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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You feel the mental connection but the pictures don't do it or vice versa they are so bloody damn gorgeous but can't get two words out of them.
What's more important to you ?
Mental connection or Physical connection and remember we don't live in a perfect world and you can't have both 
It's one over the other.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need some other kind of connection than physical attraction. I don't care how gorgeous someone is, if they have a personality of a sideboard I just can't. If the conversation is one sided, I lose interest pretty quickly. |
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"I need some other kind of connection than physical attraction. I don't care how gorgeous someone is, if they have a personality of a sideboard I just can't. If the conversation is one sided, I lose interest pretty quickly."
Yep but for me if I'm not physically attracted to you no personality will make me want to have sex with you.
I'll happily make another friend but very few men want that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I need some other kind of connection than physical attraction. I don't care how gorgeous someone is, if they have a personality of a sideboard I just can't. If the conversation is one sided, I lose interest pretty quickly.
Yep but for me if I'm not physically attracted to you no personality will make me want to have sex with you.
I'll happily make another friend but very few men want that."
Yes agreed that's why I said other than physical attraction. I need to find them attractive too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I get it there must be a level of attraction in both preferences for things to move on to potential good times. I am much the same
The question here was one over the other? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get it there must be a level of attraction in both preferences for things to move on to potential good times. I am much the same
The question here was one over the other? "
The answer will stay the same. I’m not choosing one over the other. I’m saying both.
One or the other would involve a compromise that I’d be unwilling to make. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both, i need both. Ive had women message that are drop dead gorgeous but theres nothing there conversation wise or mentally, and ive had those that we hit it off, the sparks there but physically im not attracted so ultimately i need the full package.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im mostly in need of a mental connection, a lot of the attraction i have for someone is developed through socialising with them.
Its very difficult for me to maintain any kind of interest in someone if they cant reciprocate discussion and make an effort to show their interest as well. If they cant make an equal effort to what i put in, or at least make some ki d of an effort, then i doubt theyd make equal effort for the experience overall when it comes to meeting up, socially and sexually.
Its extremely rare for me to keep chasing someone around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Physical connection is always first without that there cant be a Mental connection with swinging its just not as simple as one process way more to picking a sexual bit of fun than that |
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