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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey x
I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas 
So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!
But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?
Thank you  |
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Keep to the more lighthearted topics at first.
Expect that your comments will appear to be ignored. So if you make a point and nobody quotes you, that happens but it will be seen.
If you say something and realise afterwards that it was wrong or you now see someone else’s point, don’t be shy in admitting it.
Grammar police …ignore them  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hello and welcome
Just join in, have a look at the forum rules
https://m.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules
take no nonsense and just be yourself. You'll be fine "
Thank you I will take a read x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Keep to the more lighthearted topics at first.
Expect that your comments will appear to be ignored. So if you make a point and nobody quotes you, that happens but it will be seen.
If you say something and realise afterwards that it was wrong or you now see someone else’s point, don’t be shy in admitting it.
Grammar police …ignore them "
Thank you x Good advice! My grammar is woeful ha ha x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hello and welcome.
Don't take things to heart.
Some of us have been posting for many years and get missed on threads. "
Yes I saw some threads on this lurking the other day! It’s all part of life I guess. Thank you! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Welcome to the forums OP. Be yourself, remember it’s supposed to be fun, don’t take it too seriously, and join in.
Enjoy "
Thank you. Yes, I will definitely try to be myself and have fun x |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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"Hey x
I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas
So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!
But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?
Thank you "
A tip?
Write a decent profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey x
I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas
So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!
But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?
Thank you
A tip?
Write a decent profile. "
I fail to see what a ‘decent’ profile has to do with joining in with the forums.
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"Hey x
I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas
So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!
But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?
Thank you
A tip?
Write a decent profile. "
What’s that got to do with joining in on the forums?
Quite a few forum regulars have hidden profiles, it doesn’t seem to affect their use of the forums. |
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"Hey x
I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas
So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!
But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?
Thank you
A tip?
Write a decent profile. "
She didn’t ask for profile advice.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hey x
I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas
So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!
But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?
Thank you
A tip?
Write a decent profile. "
it’s a great point when I come to meet and I know the profile is currently lacking. I will be expanding it in the new year when looking to meet. At the moment I’m just looking to enjoy the forums in the run up to Christmas but I do appreciate the advice and agree with it |
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Watch out for the wind up merchants. I keep s mental list of them and avoid getting sucked in. Easily spotted by such phrases as 'Where's your peer reviewed evidence?'.
One of the most prolific has been missing for some weeks! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hey x
I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas
So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!
But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?
Thank you
A tip?
Write a decent profile.
I fail to see what a ‘decent’ profile has to do with joining in with the forums.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey x
I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas
So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!
But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?
Thank you
A tip?
Write a decent profile.
What’s that got to do with joining in on the forums?
Quite a few forum regulars have hidden profiles, it doesn’t seem to affect their use of the forums. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some start with the tip then they shove it all in!  aah, tip: lube!
You'll have fun  "
Ha ha thank you. If this thread is anything to go by you’re all a great bunch! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey x
I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas
So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!
But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?
Thank you
A tip?
Write a decent profile.
She didn’t ask for profile advice. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Watch out for the wind up merchants. I keep s mental list of them and avoid getting sucked in. Easily spotted by such phrases as 'Where's your peer reviewed evidence?'.
One of the most prolific has been missing for some weeks!"
Ha thank you! I will be extra vigilant! |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
West Mids |
"Hey x
I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas
So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!
But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?
Thank you
A tip?
Write a decent profile.
it’s a great point when I come to meet and I know the profile is currently lacking. I will be expanding it in the new year when looking to meet. At the moment I’m just looking to enjoy the forums in the run up to Christmas but I do appreciate the advice and agree with it "
Very well put.
If you are looking to create and keep an interest a profile will help immensely. |
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