"Random friends request???….I have one answer for that 
Remove all your pictures and no one wants to add you  it has been quick blissful.
I’m bed with a throat that feels like it’s been grated 
Hugs welcome  "
Bless you, hope you’re feeling better soon, sending hugs x |
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"Random friends request???….I have one answer for that
Remove all your pictures and no one wants to add you it has been quick blissful.
I’m bed with a throat that feels like it’s been grated
Hugs welcome Probably it is the only solution, although I wrote not to send a friend request otherwise I block them, they continue to send friend requests, or they are illiterate or do not read the profile!"
I don’t think anybody reads them, I had that I wasn’t meeting at the top of mine for weeks, I’ve finally removed everything BUT that and I’m still getting messages x |
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By *HoneyWoman
over a year ago
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I don’t accept random friends requests. I get them all the time and I clearly state in my profile I don’t accept them unless I’ve chatted to that person. Attention to detail is important for me, if you can’t read a simple request then you’re not for me.
Try warm milk, with honey and tumeric and a bit of ginger for your throat x |
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"Random friends request???….I have one answer for that
Remove all your pictures and no one wants to add you it has been quick blissful.
I’m bed with a throat that feels like it’s been grated
Hugs welcome Probably it is the only solution, although I wrote not to send a friend request otherwise I block them, they continue to send friend requests, or they are illiterate or do not read the profile!"
Most don’t read the bio on the profile…I know mine isn’t read.
Some pick and choose which part they want to acknowledge
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"Random friends request???….I have one answer for that
Remove all your pictures and no one wants to add you it has been quick blissful.
I’m bed with a throat that feels like it’s been grated
Hugs welcome
Bless you, hope you’re feeling better soon, sending hugs x"
Awwww thank you very much  |
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"I don’t accept random friends requests. I get them all the time and I clearly state in my profile I don’t accept them unless I’ve chatted to that person. Attention to detail is important for me, if you can’t read a simple request then you’re not for me.
Try warm milk, with honey and tumeric and a bit of ginger for your throat x"
I’m like yourself and keep my friends list small and those I’ve interacted with on a more personal level or I’ve met.
Attention to detail is definitely important.
Thank you for the advice. Will give it a go. |
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over a year ago
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I just don't look at them 
I only look when someone tells me they sent me one! Then I discover someone I really like sent me one 5 days ago and was hanging there.. oops. |
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"I just don't look at them
I only look when someone tells me they sent me one! Then I discover someone I really like sent me one 5 days ago and was hanging there.. oops. "
Ooops I’ve been guilty of that too.
As long as you get them added on in the end. Sometimes a nudge is all that’s needed |
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I've got it in my profile to not send friend invites as they'll be deleted and also blocked. Doesn't make any difference, guys still send invites so I'll still delete and block. Feels like no one knows how to read anymore lol x |
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"We'll be right over with blankets, hot water bottles, and some honeyed tea. We'd send a random friend request too but y'know 
LvM"
Hahaha you made that spot ages ago
Awww you two  with K poorly too, I think we both will need it. |
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"I've got it in my profile to not send friend invites as they'll be deleted and also blocked. Doesn't make any difference, guys still send invites so I'll still delete and block. Feels like no one knows how to read anymore lol x"
trust me I hear you!!!
Mine says not new chats or meets…do they listen…nope |
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"I've got it in my profile to not send friend invites as they'll be deleted and also blocked. Doesn't make any difference, guys still send invites so I'll still delete and block. Feels like no one knows how to read anymore lol x"
The same for us or they are illiterate or just watch the pictures! |
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"We'll be right over with blankets, hot water bottles, and some honeyed tea. We'd send a random friend request too but y'know
LvM
Hahaha you made that spot ages ago
Awww you two with K poorly too, I think we both will need it. "
I'm definitely just going to end up as a glorified tea and soup waiter for you both aren't I?
LvM |
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over a year ago
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Is this purely guys that are doing it or do you get the occasional female popping up….Let’s face it they only send the friends request thinking there’s more personal (rude/filthy) pics in there!!
Utter perverts the lot of them! |
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I only answer requests to those who have bothered to make conversations with us beyond the usual "hi" "how are you?" "What you doing?" "fancy a F**k?" etc... takes more than idol chit chat to capture our attention
sorry to hear you have a sore throat, hope it mends soon x |
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"I've got it in my profile to not send friend invites as they'll be deleted and also blocked. Doesn't make any difference, guys still send invites so I'll still delete and block. Feels like no one knows how to read anymore lol x
The same for us or they are illiterate or just watch the pictures! "
Yeah they're just pic collectors x |
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"Or have a single guys profile?
Never had a random friend request in my life. 
*this is not an invitation "
You must have single guys blocked from viewing you….I have gay men sending to me a few times….I accept and then they delete me 
Clearly think my friends only pics are horrendous |
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"We'll be right over with blankets, hot water bottles, and some honeyed tea. We'd send a random friend request too but y'know
LvM
Hahaha you made that spot ages ago
Awww you two with K poorly too, I think we both will need it.
I'm definitely just going to end up as a glorified tea and soup waiter for you both aren't I?
LvM"
we wouldn’t be that harsh and would ask you to pour yourself a cup and bowl too.
Happy to return the favour if needs be
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"Is this purely guys that are doing it or do you get the occasional female popping up….Let’s face it they only send the friends request thinking there’s more personal (rude/filthy) pics in there!!
Utter perverts the lot of them!"
That’s my thoughts too. My friends only had nothing too revealing in it anyways…
I have had couples and females send requests before but they usually looked a bit dodgy  |
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"I only answer requests to those who have bothered to make conversations with us beyond the usual "hi" "how are you?" "What you doing?" "fancy a F**k?" etc... takes more than idol chit chat to capture our attention
sorry to hear you have a sore throat, hope it mends soon x"
Most definitely…has to be more put in.
Awww thank you so much…I’m hoping I wake up feeling 100% |
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"Or have a single guys profile?
Never had a random friend request in my life.
*this is not an invitation
You must have single guys blocked from viewing you….I have gay men sending to me a few times….I accept and then they delete me
Clearly think my friends only pics are horrendous "
Or they were after something a bit more |
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over a year ago
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"Or have a single guys profile?
Never had a random friend request in my life.
*this is not an invitation
You must have single guys blocked from viewing you….I have gay men sending to me a few times….I accept and then they delete me
Clearly think my friends only pics are horrendous "
No, I clearly must be horrendous in public.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let them send it don’t do anything with it don’t look at that part they can’t send another
Also wait till they offline once that are accept run through they friends pics remove them before being back online they just think you didn’t accept  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have actually done this. Removed all friends photos, now i accept people who send me unsolicited requests, look at their friends pictures and then unfriend them again. Petty but fun. i also get far less unsolicited friends requests. |
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"Random friends request???….I have one answer for that
Remove all your pictures and no one wants to add you it has been quick blissful.
I’m bed with a throat that feels like it’s been grated
Hugs welcome "
Big hugs xx |
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