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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
There was a thread a few weeks back
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1221553
Its essentially people leading others on, in a non committal way, keeping a potential interest engaged. |
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By *Honey OP Woman
over a year ago
Hertfordshire |
Ahh I didn’t see that. Cheers 
"There was a thread a few weeks back
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1221553
Its essentially people leading others on, in a non committal way, keeping a potential interest engaged."
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"Ever heard of that term? How do you deal with it?"
Honestly, if someone wont commit to a thing, I have no time for them.
I have enough self respect to not let someone mess me about, and at most will give them the level of engagement they give me. |
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Now it all makes sense!
I've been perceptive to this kind of 'behaviour' but wasn't aware there was a term for it. Hence (one of) the reasons I have a section at the bottom of my profile called "My Limits".  |
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Some I walk away from immediately, some It takes me a while to recognise before I walk away, a few can lead me on for a long long time before I realise what they are doing as they ultimately hide behind the distance.
I am getting better at it but slowly |
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By *Honey OP Woman
over a year ago
Hertfordshire |
Your on point with what you’ve written. It only takes a few seconds to reply to a message
"Now it all makes sense!
I've been perceptive to this kind of 'behaviour' but wasn't aware there was a term for it. Hence (one of) the reasons I have a section at the bottom of my profile called "My Limits". "
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By *Honey OP Woman
over a year ago
Hertfordshire |
It’s hard to walk away, when you’re extremely attracted to someone especially.
"Some I walk away from immediately, some It takes me a while to recognise before I walk away, a few can lead me on for a long long time before I realise what they are doing as they ultimately hide behind the distance.
I am getting better at it but slowly "
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""leading you down the wrong path"
Whatever happened to the old fashioned terminologies 
Well it isn’t really that though I don’t think? "
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Not explicitly so, but it's still a 'form' of that. I would classify that term as a neologism. |
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