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Would you arrange a long distance meet?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in the SE, one lady was in the far NE. We met one day about half way in the North Midlands.. Quick drink.. quick knee-trembler in the Travelodge .. home again.. in the equivalent of a working day…
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By *rsonMan
over a year ago
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I arranged a pretty long distance meet a couple of years ago. There was around 450 miles between our homes so we decided that instead of one of us going to visit the other’s fairly boring town, why not have a weekend away in Europe.
Spent a terrific 48 hours switching between bed, bars, sightseeing, nightclub, bed, shower, couch etc. It was one of the best weekends of my life. No expectations, take a chance, you-only-live-once kinda things.
Flew home and on the plane I found a pair of knickers in my pocket. I’d do it all again in a heartbeat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One of my FWB lived 4 hours away so yes...current one lives about 2 hours! how come so far??
Don't like them on the doorstep
...only joking. I liked them, we connect so distance isn't an issue."
ditto!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes within the UK.
If you drive and you have the resources to run it then why not make it work.
Then the time. It's precious and your willing to spend it on another person  |
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Yes i done and they have done same for me . Longest distance was almost 6 hours driving. If there's connection between both sides distance is not issue , most difficult is match the free time for that meeting  |
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Currently making tentative arrangements for just such a thing, with a married friend who fancies coming to play if my wife goes away for a few days...
....that bit's what everything will hinge on - the when, especially... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely not as in my experience the further where person is the more likely they are to cancel. Also I don't know about the rest of Fabbers but I rarely make plans more than 2 days in advance. |
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Would depend. I don't like arranging first meets where either of us have to travel a long distance as there is too much pressure on guaranteeing sex (in my mind, I get there probably isn't and that is not how others feel).
But if we've met at a social or club etc then yes, it can work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I live in southern France, and make regular visits to the UK. So for me it's a must. Trouble us finding woman and couples that are willing to give me a chance. Even though it's me that's doing all the traveling. |
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Yes I've travelled, and have spent quality time both in and out of the bedroom together. By the time you get around to arranging to meet, you've invariably exchanged numbers, and spoken at length on the phone, so you know whether there's a connection or not. It's often also been the case that me having the advantage of living in a picturesque coastal location has meant that people have been comfortable travelling to me, and I've covered some of the expense for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I could for the right person I would but I don't have enough hours to travel too far.
I've had someone travel for me, I would have done the same if I could have. The time together was always worth it  |
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"I did once, before Fab. He cancelled and so I spent a few days in Edinburgh on my own."
This is why I wouldn’t go for a long distance meet unless I happened to be in the area - in which case I guess it isn’t long distance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love going away for a couple of days to a hotel somewhere we have never been.
If we meet someone there as well it makes the trip perfect. If not we still have indulged in what we enjoy. |
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No. Yes. Depends.
In what ever shape or form, sex with others is the main aim of site users.
I wouldn't travel a long distance or an hour to meet someone I didn't know just for sex.
If I already know them well and I like them then yes -maybe. |
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I have done but I’m not sure if I would again as the distance became a little too hard to manage when it developed into more. If I was going somewhere where someone I’m getting on with is, I’d probably ask to bone down but I wouldn’t travel for that sole reason |
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"The furthest I've been (from London) is Cambridge.
However I've got a meet planned for Edinburgh early next year... I'll be going via ChooChoo train.
Fly, save your energy and time for the fun. "
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I'm booking the "Sleeper Class" carriage for the return journey...not that there will be much sleeping. |
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I travelled 3 hours for a nice social day out with a friend I'd made on here, and would happily do it again.
It's nice to explore areas I haven't been to and meet new people.
I wouldn't go that far just for a fuck though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I built up a really good relationship with someone who I trusted and we were both 'available' then absolutely yes 100% I would travel for as long as I needed too. I wouldn't travel excessive miles for someone I didn't know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My furthest away meet is about 7 hours drive , my regular meet is an 1.5 hours away . Distance really isn’t a big deal . Can’t beat having a weekend away , combine that with filth and it’s a winning combination  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Furthest I have driven is 2 and a half hours for a couple.
Well worth it, we have a great friendship and connection.
If a good connection is there and you have done all your homework, then travelling long distance shouldn't come with any risk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have, I am doing so and I will in the future probably. Some people are worth an adventure. Sometimes you just both happen to be visiting the same part of the country too. If they seem a great match and reliable, then why not.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There’s like a million people within 30 minutes of me
If I need to travel that far, I’m the problem "
But you don't Need to. Or at least I don't. You might want to. Different. |
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In the past I have, once arranged to meet someone for a night in London at fairly short notice, which was fun.
And a previous FWB lived about 60 miles away, but we were having too much fun to worry about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope I won't travel.
I had a hotel meet arranged with someone I had been chatting to for 18 months (not off fab) 40 miles away I waited for over two hours for him to arrive but gave up as he kept messaging say nearly there won't be much longer etc etc so I left and blocked him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t normally travel. I might meet somebody wonderful if they happened to be in the area, but wouldn’t fancy the pressure of them coming all that way in case we didn’t click. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People bullshit me all the time saying they're going to come and visit me but never bother, so I'm not going to go any distance either. "
ditto had plenty of them..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t normally travel. I might meet somebody wonderful if they happened to be in the area, but wouldn’t fancy the pressure of them coming all that way in case we didn’t click."
definitely empty of phone calls and video chat first
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t normally travel. I might meet somebody wonderful if they happened to be in the area, but wouldn’t fancy the pressure of them coming all that way in case we didn’t click. definitely empty of phone calls and video chat first "
plenty of calls
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t normally travel. I might meet somebody wonderful if they happened to be in the area, but wouldn’t fancy the pressure of them coming all that way in case we didn’t click. definitely empty of phone calls and video chat first "
Oh, totally. And although those give you a really good idea of how you’re going to get on, real life chemistry can still be hit or miss! |
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I've done it a few times. Depends on how well we get on via messages and calls: some people feel like good friends so I'd travel a considerable distance to meet up with them.
If it's purely about sex I'm unlikely to travel any great distance though. |
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