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Would you consider an unplanned spur of the moment meet?
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By *uscle88 OP Man
over a year ago
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Are there women that would choose to meet a man the same evening after a chat on fab the same evening. Just wanted to see what the general feeling around spontaneous meets was and what are your stipulations if doing so |
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over a year ago
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Sometimes I do
But it’s normally a case off get up get ready and see how meny guys I can have in the one day
So if doing so probably expect not to be the first there that day |
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Mine usually are spontaneous these days, and daytime at that because, I'm also my mum's carer, and everything revolves around her for the foreseeable future. I've also often been lucky enough to get a spontaneous, short notice meet when couples have been let down by some time waster, daydreamer or wannabe. |
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By *uscle88 OP Man
over a year ago
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I feel face to face communication stimulates the mind and only believe that you can only limit yourself to basic conversations ,over message or call it’s a lot more stimulating and powerful sexual chemistry when you build it through face to face interaction and also enhances physical activity too. If a conversation with someone had me wanting more then I defiantly would I’d say |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Are there women that would choose to meet a man the same evening after a chat on fab the same evening. Just wanted to see what the general feeling around spontaneous meets was and what are your stipulations if doing so"
I'm sure some will
Some won't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are there women that would choose to meet a man the same evening after a chat on fab the same evening. Just wanted to see what the general feeling around spontaneous meets was and what are your stipulations if doing so"
A girl tried to do that with me 2 Saturdays ago, but I had other plans this evening unfortunately. So it can happen. Happens to me on tinder very often though. |
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"Are there women that would choose to meet a man the same evening after a chat on fab the same evening. Just wanted to see what the general feeling around spontaneous meets was and what are your stipulations if doing so"
Yes, if we got along on either FaceTime/WhatsApp Video then yes - did that twice in the past, and we still see each other now! #VGFWB  |
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If my only interaction had been online I'd meet for a last minute social if I had time, but I'm not keen on inviting a total stranger into my home or going to theirs so it probably wouldn't go further than that. |
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I have done in the past. I wouldn't now as my dynamic has changed and I know I have put myself in some risky situations before. Thankfully nothing happened but i could very easily have been a statistic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have done in the past. I wouldn't now as my dynamic has changed and I know I have put myself in some risky situations before. Thankfully nothing happened but i could very easily have been a statistic. "
Jesus…not from this site I hope  
But glad you came through unscathed!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m not particularly spontaneous 
If I’m meeting, then I want my hair and nails etc to be nice. That usually requires a bit of organisation.
It’s worth it though, as I feel so much better for it, and the effort usually goes down well too  |
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"I have done in the past. I wouldn't now as my dynamic has changed and I know I have put myself in some risky situations before. Thankfully nothing happened but i could very easily have been a statistic.
Jesus…not from this site I hope
But glad you came through unscathed!!"
The meets were from here yes but it wasy actions that put me at risk at times. I met one guy without ever seeing a picture of him. Left the door open. Condom on thd bed and was blindfolded as he came in and fucked me then left.
Another guy bought drugs in and started taking them on my home.
I met a guy at his garage in the middle of a busy town.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spontaneous for me is at least 3 months of chatting
 ! I thought I was reserved at meeting new people. Wow.
Oh I’m next level on this "
It would appear so!  |
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"Spontaneous for me is at least 3 months of chatting
! I thought I was reserved at meeting new people. Wow.
Oh I’m next level on this
It would appear so! "
It's the norm for some people.
I've only had 7 play meets in 5 years here so different degrees of spontaneity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Generally a good bit of pre meet interaction is required and that part is very enjoyable as well - getting comfortable over a load of messages and a social before hand, but if a status comes up with an offer that is time limited to the next hour or so, then that's very exciting and gives you a massive buzz. Totally different dynamic, but worth doing every now and again to cheer yourself up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spontaneous for me is at least 3 months of chatting
! I thought I was reserved at meeting new people. Wow.
Oh I’m next level on this
It would appear so!
It's the norm for some people.
I've only had 7 play meets in 5 years here so different degrees of spontaneity."
As time goes on, I'm being a lot more reserved. Works better for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spontaneous for me is at least 3 months of chatting
! I thought I was reserved at meeting new people. Wow.
Oh I’m next level on this
It would appear so!
It's the norm for some people.
I've only had 7 play meets in 5 years here so different degrees of spontaneity."
I’ve never been a spur of the moment kinda person so fab isn’t any different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a single lady, but we prefer to meet men this way. If the mood takes me I do a quick look on the meets page, see who is near, if they tickle my fancy you get an invite.... Take it or leave it. Cum then go....
Claire x |
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I have done and it was great 
