to figure out why other people use the site the way they do; unless you are that person you’ll never get it. |
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The reverse can also be true. Sometimes people will deliberately not use stealth mode and view a profile multiple times on the same day. They may also fab most of their pics in the hope that person will notice and get in touch. |
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I also don't get why someone would fab pictures, but hide their profile. Maybe previous advice given about not trying to figure out how others use the site is the way to go, but I just don't like dodgy behaviour. Is that worth a block? |
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"I also don't get why someone would fab pictures, but hide their profile. Maybe previous advice given about not trying to figure out how others use the site is the way to go, but I just don't like dodgy behaviour. Is that worth a block?"
Certainly not worth a block. They might be off meeting over Xmas but use fabs/winks as a means of bookmarking persons of interest.
I’d lighten up and not overthink everything |
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"I also don't get why someone would fab pictures, but hide their profile. Maybe previous advice given about not trying to figure out how others use the site is the way to go, but I just don't like dodgy behaviour. Is that worth a block?"
Maybe they just like your photo? I know I Fab photos for no more reason than I think it's a good photo. I've no intention of contacting or wanting to meet them. I certainly don't see it as dodgy. |
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"For those that perv in stealth mode, would you click off this mode to show someone you liked that you looked, perhaps to pique their curiousity/interest?"
Yes, maybe that's why I don't show on looked at for you?
Ooooooooooooh. I'm joking. Sometimes I do, If I can be bothered taking it off otherwise I'll just message |
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"We have a question, which we can't seem to get our heads around: why do people hide themselves from other people's 'who's looked at me' page? We get people liking pics but then hide themselves, which just means we don't bother checking profiles. Can anyone shed some light? "
Sometimes we look at a guys profile then receive a message which starts “thanks for looking at my profile “. Yea we looked but had we been interested we would have messaged them . Guess that’s why some people hide who’s looked at me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We seen a status saying something along the lines of…. “Don’t view my profile if you’re not going to reply to my messages”
Some people think because you’ve viewed them that they’re entitled to some form of interaction. |
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"Bizarrely, I was winked at 14 minutes ago (well, it doesn’t happen often…) but I tried to look at her profile and I’d already been blocked 
Oh well "
Seems you may be overthinking things mate. Let it go? |
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"Bizarrely, I was winked at 14 minutes ago (well, it doesn’t happen often…) but I tried to look at her profile and I’d already been blocked
Oh well
Seems you may be overthinking things mate. Let it go? "
Not at all, haha, I just thought it was a bit contradictory, but relevant to this thread |
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"Bizarrely, I was winked at 14 minutes ago (well, it doesn’t happen often…) but I tried to look at her profile and I’d already been blocked
Oh well
Seems you may be overthinking things mate. Let it go?
Not at all, haha, I just thought it was a bit contradictory, but relevant to this thread "
Sorry mate, it's relevant, I was just being a little facetious. Seems to me there's a lot of odd behaviour with some members, which we should just deal with with a pinch of salt, or by following our gut reactions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's so I can perve pictures in peace and quiet. And not just messages from people saying hello you looked at me. I may have looked and not liked. Essentially makes my life easier "
Yep. I'm all about making my life easier and not imposing limits on views of certain profiles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I could upgrade to silver or gold membership and get rid of a feature, that would be the one. I don't want to know who's looked
..yet I know I'd give in to temptation and press that silly button. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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"As above. I don't like getting messages because I looked at a profile.
Just because I look doesn't mean I want to meet them but some don't understand this concept.
I don't often fab pictures for the same reasons. "
Same as this |
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"It's so I can perve pictures in peace and quiet. And not just messages from people saying hello you looked at me. I may have looked and not liked. Essentially makes my life easier
This Let us perv in peace! "
Exactly.
Plus I might pick up a few restraining orders for checking someone's profile too many times. |
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"I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.
And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet. "
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But you recently looked at my profile and it shows that you looked. Weird. |
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"I also don't get why someone would fab pictures, but hide their profile. Maybe previous advice given about not trying to figure out how others use the site is the way to go, but I just don't like dodgy behaviour. Is that worth a block?"
I fab pics because I like the pic, no other reason? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.
And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet.
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But you recently looked at my profile and it shows that you looked. Weird."
 what!! |
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"I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.
And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet.
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But you recently looked at my profile and it shows that you looked. Weird.
what!!"
I perved and fabbed you earlier in stealth mode. Doesn’t really work if I fab you though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.
And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet.
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But you recently looked at my profile and it shows that you looked. Weird.
what!!
I perved and fabbed you earlier in stealth mode. Doesn’t really work if I fab you though "
No it gives you away then (and to be fair I'm sure I fabbed one of Nero's)! |
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mode either.
guess that comes of being a fat bastard