There isn't a formula - everyone is different - read profiles and only send messages to profiles that you fit the criteria for what they're looking for. You could also just mail everyone with 'wanna f**k?' Z |
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Depends on what you are looking for. I think a rule of thumb might be to look at their profile, if it is long, detailled, funny and interesting to read then that is the kind of email the woman might respond to. If the profile is very short and to the point then maybe that is how they would like to be approached? Just a thought.  |
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"Depends on what you are looking for. I think a rule of thumb might be to look at their profile, if it is long, detailled, funny and interesting to read then that is the kind of email the woman might respond to. If the profile is very short and to the point then maybe that is how they would like to be approached? Just a thought. "
does this work in all cases ???? lol  |
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"There isn't a formula - everyone is different - read profiles and only send messages to profiles that you fit the criteria for what they're looking for. You could also just mail everyone with 'wanna f**k?' Z"
This is good advise, but I'd also add that you need to make her laugh... That goes a long way. I'd be more likely to _iew the profile of a guy that had me laughing than one that just reeled off the same old toosh!! |
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"There isn't a formula - everyone is different - read profiles and only send messages to profiles that you fit the criteria for what they're looking for. You could also just mail everyone with 'wanna f**k?' Z
This is good advise, but I'd also add that you need to make her laugh... That goes a long way. I'd be more likely to _iew the profile of a guy that had me laughing than one that just reeled off the same old toosh!! "
So "D'ya fancy a fook and a giggle?" may work then... |
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"There isn't a formula - everyone is different - read profiles and only send messages to profiles that you fit the criteria for what they're looking for. You could also just mail everyone with 'wanna f**k?' Z
This is good advise, but I'd also add that you need to make her laugh... That goes a long way. I'd be more likely to _iew the profile of a guy that had me laughing than one that just reeled off the same old toosh!! "
Humour gets you everywhere |
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"There isn't a formula - everyone is different - read profiles and only send messages to profiles that you fit the criteria for what they're looking for. You could also just mail everyone with 'wanna f**k?' Z
This is good advise, but I'd also add that you need to make her laugh... That goes a long way. I'd be more likely to _iew the profile of a guy that had me laughing than one that just reeled off the same old toosh!!
So "D'ya fancy a fook and a giggle?" may work then..."
Can't believe I actually giggled lol
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"Depends on what you are looking for. I think a rule of thumb might be to look at their profile, if it is long, detailled, funny and interesting to read then that is the kind of email the woman might respond to. If the profile is very short and to the point then maybe that is how they would like to be approached? Just a thought.
does this work in all cases ???? lol "
Shhhhhh it has probably never worked ... yet but I thought I better post it anyway |
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"Depends on what you are looking for. I think a rule of thumb might be to look at their profile, if it is long, detailled, funny and interesting to read then that is the kind of email the woman might respond to. If the profile is very short and to the point then maybe that is how they would like to be approached? Just a thought.
does this work in all cases ???? lol Shhhhhh it has probably never worked ... yet but I thought I better post it anyway"
damn had me fooled was gonna go with this when posting messages to victims ........ errrrm sorry suspects, errr no thats wrong too ......... errr now wot are they called ............ oh yes they are called .... damn forgotten again ....  |
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I think you are the first guy to ask that question from ive been here...the advice is correct...most women want someone who can tingle other things.. like the mind..i would prefer to respond to someone who takes the time to messege properly.. not just the 'wanna fook?'..yes.. that is ultimatly what we are here for.. however there needs to be another connection for that to happen...I wish you luck in your messeging for the future and Happy playing!!..xxx |
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"I think you are the first guy to ask that question from ive been here...the advice is correct...most women want someone who can tingle other things.. like the mind..i would prefer to respond to someone who takes the time to messege properly.. not just the 'wanna fook?'..yes.. that is ultimatly what we are here for.. however there needs to be another connection for that to happen...I wish you luck in your messeging for the future and Happy playing!!..xxx "
Thats nicely put - at the end of the day even when we go into a shop and want to buy say chocolate... we dont just pick up the bar, pay and leave... we want to be greeted, asked what we would like etc...
It is all a bit about the human need for interaction  |
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"I think you are the first guy to ask that question from ive been here...the advice is correct...most women want someone who can tingle other things.. like the mind..i would prefer to respond to someone who takes the time to messege properly.. not just the 'wanna fook?'..yes.. that is ultimatly what we are here for.. however there needs to be another connection for that to happen...I wish you luck in your messeging for the future and Happy playing!!..xxx Thats nicely put - at the end of the day even when we go into a shop and want to buy say chocolate... we dont just pick up the bar, pay and leave... we want to be greeted, asked what we would like etc...
It is all a bit about the human need for interaction "
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I do try to add humor an I read all there profile sometime it can just seem cheesy when all I'm doing is trying to break the ice lol. Thanks for the advice muchly appreciated |
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"Thats nicely put - at the end of the day even when we go into a shop and want to buy say chocolate... we dont just pick up the bar, pay and leave... we want to be greeted, asked what we would like etc...
It is all a bit about the human need for interaction "
So you're saying I need to offer you chocolate as well? Blimey this swinging lark is more effort than I realised |
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"Thats nicely put - at the end of the day even when we go into a shop and want to buy say chocolate... we dont just pick up the bar, pay and leave... we want to be greeted, asked what we would like etc...
It is all a bit about the human need for interaction
So you're saying I need to offer you chocolate as well? Blimey this swinging lark is more effort than I realised  Well, you never know what the chocolate might be become useful for...;-)"
Aphrodite not again - u are not allowed to keep them hostage - on rations of chocolate - u will get into trouble again ............. |
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"Thats nicely put - at the end of the day even when we go into a shop and want to buy say chocolate... we dont just pick up the bar, pay and leave... we want to be greeted, asked what we would like etc...
It is all a bit about the human need for interaction
So you're saying I need to offer you chocolate as well? Blimey this swinging lark is more effort than I realised Well, you never know what the chocolate might be become useful for...;-)
Aphrodite not again - u are not allowed to keep them hostage - on rations of chocolate - u will get into trouble again ............. "
Even if I share them with you? |
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"Thats nicely put - at the end of the day even when we go into a shop and want to buy say chocolate... we dont just pick up the bar, pay and leave... we want to be greeted, asked what we would like etc...
It is all a bit about the human need for interaction
So you're saying I need to offer you chocolate as well? Blimey this swinging lark is more effort than I realised Well, you never know what the chocolate might be become useful for...;-)
Aphrodite not again - u are not allowed to keep them hostage - on rations of chocolate - u will get into trouble again ............. Even if I share them with you?"
tempting - I am pondering this one ............. and will get back to u shortly |
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"Depends on what you are looking for. I think a rule of thumb might be to look at their profile, if it is long, detailled, funny and interesting to read then that is the kind of email the woman might respond to. If the profile is very short and to the point then maybe that is how they would like to be approached? Just a thought. "
Makes sense to me. I'd also add if they've used proper sentences without abbreviations etc, I wouldn't send a text speak type message either. |
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