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"We've been together a year....she's funny and hot but I'm not feeling it.
Any help ?"
There's no particular way other than being very honest.
Be kind, don't beat about the bush and be very clear.
You never know, she may feel the same but it's going to be upsetting, however you say it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be honest.
Be fair.
Be considerate.
Appreciate she'll probably be upset.
But for crying out loud do it and don't string her along. Allow her to grieve and move on."
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Tell her directly, give her time to process it, be patient if she has questions then move on and leave her alone. Treat her with respect and compassion.
Having just been on the receiving end of a breakup of sorts I can honestly say that the respect and compassion is key. I didn’t get that and so I’m still dealing with the way it ended, I haven’t even begun to start processing the fact that I won’t see him again. How it ends is important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Say to her 'tell me if you can hear this" get into car boot and yell/scream a bit
Complain to her you didn't die in your sleep.
Write her name on a roll of duct tape, leave it somewhere she'll find it.
Move to Luton.
Ask her why, if her mum/sister/best mate likes x sex act with you why doesn't she?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be honest, be kind and remember she has feelings as well, clearly communicate your feelings to her, wish her the very best and know for sure this is what you want and let it be that you break up with her then messaging her for sex or that you've made a mistake etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell them the last year didn’t mean a thing ( 6 year )
Tell them you never loved them you only there for the money
Tell them they will be single for the rest off they life’s because they ugly and no one will want them
Tell them your going to go shag 300-400 people
And then come back ones everyone had a go
Tell them they take you back because they know they love you and no matter what they do they always take you back
Tell them they going to make shour no one else wants you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fake your own death. Move abroad, cut off all connections to your current life. Come back in 20 years with a new identity and claim to be your long lost twin and see if she’s still hot and funny. "
Brilliant option.please use this  |
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"Tell her directly, give her time to process it, be patient if she has questions then move on and leave her alone. Treat her with respect and compassion.
Having just been on the receiving end of a breakup of sorts I can honestly say that the respect and compassion is key. I didn’t get that and so I’m still dealing with the way it ended, I haven’t even begun to start processing the fact that I won’t see him again. How it ends is important. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny comments aside. She is human ( I hope)
Treat her with respect, explain your concerns. She might be feeling the same or it might be something your doing wrong.
If you end it badly you will only kick yourself if you realise months down the line that you shouldn't have ended it.
You might get lucky and she wants you as fab. |
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Tell her honestly and unambiguously that for you there's no future in your relationship. You like her a lot she's sexy and funny but the chemistry isn't there. If she asks any questions answer them as honestly as possible. Wish her well and leave her to get on with her life |
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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago
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As others have said, be honest, be nice and be firm.
Don't even hint at the possibility of it being temporary, in the first few days of a breakup acceptance and logic can be a bit wayward so be honest and leave her to deal with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've been together a year....she's funny and hot but I'm not feeling it.
Any help ?"
What are you not feeling?
She's funny and hot. That's rare enough.. stick it out til Christmas anyway see what she gets you. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Send her a text meant for the girl you are seeing behind her back . That ends a 32 year long marriage nice and quick so im sure it will work on a 1 year long relationship |
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You just skip out the back Jack
Make a new plan Stan
You don’t need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus Gus
You don’t need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've been together a year....she's funny and hot but I'm not feeling it.
Any help ?
What are you not feeling?
She's funny and hot. That's rare enough.. stick it out til Christmas anyway see what she gets you.
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I actually wanna know too. Like she’s funny and hot. So what is that you dont seem to enjoy? |
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