When I think of all of the well oiled phrases which include the word 'pounding':
*pounding headache
*pounding techno beats
*pound(ing) land...
*quarter pound-er with cheese
*the rate of the pound against the euro
...they are never positive
so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?
For me personally, being 'pounded' isn't enjoyable it demonstrates a lack of technique.. and variety... and perceptiveness.
Stop it.
The word... the idea... is an Instant turn off.
(Unless it's pounded yam)
(I love pounded yam.)
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On a serious note, the speaking for all women and all men thaf it’s never enjoyable is laughable
Everyone likes different things. Some women absolutely do like being “pounded”, some don’t. Some men like to pound, some don’t
Stop trying to project your preferences on everyone and shaming them while you at it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've never pounded.
I may speed up when im about to cum.
But as to use the term pounding away...yep,never been me.
Basically how i enjoy sex is not by fucking,i like it slow,intimate i make love.
Its the connection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never pounded.
I may speed up when im about to cum.
But as to use the term pounding away...yep,never been me.
Basically how i enjoy sex is not by fucking,i like it slow,intimate i make love.
Its the connection."
You can still have a connection, even when you’re being pounded, it’s all different shades of connection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By a bizzare coincidence I was asked this question last night in an opening message no less. But it was accompanied with "deep" and "hard".
It was not endearing in any way and in my opinion implies a lack of experience and imagination. For me, I consider pounding to be (like most things on fab) for the man's benefit/ego only.
Things like that need to be discussed and simply not given as red or taken for granted it's what women want because a man has watched it in a porn film and thinks all women love it!! |
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"On a serious note, the speaking for all women and all men thaf it’s never enjoyable is laughable
Everyone likes different things. Some women absolutely do like being “pounded”, some don’t. Some men like to pound, some don’t
Stop trying to project your preferences on everyone and shaming them while you at it "
Eh?
The OP clearly stated it was her personal take on it.
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"When I think of all of the well oiled phrases which include the word 'pounding':
*pounding headache
*pounding techno beats
*pound(ing) land...
*quarter pound-er with cheese
*the rate of the pound against the euro
...they are never positive
so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?
For me personally, being 'pounded' isn't enjoyable it demonstrates a lack of technique.. and variety... and perceptiveness.
Stop it.
The word... the idea... is an Instant turn off.
(Unless it's pounded yam)
(I love pounded yam.)
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I do agree, it is so aggressive. I don't know why it is seen as acceptable to use violent terms in sexual references....'Destroyed' 'ruin' 'pounding' are horrible, and anyone using those terms or similar won't get anywhere with me.
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"When I think of all of the well oiled phrases which include the word 'pounding':
*pounding headache
*pounding techno beats
*pound(ing) land...
*quarter pound-er with cheese
*the rate of the pound against the euro
...they are never positive
so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?
For me personally, being 'pounded' isn't enjoyable it demonstrates a lack of technique.. and variety... and perceptiveness.
Stop it.
The word... the idea... is an Instant turn off.
(Unless it's pounded yam)
(I love pounded yam.)
I do agree, it is so aggressive. I don't know why it is seen as acceptable to use violent terms in sexual references....'Destroyed' 'ruin' 'pounding' are horrible, and anyone using those terms or similar won't get anywhere with me.
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You have actually just mentioned words I was going to that I find aggressive too and would never use.
Though pounding does sound like something you would say at school trying to sound mature  |
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"Its not offensive. Its horny when theres a surge of lust and you get deep thrusts and you are in the zone.
Having a cock rammed into you like a bad dom porn film is offensive to me. "
True ramming it in isn't something i'd like! But most guys don't i'm sure, It's probably little boys would do not men. |
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"On a serious note, the speaking for all women and all men thaf it’s never enjoyable is laughable
Everyone likes different things. Some women absolutely do like being “pounded”, some don’t. Some men like to pound, some don’t
Stop trying to project your preferences on everyone and shaming them while you at it
Eh?
The OP clearly stated it was her personal take on it.
Nita"
“ so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?”
“Stop it” |
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"Personally, I enjoy it as part of an encounter  "
Part is fine... but if that's all that's on offer it's far from enticing.
I agree that the violent sounding sexual description are unpleasant, at least to me. Smash seems to be popular at the moment  
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"On a serious note, the speaking for all women and all men thaf it’s never enjoyable is laughable
Everyone likes different things. Some women absolutely do like being “pounded”, some don’t. Some men like to pound, some don’t
Stop trying to project your preferences on everyone and shaming them while you at it
Eh?
The OP clearly stated it was her personal take on it.
Nita
“ so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?”
“Stop it” "
It was generic... some people do, andbporn is particularly responsible for promoting it.
However, it was very clear to me from the post, that it was her personal thoughts on the matter. |
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"On a serious note, the speaking for all women and all men thaf it’s never enjoyable is laughable
Everyone likes different things. Some women absolutely do like being “pounded”, some don’t. Some men like to pound, some don’t
Stop trying to project your preferences on everyone and shaming them while you at it
Eh?
The OP clearly stated it was her personal take on it.
Nita
“ so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?”
“Stop it”
It was generic... some people do, andbporn is particularly responsible for promoting it.
However, it was very clear to me from the post, that it was her personal thoughts on the matter."
Doesn’t seem very generic to suggest it’s unattractive and unacceptable |
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Theres 2 women on my local updates that quote 'pounding'
one reads-
'could do with a sunday morning pounding'
Who really gives a flying fuck in all honesty  , if someone wants to use the term then whats the issue.  |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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I love giving a woman a good pounding. Something very raw and intense about roughly taking what you want (consentually).
It's a fantastic form of exercise too, the best you can get. Works the muscles, gets the heart rate up and makes you cum. It's great for the mind and body.
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Not all poundings are negative....
I enjoy the rhythm of pounding waves.... the pounding of feet on a wooden floor ..
The pounding of my heart at the end of a run .... fists pounding a table demonstrating passionate beliefs..... the pounding of dough on a kitchen surface... I've not pounded the washing for many years but it was good exercise back then  |
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so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?
For me personally, being 'pounded' isn't enjoyable it demonstrates a lack of technique.. and variety... and perceptiveness.
Stop it.
The word... the idea... is an Instant turn off.
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Completely agree. Prefer a man that can fuck with finesse. |
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"When I think of all of the well oiled phrases which include the word 'pounding':
*pounding headache
*pounding techno beats
*pound(ing) land...
*quarter pound-er with cheese
*the rate of the pound against the euro
...they are never positive
so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?
For me personally, being 'pounded' isn't enjoyable it demonstrates a lack of technique.. and variety... and perceptiveness.
Stop it.
The word... the idea... is an Instant turn off.
(Unless it's pounded yam)
(I love pounded yam.)
I do agree, it is so aggressive. I don't know why it is seen as acceptable to use violent terms in sexual references....'Destroyed' 'ruin' 'pounding' are horrible, and anyone using those terms or similar won't get anywhere with me.
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Completely agree. |
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"Since when did quarter pounder with cheese become a negative thing? 
Ooh yes. Gotta love a quarter pounder with cheese 
I prefer to call it a 'royale with cheese'
semantics and metrics innit
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cover me with flour and pound me on the kitchen worktop.
Oh that's dough. Yeah, I'm not dough just fat "
People call me do but I don't want a pounding tbh |
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"Sorry but each to their own, as I love a good hard pounding. It's so hard to find guys that will give me a good pounding. X"
No apologies needed..
pound away
If you find your..proper pounder on this thread, I'll feel just like Cilla.
Win win.
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Sometimes it can be good at the culmination of really good sex with lots of build up. However the majority of my experiences with men who have tried to "pound" me have been bad, usually painful. Smashing away at my cervix isn't fun. I would probably avoid men who expressed a keen interest in this because its not something I would regularly enjoy. Its also a bit of a sore spot for me because an ex used me not wanting him to fuck me in that way as justification for why he cheated on me. |
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It's not always a bad thing. K has asked me to pound her on occasion when she's feeling in the mood for something a bit rougher. So I suppose as with everything, different strokes for different folks 
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"When I think of all of the well oiled phrases which include the word 'pounding':
*pounding headache
*pounding techno beats
*pound(ing) land...
*quarter pound-er with cheese
*the rate of the pound against the euro
...they are never positive
so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?
For me personally, being 'pounded' isn't enjoyable it demonstrates a lack of technique.. and variety... and perceptiveness.
Stop it.
The word... the idea... is an Instant turn off.
(Unless it's pounded yam)
(I love pounded yam.)
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What's negative about techno beats, Poundland and burgers? |
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By *rsonMan
over a year ago
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"I love to be pounded and also a quarter pounder with cheese. Preferably at the same time, but I'm not overly greedy "
I dunno. I’m a big QP+C fan but I had one last night for the first time in ages and it was a bit shit. Dry or something. Maybe I liked them better in the 90s when they were dripping with grease and in orange polystyrene.
Like my women.
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