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over a year ago
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"No, nobody can be too nice. "
This one!!
You shouldn’t have to change who you are to please others….if they can’t accept that being nice is how you operate then it’s their loss!!  |
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"I don’t understand this concept. I like nice humans.
People usually say too nice instead of you’re overbearing/smothering me because it sounds nicer "
Exactly.. but I’m very literal so I’d say and put those kind in a different category. I’ve never not liked someone for being genuinely nice.. |
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Like many things, if you have to remind people that you are nice it's usually a good sign that isn't the image you are projecting.
In the same way that calling yourself an alpha means you definitely aren't one, calling yourself nice or decent or genuine can often be interpreted as being anything but.
Actions speak louder than words. |
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"Like many things, if you have to remind people that you are nice it's usually a good sign that isn't the image you are projecting.
In the same way that calling yourself an alpha means you definitely aren't one, calling yourself nice or decent or genuine can often be interpreted as being anything but.
Actions speak louder than words."
I always seem to agree with your words |
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Nice is a. Word that could mean many things.
You can't be too decent or respectful of others. It should be standard.
People will interpret behaviour and motives. Some may perceive someone as too wet, not showing character etc, if they are too giving and hidden behind a facade that's sickly sweet, such that others don't get a sense for who someone is.
Charm, being pleasant, positive and considerate are all attractive attributes. |
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"Like many things, if you have to remind people that you are nice it's usually a good sign that isn't the image you are projecting.
In the same way that calling yourself an alpha means you definitely aren't one, calling yourself nice or decent or genuine can often be interpreted as being anything but.
Actions speak louder than words.
I always seem to agree with your words "
Is it cos I is nice?  |
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"Like many things, if you have to remind people that you are nice it's usually a good sign that isn't the image you are projecting.
In the same way that calling yourself an alpha means you definitely aren't one, calling yourself nice or decent or genuine can often be interpreted as being anything but.
Actions speak louder than words.
I always seem to agree with your words
Is it cos I is nice? "
Hahaha could be |
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Umm, my first instinct was to say ‘no’, a guy could never be too nice. However if they were a complete walkover, it might affect how others treat them. And may lead to a lack of respect, which isn’t attractive in itself. |
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"Umm, my first instinct was to say ‘no’, a guy could never be too nice. However if they were a complete walkover, it might affect how others treat them. And may lead to a lack of respect, which isn’t attractive in itself."
Is being too nice correlated to being a walk over or is that down to lack of self esteem? |
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seriously.
I'm always really nice and people take huge advantages... Wish I was more assertive ... 
