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Can I buy my dad for Christmas.
Everyone gets him chocolate or biscuits. He has everything he needs as far as clothes, hats, scarves, gloves etc are concerned. He has all he needs as far as his hobbies and interests are concerned. He's partially sighted but very mobile and fit for someone in their mid nineties. I'm well and truly stumped. |
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Sweets? My grandma had a big thing for sugared almonds so I got her a bag every Christmas.
Have also for my husband's grandma created a personalised photo calendar with pictures of her great grandchildren every month. Easy to do online. You can also do photo books or mugs etc. Or if you feel lazy just get a really nice photo printed, buy a nice frame and give that. |
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"Can I buy my dad for Christmas.
Everyone gets him chocolate or biscuits. He has everything he needs as far as clothes, hats, scarves, gloves etc are concerned. He has all he needs as far as his hobbies and interests are concerned. He's partially sighted but very mobile and fit for someone in their mid nineties. I'm well and truly stumped."
I saw a gift idea on FB the other day. You put in a memorable date and location and it shows a star map for that date and location. Maybe your date of birth or his? |
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"Can I buy my dad for Christmas.
Everyone gets him chocolate or biscuits. He has everything he needs as far as clothes, hats, scarves, gloves etc are concerned. He has all he needs as far as his hobbies and interests are concerned. He's partially sighted but very mobile and fit for someone in their mid nineties. I'm well and truly stumped." I saw a reading gadget on telly this morning ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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I never knew what to buy my mum as she really had all she needs. Over the past few years I have gone down the lines of spa breaks, afternoon tea days or theatre tickets which gets her out the house as well as giving me something to look forward to also. |
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"Can I buy my dad for Christmas.
Everyone gets him chocolate or biscuits. He has everything he needs as far as clothes, hats, scarves, gloves etc are concerned. He has all he needs as far as his hobbies and interests are concerned. He's partially sighted but very mobile and fit for someone in their mid nineties. I'm well and truly stumped.I saw a reading gadget on telly this morning "
You're going to have to be a bit more specific . Did it magnify text? |
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An experience/ day out voucher maybe?
We used to have a similar problem buying for my dad. People that have everything they want are a nightmare to buy for good luck ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"I Remember That!: Captivating Stories, Interesting Facts and Fun Trivia for Seniors
by Bill O'Neill
Extra Large Print Random Word Search 2: 50 Easy To See Puzzles: Volume 2
by Rex Witcherley
Low Vision Notebook: Bold Lined Paper For Visually Impaired | Blue & Purple Gradient (Low Vision Writing Paper)
by Yellow Bird Notebooks
Large Print Quick Crosswords
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Communiclock talking clock - from RNIB
Born in 1941: Your Life in Wordsearch Puzzles: 7 (Time Travel Wordsearch Puzzles)
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"Can I buy my dad for Christmas.
Everyone gets him chocolate or biscuits. He has everything he needs as far as clothes, hats, scarves, gloves etc are concerned. He has all he needs as far as his hobbies and interests are concerned. He's partially sighted but very mobile and fit for someone in their mid nineties. I'm well and truly stumped.I saw a reading gadget on telly this morning
You're going to have to be a bit more specific . Did it magnify text? " I think it connects to a phone by Bluetooth and is a text to speech gismo |
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"A book. My Dad has dementia so won't notice me re-gifting a book he's already read at my house...."
I shouldn't laugh but . This is after telling my mum about eight times in the space of an hour that yes, she has eaten lunch and what it was. |
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"Can I buy my dad for Christmas.
Everyone gets him chocolate or biscuits. He has everything he needs as far as clothes, hats, scarves, gloves etc are concerned. He has all he needs as far as his hobbies and interests are concerned. He's partially sighted but very mobile and fit for someone in their mid nineties. I'm well and truly stumped.I saw a reading gadget on telly this morning
You're going to have to be a bit more specific . Did it magnify text? I think it connects to a phone by Bluetooth and is a text to speech gismo"
Ah right. Sounds great ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"A book. My Dad has dementia so won't notice me re-gifting a book he's already read at my house....
I shouldn't laugh but . This is after telling my mum about eight times in the space of an hour that yes, she has eaten lunch and what it was. "
Trying to (keep) explaining to Dad about the post-storm repairs to his house is just
It's like another FT job! |
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"A book. My Dad has dementia so won't notice me re-gifting a book he's already read at my house....
I shouldn't laugh but . This is after telling my mum about eight times in the space of an hour that yes, she has eaten lunch and what it was.
Trying to (keep) explaining to Dad about the post-storm repairs to his house is just
It's like another FT job! "
It's draining isn't it.
Can your dad appear "normal" for brief periods? |
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"A book. My Dad has dementia so won't notice me re-gifting a book he's already read at my house....
I shouldn't laugh but . This is after telling my mum about eight times in the space of an hour that yes, she has eaten lunch and what it was.
Trying to (keep) explaining to Dad about the post-storm repairs to his house is just
It's like another FT job!
It's draining isn't it.
Can your dad appear "normal" for brief periods?"
Yes...... |
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"HAve you seen ugears models?
I got one from my kids last christmas. basically wooden mechano. lots of models to choose from
something different"
I second this! My FIL loves them! |
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Does he like music? I know it is a gamble with civid etc, but maybe a ticket to see an orchestra in concert or an opera? Would be a noce experience and something to look forward to do together. |
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A hang drum.
One of my favourite instruments, ethereal sounding, therapeutic..
If you have a sense of rhythm it sounds great. Sounds great even if you don't.. |
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"A book. My Dad has dementia so won't notice me re-gifting a book he's already read at my house....
I shouldn't laugh but . This is after telling my mum about eight times in the space of an hour that yes, she has eaten lunch and what it was.
Trying to (keep) explaining to Dad about the post-storm repairs to his house is just
It's like another FT job!
It's draining isn't it.
Can your dad appear "normal" for brief periods?
Yes...... "
Do friends and family who only keep in contact via brief visits or calls think you're exaggerating the problem? |
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"Can I buy my dad for Christmas.
Everyone gets him chocolate or biscuits. He has everything he needs as far as clothes, hats, scarves, gloves etc are concerned. He has all he needs as far as his hobbies and interests are concerned. He's partially sighted but very mobile and fit for someone in their mid nineties. I'm well and truly stumped." easy...just tell him you love him... |
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"A book. My Dad has dementia so won't notice me re-gifting a book he's already read at my house....
I shouldn't laugh but . This is after telling my mum about eight times in the space of an hour that yes, she has eaten lunch and what it was.
Trying to (keep) explaining to Dad about the post-storm repairs to his house is just
It's like another FT job!
It's draining isn't it.
Can your dad appear "normal" for brief periods?
Yes......
Do friends and family who only keep in contact via brief visits or calls think you're exaggerating the problem? "
Yep. His Spanish girlfriend finally believes me, she messaged me about it last night. For example. |
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"A book. My Dad has dementia so won't notice me re-gifting a book he's already read at my house....
I shouldn't laugh but . This is after telling my mum about eight times in the space of an hour that yes, she has eaten lunch and what it was.
Trying to (keep) explaining to Dad about the post-storm repairs to his house is just
It's like another FT job!
It's draining isn't it.
Can your dad appear "normal" for brief periods?
Yes......
Do friends and family who only keep in contact via brief visits or calls think you're exaggerating the problem?
Yep. His Spanish girlfriend finally believes me, she messaged me about it last night. For example. "
I had quite a long conversation with one of my brothers tonight. He says he believes me but it's taken a while. I think one of the most frustrating things is explaining the situation to people who say things like "well older people do get forgetful". They don't forget they've V had their dinner five minutes after they've eaten it! I don't know how my father puts up with it 24/7 |
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"A book. My Dad has dementia so won't notice me re-gifting a book he's already read at my house....
I shouldn't laugh but . This is after telling my mum about eight times in the space of an hour that yes, she has eaten lunch and what it was.
Trying to (keep) explaining to Dad about the post-storm repairs to his house is just
It's like another FT job!
It's draining isn't it.
Can your dad appear "normal" for brief periods?
Yes......
Do friends and family who only keep in contact via brief visits or calls think you're exaggerating the problem?
Yep. His Spanish girlfriend finally believes me, she messaged me about it last night. For example.
I had quite a long conversation with one of my brothers tonight. He says he believes me but it's taken a while. I think one of the most frustrating things is explaining the situation to people who say things like "well older people do get forgetful". They don't forget they've V had their dinner five minutes after they've eaten it! I don't know how my father puts up with it 24/7 "
Yes, my brother thoroughly "enjoyed" his frustrating day of repeating himself on Wednesday.... It's usually me who is on the front line! |
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"A book. My Dad has dementia so won't notice me re-gifting a book he's already read at my house....
I shouldn't laugh but . This is after telling my mum about eight times in the space of an hour that yes, she has eaten lunch and what it was.
Trying to (keep) explaining to Dad about the post-storm repairs to his house is just
It's like another FT job!
It's draining isn't it.
Can your dad appear "normal" for brief periods?
Yes......
Do friends and family who only keep in contact via brief visits or calls think you're exaggerating the problem?
Yep. His Spanish girlfriend finally believes me, she messaged me about it last night. For example.
I had quite a long conversation with one of my brothers tonight. He says he believes me but it's taken a while. I think one of the most frustrating things is explaining the situation to people who say things like "well older people do get forgetful". They don't forget they've V had their dinner five minutes after they've eaten it! I don't know how my father puts up with it 24/7
Yes, my brother thoroughly "enjoyed" his frustrating day of repeating himself on Wednesday.... It's usually me who is on the front line! "
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We're choosing to see the funny side. It's difficult some days but what's the alternative? |
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"A book. My Dad has dementia so won't notice me re-gifting a book he's already read at my house....
I shouldn't laugh but . This is after telling my mum about eight times in the space of an hour that yes, she has eaten lunch and what it was.
Trying to (keep) explaining to Dad about the post-storm repairs to his house is just
It's like another FT job!
It's draining isn't it.
Can your dad appear "normal" for brief periods?
Yes......
Do friends and family who only keep in contact via brief visits or calls think you're exaggerating the problem?
Yep. His Spanish girlfriend finally believes me, she messaged me about it last night. For example.
I had quite a long conversation with one of my brothers tonight. He says he believes me but it's taken a while. I think one of the most frustrating things is explaining the situation to people who say things like "well older people do get forgetful". They don't forget they've V had their dinner five minutes after they've eaten it! I don't know how my father puts up with it 24/7
Yes, my brother thoroughly "enjoyed" his frustrating day of repeating himself on Wednesday.... It's usually me who is on the front line!
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We're choosing to see the funny side. It's difficult some days but what's the alternative?"
I'm contemplating learning bricklaying and my brother is about to get a crash course in aerial fitting and roof tiling because I can't cope with more of this until some actual tradespeople find time to even price up things. His house/garage is a dangerous mess ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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"A book. My Dad has dementia so won't notice me re-gifting a book he's already read at my house....
I shouldn't laugh but . This is after telling my mum about eight times in the space of an hour that yes, she has eaten lunch and what it was.
Trying to (keep) explaining to Dad about the post-storm repairs to his house is just
It's like another FT job!
It's draining isn't it.
Can your dad appear "normal" for brief periods?
Yes......
Do friends and family who only keep in contact via brief visits or calls think you're exaggerating the problem?
Yep. His Spanish girlfriend finally believes me, she messaged me about it last night. For example.
I had quite a long conversation with one of my brothers tonight. He says he believes me but it's taken a while. I think one of the most frustrating things is explaining the situation to people who say things like "well older people do get forgetful". They don't forget they've V had their dinner five minutes after they've eaten it! I don't know how my father puts up with it 24/7
Yes, my brother thoroughly "enjoyed" his frustrating day of repeating himself on Wednesday.... It's usually me who is on the front line!
.
We're choosing to see the funny side. It's difficult some days but what's the alternative?
I'm contemplating learning bricklaying and my brother is about to get a crash course in aerial fitting and roof tiling because I can't cope with more of this until some actual tradespeople find time to even price up things. His house/garage is a dangerous mess "
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Does he go walking much? We bought my Dad one of those fancy walking stick/poles for his birthday and he loves that. He had a fall just before his birthday while out walking and lost a bit of confidence but he’s much happier now he has the pole to walk with.
Also, every Christmas my sister pays for an annual subscription for his golf magazine which is a pretty cool present as it lasts all year.
Talking from a male point of view (I know I’m pretty feminine but I am ‘officially’ male so I can haha) I am always happy and grateful to receive simple presents like smellies (I love receiving some posh shower gel that I can save for when I’m going out somewhere and want to smell extra nice). |
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"A book. My Dad has dementia so won't notice me re-gifting a book he's already read at my house....
I shouldn't laugh but . This is after telling my mum about eight times in the space of an hour that yes, she has eaten lunch and what it was.
Trying to (keep) explaining to Dad about the post-storm repairs to his house is just
It's like another FT job!
It's draining isn't it.
Can your dad appear "normal" for brief periods?
Yes......
Do friends and family who only keep in contact via brief visits or calls think you're exaggerating the problem?
Yep. His Spanish girlfriend finally believes me, she messaged me about it last night. For example.
I had quite a long conversation with one of my brothers tonight. He says he believes me but it's taken a while. I think one of the most frustrating things is explaining the situation to people who say things like "well older people do get forgetful". They don't forget they've V had their dinner five minutes after they've eaten it! I don't know how my father puts up with it 24/7
Yes, my brother thoroughly "enjoyed" his frustrating day of repeating himself on Wednesday.... It's usually me who is on the front line!
.
We're choosing to see the funny side. It's difficult some days but what's the alternative?
I'm contemplating learning bricklaying and my brother is about to get a crash course in aerial fitting and roof tiling because I can't cope with more of this until some actual tradespeople find time to even price up things. His house/garage is a dangerous mess
Oh god! "
I'm sure I can lay bricks at ground level from my wheelchair.... |
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"Hookers and , can't go wrong with the a classic.
I like your use of the plural
Well he's your dad you don't want to cheap out "
True! .
He reliably informed me that since his prostate operation he can no longer have children but can still have sex (thanks dad ) and he also told me that at his age he can take risks so I think you've probably hit on the perfect gift ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"A book. My Dad has dementia so won't notice me re-gifting a book he's already read at my house....
I shouldn't laugh but . This is after telling my mum about eight times in the space of an hour that yes, she has eaten lunch and what it was.
Trying to (keep) explaining to Dad about the post-storm repairs to his house is just
It's like another FT job!
It's draining isn't it.
Can your dad appear "normal" for brief periods?
Yes......
Do friends and family who only keep in contact via brief visits or calls think you're exaggerating the problem?
Yep. His Spanish girlfriend finally believes me, she messaged me about it last night. For example.
I had quite a long conversation with one of my brothers tonight. He says he believes me but it's taken a while. I think one of the most frustrating things is explaining the situation to people who say things like "well older people do get forgetful". They don't forget they've V had their dinner five minutes after they've eaten it! I don't know how my father puts up with it 24/7
Yes, my brother thoroughly "enjoyed" his frustrating day of repeating himself on Wednesday.... It's usually me who is on the front line!
.
We're choosing to see the funny side. It's difficult some days but what's the alternative?
I'm contemplating learning bricklaying and my brother is about to get a crash course in aerial fitting and roof tiling because I can't cope with more of this until some actual tradespeople find time to even price up things. His house/garage is a dangerous mess
Oh god!
I'm sure I can lay bricks at ground level from my wheelchair.... "
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"Does he go walking much? We bought my Dad one of those fancy walking stick/poles for his birthday and he loves that. He had a fall just before his birthday while out walking and lost a bit of confidence but he’s much happier now he has the pole to walk with.
Also, every Christmas my sister pays for an annual subscription for his golf magazine which is a pretty cool present as it lasts all year.
Talking from a male point of view (I know I’m pretty feminine but I am ‘officially’ male so I can haha) I am always happy and grateful to receive simple presents like smellies (I love receiving some posh shower gel that I can save for when I’m going out somewhere and want to smell extra nice)."
My dad actually prefers simple gifts. He gets a lot of pleasure from things like a nice bar of chocolate. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Does he go walking much? We bought my Dad one of those fancy walking stick/poles for his birthday and he loves that. He had a fall just before his birthday while out walking and lost a bit of confidence but he’s much happier now he has the pole to walk with.
Also, every Christmas my sister pays for an annual subscription for his golf magazine which is a pretty cool present as it lasts all year.
Talking from a male point of view (I know I’m pretty feminine but I am ‘officially’ male so I can haha) I am always happy and grateful to receive simple presents like smellies (I love receiving some posh shower gel that I can save for when I’m going out somewhere and want to smell extra nice).
My dad actually prefers simple gifts. He gets a lot of pleasure from things like a nice bar of chocolate. "
I haven’t got a very sweet tooth so I have to pretend to be happy about receiving chocolate as a gift haha. I don’t dislike it but I don’t get excited about it either, I’d much prefer a multi pack of crisps....I’d be genuinely excited and happy to receive crisps as a present.
I always get bought underwear (male) which I like as I’d never buy that for myself so it’s good to be able to chuck out some of the worn out pairs of boxer shorts when I get some new ones.
Personally I think men are a lot easier to buy for than women....any tips on what to buy my mom (who has everything and is quite fussy) would be grateful appreciated haha. |
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"Does he go walking much? We bought my Dad one of those fancy walking stick/poles for his birthday and he loves that. He had a fall just before his birthday while out walking and lost a bit of confidence but he’s much happier now he has the pole to walk with.
Also, every Christmas my sister pays for an annual subscription for his golf magazine which is a pretty cool present as it lasts all year.
Talking from a male point of view (I know I’m pretty feminine but I am ‘officially’ male so I can haha) I am always happy and grateful to receive simple presents like smellies (I love receiving some posh shower gel that I can save for when I’m going out somewhere and want to smell extra nice).
My dad actually prefers simple gifts. He gets a lot of pleasure from things like a nice bar of chocolate.
I haven’t got a very sweet tooth so I have to pretend to be happy about receiving chocolate as a gift haha. I don’t dislike it but I don’t get excited about it either, I’d much prefer a multi pack of crisps....I’d be genuinely excited and happy to receive crisps as a present.
I always get bought underwear (male) which I like as I’d never buy that for myself so it’s good to be able to chuck out some of the worn out pairs of boxer shorts when I get some new ones.
Personally I think men are a lot easier to buy for than women....any tips on what to buy my mom (who has everything and is quite fussy) would be grateful appreciated haha. "
If only everyone was as easy as you to buy for.
Yep, tips for mums would be good. I've got mine sorted but it will help other people |
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For my mum, apart from the usual stocking fillers, not the kind of drop dead gorgeous stocking fillers like we have on here I might add, I've had several old photos made into canvases for her, including some of her wedding photos, and they can then be switched around throughout the year. Apart from the obvious nostalgic value, the mental health team have suggested that surrounding a place with memories keeps the mind of a dementia sufferer stimulated. It might be worth thinking about whether your dad's memory is good or not so good. |
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"A book. My Dad has dementia so won't notice me re-gifting a book he's already read at my house...."
i'm going to write a list of all my books to check if my children do this for me ... then I'll lose the list lol |
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"A book. My Dad has dementia so won't notice me re-gifting a book he's already read at my house....
i'm going to write a list of all my books to check if my children do this for me ... then I'll lose the list lol"
From experience....you’ll forgot you had the list! |
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A experience, a day out just the two of you maybe for a afternoon tea or a day trip that envolves his hobby that just you 2 can do and have quality time together.
Things arnt needed but people always appreciate quality time together ![](/icons/rainbow.png) |
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"A book. My Dad has dementia so won't notice me re-gifting a book he's already read at my house....
i'm going to write a list of all my books to check if my children do this for me ... then I'll lose the list lol
From experience....you’ll forgot you had the list! "
I think I'll write it on my arm lol |
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"For my mum, apart from the usual stocking fillers, not the kind of drop dead gorgeous stocking fillers like we have on here I might add, I've had several old photos made into canvases for her, including some of her wedding photos, and they can then be switched around throughout the year. Apart from the obvious nostalgic value, the mental health team have suggested that surrounding a place with memories keeps the mind of a dementia sufferer stimulated. It might be worth thinking about whether your dad's memory is good or not so good. "
He's as sharp as a tack. It's my mother who has compromised short term memory.
The problem when someone is partially sighted is that visual reminders aren't quite as effective. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Can I buy my dad for Christmas.
Everyone gets him chocolate or biscuits. He has everything he needs as far as clothes, hats, scarves, gloves etc are concerned. He has all he needs as far as his hobbies and interests are concerned. He's partially sighted but very mobile and fit for someone in their mid nineties. I'm well and truly stumped."
Why not give him a time voucher where you promised to take him out out for a meal or something as a family at some point in the new year as a guy I want nothing just time with my wife and kids. |
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"Can I buy my dad for Christmas.
Everyone gets him chocolate or biscuits. He has everything he needs as far as clothes, hats, scarves, gloves etc are concerned. He has all he needs as far as his hobbies and interests are concerned. He's partially sighted but very mobile and fit for someone in their mid nineties. I'm well and truly stumped.
Why not give him a time voucher where you promised to take him out out for a meal or something as a family at some point in the new year as a guy I want nothing just time with my wife and kids."
That's a great idea.
I do spend a lot of time with my dad so do our daughter and her husband. If I could give him a voucher for time with his other children and grandchildren that would be a different matter ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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