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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism?" I don't think so. It's more a preference. People do have the choice to pick who they want to meet based on what they like or prefer | |||
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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism? I don't think so. It's more a preference. People do have the choice to pick who they want to meet based on what they like or prefer " Yes but if wanted to choose who I employed I would be in the wrong even if it was my preference I'd be breaking the law advertising it | |||
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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism? I don't think so. It's more a preference. People do have the choice to pick who they want to meet based on what they like or prefer Yes but if wanted to choose who I employed I would be in the wrong even if it was my preference I'd be breaking the law advertising it" Yeah but work colleagues you ain't shagging | |||
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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism? I don't think so. It's more a preference. People do have the choice to pick who they want to meet based on what they like or prefer Yes but if wanted to choose who I employed I would be in the wrong even if it was my preference I'd be breaking the law advertising it Yeah but work colleagues you ain't shagging " There's a couple I wouldn't mind shagging  | |||
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"It's the same as people prefer gym fit or larger people. Nothing wrong with stating a preference you're not saying there's anything wrong with either side just have a preference who gets to play No different to saying no under 20s or over 50s for example " Ah ageist as well !!  | |||
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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism?" But this is not advertising it's more like a fantasy world for most people and there are no laws on here only rules. People choose who they want to sleep with be it black,white, tall ,short, curvy,slim,bald or hairy ,that's just the way it is | |||
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"everyone has freedom about who they meet but if you exclude a group on grounds of race it does not look good " Exactly, your choice of who you meet is something that you decide in private not something you openly advertise | |||
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"It's the same as people prefer gym fit or larger people. Nothing wrong with stating a preference you're not saying there's anything wrong with either side just have a preference who gets to play No different to saying no under 20s or over 50s for example Ah ageist as well !! "And sizist if you're being picky but still it's different if it's work related as refusing someone a job based on how they look how old they are or colour of their skin affects their income. Who you have sex with doesn't | |||
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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism? I don't think so. It's more a preference. People do have the choice to pick who they want to meet based on what they like or prefer Yes but if wanted to choose who I employed I would be in the wrong even if it was my preference I'd be breaking the law advertising it" its called sexual preference.... you dont have that for work | |||
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"It's the same as people prefer gym fit or larger people. Nothing wrong with stating a preference you're not saying there's anything wrong with either side just have a preference who gets to play No different to saying no under 20s or over 50s for example Ah ageist as well !!
And sizist if you're being picky but still it's different if it's work related as refusing someone a job based on how they look how old they are or colour of their skin affects their income. Who you have sex with doesn't "Ok change the situation. If I wanted to start up a Sunday morning swimming club and stated "no chinese" or "white only" on the advert I'd still be in the wrong but on here its commonplace | |||
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"everyone has freedom about who they meet but if you exclude a group on grounds of race it does not look good Exactly, your choice of who you meet is something that you decide in private not something you openly advertise " If having a preference of who you want to sleep with is racist then I'd rather know someone is racist publicly.Theost dangerous racists are the ones who pretend not to be racists in public and be members of the KKK in the shadows | |||
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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism? I don't think so. It's more a preference. People do have the choice to pick who they want to meet based on what they like or prefer Yes but if wanted to choose who I employed I would be in the wrong even if it was my preference I'd be breaking the law advertising it its called sexual preference.... you dont have that for work" you do but it's more along the lines of sexual harassment lol nah, asking for trouble flirting with colleagues at work I say | |||
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"everyone has freedom about who they meet but if you exclude a group on grounds of race it does not look good Exactly, your choice of who you meet is something that you decide in private not something you openly advertise If having a preference of who you want to sleep with is racist then I'd rather know someone is racist publicly.Theost dangerous racists are the ones who pretend not to be racists in public and be members of the KKK in the shadows " Shit! There's members if KKK on fab? When did this happen??  | |||
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"everyone has freedom about who they meet but if you exclude a group on grounds of race it does not look good Exactly, your choice of who you meet is something that you decide in private not something you openly advertise If having a preference of who you want to sleep with is racist then I'd rather know someone is racist publicly.Theost dangerous racists are the ones who pretend not to be racists in public and be members of the KKK in the shadows Shit! There's members if KKK on fab? When did this happen?? "Usually people who start such threads would have messaged a woman or couple who only want to meet Black guys | |||
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"everyone has freedom about who they meet but if you exclude a group on grounds of race it does not look good Exactly, your choice of who you meet is something that you decide in private not something you openly advertise If having a preference of who you want to sleep with is racist then I'd rather know someone is racist publicly.Theost dangerous racists are the ones who pretend not to be racists in public and be members of the KKK in the shadows Shit! There's members if KKK on fab? When did this happen??
Usually people who start such threads would have messaged a woman or couple who only want to meet Black guys "Not me, I don't message anyone who hasn't messaged me first | |||
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 its a preference. Not racism, its stating what they want and dont want. | |||
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"I prefer to ignore profiles that I don't have anything in common with and don't concern myself with what they have on their profile. On my very first facepic Friday on here I sent a pic to a popular couple who were also on the thread. They didn't return the favour but replied that I might have been hot if I wasn't Irish. They may have had a preference for non Irish people but it could easily have been interpreted as xenophobia just in the way it was worded. " Tbf, I think that's quite on odd thing for them to say. Albeit, the reasons may or may not have been malicious. You did the right thing, don't make a fuss, try not to second guess what they actually meant, it may have been innocent, and just move on. | |||
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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism?" Long time coming mate. Good shout!! Very very very long way to go. Ps. Karma has no skin colour. All our blood bleeds " Red" intelligence is a level far deep not only what the eyes wish to see. If the heart is rotten from within the Minds are corrupt!! Peace | |||
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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism? I don't think so. It's more a preference. People do have the choice to pick who they want to meet based on what they like or prefer Yes but if wanted to choose who I employed I would be in the wrong even if it was my preference I'd be breaking the law advertising it" Rightly so said. Some may and have all the qualities and tact yet will be judged by the tone of skin! But all this runs way deep from history!! | |||
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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism? I don't think so. It's more a preference. People do have the choice to pick who they want to meet based on what they like or prefer Yes but if wanted to choose who I employed I would be in the wrong even if it was my preference I'd be breaking the law advertising it Yeah but work colleagues you ain't shagging There's a couple I wouldn't mind shagging "Same here. Lol  | |||
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"everyone has freedom about who they meet but if you exclude a group on grounds of race it does not look good " There you go. Hit the very Nail on the Head!! Well said sir. | |||
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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism? I don't think so. It's more a preference. People do have the choice to pick who they want to meet based on what they like or prefer Yes but if wanted to choose who I employed I would be in the wrong even if it was my preference I'd be breaking the law advertising it Rightly so said. Some may and have all the qualities and tact yet will be judged by the tone of skin! But all this runs way deep from history!! " Or people prefer some physical traits over another and that's absolutely fine. You definitely will, I definitely do and every other person does. Yes these can be overcome when you know someone and find that person attractive from the inside, but this a site predominantly for fucking and the physical side really does matter. Stop making this something it isn't because you're struggling on here. | |||
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"What a world we live in when you can't publicly state what you're sexual preference, especially on a site where people are openly looking for sex, without someone thinking it's racist. The world has gone mad I tell you. You fancy who you fancy. In no way is it acceptable for people to be discriminated in life on gender, sexual orientation, race or anything else, but this isn't discrimination. This is personal choice. This isn't the 'work place' or a 'swimming club' and people applying to be apart of those things. This is a place where people choose to be intimate with each other. Their bodies, their choice. That goes for every single person on here." Well said. | |||
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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism? I don't think so. It's more a preference. People do have the choice to pick who they want to meet based on what they like or prefer Yes but if wanted to choose who I employed I would be in the wrong even if it was my preference I'd be breaking the law advertising it Yeah but work colleagues you ain't shagging There's a couple I wouldn't mind shagging "So put up a screenshot, printed copy of your profile on the works notice board and see how far gets you. | |||
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"It's the same as people prefer gym fit or larger people. Nothing wrong with stating a preference you're not saying there's anything wrong with either side just have a preference who gets to play No different to saying no under 20s or over 50s for example Ah ageist as well !!
And sizist if you're being picky but still it's different if it's work related as refusing someone a job based on how they look how old they are or colour of their skin affects their income. Who you have sex with doesn't
Ok change the situation. If I wanted to start up a Sunday morning swimming club and stated "no chinese" or "white only" on the advert I'd still be in the wrong but on here its commonplace "Exactly. Many still fighting the corner!! This Gent has a very simple point? But it runs deep. And many are running from it fast. | |||
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"everyone has freedom about who they meet but if you exclude a group on grounds of race it does not look good Exactly, your choice of who you meet is something that you decide in private not something you openly advertise If having a preference of who you want to sleep with is racist then I'd rather know someone is racist publicly.Theost dangerous racists are the ones who pretend not to be racists in public and be members of the KKK in the shadows Shit! There's members if KKK on fab? When did this happen?? "Undercover beware ... in the shadows!! Lol | |||
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"It's the same as people prefer gym fit or larger people. Nothing wrong with stating a preference you're not saying there's anything wrong with either side just have a preference who gets to play No different to saying no under 20s or over 50s for example Ah ageist as well !!
And sizist if you're being picky but still it's different if it's work related as refusing someone a job based on how they look how old they are or colour of their skin affects their income. Who you have sex with doesn't
Ok change the situation. If I wanted to start up a Sunday morning swimming club and stated "no chinese" or "white only" on the advert I'd still be in the wrong but on here its commonplace
Exactly. Many still fighting the corner!!
This Gent has a very simple point?
But it runs deep. And many are running from it fast.
"It's not the same. You are talking about running a business. We are here for leisure, sexual pleasure not goods or services exchange. | |||
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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism?" This statement is bs no ones applying for a job on here, stop being so PC! I'm sure you have traits that you look for in a woman! I like big peachy asses hope that doesn't offend haha Seriously to the person who started this moronic thread get a grip! | |||
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"Firstly I wouldn't compare it to a work environment. We aren't forced by law here in the same way. We can all strive to obide same moral code and aspire to similar decency level, but you cannot make people have sex with everyone by accusing them of racism. Secondly, no I do not agree with plastering it on your profile, but you should be able to pick and chose. You just don't need to be be so obvious and brutal about it as race isn't something we can change. So why make people feel crap about it? You are who you are. There is someone for everyone. " I agree. I personally wouldn't put my preferences or non preferences on my profile in regards to the type of people I'm looking for. However, I believe it's people's right and perogative to do so if they wish to choose. | |||
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"everyone has freedom about who they meet but if you exclude a group on grounds of race it does not look good Exactly, your choice of who you meet is something that you decide in private not something you openly advertise If having a preference of who you want to sleep with is racist then I'd rather know someone is racist publicly.Theost dangerous racists are the ones who pretend not to be racists in public and be members of the KKK in the shadows Shit! There's members if KKK on fab? When did this happen??
Usually people who start such threads would have messaged a woman or couple who only want to meet Black guys
Not me, I don't message anyone who hasn't messaged me first "Well batted back OP. this media and keyboard style has killed cracking potentials of people connections far repairable! | |||
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"I have personal preference for middle eastern folk, I have no idea why and its not even a conscious decision, it's just what I'm attracted to. Some people are attracted to guys, some to girls, some to both. Every other profile on here states 'not looking for single guys' Doesn't make them homophobic, it just means that guys are their thing" *aren't their thing* | |||
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"Well I think when you want to have sex with someone or be with them that way, you are allowed to have preferences. Some are ultra specific some not so much. It’s okay either way as you are getting involved on a very personal level! When it comes to work or whatever, you pick the best candidate for the job out of a bunch, and that’s regardless of gender, age, race, height, dick size/vag depth etc x " Well well glad you broke it down like that. On the very same note a lady applied for a job .she had all the experience and Qualifications needed for the Job role. She went for the interview ,in the interview she was told she is over qualified! She left , it did not sit well with her. She reapplied for that very same job, she made Some changes to her CV ie name, race ,religion etc. And sent it off. Got a called in again .. When she turned up it was the very same interviewer. And she was shocked! Same person same experience,qualifications yet the detail on her CV Was what got her there! She was Black. Funny heh | |||
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"I have personal preference for middle eastern folk, I have no idea why and its not even a conscious decision, it's just what I'm attracted to. Some people are attracted to guys, some to girls, some to both. Every other profile on here states 'not looking for single guys' Doesn't make them homophobic, it just means that guys are their thing" Preferences are preferences!! Stating that you don’t want a certain thing is absolutely fine….if the reason why you don’t want someone is a derogatory reason because of the colour of their skin (or towards another protected characteristic) then you will be considered racist (or offensive). | |||
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"I prefer to ignore profiles that I don't have anything in common with and don't concern myself with what they have on their profile. On my very first facepic Friday on here I sent a pic to a popular couple who were also on the thread. They didn't return the favour but replied that I might have been hot if I wasn't Irish. They may have had a preference for non Irish people but it could easily have been interpreted as xenophobia just in the way it was worded. " Very strange so your Irish essay held you back. Oooops it held them back!! I Adore the Irish I grew up with them in London. | |||
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"I have personal preference for middle eastern folk, I have no idea why and its not even a conscious decision, it's just what I'm attracted to. Some people are attracted to guys, some to girls, some to both. Every other profile on here states 'not looking for single guys' Doesn't make them homophobic, it just means that guys are their thing Preferences are preferences!! Stating that you don’t want a certain thing is absolutely fine….if the reason why you don’t want someone is a derogatory reason because of the colour of their skin (or towards another protected characteristic) then you will be considered racist (or offensive). "well if your profile states no Asians or black men only surely that's because of the colour of their skin? | |||
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"I have personal preference for middle eastern folk, I have no idea why and its not even a conscious decision, it's just what I'm attracted to. Some people are attracted to guys, some to girls, some to both. Every other profile on here states 'not looking for single guys' Doesn't make them homophobic, it just means that guys are their thing Preferences are preferences!! Stating that you don’t want a certain thing is absolutely fine….if the reason why you don’t want someone is a derogatory reason because of the colour of their skin (or towards another protected characteristic) then you will be considered racist (or offensive). well if your profile states no Asians or black men only surely that's because of the colour of their skin?"Maybe…maybe not….everyone has their reasons and I believe it’s each to their own….no ones displays on their profile the reasons why they don’t want a certain type and unfortunately it leads to people speculating and throwing accusations at them! Can’t you just respect the fact that they don’t with to meet a certain type?? | |||
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"I prefer to ignore profiles that I don't have anything in common with and don't concern myself with what they have on their profile. On my very first facepic Friday on here I sent a pic to a popular couple who were also on the thread. They didn't return the favour but replied that I might have been hot if I wasn't Irish. They may have had a preference for non Irish people but it could easily have been interpreted as xenophobia just in the way it was worded. Tbf, I think that's quite on odd thing for them to say. Albeit, the reasons may or may not have been malicious. You did the right thing, don't make a fuss, try not to second guess what they actually meant, it may have been innocent, and just move on." In this case it was this gents irishness comment that is the core of what was intended! Race,Colour,eye Colour is a wrapper. Like some products same internal. Yet the outer is a slight diff shape. & "COLOUR" same deeper problem we are having here. People are being BOXED and put into Catogrie's because of whom they are,race,Colour,background religion etc etc etc . It is far damaging for society as a whole no matter who the pie piper and Bandwagon Leader is at the moment.. All these things we people and humans do have conciecquences and affect all of us " Directly & indirectly" some can not see the energy vibrations we all let off and out. Be mindful be like water. Peace | |||
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"I prefer to ignore profiles that I don't have anything in common with and don't concern myself with what they have on their profile. On my very first facepic Friday on here I sent a pic to a popular couple who were also on the thread. They didn't return the favour but replied that I might have been hot if I wasn't Irish. They may have had a preference for non Irish people but it could easily have been interpreted as xenophobia just in the way it was worded. Tbf, I think that's quite on odd thing for them to say. Albeit, the reasons may or may not have been malicious. You did the right thing, don't make a fuss, try not to second guess what they actually meant, it may have been innocent, and just move on. In this case it was this gents irishness comment that is the core of what was intended! Race,Colour,eye Colour is a wrapper. Like some products same internal. Yet the outer is a slight diff shape. & "COLOUR" same deeper problem we are having here. People are being BOXED and put into Catogrie's because of whom they are,race,Colour,background religion etc etc etc . It is far damaging for society as a whole no matter who the pie piper and Bandwagon Leader is at the moment.. All these things we people and humans do have conciecquences and affect all of us " Directly & indirectly" some can not see the energy vibrations we all let off and out. Be mindful be like water. Peace " Yess be like water, never seen racist water  | |||
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"It's the same as people prefer gym fit or larger people. Nothing wrong with stating a preference you're not saying there's anything wrong with either side just have a preference who gets to play No different to saying no under 20s or over 50s for example Ah ageist as well !!
And sizist if you're being picky but still it's different if it's work related as refusing someone a job based on how they look how old they are or colour of their skin affects their income. Who you have sex with doesn't
Ok change the situation. If I wanted to start up a Sunday morning swimming club and stated "no chinese" or "white only" on the advert I'd still be in the wrong but on here its commonplace
Exactly. Many still fighting the corner!!
This Gent has a very simple point?
But it runs deep. And many are running from it fast.
It's not the same. You are talking about running a business. We are here for leisure, sexual pleasure not goods or services exchange. "So why the powerplay & powerstruggle! It's back to basics yet again Sexual pleasure as you rightly said. But people/people's have yet again polluted and ruined a simple form like everything around us.. | |||
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"I prefer to ignore profiles that I don't have anything in common with and don't concern myself with what they have on their profile. On my very first facepic Friday on here I sent a pic to a popular couple who were also on the thread. They didn't return the favour but replied that I might have been hot if I wasn't Irish. They may have had a preference for non Irish people but it could easily have been interpreted as xenophobia just in the way it was worded. Tbf, I think that's quite on odd thing for them to say. Albeit, the reasons may or may not have been malicious. You did the right thing, don't make a fuss, try not to second guess what they actually meant, it may have been innocent, and just move on. In this case it was this gents irishness comment that is the core of what was intended! Race,Colour,eye Colour is a wrapper. Like some products same internal. Yet the outer is a slight diff shape. & "COLOUR" same deeper problem we are having here. People are being BOXED and put into Catogrie's because of whom they are,race,Colour,background religion etc etc etc . It is far damaging for society as a whole no matter who the pie piper and Bandwagon Leader is at the moment.. All these things we people and humans do have conciecquences and affect all of us " Directly & indirectly" some can not see the energy vibrations we all let off and out. Be mindful be like water. Peace Yess be like water, never seen racist water "Love a good Bruce Lee quote | |||
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"My love of black women clearly demonstrates that I am not racist or sexist!" Good for you sir. May it long continue your journey of colourful pleasures May I ask what is the reaction from your very close friends? & family? Of your very acquired taste. If I may say so. | |||
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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism?" How can you ever start to compare your sexual preferences with advertising a job?? But let’s go with it for now to appease your thinking. Job advertisements are selective. If you were advertising for a brain surgeon you wouldn’t select a tree surgeon just because they were a surgeon of types. They advertise and select the most suitable people for interview and ultimately employment. Fab is also a selection process based on preferences. Preferences are based on different things for different people. That doesn’t mean they are racist, ageist, or anything of the sort. You select your friends, the people you interact with. You select the books you read. The films you watch. Life is about selection and choice. On fab their are people who are open about their individual choices and in contrast there people who aren’t for FOMO or genuinely don’t care. That is their choice the same as you make your choices unless of course you believe that people should not be allowed to have individual preferences that is a completely different conversation. | |||
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"But choosing a sexual partner isn’t a job? " it is a job n half on Fab. Tick boxes hoops powerstruggles to war with. Can come away with a flat tyre,not wishing to jack it up and even change it. Heh ho fabba dabba door. | |||
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"It's the same as people prefer gym fit or larger people. Nothing wrong with stating a preference you're not saying there's anything wrong with either side just have a preference who gets to play No different to saying no under 20s or over 50s for example Ah ageist as well !!
And sizist if you're being picky but still it's different if it's work related as refusing someone a job based on how they look how old they are or colour of their skin affects their income. Who you have sex with doesn't
Ok change the situation. If I wanted to start up a Sunday morning swimming club and stated "no chinese" or "white only" on the advert I'd still be in the wrong but on here its commonplace
Exactly. Many still fighting the corner!!
This Gent has a very simple point?
But it runs deep. And many are running from it fast.
It's not the same. You are talking about running a business. We are here for leisure, sexual pleasure not goods or services exchange.
So why the powerplay & powerstruggle!
It's back to basics yet again
Sexual pleasure as you rightly said.
But people/people's have yet again polluted and ruined a simple form like everything around us.. "I did not understand point you were trying to make. | |||
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"Having preferences is quite different to ruling out an entire race of people and stating it on your profile. Saying "I like tall men" is showing a positive preference. And people who write "no Asians" etc on a profile - I call it what it is. Racist. There was a thread recently about short(er) men and everyone jumped in to be reassuring and nice. BBW women get loads of support and positivity. What a contrast. "I have spoken to people who have “no …” on their profiles and I always get the same answer from them. They have unfortunately had to spell it out in no uncertain terms as the positive preferences approach doesn’t work. Saying you prefer taller men, while positive preference, will be seen as a loose preference too many to try their ‘luck’ while being shorter than you. We will always have preferences that can be negotiated and some that can not | |||
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"Seems it's racist unless it's about who you have sex with, then it's preference. What the last few years has shown us is that racism still is very commonplace. It's unfathomable to me that you can discount and entire race of people based purely on their skin colour. To someone like me, skin colour doesn't come into attraction, I either fancy them or I don't. I don't care what colour you are, if you're hot to me, I'd want to have sex with you. " But what about a person’s sex? Do you discount all men being a straight guy? | |||
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"Personally I agree. Generally I'd go for white ladies but that does not mean I'd rule and other race of woman to me it's a little racist. But obviously women can get away with it on fab calling it preference when it's 100% undercover racism" Thank you for being honest. | |||
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"I prefer to ignore profiles that I don't have anything in common with and don't concern myself with what they have on their profile. On my very first facepic Friday on here I sent a pic to a popular couple who were also on the thread. They didn't return the favour but replied that I might have been hot if I wasn't Irish. They may have had a preference for non Irish people but it could easily have been interpreted as xenophobia just in the way it was worded. Tbf, I think that's quite on odd thing for them to say. Albeit, the reasons may or may not have been malicious. You did the right thing, don't make a fuss, try not to second guess what they actually meant, it may have been innocent, and just move on. In this case it was this gents irishness comment that is the core of what was intended! Race,Colour,eye Colour is a wrapper. Like some products same internal. Yet the outer is a slight diff shape. & "COLOUR" same deeper problem we are having here. People are being BOXED and put into Catogrie's because of whom they are,race,Colour,background religion etc etc etc . It is far damaging for society as a whole no matter who the pie piper and Bandwagon Leader is at the moment.. All these things we people and humans do have conciecquences and affect all of us " Directly & indirectly" some can not see the energy vibrations we all let off and out. Be mindful be like water. Peace Yess be like water, never seen racist water
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"Having preferences is quite different to ruling out an entire race of people and stating it on your profile. Saying "I like tall men" is showing a positive preference. And people who write "no Asians" etc on a profile - I call it what it is. Racist. There was a thread recently about short(er) men and everyone jumped in to be reassuring and nice. BBW women get loads of support and positivity. What a contrast.
I have spoken to people who have “no …” on their profiles and I always get the same answer from them. They have unfortunately had to spell it out in no uncertain terms as the positive preferences approach doesn’t work.
Saying you prefer taller men, while positive preference, will be seen as a loose preference too many to try their ‘luck’ while being shorter than you.
We will always have preferences that can be negotiated and some that can not"That's just the site, TBG. saying what you want or don't want on your profile makes no difference to the majority of people who won't read it. If they did, I wouldn't get most of the messages I get! Imagine being an black or Asian guy and reading that on profile after profile. In addition to the casual racism they encounter in the workplace and elsewhere. Daily. I've read first hand accounts of how that feels for people. | |||
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"Seems it's racist unless it's about who you have sex with, then it's preference. What the last few years has shown us is that racism still is very commonplace. It's unfathomable to me that you can discount and entire race of people based purely on their skin colour. To someone like me, skin colour doesn't come into attraction, I either fancy them or I don't. I don't care what colour you are, if you're hot to me, I'd want to have sex with you. " Clearly, I think if someone automatically says never. There’s a deep rooted pre-conception going on somewhere that is creating a barrier in their mind. Personally speaking, I’m more attracted to white guys and tend to gravitate around white dudes, but I’ve been with guys who are black, Arab etc Never with an oriental guy tho, as generally I find them not my taste, maybe I get feminine vibes? But either way, it’s not a never as I’ve seen some handsome oriental guys (like the guy who did Crazy rich Asians! He’s a fiiiiineeee man) But if someone rejects a whole race no matter what, well, I see your point! | |||
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"I have personal preference for middle eastern folk, I have no idea why and its not even a conscious decision, it's just what I'm attracted to. Some people are attracted to guys, some to girls, some to both. Every other profile on here states 'not looking for single guys' Doesn't make them homophobic, it just means that guys are their thing Preferences are preferences!! Stating that you don’t want a certain thing is absolutely fine….if the reason why you don’t want someone is a derogatory reason because of the colour of their skin (or towards another protected characteristic) then you will be considered racist (or offensive). well if your profile states no Asians or black men only surely that's because of the colour of their skin?"Erm... was thinking the very same!! Say if any one of us was " Blind" what would we see??? | |||
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"Seems it's racist unless it's about who you have sex with, then it's preference. What the last few years has shown us is that racism still is very commonplace. It's unfathomable to me that you can discount and entire race of people based purely on their skin colour. To someone like me, skin colour doesn't come into attraction, I either fancy them or I don't. I don't care what colour you are, if you're hot to me, I'd want to have sex with you. But what about a person’s sex? Do you discount all men being a straight guy?" Never say never. | |||
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"Having preferences is quite different to ruling out an entire race of people and stating it on your profile. Saying "I like tall men" is showing a positive preference. And people who write "no Asians" etc on a profile - I call it what it is. Racist. There was a thread recently about short(er) men and everyone jumped in to be reassuring and nice. BBW women get loads of support and positivity. What a contrast.
I have spoken to people who have “no …” on their profiles and I always get the same answer from them. They have unfortunately had to spell it out in no uncertain terms as the positive preferences approach doesn’t work.
Saying you prefer taller men, while positive preference, will be seen as a loose preference too many to try their ‘luck’ while being shorter than you.
We will always have preferences that can be negotiated and some that can not
That's just the site, TBG. saying what you want or don't want on your profile makes no difference to the majority of people who won't read it. If they did, I wouldn't get most of the messages I get! Imagine being an black or Asian guy and reading that on profile after profile. In addition to the casual racism they encounter in the workplace and elsewhere. Daily. I've read first hand accounts of how that feels for people. "And there are also profiles that state looking for BBC only. That is discriminates against me personally on 2 levels. How does that make me feel? | |||
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But then again, I also don't mention that in my bio...if someone is not my type, I just tell them so.
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"Having preferences is quite different to ruling out an entire race of people and stating it on your profile. Saying "I like tall men" is showing a positive preference. And people who write "no Asians" etc on a profile - I call it what it is. Racist. There was a thread recently about short(er) men and everyone jumped in to be reassuring and nice. BBW women get loads of support and positivity. What a contrast.
I have spoken to people who have “no …” on their profiles and I always get the same answer from them. They have unfortunately had to spell it out in no uncertain terms as the positive preferences approach doesn’t work.
Saying you prefer taller men, while positive preference, will be seen as a loose preference too many to try their ‘luck’ while being shorter than you.
We will always have preferences that can be negotiated and some that can not
That's just the site, TBG. saying what you want or don't want on your profile makes no difference to the majority of people who won't read it. If they did, I wouldn't get most of the messages I get! Imagine being an black or Asian guy and reading that on profile after profile. In addition to the casual racism they encounter in the workplace and elsewhere. Daily. I've read first hand accounts of how that feels for people.
And there are also profiles that state looking for BBC only. That is discriminates against me personally on 2 levels. How does that make me feel?"I see those quotes (BBC or black guys only) more than people saying not interested quite frankly! | |||
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"Having preferences is quite different to ruling out an entire race of people and stating it on your profile. Saying "I like tall men" is showing a positive preference. And people who write "no Asians" etc on a profile - I call it what it is. Racist. There was a thread recently about short(er) men and everyone jumped in to be reassuring and nice. BBW women get loads of support and positivity. What a contrast.
I have spoken to people who have “no …” on their profiles and I always get the same answer from them. They have unfortunately had to spell it out in no uncertain terms as the positive preferences approach doesn’t work.
Saying you prefer taller men, while positive preference, will be seen as a loose preference too many to try their ‘luck’ while being shorter than you.
We will always have preferences that can be negotiated and some that can not
That's just the site, TBG. saying what you want or don't want on your profile makes no difference to the majority of people who won't read it. If they did, I wouldn't get most of the messages I get! Imagine being an black or Asian guy and reading that on profile after profile. In addition to the casual racism they encounter in the workplace and elsewhere. Daily. I've read first hand accounts of how that feels for people.
And there are also profiles that state looking for BBC only. That is discriminates against me personally on 2 levels. How does that make me feel?"I don't know, how do you feel? I don't think that that's an equal comparison. You have white privilege. You won't have had instances all your life of being judged because of the colour of your skin. We have a different perspective on this issue, I don't wish to argue with you, my friend. | |||
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"Having preferences is quite different to ruling out an entire race of people and stating it on your profile. Saying "I like tall men" is showing a positive preference. And people who write "no Asians" etc on a profile - I call it what it is. Racist. There was a thread recently about short(er) men and everyone jumped in to be reassuring and nice. BBW women get loads of support and positivity. What a contrast. "Agreed. You never see the preferences reverted but imagine if it was | |||
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"Having preferences is quite different to ruling out an entire race of people and stating it on your profile. Saying "I like tall men" is showing a positive preference. And people who write "no Asians" etc on a profile - I call it what it is. Racist. There was a thread recently about short(er) men and everyone jumped in to be reassuring and nice. BBW women get loads of support and positivity. What a contrast.
I have spoken to people who have “no …” on their profiles and I always get the same answer from them. They have unfortunately had to spell it out in no uncertain terms as the positive preferences approach doesn’t work.
Saying you prefer taller men, while positive preference, will be seen as a loose preference too many to try their ‘luck’ while being shorter than you.
We will always have preferences that can be negotiated and some that can not
That's just the site, TBG. saying what you want or don't want on your profile makes no difference to the majority of people who won't read it. If they did, I wouldn't get most of the messages I get! Imagine being an black or Asian guy and reading that on profile after profile. In addition to the casual racism they encounter in the workplace and elsewhere. Daily. I've read first hand accounts of how that feels for people.
And there are also profiles that state looking for BBC only. That is discriminates against me personally on 2 levels. How does that make me feel?
I don't know, how do you feel? I don't think that that's an equal comparison. You have white privilege. You won't have had instances all your life of being judged because of the colour of your skin. We have a different perspective on this issue, I don't wish to argue with you, my friend. "We aren’t arguing and yes I have been discriminated against and I have been judged unfairly for 20+ years. So I would not say I am not privileged in anyway. That would suggest that my life has been somehow easier which trust me it hasn’t. I have fought and worked hard for everything I have in my life and will continue to do so. Just to add something but positive discrimination is still discrimination | |||
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"Well since you put it that way...I am homophobic because I don't want to have sex with men?
But then again, I also don't mention that in my bio...if someone is not my type, I just tell them so.
In the case of women who get thousands of messages per day, it might help to put exactly what they want( and don't want) in their bio. Will save them a few extra messages to reject"Of course not, because you are straight so you aren’t attracted to men. But I think saying “ID NEVER EVER EVER BE ATTRACTED TO … (example) A BLACK WOMAN ” So totally rejecting a race, that’s quite a statement in my opinion. Like everyone has preferences I think, but generally speaking I think it’s how you go on about stating the preferences and yeah maybe be open minded? I do love real tall dudes (and ideally if someone is really tall then generally he’s in my graces  ), but I have been with a lot of shorter guys and had an amazing time x | |||
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" its a preference. Not racism, its stating what they want and dont want. "Many have said "personal preference" is not racism as if that is the end of the matter. However, if an employer turned down a suitable Asian applicant for a job because he had a "preference" for white people. Would that be considered racist? Conversely is "personal preference" a valid defence against a charge of racism? It is a complex issue where the Fab cliché of "personal preference" does not offer a universal solution. Having said that there are no Laws that I know of that force you to fuck someone you don't fancy because they are from another ethnic group. | |||
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"Having preferences is quite different to ruling out an entire race of people and stating it on your profile. Saying "I like tall men" is showing a positive preference. And people who write "no Asians" etc on a profile - I call it what it is. Racist. There was a thread recently about short(er) men and everyone jumped in to be reassuring and nice. BBW women get loads of support and positivity. What a contrast.
I have spoken to people who have “no …” on their profiles and I always get the same answer from them. They have unfortunately had to spell it out in no uncertain terms as the positive preferences approach doesn’t work.
Saying you prefer taller men, while positive preference, will be seen as a loose preference too many to try their ‘luck’ while being shorter than you.
We will always have preferences that can be negotiated and some that can not
That's just the site, TBG. saying what you want or don't want on your profile makes no difference to the majority of people who won't read it. If they did, I wouldn't get most of the messages I get! Imagine being an black or Asian guy and reading that on profile after profile. In addition to the casual racism they encounter in the workplace and elsewhere. Daily. I've read first hand accounts of how that feels for people.
And there are also profiles that state looking for BBC only. That is discriminates against me personally on 2 levels. How does that make me feel?
I don't know, how do you feel? I don't think that that's an equal comparison. You have white privilege. You won't have had instances all your life of being judged because of the colour of your skin. We have a different perspective on this issue, I don't wish to argue with you, my friend.
We aren’t arguing and yes I have been discriminated against and I have been judged unfairly for 20+ years. So I would not say I am not privileged in anyway. That would suggest that my life has been somehow easier which trust me it hasn’t. I have fought and worked hard for everything I have in my life and will continue to do so.
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"Having preferences is quite different to ruling out an entire race of people and stating it on your profile. Saying "I like tall men" is showing a positive preference. And people who write "no Asians" etc on a profile - I call it what it is. Racist. There was a thread recently about short(er) men and everyone jumped in to be reassuring and nice. BBW women get loads of support and positivity. What a contrast.
I have spoken to people who have “no …” on their profiles and I always get the same answer from them. They have unfortunately had to spell it out in no uncertain terms as the positive preferences approach doesn’t work.
Saying you prefer taller men, while positive preference, will be seen as a loose preference too many to try their ‘luck’ while being shorter than you.
We will always have preferences that can be negotiated and some that can not
That's just the site, TBG. saying what you want or don't want on your profile makes no difference to the majority of people who won't read it. If they did, I wouldn't get most of the messages I get! Imagine being an black or Asian guy and reading that on profile after profile. In addition to the casual racism they encounter in the workplace and elsewhere. Daily. I've read first hand accounts of how that feels for people.
And there are also profiles that state looking for BBC only. That is discriminates against me personally on 2 levels. How does that make me feel?
I don't know, how do you feel? I don't think that that's an equal comparison. You have white privilege. You won't have had instances all your life of being judged because of the colour of your skin. We have a different perspective on this issue, I don't wish to argue with you, my friend. "The BBC preferences don't bother me in the slightest but to say someone has the benefit of white privilege doesn't sit well with me. I'm white but grew up in an environment where I was discriminated against because of my religion. I've never been judged on the colour of my skin but I've been told by a certain sector of the community that I had little or no value because I was an Irish Catholic. I've been made feel like a second class citizen by those who were running the country. I've also seen the signs on doors and windows that said " No blacks, no dogs and no Irish". These aren't urban myths by the way so the fact I am white has never equated to privilege. | |||
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"What a world we live in when you can't publicly state what you're sexual preference, especially on a site where people are openly looking for sex, without someone thinking it's racist. The world has gone mad I tell you. You fancy who you fancy. In no way is it acceptable for people to be discriminated in life on gender, sexual orientation, race or anything else, but this isn't discrimination. This is personal choice. This isn't the 'work place' or a 'swimming club' and people applying to be apart of those things. This is a place where people choose to be intimate with each other. Their bodies, their choice. That goes for every single person on here." | |||
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"Having preferences is quite different to ruling out an entire race of people and stating it on your profile. Saying "I like tall men" is showing a positive preference. And people who write "no Asians" etc on a profile - I call it what it is. Racist. There was a thread recently about short(er) men and everyone jumped in to be reassuring and nice. BBW women get loads of support and positivity. What a contrast.
I have spoken to people who have “no …” on their profiles and I always get the same answer from them. They have unfortunately had to spell it out in no uncertain terms as the positive preferences approach doesn’t work.
Saying you prefer taller men, while positive preference, will be seen as a loose preference too many to try their ‘luck’ while being shorter than you.
We will always have preferences that can be negotiated and some that can not
That's just the site, TBG. saying what you want or don't want on your profile makes no difference to the majority of people who won't read it. If they did, I wouldn't get most of the messages I get! Imagine being an black or Asian guy and reading that on profile after profile. In addition to the casual racism they encounter in the workplace and elsewhere. Daily. I've read first hand accounts of how that feels for people.
And there are also profiles that state looking for BBC only. That is discriminates against me personally on 2 levels. How does that make me feel?
I don't know, how do you feel? I don't think that that's an equal comparison. You have white privilege. You won't have had instances all your life of being judged because of the colour of your skin. We have a different perspective on this issue, I don't wish to argue with you, my friend.
We aren’t arguing and yes I have been discriminated against and I have been judged unfairly for 20+ years. So I would not say I am not privileged in anyway. That would suggest that my life has been somehow easier which trust me it hasn’t. I have fought and worked hard for everything I have in my life and will continue to do so.
Just to add something but positive discrimination is still discrimination
I wasn't suggesting your life has been easy or that you haven't encountered discrimination in other ways. But being white in Britain carries privileges. That's what I was referring to. "I have been refused jobs in the charity sector many times because my background wasn’t diverse enough. I would say this is borderline racism but as it is classed as positive discrimination by law it’s acceptable. I could give you other examples if you would like | |||
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"Having preferences is quite different to ruling out an entire race of people and stating it on your profile. Saying "I like tall men" is showing a positive preference. And people who write "no Asians" etc on a profile - I call it what it is. Racist. There was a thread recently about short(er) men and everyone jumped in to be reassuring and nice. BBW women get loads of support and positivity. What a contrast.
Agreed. You never see the preferences reverted but imagine if it was"In that case saying "I like white men" is like saying "only white men"...which in a sense shows more racism than saying "no black/Asian men". Racist people are generally racist towards all other minorities, because they see their skin colour as superior. Other people might not like black or Asian people, which is still a form of racism based on negative experiences they had with members of that group of people, or brought up by parents that had negative experiences with members of that group of people... but it is not the "whites are superior" type of racism, which basically created the whole concept of racism in the first place | |||
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"Having preferences is quite different to ruling out an entire race of people and stating it on your profile. Saying "I like tall men" is showing a positive preference. And people who write "no Asians" etc on a profile - I call it what it is. Racist. There was a thread recently about short(er) men and everyone jumped in to be reassuring and nice. BBW women get loads of support and positivity. What a contrast.
I have spoken to people who have “no …” on their profiles and I always get the same answer from them. They have unfortunately had to spell it out in no uncertain terms as the positive preferences approach doesn’t work.
Saying you prefer taller men, while positive preference, will be seen as a loose preference too many to try their ‘luck’ while being shorter than you.
We will always have preferences that can be negotiated and some that can not
That's just the site, TBG. saying what you want or don't want on your profile makes no difference to the majority of people who won't read it. If they did, I wouldn't get most of the messages I get! Imagine being an black or Asian guy and reading that on profile after profile. In addition to the casual racism they encounter in the workplace and elsewhere. Daily. I've read first hand accounts of how that feels for people.
And there are also profiles that state looking for BBC only. That is discriminates against me personally on 2 levels. How does that make me feel?
I don't know, how do you feel? I don't think that that's an equal comparison. You have white privilege. You won't have had instances all your life of being judged because of the colour of your skin. We have a different perspective on this issue, I don't wish to argue with you, my friend.
The BBC preferences don't bother me in the slightest but to say someone has the benefit of white privilege doesn't sit well with me.
I'm white but grew up in an environment where I was discriminated against because of my religion. I've never been judged on the colour of my skin but I've been told by a certain sector of the community that I had little or no value because I was an Irish Catholic.
I've been made feel like a second class citizen by those who were running the country.
I've also seen the signs on doors and windows that said " No blacks, no dogs and no Irish".
These aren't urban myths by the way so the fact I am white has never equated to privilege. "I know they're not myths. Saying there is such a thing as white privilege doesn't exclude other discrimination. It's not a competition. It's recognition of one of the ways in which the world does discriminate. Religion, sadly, is another. That's why it's one of the protected characteristics in the Equality Act. | |||
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"Well since you put it that way...I am homophobic because I don't want to have sex with men?
But then again, I also don't mention that in my bio...if someone is not my type, I just tell them so.
In the case of women who get thousands of messages per day, it might help to put exactly what they want( and don't want) in their bio. Will save them a few extra messages to reject
Of course not, because you are straight so you aren’t attracted to men.
But I think saying “ID NEVER EVER EVER BE ATTRACTED TO … (example) A BLACK WOMAN ”
So totally rejecting a race, that’s quite a statement in my opinion.
Like everyone has preferences I think, but generally speaking I think it’s how you go on about stating the preferences and yeah maybe be open minded?
I do love real tall dudes (and ideally if someone is really tall then generally he’s in my graces ), but I have been with a lot of shorter guys and had an amazing time x "OMG not again with the tall dudes ...we get it, women prefer tall guys and short guys are just a secondary option ...or no option in some cases  | |||
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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism?" Ultimately, people are only going to meet the people they want to meet. For me personally, I would avoid profiles stating "white only" or "black only" (obviously for different reasons), it is surely beneficial for people to know that you are not what they are looking for... so you don't waste your time messaging. Cal | |||
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"I feel like it’s not racist to have a sexual preference in as far as it’s not homophobic to be straight. Each to their own. No one is saying anything negative about their non preference so I don’t see how it’s racism in any way shape or form. Objectification maybe in the sense that some people will only want black men due to their reputation for being well hung. People like what they like. I’m fat do I get offended when people say on their profile they like slim fit girls nope I just move on to the person who likes a bit of curves. Simples. " Thank you | |||
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"There's whole groups of people who I am not attracted to and will never have sex with. I am racist, sexist, ageist. "Same here, I must be a racist because my profile says "no 85 year old one legged Chinese bald women". | |||
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"Well since you put it that way...I am homophobic because I don't want to have sex with men?
But then again, I also don't mention that in my bio...if someone is not my type, I just tell them so.
In the case of women who get thousands of messages per day, it might help to put exactly what they want( and don't want) in their bio. Will save them a few extra messages to reject
Of course not, because you are straight so you aren’t attracted to men.
But I think saying “ID NEVER EVER EVER BE ATTRACTED TO … (example) A BLACK WOMAN ”
So totally rejecting a race, that’s quite a statement in my opinion.
Like everyone has preferences I think, but generally speaking I think it’s how you go on about stating the preferences and yeah maybe be open minded?
I do love real tall dudes (and ideally if someone is really tall then generally he’s in my graces ), but I have been with a lot of shorter guys and had an amazing time x
OMG not again with the tall dudes ...we get it, women prefer tall guys and short guys are just a secondary option ...or no option in some cases "But it’s a preference isn’t it? Also wouldn’t say secondary options!! But yeah I bet that’s kinda how it feels for some women when it comes to their race. Because they aren’t the classic white girl. I do feel grade B sometimes compared to some cis women  | |||
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"There's whole groups of people who I am not attracted to and will never have sex with. I am racist, sexist, ageist.
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"What a world we live in when you can't publicly state what you're sexual preference, especially on a site where people are openly looking for sex, without someone thinking it's racist. The world has gone mad I tell you. You fancy who you fancy. In no way is it acceptable for people to be discriminated in life on gender, sexual orientation, race or anything else, but this isn't discrimination. This is personal choice. This isn't the 'work place' or a 'swimming club' and people applying to be apart of those things. This is a place where people choose to be intimate with each other. Their bodies, their choice. That goes for every single person on here." | |||
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"Urgh! I wondered how long it would be before the white privilege thing came up. Another utterly ridiculous and unquantifiable ideology invented to sucker in weak minded people who just repeat what they are told to" Lovely. Thanks for your input. Have a nice day. | |||
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"Urgh! I wondered how long it would be before the white privilege thing came up. Another utterly ridiculous and unquantifiable ideology invented to sucker in weak minded people who just repeat what they are told to" Unfortunately the whole white privilege "thing" is truly real... it's not really related to people's choices on fab, but that makes it no less true. | |||
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"Very well said! What a world we live in when you can't publicly state what you're sexual preference, especially on a site where people are openly looking for sex, without someone thinking it's racist. The world has gone mad I tell you. You fancy who you fancy. In no way is it acceptable for people to be discriminated in life on gender, sexual orientation, race or anything else, but this isn't discrimination. This is personal choice. This isn't the 'work place' or a 'swimming club' and people applying to be apart of those things. This is a place where people choose to be intimate with each other. Their bodies, their choice. That goes for every single person on here."
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"Well since you put it that way...I am homophobic because I don't want to have sex with men?
But then again, I also don't mention that in my bio...if someone is not my type, I just tell them so.
In the case of women who get thousands of messages per day, it might help to put exactly what they want( and don't want) in their bio. Will save them a few extra messages to reject
Of course not, because you are straight so you aren’t attracted to men.
But I think saying “ID NEVER EVER EVER BE ATTRACTED TO … (example) A BLACK WOMAN ”
So totally rejecting a race, that’s quite a statement in my opinion.
Like everyone has preferences I think, but generally speaking I think it’s how you go on about stating the preferences and yeah maybe be open minded?
I do love real tall dudes (and ideally if someone is really tall then generally he’s in my graces ), but I have been with a lot of shorter guys and had an amazing time x
OMG not again with the tall dudes ...we get it, women prefer tall guys and short guys are just a secondary option ...or no option in some cases
But it’s a preference isn’t it?
Also wouldn’t say secondary options!! But yeah I bet that’s kinda how it feels for some women when it comes to their race. Because they aren’t the classic white girl.
I do feel grade B sometimes compared to some cis women "We can have a conversation about what it means to have preferences in the real world or from a dating perspective...but here on fab or when it comes to a purely sexual interaction, I Don’t believe men have preferences and I have never seen a man's bio state "only white women"...from a biological pov we are simply not programmed that way our reptilian brain doesn't work that way...things change when we want more than just nsa sex, that's when we start to develop preferences. In the case of women , even purely just for sex, they want "the best seed" (I know this sounds weird- but I am talking from a biological pov and how our reptilian brains are hardwired ) that's why women tend to have more preferences even on a sex site like this
Even in your case, there's probably less than 0.1% men on fab that would say no to having sex with you based on the fact you are not cis ( not even the most transphobic of men here)...they might not date you, or even want to be seen in public with you ( based on their preconceived bullshit ideology) but they would still find you sexually attractive.
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"White privilege is a systemic concept not an individual one and its really easy to explain. Imagine the worst possible start in life a white person could have, and everything that could go wrong in their life does. Now imagine having to deal with all of that AND institutional racism. That's white privilege. " It’s one of the many privileges: Like beauty privilege, or money privilege etc etc Imagine all of them combined The easiest case scenario would be A white heterosexual cisgender male with pots of money and connections because he comes from a very rich privileged family, ohh and very attractive. | |||
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"White privilege is a systemic concept not an individual one and its really easy to explain. Imagine the worst possible start in life a white person could have, and everything that could go wrong in their life does. Now imagine having to deal with all of that AND institutional racism. That's white privilege. It’s one of the many privileges: Like beauty privilege, or money privilege etc etc Imagine all of them combined The easiest case scenario would be A white heterosexual cisgender male with pots of money and connections because he comes from a very rich privileged family, ohh and very attractive. " I just described Prince Harry | |||
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"Very well said! What a world we live in when you can't publicly state what you're sexual preference, especially on a site where people are openly looking for sex, without someone thinking it's racist. The world has gone mad I tell you. You fancy who you fancy. In no way is it acceptable for people to be discriminated in life on gender, sexual orientation, race or anything else, but this isn't discrimination. This is personal choice. This isn't the 'work place' or a 'swimming club' and people applying to be apart of those things. This is a place where people choose to be intimate with each other. Their bodies, their choice. That goes for every single person on here.
The world we live in unfortunately. Have an opinion or a preference in 2021 and it will be dissected beyond belief.."I guess it’s what informs that preference. I like redheads, for various reasons. However if I see a profile with “no Asians,” I always wonder what that’s about. Asia’s a big continent with many different races of people, including white people. So what’s the person really saying… | |||
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"White privilege is a systemic concept not an individual one and its really easy to explain. Imagine the worst possible start in life a white person could have, and everything that could go wrong in their life does. Now imagine having to deal with all of that AND institutional racism. That's white privilege. It’s one of the many privileges: Like beauty privilege, or money privilege etc etc Imagine all of them combined The easiest case scenario would be A white heterosexual cisgender male with pots of money and connections because he comes from a very rich privileged family, ohh and very attractive. I just described Prince Harry " you did too! | |||
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"Well since you put it that way...I am homophobic because I don't want to have sex with men?
But then again, I also don't mention that in my bio...if someone is not my type, I just tell them so.
In the case of women who get thousands of messages per day, it might help to put exactly what they want( and don't want) in their bio. Will save them a few extra messages to reject
Of course not, because you are straight so you aren’t attracted to men.
But I think saying “ID NEVER EVER EVER BE ATTRACTED TO … (example) A BLACK WOMAN ”
So totally rejecting a race, that’s quite a statement in my opinion.
Like everyone has preferences I think, but generally speaking I think it’s how you go on about stating the preferences and yeah maybe be open minded?
I do love real tall dudes (and ideally if someone is really tall then generally he’s in my graces ), but I have been with a lot of shorter guys and had an amazing time x
OMG not again with the tall dudes ...we get it, women prefer tall guys and short guys are just a secondary option ...or no option in some cases
But it’s a preference isn’t it?
Also wouldn’t say secondary options!! But yeah I bet that’s kinda how it feels for some women when it comes to their race. Because they aren’t the classic white girl.
I do feel grade B sometimes compared to some cis women
We can have a conversation about what it means to have preferences in the real world or from a dating perspective...but here on fab or when it comes to a purely sexual interaction, I Don’t believe men have preferences and I have never seen a man's bio state "only white women"...from a biological pov we are simply not programmed that way our reptilian brain doesn't work that way...things change when we want more than just nsa sex, that's when we start to develop preferences. In the case of women , even purely just for sex, they want "the best seed" (I know this sounds weird- but I am talking from a biological pov and how our reptilian brains are hardwired) that's why women tend to have more preferences even on a sex site like this
Even in your case, there's probably less than 0.1% men on fab that would say no to having sex with you based on the fact you are not cis ( not even the most transphobic of men here)...they might not date you, or even want to be seen in public with you ( based on their preconceived bullshit ideology) but they would still find you sexually attractive.
I know this sounds horrible, and I do not mean it in that way...I am simply presenting the reality of things... so no I don't think men ( or at least most men) have any preference when it comes to just "I'm horny and I want to fuck" sex."Oi, who you calling a reptile! | |||
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" We can have a conversation about what it means to have preferences in the real world or from a dating perspective...but here on fab or when it comes to a purely sexual interaction, I Don’t believe men have preferences and I have never seen a man's bio state "only white women"...from a biological pov we are simply not programmed that way our reptilian brain doesn't work that way...things change when we want more than just nsa sex, that's when we start to develop preferences. In the case of women , even purely just for sex, they want "the best seed" (I know this sounds weird- but I am talking from a biological pov and how our reptilian brains are hardwired ) that's why women tend to have more preferences even on a sex site like this
Even in your case, there's probably less than 0.1% men on fab that would say no to having sex with you based on the fact you are not cis ( not even the most transphobic of men here)...they might not date you, or even want to be seen in public with you ( based on their preconceived bullshit ideology) but they would still find you sexually attractive.
I know this sounds horrible, and I do not mean it in that way...I am simply presenting the reality of things... so no I don't think men ( or at least most men) have any preference when it comes to just "I'm horny and I want to fuck" sex."I see your point , and you are right! Also thanks for the little boost | |||
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"Well since you put it that way...I am homophobic because I don't want to have sex with men?
But then again, I also don't mention that in my bio...if someone is not my type, I just tell them so.
In the case of women who get thousands of messages per day, it might help to put exactly what they want( and don't want) in their bio. Will save them a few extra messages to reject
Of course not, because you are straight so you aren’t attracted to men.
But I think saying “ID NEVER EVER EVER BE ATTRACTED TO … (example) A BLACK WOMAN ”
So totally rejecting a race, that’s quite a statement in my opinion.
Like everyone has preferences I think, but generally speaking I think it’s how you go on about stating the preferences and yeah maybe be open minded?
I do love real tall dudes (and ideally if someone is really tall then generally he’s in my graces ), but I have been with a lot of shorter guys and had an amazing time x
OMG not again with the tall dudes ...we get it, women prefer tall guys and short guys are just a secondary option ...or no option in some cases
But it’s a preference isn’t it?
Also wouldn’t say secondary options!! But yeah I bet that’s kinda how it feels for some women when it comes to their race. Because they aren’t the classic white girl.
I do feel grade B sometimes compared to some cis women
We can have a conversation about what it means to have preferences in the real world or from a dating perspective...but here on fab or when it comes to a purely sexual interaction, I Don’t believe men have preferences and I have never seen a man's bio state "only white women"...from a biological pov we are simply not programmed that way our reptilian brain doesn't work that way...things change when we want more than just nsa sex, that's when we start to develop preferences. In the case of women , even purely just for sex, they want "the best seed" (I know this sounds weird- but I am talking from a biological pov and how our reptilian brains are hardwired) that's why women tend to have more preferences even on a sex site like this
Even in your case, there's probably less than 0.1% men on fab that would say no to having sex with you based on the fact you are not cis ( not even the most transphobic of men here)...they might not date you, or even want to be seen in public with you ( based on their preconceived bullshit ideology) but they would still find you sexually attractive.
I know this sounds horrible, and I do not mean it in that way...I am simply presenting the reality of things... so no I don't think men ( or at least most men) have any preference when it comes to just "I'm horny and I want to fuck" sex.
Oi, who you calling a reptile!
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"White privilege is a systemic concept not an individual one and its really easy to explain. Imagine the worst possible start in life a white person could have, and everything that could go wrong in their life does. Now imagine having to deal with all of that AND institutional racism. That's white privilege. It’s one of the many privileges: Like beauty privilege, or money privilege etc etc Imagine all of them combined The easiest case scenario would be A white heterosexual cisgender male with pots of money and connections because he comes from a very rich privileged family, ohh and very attractive. I just described Prince Harry
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"Well since you put it that way...I am homophobic because I don't want to have sex with men?
But then again, I also don't mention that in my bio...if someone is not my type, I just tell them so.
In the case of women who get thousands of messages per day, it might help to put exactly what they want( and don't want) in their bio. Will save them a few extra messages to reject
Of course not, because you are straight so you aren’t attracted to men.
But I think saying “ID NEVER EVER EVER BE ATTRACTED TO … (example) A BLACK WOMAN ”
So totally rejecting a race, that’s quite a statement in my opinion.
Like everyone has preferences I think, but generally speaking I think it’s how you go on about stating the preferences and yeah maybe be open minded?
I do love real tall dudes (and ideally if someone is really tall then generally he’s in my graces ), but I have been with a lot of shorter guys and had an amazing time x
OMG not again with the tall dudes ...we get it, women prefer tall guys and short guys are just a secondary option ...or no option in some cases
But it’s a preference isn’t it?
Also wouldn’t say secondary options!! But yeah I bet that’s kinda how it feels for some women when it comes to their race. Because they aren’t the classic white girl.
I do feel grade B sometimes compared to some cis women
We can have a conversation about what it means to have preferences in the real world or from a dating perspective...but here on fab or when it comes to a purely sexual interaction, I Don’t believe men have preferences and I have never seen a man's bio state "only white women"...from a biological pov we are simply not programmed that way our reptilian brain doesn't work that way...things change when we want more than just nsa sex, that's when we start to develop preferences. In the case of women , even purely just for sex, they want "the best seed" (I know this sounds weird- but I am talking from a biological pov and how our reptilian brains are hardwired) that's why women tend to have more preferences even on a sex site like this
Even in your case, there's probably less than 0.1% men on fab that would say no to having sex with you based on the fact you are not cis ( not even the most transphobic of men here)...they might not date you, or even want to be seen in public with you ( based on their preconceived bullshit ideology) but they would still find you sexually attractive.
I know this sounds horrible, and I do not mean it in that way...I am simply presenting the reality of things... so no I don't think men ( or at least most men) have any preference when it comes to just "I'm horny and I want to fuck" sex.
Oi, who you calling a reptile!
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"Very well said! What a world we live in when you can't publicly state what you're sexual preference, especially on a site where people are openly looking for sex, without someone thinking it's racist. The world has gone mad I tell you. You fancy who you fancy. In no way is it acceptable for people to be discriminated in life on gender, sexual orientation, race or anything else, but this isn't discrimination. This is personal choice. This isn't the 'work place' or a 'swimming club' and people applying to be apart of those things. This is a place where people choose to be intimate with each other. Their bodies, their choice. That goes for every single person on here.
The world we live in unfortunately. Have an opinion or a preference in 2021 and it will be dissected beyond belief..
I guess it’s what informs that preference. I like redheads, for various reasons. However if I see a profile with “no Asians,” I always wonder what that’s about. Asia’s a big continent with many different races of people, including white people. So what’s the person really saying…"The person is saying that they don't find Asian's attractive and don't want Asian's to contact them. | |||
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"I'm so against racism or any form of prejudice etc but having a preference is a choice? Also it's the person not the colour of the skin you are attracted too. Whatever the race you don't fancy everyone? Everton has types it's a fact of life. "*Everyone | |||
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"Then have a word with fab ownership OP - they give us the option in the filter system when advance searching..... Looks like we have a right of preference in the 21st century.... " | |||
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"Nobody is obliged to be attracted to anybody. I don't think it's necessarily racist but I think it's insensitive. It seems better to me to just not select people your not attracted to rather than tell them up front based on a sensitive aspect of a person. " Yes, I’ve said this before. I don’t like to see it on a profile. There’s no need in my opinion. If I saw it on a profile it would put me off that person | |||
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"This is a bit heavy for a Sunday morning. Anyone fancy a cuppa?
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"everyone has freedom about who they meet but if you exclude a group on grounds of race it does not look good " Very well said, it takes a certain type of character to write off entire groups based on their color or one bad experience and worse still to advertise it on their profile. That said each to their own, like someone said fab isn't the place for any kind of ...isms, Anyone who advertises no asian no black no whatever is a no for us irrespective of their color, religion level of hotness. | |||
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"This is a bit heavy for a Sunday morning. Anyone fancy a cuppa? Made me chuckle! Yes please a Yorkshire please i'm half awake. Lol "Are you open to PG tips or is or completely off the table as a viable option? | |||
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"everyone has freedom about who they meet but if you exclude a group on grounds of race it does not look good Very well said, it takes a certain type of character to write off entire groups based on their color or one bad experience and worse still to advertise it on their profile. That said each to their own, like someone said fab isn't the place for any kind of ...isms, Anyone who advertises no asian no black no whatever is a no for us irrespective of their color, religion level of hotness. " | |||
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"This is a bit heavy for a Sunday morning. Anyone fancy a cuppa? Made me chuckle! Yes please a Yorkshire please i'm half awake. Lol
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"Just like it works with jobs as you referenced... No one puts their preferred races on the job adverts but certain people alone still gets the job. The question is, would you rather not have them put it out there but secretly exclude those outside their preferences? It's a waste of time really. I would rather you have it out there and no one wastes each other's time... " I disagree. I don't like to see negative profiles listing all the xyz they won't meet. Positivity is better. I exclude groups of people I will never fuck but I would never say what those groups are as it's irrelevant. In the groups of people I will possibly fuck, there's still loads I won't. I can't know until I chat to them. If we're not compatible and I say no thanks I'm really not wasting their time by chatting then not fucking them. | |||
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"I prefer to ignore profiles that I don't have anything in common with and don't concern myself with what they have on their profile. On my very first facepic Friday on here I sent a pic to a popular couple who were also on the thread. They didn't return the favour but replied that I might have been hot if I wasn't Irish. They may have had a preference for non Irish people but it could easily have been interpreted as xenophobia just in the way it was worded. Tbf, I think that's quite on odd thing for them to say. Albeit, the reasons may or may not have been malicious. You did the right thing, don't make a fuss, try not to second guess what they actually meant, it may have been innocent, and just move on. In this case it was this gents irishness comment that is the core of what was intended! Race,Colour,eye Colour is a wrapper. Like some products same internal. Yet the outer is a slight diff shape. & "COLOUR" same deeper problem we are having here. People are being BOXED and put into Catogrie's because of whom they are,race,Colour,background religion etc etc etc . It is far damaging for society as a whole no matter who the pie piper and Bandwagon Leader is at the moment.. All these things we people and humans do have conciecquences and affect all of us " Directly & indirectly" some can not see the energy vibrations we all let off and out. Be mindful be like water. Peace Yess be like water, never seen racist water "Lol your funny like your Humour much needed here to break the ICE! what Colour is your water Bottle today? And the water? Ps I shall enlighten you further ,once you comment. Fellow Fabber  | |||
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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism?" Why won’t you meet someone under 25. Ageist ? | |||
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"A lot of profiles on here are very racist where people openly state that they want black men only or no Asians or only interested in white people. If I advertised a job in this way I would be in court. Where else can you get away with these levels of racism?" That's an absolutely ridiculous statement to make. A sexual preference is just that, a preference. Going for a job and being discriminated against is incomparable to wanting a certain thing from sex. People regularly blow my mind. | |||
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"I wouldn’t meet guys for sex….I’m a proper sexist asshat. I don’t think Fab is a place to tackle the subject of any type of ‘isms. *if you think my reply is sarcastic, please get in touch, but I am out of this office until I can be bothered to return. " I am now changing my profile to: 'will only meet men with squirty cream cans shoved down their pants'. | |||
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"Just like it works with jobs as you referenced... No one puts their preferred races on the job adverts but certain people alone still gets the job. The question is, would you rather not have them put it out there but secretly exclude those outside their preferences? It's a waste of time really. I would rather you have it out there and no one wastes each other's time... I disagree. I don't like to see negative profiles listing all the xyz they won't meet. Positivity is better. I exclude groups of people I will never fuck but I would never say what those groups are as it's irrelevant. In the groups of people I will possibly fuck, there's still loads I won't. I can't know until I chat to them. If we're not compatible and I say no thanks I'm really not wasting their time by chatting then not fucking them. ". Stating what your preferences are one way or the other simply saves everyone from wasting time. Age, looks, height, race, sexual interests etc etc. Hands up who wants to spend time meeting people they aren’t going to be compatible with. | |||
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"What about women that state “BBC only”? You do know the racist connotation associated with this term don’t you? " Lol I've payed my licence in full to the "BBC" will there be fines & jail? I seen a white van man parked outside my house with a Scanner! Omg. I am wittless now. HELP!!! | |||
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"Just like it works with jobs as you referenced... No one puts their preferred races on the job adverts but certain people alone still gets the job. The question is, would you rather not have them put it out there but secretly exclude those outside their preferences? It's a waste of time really. I would rather you have it out there and no one wastes each other's time... I disagree. I don't like to see negative profiles listing all the xyz they won't meet. Positivity is better. I exclude groups of people I will never fuck but I would never say what those groups are as it's irrelevant. In the groups of people I will possibly fuck, there's still loads I won't. I can't know until I chat to them. If we're not compatible and I say no thanks I'm really not wasting their time by chatting then not fucking them. . Stating what your preferences are one way or the other simply saves everyone from wasting time. Age, looks, height, race, sexual interests etc etc. Hands up who wants to spend time meeting people they aren’t going to be compatible with. "Many claim that info once they meet barriers are broken down and people gel and flow. All on paper and typed is not all and be all. Some fwncey the pants off some types! Like my women friend ,went out with the guy had hotts for him. Let him run her over with all the "RED FLAGS " thrown at her. Turned out to be a full on d*unk crwck head. Women beater, manic toxic monster! Had all the looks .Blue eyed, blonde hair etc. I got to her an inch of her life!! She is a danger to herself. She keeps making the same mistakes. Hormones,time of month,emotions??? I am sadly shocked,and perplexed by the deeper mindset of many a female friends choices they do go for. IE in looks.. | |||
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"No one can help what their mind likes. You can't change what you lust after just because you think you should be more PC around any ism - it simply can't be changed. You lust after things for many reasons, but if you don't like something and have no desire for it you pretty much won't be entertaining it, so telling people what you want in your shop window to the most liberal of sites around is not only sensible, but a necessity to stop wasting yours and everyone else's time. It would be a sad world if everyone yearned for the same things." No but you can examine why your mind might, say, exclude an entire race. And you feel it necessary to advertise it. Always worth examining our "preferences". | |||
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