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To delete or not?
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?"
Serious question, if every answer said delete would you, even if you felt otherwise?
Surely only you know whether being on fab is a positive or negative use of your time and energy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?"
Yes. Your bio states that you keeping returning. You obviously leave for a reason and the reason is still there.
Doing the same thing and expecting different results and all that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t … you’ll lose your verifications when/if you come back.
I’m sure it’s not stale and even if it does go quiet it’s usually just for a brief period over the festive time.
You could always try something new like clubs for example.
If you did feel like going I’d recommend hiding your profile and coming back after Christmas. I’m sure it will feel different again then
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"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?
Yes. Your bio states that you keeping returning. You obviously leave for a reason and the reason is still there.
Doing the same thing and expecting different results and all that "
When i left before it was because of relationships etc but as of now its getting very tedious messaging people and gettin no reply at all for the past few months |
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"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?
Yes. Your bio states that you keeping returning. You obviously leave for a reason and the reason is still there.
Doing the same thing and expecting different results and all that
When i left before it was because of relationships etc but as of now its getting very tedious messaging people and gettin no reply at all for the past few months"
There's still a lot of people hesitant about meeting, and Xmas is coming up.
As others have said, maybe just hide your profile for a bit and see what it's like next year.
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The whole swinging scene always goes quiet in the run up to Christmas/New Year. It will perk up again around mid January.
Nothing new about this, it's been happening in all the years that I have been swinging. |
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Also if your thinking about leaving because your not getting the meets you want consider maybe going to club
Women on here gets like 100s of messages a day. Most go unopened. In a club setting your personality can shine through better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?
Yes. Your bio states that you keeping returning. You obviously leave for a reason and the reason is still there.
Doing the same thing and expecting different results and all that
When i left before it was because of relationships etc but as of now its getting very tedious messaging people and gettin no reply at all for the past few months"
So then don’t message and just have fun in the forums. There are some wonderful people who aren’t meeting but are happy with chatting and banter |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?
Yes. Your bio states that you keeping returning. You obviously leave for a reason and the reason is still there.
Doing the same thing and expecting different results and all that
When i left before it was because of relationships etc but as of now its getting very tedious messaging people and gettin no reply at all for the past few months
So then don’t message and just have fun in the forums. There are some wonderful people who aren’t meeting but are happy with chatting and banter"
But maybe he wants to meet xx |
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if you went you might miss it, and maybe miss potential meets?
It is the pandemic changing things, we are sure of it... so many people saying the same thing.
Patience might pay off, but if you go, you will never know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?"
If it’s stale for you just hide your profile for a nice break then come back re jiggered!!!
When our site supporter runs out I’m closing ours as we have run our course now which is a shame but that’s life I suppose.
Best of luck op.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?
Yes. Your bio states that you keeping returning. You obviously leave for a reason and the reason is still there.
Doing the same thing and expecting different results and all that
When i left before it was because of relationships etc but as of now its getting very tedious messaging people and gettin no reply at all for the past few months
So then don’t message and just have fun in the forums. There are some wonderful people who aren’t meeting but are happy with chatting and banter
But maybe he wants to meet xx"
I want to knock a wall down but I’m not going to constantly bang my head against it until I give up. I will find another way instead |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?
Yes. Your bio states that you keeping returning. You obviously leave for a reason and the reason is still there.
Doing the same thing and expecting different results and all that
When i left before it was because of relationships etc but as of now its getting very tedious messaging people and gettin no reply at all for the past few months
So then don’t message and just have fun in the forums. There are some wonderful people who aren’t meeting but are happy with chatting and banter
But maybe he wants to meet xx
I want to knock a wall down but I’m not going to constantly bang my head against it until I give up. I will find another way instead "
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As I’m in a new relationship I won’t delete my profile but I will hide it. I don’t fancy starting afresh if it doesn’t work out.
So that’s the more pragmatic rather than extreme approach to deleting your profile. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?"
Did you change your mind ...?! See you're still here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has anyone in the history of Fab had a noticeable uptick in traffic following announcement of imminent departure.
I can see how on one level one might think ‘well if nobody wants to play I’m taking my ball home’
On the other hand. If a shop announces it is closing down - would you bother going in to place an order?
Either way. Good luck OP.
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Has anyone in the history of Fab had a noticeable uptick in traffic following announcement of imminent departure.
I can see how on one level one might think ‘well if nobody wants to play I’m taking my ball home’
On the other hand. If a shop announces it is closing down - would you bother going in to place an order?
Either way. Good luck OP.
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Heck, don't some go mad for closing down sales??!!   |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
"Simply widen your horizons, the UK has quite a few other towns. Cities and counties.
^ this!
Travel a bit... make a mini break out of it!
Bob  "
Mini break or mini vacation is my preferred term for a meet as I see it as a getaway from the norm. Travelling to a meet has a sense of adventure to it that just adds to the experience too. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"If you want a break, hide your profile and have a break. Saves you losing everything (including verifications) if you decide to come back."
Totally agree, we all go through phases of feeling it’s all a bit blah  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you want a break, hide your profile and have a break. Saves you losing everything (including verifications) if you decide to come back.
Totally agree, we all go through phases of feeling it’s all a bit blah "
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