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How invested in the “lifestyle” are you?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How big is swinging in your life?
It seems to me from browsing the forums and Fab as a whole there’s section of people that swinging / the lifestyle is their life, and others that drop in on rare occasions and everything in between.
So where are you?
Does your life centre itself around the scene? Are you off to a swingers club every weekend? Do you take all your holidays in swing resorts like Cap D’Age? Do you travel across the country to attend all the Fab socials? As soon as the sun comes out are you planning your trips to the nudey beaches?
Maybe you’re at the other end of the spectrum and really can’t be arsed with it at all other than a quick browse on Fab to look at some nice cock or fanny pics?
Or maybe (where I expect the majority to attest to) you see it as a little naughty / pleasant part of your life that supplements the full and wholesome and healthy lifestyle you live?
Can swinging be addictive? I think it go that way for me for a while sometime around 2018, meeting far too regularly, now I don’t meet at all.
What about you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How big is swinging in your life?
It seems to me from browsing the forums and Fab as a whole there’s section of people that swinging / the lifestyle is their life, and others that drop in on rare occasions and everything in between.
So where are you?
Does your life centre itself around the scene? Are you off to a swingers club every weekend? Do you take all your holidays in swing resorts like Cap D’Age? Do you travel across the country to attend all the Fab socials? As soon as the sun comes out are you planning your trips to the nudey beaches?
Maybe you’re at the other end of the spectrum and really can’t be arsed with it at all other than a quick browse on Fab to look at some nice cock or fanny pics?
Or maybe (where I expect the majority to attest to) you see it as a little naughty / pleasant part of your life that supplements the full and wholesome and healthy lifestyle you live?
Can swinging be addictive? I think it go that way for me for a while sometime around 2018, meeting far too regularly, now I don’t meet at all.
What about you? "
Drop in cause shit and moonwalk back out the way I came |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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O don’t know yet, it’s fun currently talking to you all but some take it very serious.
Sex is sexy, and talking to sexy people about sex keeps me feeling…sexy.
But I don’t want things to be just about that, and my real life and other things is more important to me than this.
Swinging would be just another thing I enjoy in life, but not everything.
Although, if and when I do swing I would probably be the best swinger in the world. *borrowed from a popular lager company. |
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About 4 years ago we'd go to clubs probably 6 or 7 times a year, then close family member got ill and passed away. Then covid happened and now k has had to have surgery on her back, so we haven't got back into it.
We've never really been invested on here as we don't really take the site too seriously due to still being relatively nervous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us, it's never been more than an occasional meet, currently I (fem) have no interest in meeting others, we're here for the forums and the few people we chat regularly to. |
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Quite invested but I am a party girl. If I wasn't out socialising with fabbers it would be with my real life mates, I learned very early on that life is for living and that can be taken away very quickly.
Sex clubs maybe 3/4 times a year, social weekend away once a month and I see my playmates on a weekly basis  |
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I've never been immersed in the scene. Never been to a club due partly to lack of interest and partly because of the nature of the club scene over here.
In five years on the site I've been to one MnG and one party and just 7 play meets so I'm not exactly prolific.
That's all by choice though and I'm more than happy with the pace.
I do often wonder how some people are able to function IRL based simply on the amount of time they spend in the forums. |
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I love the humour here - can come in here irritated by something and a few threads in you are smiling normally. I take nothing seriously especially swinging- apart from meeting- if people are willing to give up their precious time to meet you - you have to respect that. I’d be lying if i said I don’t enjoy perving some of the incredible looking women here - but it’s not the main reason.
Its a small part of my life so if any ladies would like to be involved with my small part….  |
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Exploring eroticism, with the right people! Is an extension of my social life, and has a habit of developing into some very good friendships with those who don't take life outside of real world too seriously. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I think that over time it becomes a bigger part of life.
For some it’s just a tiny part to dip into, for others; it builds into their social network, friends and significant relationships.
There’s no right or wrong way, no judgement either way. It’s specific to the person and their situation.
For me, my closest friends are all swingers and my past two LTR’s have been with swingers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d be lying if i said I don’t enjoy perving some of the incredible looking women here, especially Appletree - but it’s not the main reason. "
The cheek and fibber. That's the only reason you're here - to perv  |
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"How big is swinging in your life?
It seems to me from browsing the forums and Fab as a whole there’s section of people that swinging / the lifestyle is their life, and others that drop in on rare occasions and everything in between.
So where are you?
Does your life centre itself around the scene? Are you off to a swingers club every weekend? Do you take all your holidays in swing resorts like Cap D’Age? Do you travel across the country to attend all the Fab socials? As soon as the sun comes out are you planning your trips to the nudey beaches?
Maybe you’re at the other end of the spectrum and really can’t be arsed with it at all other than a quick browse on Fab to look at some nice cock or fanny pics?
Or maybe (where I expect the majority to attest to) you see it as a little naughty / pleasant part of your life that supplements the full and wholesome and healthy lifestyle you live?
Can swinging be addictive? I think it go that way for me for a while sometime around 2018, meeting far too regularly, now I don’t meet at all.
What about you? "
I go to swinging clubs (normally) twice a week (Fridays and Saturdays) …. It’s just fun! I’m single and have play partners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not invested in the classic swinging lifestyle x I’ve mainly used this site for the forum and to have a hot time with some boys on here x
But it isn’t swinging so, I don’t know x
I don’t consider myself a swinger |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where would you say you are OP? Has Fab been a part of your life for a long time or are you more of a sporadic member? "
Ah good question young Meli, I’d say I had my peak in 2017/18, it all got a bit crazy and addictive around then and I was meeting far too regularly than was healthy at one point and probably got a bit too close to one person as well.
So I left the site, gave my head a bit of a wobble, and have popped back on now and then over the years but only sporadically as I think I’m well and truly over my mid-life crisis and I soon get bored of it.
However it’s a nice safe space for my TV lifestyle and DaniDeLuxe to really be herself so I think I’m here to stay for a bit!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really at all. I've stopped looking for now as I'm more than happy with the people in my life. I've been to a club and may go again at some point but it isn't something that would become a regular part of my social life. I stay on fab because of friends I've made on here and I enjoy the forums sometimes. |
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We’ve been to clubs…some local, some not. We’ve been to socials, a party and met privately.
We certainly aren’t hardened swingers.
We are more opportunistic - if the mood takes us we’ll look to do something.
It doesn’t define us…we have enough between us to not need to crave anything more…it’s just fun if/when it does.
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We like to go to a club at least once or twice a month , we are really enjoying this part of our lives as we are fairly new to it ... whether we get deeper in or not we shall have to see. We love vanilla nights out as well , its not all about swinging |
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