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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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but thinking being single is dull at times.. The reason I say this is kids have always been in my life plan but at 32 and failed relationships I am thinking "the one" is either dead or has immigrated... |
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"but thinking being single is dull at times.. The reason I say this is kids have always been in my life plan but at 32 and failed relationships I am thinking "the one" is either dead or has immigrated..."
And I thought you were saving yourself for me Jess  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"Better to be single and (Occasionally) bored... Than trapped in a toxic relationship...;-)"
+1....never wanted kids myself, but if the clock somehow started ticking now, I'd happily look for a donation rather than have to find a relationship |
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"Better to be single and (Occasionally) bored... Than trapped in a toxic relationship...;-)
+1....never wanted kids myself, but if the clock somehow started ticking now, I'd happily look for a donation rather than have to find a relationship"
Caz I have to say being a parent has been one of the greatest things I have done. But that said being a single parent is not a easy thing |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Better to be single and (Occasionally) bored... Than trapped in a toxic relationship...;-)
+1....never wanted kids myself, but if the clock somehow started ticking now, I'd happily look for a donation rather than have to find a relationship"
Are you my sister from another mother because that is soooo me!!!!  |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
I guess what I am trying to say is I have been pregnant and suffered a lost and just looking at things.. I am not desprate nor do I want to seek a relationship on here its just something thst runs through my mind now and again |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"Better to be single and (Occasionally) bored... Than trapped in a toxic relationship...;-)
+1....never wanted kids myself, but if the clock somehow started ticking now, I'd happily look for a donation rather than have to find a relationship
Caz I have to say being a parent has been one of the greatest things I have done. But that said being a single parent is not a easy thing"
Can't see it happening at my age (**coughs** 39) Nucs, but I'm more or less in a position that I could afford to do it if I wanted to, not saying it'd be ideal, but if I did want a child, it wouldn't be at the risk of losing my own identity if that makes any kinda sense - I don't do monogamy so would eventually end up single anyway, and as a child of a broken marriage where my parents stayed together "for the sake of the kids" I think I'd probably make a better fist of it as a single personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was married to my ex for 18 years the last 5 was hell.i lefted hin and i feel alive again meet great guy on here and we getting married soon.im 36 no way do i feel old |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"Better to be single and (Occasionally) bored... Than trapped in a toxic relationship...;-)
+1....never wanted kids myself, but if the clock somehow started ticking now, I'd happily look for a donation rather than have to find a relationship
Are you my sister from another mother because that is soooo me!!!! "
Awright, our kid???? |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Better to be single and (Occasionally) bored... Than trapped in a toxic relationship...;-)
+1....never wanted kids myself, but if the clock somehow started ticking now, I'd happily look for a donation rather than have to find a relationship
Are you my sister from another mother because that is soooo me!!!!
Awright, our kid???? "
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"Better to be single and (Occasionally) bored... Than trapped in a toxic relationship...;-)
+1....never wanted kids myself, but if the clock somehow started ticking now, I'd happily look for a donation rather than have to find a relationship
Caz I have to say being a parent has been one of the greatest things I have done. But that said being a single parent is not a easy thing
Can't see it happening at my age (**coughs** 39) Nucs, but I'm more or less in a position that I could afford to do it if I wanted to, not saying it'd be ideal, but if I did want a child, it wouldn't be at the risk of losing my own identity if that makes any kinda sense - I don't do monogamy so would eventually end up single anyway, and as a child of a broken marriage where my parents stayed together "for the sake of the kids" I think I'd probably make a better fist of it as a single personally "
And you probably would but believe me it hard work but more than worth it. As long as you are happy do as you please as long as you give it your all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I made the decision not to have any kids when I was 18, and have never regretted it.
I really feel for those who think/believe their lives are not complete without kids, as they could be missing out on the joys of being childless while they contemplate the "what if's".
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