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Just had a thought that all top photos are only of women and if there is a man in one of the pics it's usually only ever showing his cock.
It shows that probably 90% of profiles are men and that we all still consider the perfect female form as the only thing that's attractive. I'm not trying to start an argement with anyone but if you really think about it, it's quite sad.
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"Maybe if men put some thought into their photos....   "
But seriously, women are more often than not bound to be the ones with the majority of the attention. It's how society views us, the adverts on TV, the toys you grow up with. It's all external sources that obscure our thought process. |
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"Maybe if men put some thought into their photos....
But seriously, women are more often than not bound to be the ones with the majority of the attention. It's how society views us, the adverts on TV, the toys you grow up with. It's all external sources that obscure our thought process. "
True! Tho also I’d say majority of hot photos are pics of titties and vajayssss
Sometimes just faces too but rarely.
So it defeats OP’s reasoning , saying if a man gets on top, it’s because of a cock shot or of a guy naked with his cock out |
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"If 90% of profiles are men then doesn't it make sense that more women's pictures will be fabbed?
Makes absolute sense, yes."
And far more likely for a female to fab another female's picture than a man to fab another man |
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Interesting take on this. I know it's obvious there are more men on here and yes, women fab female pics more then the other way around. On a side note as a single guy on here I do feel very excluded maybe even pushed away by single girls and couples which I bet a lot of men on here feel. One girl I spoke to gets 300 messages a day! I'm lucky if I get two! I suppose thats the way it is.
This is an bit of a pointless thread I know but I just felt like I wanted some input from others. Couples and singles rarely go to search because they dont need to. As a guy on here you are very singled out as a no usually |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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"Interesting take on this. I know it's obvious there are more men on here and yes, women fab female pics more then the other way around. On a side note as a single guy on here I do feel very excluded maybe even pushed away by single girls and couples which I bet a lot of men on here feel. One girl I spoke to gets 300 messages a day! I'm lucky if I get two! I suppose thats the way it is.
This is an bit of a pointless thread I know but I just felt like I wanted some input from others. Couples and singles rarely go to search because they dont need to. As a guy on here you are very singled out as a no usually "
I think most of the couples have left, we had over 1200 views the other day and how many messages did we get from couples, other than those already know or chatting with? Zero, so we’re either really scary and they think our profiles poop or couples aren’t looking to meet and just being nosey or maybe just maybe there is now a very small percentage of couples on here, admittedly we didn’t look at who the 1200+ were but I think we can safely say most would have been guys so I can only imagine how difficult it must be for a single guy to get a look in on here, unless looking for another guy of course. |
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"Interesting take on this. I know it's obvious there are more men on here and yes, women fab female pics more then the other way around. On a side note as a single guy on here I do feel very excluded maybe even pushed away by single girls and couples which I bet a lot of men on here feel. One girl I spoke to gets 300 messages a day! I'm lucky if I get two! I suppose thats the way it is.
This is an bit of a pointless thread I know but I just felt like I wanted some input from others. Couples and singles rarely go to search because they dont need to. As a guy on here you are very singled out as a no usually "
I haven't used the search function in 2 years. I haven't sent a first contact message in that time either but others have found me mostly through the forums but often not.
I don't look at the hotpics but I've been at the top of the Irish male hotpics a handful of times. On all those occasions I didn't receive more than 20 fabs in total and half of those were from men.
On a fabathon thread 6 months ago I wanted to prove a point so I winked and fabbed every woman and couple who took part. I didn't receive a single wink or fab in return. |
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"Interesting take on this. I know it's obvious there are more men on here and yes, women fab female pics more then the other way around. On a side note as a single guy on here I do feel very excluded maybe even pushed away by single girls and couples which I bet a lot of men on here feel. One girl I spoke to gets 300 messages a day! I'm lucky if I get two! I suppose thats the way it is.
This is an bit of a pointless thread I know but I just felt like I wanted some input from others. Couples and singles rarely go to search because they dont need to. As a guy on here you are very singled out as a no usually
I think most of the couples have left, we had over 1200 views the other day and how many messages did we get from couples, other than those already know or chatting with? Zero, so we’re either really scary and they think our profiles poop or couples aren’t looking to meet and just being nosey or maybe just maybe there is now a very small percentage of couples on here, admittedly we didn’t look at who the 1200+ were but I think we can safely say most would have been guys so I can only imagine how difficult it must be for a single guy to get a look in on here, unless looking for another guy of course."
I suspect many coules view in stealth mode... |
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over a year ago
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90% is extremely high and way off. I don’t know what’s quite sad about your statement. There are a lot of reasons why women get more fabs. Generally better photos which is quite evident. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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"90% is extremely high and way off. I don’t know what’s quite sad about your statement. There are a lot of reasons why women get more fabs. Generally better photos which is quite evident."
I’d expect to see you top with your pics, I Fab them all anyway  |
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Women can make most things look sexy and if a guy posts a photo that's identical then it just doesn't have the same affect on people.
Also a small percentage of women fab photos compared to guys and I've forgotten what the question was so that is all  |
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over a year ago
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"90% is extremely high and way off. I don’t know what’s quite sad about your statement. There are a lot of reasons why women get more fabs. Generally better photos which is quite evident.
I’d expect to see you top with your pics, I Fab them all anyway "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a simple case of single straight guys being the majority on here and the perception fabbing another guy's picture has regardless of quality. More men will always equate to more Fabs for women  |
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"Interesting take on this. I know it's obvious there are more men on here and yes, women fab female pics more then the other way around. On a side note as a single guy on here I do feel very excluded maybe even pushed away by single girls and couples which I bet a lot of men on here feel. One girl I spoke to gets 300 messages a day! I'm lucky if I get two! I suppose thats the way it is.
This is an bit of a pointless thread I know but I just felt like I wanted some input from others. Couples and singles rarely go to search because they dont need to. As a guy on here you are very singled out as a no usually "
And that’s why you have to stand out and not be like all the other guys. In messages, in your profile and also your pics.
Doing what 90% of what guys do on your profile won’t make you stand out.
We search for people…we search quite a bit.
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"Women can make most things look sexy and if a guy posts a photo that's identical then it just doesn't have the same affect on people.
Also a small percentage of women fab photos compared to guys and I've forgotten what the question was so that is all "
I could never make a Santa hat sit like that  |
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"Women can make most things look sexy and if a guy posts a photo that's identical then it just doesn't have the same affect on people.
Also a small percentage of women fab photos compared to guys and I've forgotten what the question was so that is all
I could never make a Santa hat sit like that "
You could but I might take one standing up later and that I know you couldn't do  |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"Women can make most things look sexy and if a guy posts a photo that's identical then it just doesn't have the same affect on people.
Also a small percentage of women fab photos compared to guys and I've forgotten what the question was so that is all
I could never make a Santa hat sit like that
You could but I might take one standing up later and that I know you couldn't do "
Ohhhh il be waiting on it |
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"Women can make most things look sexy and if a guy posts a photo that's identical then it just doesn't have the same affect on people.
Also a small percentage of women fab photos compared to guys and I've forgotten what the question was so that is all
I could never make a Santa hat sit like that "
Flashing could cause it  |
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"Women can make most things look sexy and if a guy posts a photo that's identical then it just doesn't have the same affect on people.
Also a small percentage of women fab photos compared to guys and I've forgotten what the question was so that is all
I could never make a Santa hat sit like that
You could but I might take one standing up later and that I know you couldn't do
Ohhhh il be waiting on it "
If you're a really good girl I might let you remove it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also I will say some woman may not fab pics
As they may get the old I see you fab my pic messages
Then it turns in to a yes I fab your pic it was a good pic
But not what I am looking for
So tend to hold fabs back to people they know aren’t going to see a fab pic
As a I am in there time to get my home messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say that judging by the top pics there's no such thing as the perfect female form, there's usually a range of body shapes, sizes and ages showing that everyone's tastes are different.
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"Maybe if men put some thought into their photos.... "
I try to, but get nowhere near!
Not that it matters, I'm happy with mine, they give me a confidence boost and if anyone else likes them it's an added bonus. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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"Maybe if men put some thought into their photos....
I try to, but get nowhere near!
Not that it matters, I'm happy with mine, they give me a confidence boost and if anyone else likes them it's an added bonus. "
Exactly the mentality people should have! It’s fun not a contest! We all have something that’s appealing to someone  x |
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"Maybe if men put some thought into their photos....
I try to, but get nowhere near!
Not that it matters, I'm happy with mine, they give me a confidence boost and if anyone else likes them it's an added bonus.
Exactly the mentality people should have! It’s fun not a contest! We all have something that’s appealing to someone x"
You definitely do! Those socks are great!  |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"Women can make most things look sexy and if a guy posts a photo that's identical then it just doesn't have the same affect on people.
Also a small percentage of women fab photos compared to guys and I've forgotten what the question was so that is all
I could never make a Santa hat sit like that
You could but I might take one standing up later and that I know you couldn't do
Ohhhh il be waiting on it
If you're a really good girl I might let you remove it "
Are you the real  |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
"Maybe if men put some thought into their photos....
I try to, but get nowhere near!
Not that it matters, I'm happy with mine, they give me a confidence boost and if anyone else likes them it's an added bonus.
Exactly the mentality people should have! It’s fun not a contest! We all have something that’s appealing to someone x
You definitely do! Those socks are great! "
Aw thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can filter tho to see the mens hot pix ??
Just make sure you wear eye protection 
I sanitise my screen first
I was more concerned with you loosing an eyeball "
Ooooo 3D 
Boiiiing!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can filter tho to see the mens hot pix ??
The difference in fabs is enormous though. "
Yeah but then so is the ratio of men to women full stop 
99.9% of my profile views are men |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"You can filter tho to see the mens hot pix ??
Just make sure you wear eye protection
I sanitise my screen first
I was more concerned with you loosing an eyeball
Ooooo 3D
Boiiiing!! "
Organ crushers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also think women don't fab because they think it would be interpreted as "I FAF".
I think an anonymous fab button would work. "
Pretty much this ^^^^
I have spoken to countless who don’t Fab guys photos because they then get a string of FAF messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oooo also didn't Jim use to choose a random profile /photo to promote for a couple of days?? Haven't seen one for a while "
He is busy having coffee and a bun |
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"Women can make most things look sexy and if a guy posts a photo that's identical then it just doesn't have the same affect on people.
Also a small percentage of women fab photos compared to guys and I've forgotten what the question was so that is all
I could never make a Santa hat sit like that
You could but I might take one standing up later and that I know you couldn't do
Ohhhh il be waiting on it
If you're a really good girl I might let you remove it
Are you the real "
Maybe, sit on my lap and tell me what you want for Christmas |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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I’m an equal opportunities fabber. Post a good or interesting pic then more often than not I’ ll fab it.
I view most profiles via the forum, based on what they say and how they come accross. |
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"Oooo also didn't Jim use to choose a random profile /photo to promote for a couple of days?? Haven't seen one for a while
He is busy having coffee and a bun "
Ir a sit down wee maybe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oooo also didn't Jim use to choose a random profile /photo to promote for a couple of days?? Haven't seen one for a while
He is busy having coffee and a bun
Ir a sit down wee maybe "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fab lots of photos of men via forum threads and perv on men's hit pics but - as said already, I don't want more FAF messages. I think there are lots of guys who do put effort into their photos and if they're not friends I often hotlist.
NotSoPosh is the queen of threads for men's pics btw! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had a thought that all top photos are only of women and if there is a man in one of the pics it's usually only ever showing his cock.
It shows that probably 90% of profiles are men and that we all still consider the perfect female form as the only thing that's attractive. I'm not trying to start an argement with anyone but if you really think about it, it's quite sad.
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I feel like you answered your own question... If 90% of profiles on here are men and maybe 10% of those are gay (I'm aware those figures could be wildly inaccurate but just as an example), then as a rule 80% of people on here would find the female form more attractive than a dick pic, yes. |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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It is almost as if there is a sense on entitlement by some single guys on here. Most couples we chat to are here for other couples, not the thousands of single guys that saturate the chat rooms for instance. When Innuendo is on cam, the shear number of PM's we get (and ignore) is incredible. Last weekend every time I posted, I had to stop and check my post didn't go into a PM.
We chat to single guys, but find a chat then turns into a hard sell to meet them, something that we do on our terms, not theirs. We used to get lots of emails from single guys, mostly one liners and god forbid that we fabbed one!
That would bring a whole string of mails hounding us to meet, so we would invoke the block button. We didn't like doing that but it became necessary. For us a single guy is a diversion for our pleasure.
So we no longer fab single guys pictures. Too much hassle. But we do fab TS/TV pictures and appreciate the effort some go to to look good. Funny though, we never get hassled by them. |
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"It is almost as if there is a sense on entitlement by some single guys on here. Most couples we chat to are here for other couples, not the thousands of single guys that saturate the chat rooms for instance. When Innuendo is on cam, the shear number of PM's we get (and ignore) is incredible. Last weekend every time I posted, I had to stop and check my post didn't go into a PM.
We chat to single guys, but find a chat then turns into a hard sell to meet them, something that we do on our terms, not theirs. We used to get lots of emails from single guys, mostly one liners and god forbid that we fabbed one!
That would bring a whole string of mails hounding us to meet, so we would invoke the block button. We didn't like doing that but it became necessary. For us a single guy is a diversion for our pleasure.
So we no longer fab single guys pictures. Too much hassle. But we do fab TS/TV pictures and appreciate the effort some go to to look good. Funny though, we never get hassled by them."
Yous don’t as we face pritty much the same scrutiny as woman so we know how it feels
We try to be the best we can |
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over a year ago
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"The 2nd mens hot pix is a lady
Did you just assume their gender?  
Well i zoomed in "
There always are a large percentage on non males photos in the first 3 pages of mens hot pics |
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"The 2nd mens hot pix is a lady
Did you just assume their gender?
Well i zoomed in
There always are a large percentage on non males photos in the first 3 pages of mens hot pics"
I couldn't get past the first 1.5 pages |
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over a year ago
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"Maybe if men put some thought into their photos....
Cough cough
Must try harder
Can you slip that left pocket a little please 
For you of course "
Taps fingers impatiently |
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over a year ago
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You should know yourself from putting your own photos up.
If I choose to share something I wind up at about the 30 fabs mark (I know )
Of those 30, there’s maybe 6 women, the rest are gay or TV or whatever you’d term. It’s just a numbers game. |
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"The 2nd mens hot pix is a lady
Did you just assume their gender?
Well i zoomed in
There always are a large percentage on non males photos in the first 3 pages of mens hot pics
I couldn't get past the first 1.5 pages "
Too many toilets? |
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"You should know yourself from putting your own photos up.
If I choose to share something I wind up at about the 30 fabs mark (I know )
Of those 30, there’s maybe 6 women, the rest are gay or TV or whatever you’d term. It’s just a numbers game."
I think a lot of women just don't fab. If I like a pic I tend to wink or message the person instead |
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"The 2nd mens hot pix is a lady
Did you just assume their gender?
Well i zoomed in
There always are a large percentage on non males photos in the first 3 pages of mens hot pics
I couldn't get past the first 1.5 pages
Too many toilets? "
That’s where I’m going wrong  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I like a photo, I tend to hop on one leg while reciting as much on the hits if Gilbert and Sullivan as I can before breaking into tears or knackering my meniscus. Not everyone knows I did it though, which goes to show you can't judge the reaction you might have on someone just by having more or fewer Fabs than them. |
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"You should know yourself from putting your own photos up.
If I choose to share something I wind up at about the 30 fabs mark (I know )
Of those 30, there’s maybe 6 women, the rest are gay or TV or whatever you’d term. It’s just a numbers game.
I think a lot of women just don't fab. If I like a pic I tend to wink or message the person instead "
Nice and direct
Love when a lady messages first, something about her taking the initiative. |
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"Maybe if men put some thought into their photos....
Cough cough
Must try harder
Can you slip that left pocket a little please
For you of course
Taps fingers impatiently "
Come and do it yourself if you are that impatient |
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"The 2nd mens hot pix is a lady
Did you just assume their gender?
Well i zoomed in
There always are a large percentage on non males photos in the first 3 pages of mens hot pics
I couldn't get past the first 1.5 pages
Too many toilets?
That’s where I’m going wrong "
JeeZ man you got to page 2! |
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over a year ago
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"Maybe if men put some thought into their photos....
Cough cough
Must try harder
Can you slip that left pocket a little please
For you of course
Taps fingers impatiently
Come and do it yourself if you are that impatient "
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"The 2nd mens hot pix is a lady
Did you just assume their gender?
Well i zoomed in
There always are a large percentage on non males photos in the first 3 pages of mens hot pics
I couldn't get past the first 1.5 pages
Too many toilets?
That’s where I’m going wrong
JeeZ man you got to page 2! "
I’m greedy |
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"It is almost as if there is a sense on entitlement by some single guys on here. Most couples we chat to are here for other couples, not the thousands of single guys that saturate the chat rooms for instance. When Innuendo is on cam, the shear number of PM's we get (and ignore) is incredible. Last weekend every time I posted, I had to stop and check my post didn't go into a PM.
We chat to single guys, but find a chat then turns into a hard sell to meet them, something that we do on our terms, not theirs. We used to get lots of emails from single guys, mostly one liners and god forbid that we fabbed one!
That would bring a whole string of mails hounding us to meet, so we would invoke the block button. We didn't like doing that but it became necessary. For us a single guy is a diversion for our pleasure.
So we no longer fab single guys pictures. Too much hassle. But we do fab TS/TV pictures and appreciate the effort some go to to look good. Funny though, we never get hassled by them."
It's all about perspective.
The only hassle I've ever received in 5 years here has been from couples.
You used the word entitlement and that's very true of my experience.
I've had numerous opening messages from couples demanding a phone number and facepic or telling me to shave my beard off or I won't be put on their to do list.
When I draw their attention to what it clearly says in my profile I have been told I'm a man and therefore don't have options on here.
Others above have given reasons why women don't fab men's pics which are perfectly valid except the question has to be asked then as to why women say they are in on fabathons or facepic threads if they don't have any intention of taking part?
I don't say I'm taking part in something unless I'm actually going to contribute but anyone throwing their name in the hat without contributing is doing so because they know all the men on the thread will fab their pics and they don't have to do anything in return.
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OP - as some constructive feedback I'd definitely set your profile picture as a picture in your gallery. You'll get more women scrolling through your photos that way it just means your photos improve each time (of course they don't have too, but you start getting a feel what people like and using shadows/lighting) |
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"OP - as some constructive feedback I'd definitely set your profile picture as a picture in your gallery. You'll get more women scrolling through your photos that way it just means your photos improve each time (of course they don't have too, but you start getting a feel what people like and using shadows/lighting) "
Nah I never use shadows or lighting |
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"It is almost as if there is a sense on entitlement by some single guys on here. Most couples we chat to are here for other couples, not the thousands of single guys that saturate the chat rooms for instance. When Innuendo is on cam, the shear number of PM's we get (and ignore) is incredible. Last weekend every time I posted, I had to stop and check my post didn't go into a PM.
We chat to single guys, but find a chat then turns into a hard sell to meet them, something that we do on our terms, not theirs. We used to get lots of emails from single guys, mostly one liners and god forbid that we fabbed one!
That would bring a whole string of mails hounding us to meet, so we would invoke the block button. We didn't like doing that but it became necessary. For us a single guy is a diversion for our pleasure.
So we no longer fab single guys pictures. Too much hassle. But we do fab TS/TV pictures and appreciate the effort some go to to look good. Funny though, we never get hassled by them.
It's all about perspective.
The only hassle I've ever received in 5 years here has been from couples.
You used the word entitlement and that's very true of my experience.
I've had numerous opening messages from couples demanding a phone number and facepic or telling me to shave my beard off or I won't be put on their to do list.
When I draw their attention to what it clearly says in my profile I have been told I'm a man and therefore don't have options on here.
Others above have given reasons why women don't fab men's pics which are perfectly valid except the question has to be asked then as to why women say they are in on fabathons or facepic threads if they don't have any intention of taking part?
I don't say I'm taking part in something unless I'm actually going to contribute but anyone throwing their name in the hat without contributing is doing so because they know all the men on the thread will fab their pics and they don't have to do anything in return.
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Yeah I think that's rubbish. I would prefer tbh if I didn't get fabs back on those threads. And I think it is ..well, pretty crap ...that men message to thank me for my fabs. That imbalance is just wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The 2nd mens hot pix is a lady
Did you just assume their gender?
Well i zoomed in
There always are a large percentage on non males photos in the first 3 pages of mens hot pics
I couldn't get past the first 1.5 pages
Too many toilets?
That’s where I’m going wrong
JeeZ man you got to page 2!
I’m greedy "
Toilet. That's what you need |
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"OP - as some constructive feedback I'd definitely set your profile picture as a picture in your gallery. You'll get more women scrolling through your photos that way it just means your photos improve each time (of course they don't have too, but you start getting a feel what people like and using shadows/lighting)
Nah I never use shadows or lighting "
100% pitch black, a man after my own heart... |
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"It is almost as if there is a sense on entitlement by some single guys on here. Most couples we chat to are here for other couples, not the thousands of single guys that saturate the chat rooms for instance. When Innuendo is on cam, the shear number of PM's we get (and ignore) is incredible. Last weekend every time I posted, I had to stop and check my post didn't go into a PM.
We chat to single guys, but find a chat then turns into a hard sell to meet them, something that we do on our terms, not theirs. We used to get lots of emails from single guys, mostly one liners and god forbid that we fabbed one!
That would bring a whole string of mails hounding us to meet, so we would invoke the block button. We didn't like doing that but it became necessary. For us a single guy is a diversion for our pleasure.
So we no longer fab single guys pictures. Too much hassle. But we do fab TS/TV pictures and appreciate the effort some go to to look good. Funny though, we never get hassled by them.
It's all about perspective.
The only hassle I've ever received in 5 years here has been from couples.
You used the word entitlement and that's very true of my experience.
I've had numerous opening messages from couples demanding a phone number and facepic or telling me to shave my beard off or I won't be put on their to do list.
When I draw their attention to what it clearly says in my profile I have been told I'm a man and therefore don't have options on here.
Others above have given reasons why women don't fab men's pics which are perfectly valid except the question has to be asked then as to why women say they are in on fabathons or facepic threads if they don't have any intention of taking part?
I don't say I'm taking part in something unless I'm actually going to contribute but anyone throwing their name in the hat without contributing is doing so because they know all the men on the thread will fab their pics and they don't have to do anything in return.
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I used to take part in a lot of fabathons and while I didn't fab every single person in there (if someone has only one picture and it's their cock over a toilet then fabathon or no, it's a no from me), I did fab most. I used to enjoy the chance to perv on profiles I might not otherwise have looked at, and most people on there had decent photos.
I was constantly surprised by how many people would message me to say thanks, and that I was usually the only one to fab them.
I think you're right and it's like the "send a nice message" type threads, a chunk of people put their name down and wait for adulation, with no intention of sending messages or fabbing other people's photos themselves. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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"90% is extremely high and way off. I don’t know what’s quite sad about your statement. There are a lot of reasons why women get more fabs. Generally better photos which is quite evident.
I’d expect to see you top with your pics, I Fab them all anyway
Aw thank you I fab yours too "
Well thank you in return that’s lovely of you |
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I don't get the suprise here.
If!we assume men fab women and women fab men, then 90pc of the fab population are fabbing 10pc of the photos .. and the other 10pf are gabbing 90pc, so more likely to spread.
If fabs were done randomly, that would mean each female pic gets 9 of every 100 cast, and each male pic gets 0.1.
Fab maths ! |
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"I don't get the suprise here.
If!we assume men fab women and women fab men, then 90pc of the fab population are fabbing 10pc of the photos .. and the other 10pf are gabbing 90pc, so more likely to spread.
If fabs were done randomly, that would mean each female pic gets 9 of every 100 cast, and each male pic gets 0.1.
Fab maths ! "
Shhhussssss we don't do maths on fab |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"Top photos are for those who use this site as a socail media "likes" thing. It's always the same handful up there. Sometimes the pics are "meh" but they get up there due to their followers. "
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