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Is everyone else (except me!) sexting in their DMs?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So this is a swinging / sex site right?
So I guess *most* of you are having hardcore sex chat on your messaging to each other, either here or off site. Yes?
I’m RUBBISH at flirting and sex talk. Most of my conversations with the fairer sex on a number of accounts over the years are pretty mundane and asexual / unsexual (gawd knows what the right word for that is.. I’m just a simple country boy  )
Mainly it’s all about what biscuits they like, what they’re up to over the weekend, my god did you see the end of Line of Duty last night? That sort of bobbins.
I’m doing it all wrong aren’t I!? I’m shit as this sexy malarkey.
So are you all cock and foof deep in the erotic talk, or is there anyone else as woeful at it as me!?
(p.s. send boobies!  ) |
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I've never sexted anyone I've never met and even with those I have I couldn't maintain it for more than a couple of comments.
I prefer to do rather than talk about doing and that doesn't just include sex.
If someone wants to talk about sex all the time I've no problem with that. It just won't be with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I usually chat about what colour bin I need to put out and shite like that 
Get out. You've just messaged me a clean version of FAF."
I sent a cock pic  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your mundane chats constantly have me needing to change my knickers. Or maybe it's because I shake after a wee? I guess we'll never know."
I know we’re strictly not allowed to disclose the contents of PMs on here but we’re currently on train station cafes, so I think it’s you’re just a little bit incontinent my lovely!  |
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Very occasional sexting but only with people I know really really well. Other messages are general get to know someone chit chat.
The weather how's their day been what plans they have for the weekend etc etc. Pretty ordinary stuff really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not in my box. Does absolutely nothing for me.
If your box is open, I can imagine better ways to keep it entertained.
So can I  "
Step into my inbox, we’ll compare notes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lead up to the meet has to get a little filthy though right? Nothing wrong with a little imagination before the real thing I find."
Aye, I’ll give you that. That’s when I try my best. It’s just as well it’s all written though, if I had to say it out loud I’d cringe so hard I’d break.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sexting with strangers is rough and boring
Unless it’s Harry Potter themed
Love the duck x
I’ll send you a duck pic "
Name change to thiccasduck please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find introduction messages quite hard as you need to stand out from the crowd, but you don't want to come across as a creep or worse boring prude with no patter. It's a hard balancing act, which I think I've nailed on a few occasions, but failed and gone totally wide of the mark on others. Of course I'm kinda horny when I decide to message, so it's like going food shopping in an empty stomach - never a good idea! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
I love sexting with the catfish/fake/photo collectors.
Its my care in the community project ensuring that everyone has access to masterbatory material regardless of their social skills! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I rather good at messages with sex chat.
Even do full stories with scenarios ect.
Been in here for about 5 month's now and haven't spoken to anyone on here long enough to get chatting with them.
Not even had a social.
And i've try'd...but not lately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So this is a swinging / sex site right?
So I guess *most* of you are having hardcore sex chat on your messaging to each other, either here or off site. Yes?
I’m RUBBISH at flirting and sex talk. Most of my conversations with the fairer sex on a number of accounts over the years are pretty mundane and asexual / unsexual (gawd knows what the right word for that is.. I’m just a simple country boy )
Mainly it’s all about what biscuits they like, what they’re up to over the weekend, my god did you see the end of Line of Duty last night? That sort of bobbins.
I’m doing it all wrong aren’t I!? I’m shit as this sexy malarkey.
So are you all cock and foof deep in the erotic talk, or is there anyone else as woeful at it as me!?
(p.s. send boobies! )"
I'm a natural flirt and being a former erotic writer I've mastered the art if stirring conversations into sex (I do it on tinder all the time) personally I like to know I can get a woman wet (and sometimes make her cum) from my words alone tbh. But for me it comes with rhe territory of being a former erotic write |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what does everyone do if the dirty talk is whacked out mid convo? Change subject?"
Usually starts with an innuendo or three - easy to just gloss over if not your thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what does everyone do if the dirty talk is whacked out mid convo? Change subject?"
same as if some whacked out there coxk mid convo ... Point, laugh and say while I appreciate the effort I've seen better.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what does everyone do if the dirty talk is whacked out mid convo? Change subject?same as if some whacked out there coxk mid convo ... Point, laugh and say while I appreciate the effort I've seen better. "
Would you react the same if a woman whacked out her  ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what does everyone do if the dirty talk is whacked out mid convo? Change subject?same as if some whacked out there coxk mid convo ... Point, laugh and say while I appreciate the effort I've seen better.
Would you react the same if a woman whacked out her ?"
probably say, sorry, but just eaten. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what does everyone do if the dirty talk is whacked out mid convo? Change subject?same as if some whacked out there coxk mid convo ... Point, laugh and say while I appreciate the effort I've seen better.
Would you react the same if a woman whacked out her ?probably say, sorry, but just eaten.
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Ouch! Burn... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what does everyone do if the dirty talk is whacked out mid convo? Change subject?same as if some whacked out there coxk mid convo ... Point, laugh and say while I appreciate the effort I've seen better. "
You said you liked my cock picture!  |
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"So this is a swinging / sex site right?
So I guess *most* of you are having hardcore sex chat on your messaging to each other, either here or off site. Yes?
I’m RUBBISH at flirting and sex talk. Most of my conversations with the fairer sex on a number of accounts over the years are pretty mundane and asexual / unsexual (gawd knows what the right word for that is.. I’m just a simple country boy )
Mainly it’s all about what biscuits they like, what they’re up to over the weekend, my god did you see the end of Line of Duty last night? That sort of bobbins.
I’m doing it all wrong aren’t I!? I’m shit as this sexy malarkey.
So are you all cock and foof deep in the erotic talk, or is there anyone else as woeful at it as me!?
(p.s. send boobies! )"
Not in the slightest! This has been the quietest year in Fab for me, since I first joined 9 years ago...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what does everyone do if the dirty talk is whacked out mid convo? Change subject?same as if some whacked out there coxk mid convo ... Point, laugh and say while I appreciate the effort I've seen better.
You said you liked my cock picture! "
was that a cock pic ? I thought you were showing me your rolling pin 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm useless at flirting and the whole sexting/sexy talk. Some people like it, and some don't, so there's the issue with gauging that. Then there's time and place, at what point in conversation about hill walking or work or something trival is appropriate to jump to, oooh here is my member and immaculately shaved bum hole... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess I'm one of those freaks that enjoys having sexy chats and sharing pics with my stable of stallions. And yes. We do serious chats/ silly chats/ flirty chats etc because I'm capable of adapting my messages to the mood of both parties. Who knew that was possible???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess I'm one of those freaks that enjoys having sexy chats and sharing pics with my stable of stallions. And yes. We do serious chats/ silly chats/ flirty chats etc because I'm capable of adapting my messages to the mood of both parties. Who knew that was possible??? "
I find it easy to drop in and out of with (ahem) multiple people. Tbh it's what got me through lockdown 1! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a newbie inboxes are quite fresh , tight and needs filling.
As for my other boxers (trunks to the laymans) they bulge from time to time, mostly after squats. Oooh eeer missus haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the Past I may of been guilty of a little imaginative talk but that’s all gone now and tbh I would rather have a good conversation about life in general. As soon as someone even attempts to drag me into it I close it down quickly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It must be in the dm’s. Little sexy chat in the forums….
The very idea!!
I’ve had 1 or 2. I’ve never had 3 though… "
Oh my! I didn't think you could do that here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It must be in the dm’s. Little sexy chat in the forums….
The very idea!!
I’ve had 1 or 2. I’ve never had 3 though…
Oh my! I didn't think you could do that here! "
It’s all now stuff of myth and legend. Fab was once a swinging site.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It must be in the dm’s. Little sexy chat in the forums….
The very idea!!
I’ve had 1 or 2. I’ve never had 3 though…
Oh my! I didn't think you could do that here!
It’s all now stuff of myth and legend. Fab was once a swinging site. "
Surely you jest?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It must be in the dm’s. Little sexy chat in the forums….
The very idea!!
I’ve had 1 or 2. I’ve never had 3 though…
Oh my! I didn't think you could do that here!
It’s all now stuff of myth and legend. Fab was once a swinging site.
Surely you jest?! "
True story. Honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has to be a bit of sexy chat in there somewhere, No? Nothing vulgar just abit of banter back and forth. All harmless.
I'd imagine most are afraid to say something risky as the block button seems to get used for pretty much anything by the looks of it. People are unsure what's acceptable to say to someone in fear of offending them. God forbid someone gets offended these days..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It must be in the dm’s. Little sexy chat in the forums….
The very idea!!
I’ve had 1 or 2. I’ve never had 3 though…
Oh my! I didn't think you could do that here!
It’s all now stuff of myth and legend. Fab was once a swinging site.
Surely you jest?!
True story. Honest. "
Yeah but you're a man with squirty cream coming out of your trews. Can I believe you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like a bit of innuendo but Im not doing much of that either. I do a lot of gardening talk
I like a to see a good trimmed bush. "
Done with a well oiled tool |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sexting? Erotic talk?
What is this sorcery?
Posh
 fooling no-one!!
But....
I'm sweet n innocent 
P
your profile pic says otherwise!
I'm completely covered up! "
Nipple!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like a bit of innuendo but Im not doing much of that either. I do a lot of gardening talk
I like a to see a good trimmed bush.
Done with a well oiled tool "
An extendable one too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really do sex chat in the form of that's what I'm actually going to do if we meet.
I'm more just here to tease the living daylights out of you.
(although there is a handful I would ravage if given half the chance). |
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"I don't really do sex chat in the form of that's what I'm actually going to do if we meet.
I'm more just here to tease the living daylights out of you.
(although there is a handful I would ravage if given half the chance)."
Tease and rave me if you like Mrs Appletree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, I’d rather have your chat than sleazy chat any day of the week!
It’s honestly not what every woman wants.
A guy could laugh me into bed, rather than tempt me there with seedy chat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't really do sex chat in the form of that's what I'm actually going to do if we meet.
I'm more just here to tease the living daylights out of you.
(although there is a handful I would ravage if given half the chance)."
What would you do given a full chance? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't really do sex chat in the form of that's what I'm actually going to do if we meet.
I'm more just here to tease the living daylights out of you.
(although there is a handful I would ravage if given half the chance).
What would you do given a full chance? "
You wouldn't like to know. When you're on the half list I'll tell you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't really do sex chat in the form of that's what I'm actually going to do if we meet.
I'm more just here to tease the living daylights out of you.
(although there is a handful I would ravage if given half the chance).
What would you do given a full chance?
You wouldn't like to know. When you're on the half list I'll tell you "
Oof. Savage! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, I’d rather have your chat than sleazy chat any day of the week!
It’s honestly not what every woman wants.
A guy could laugh me into bed, rather than tempt me there with seedy chat "
Some times that’s the best approach though!
I mean I do love sexting but it’s usually with somebody I know and talk normal to as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, I’d rather have your chat than sleazy chat any day of the week!
It’s honestly not what every woman wants.
A guy could laugh me into bed, rather than tempt me there with seedy chat "
It erm doesn't need to be seedy? It can be seductive and beguiling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, I’d rather have your chat than sleazy chat any day of the week!
It’s honestly not what every woman wants.
A guy could laugh me into bed, rather than tempt me there with seedy chat
Some times that’s the best approach though!
I mean I do love sexting but it’s usually with somebody I know and talk normal to as well."
Exactly what I do. I don't sext with just anyone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP, I’d rather have your chat than sleazy chat any day of the week!
It’s honestly not what every woman wants.
A guy could laugh me into bed, rather than tempt me there with seedy chat
It erm doesn't need to be seedy? It can be seductive and beguiling."
You’ve clearly never been on the receiving end of my “sexy” chat!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, I’d rather have your chat than sleazy chat any day of the week!
It’s honestly not what every woman wants.
A guy could laugh me into bed, rather than tempt me there with seedy chat
Some times that’s the best approach though!
I mean I do love sexting but it’s usually with somebody I know and talk normal to as well.
Exactly what I do. I don't sext with just anyone "
And after looking at your profile, I’m sure that you get plenty of people (see - guys) trying to get you to do so! |
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Nothing doing here… have to work so hard to strike up any form of conversation. I make myself better by assuming is sheer volume of men to women. But maybe I’ll have to face facts, I don’t tick any wish list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope not me, my sarcasm and wit is all that’s swimming round my DM’s. I’m not really into sexting unless it’s someone I’m about to meet or someone I have met to build anticipation. I don’t feel like doing that with randoms |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, I’d rather have your chat than sleazy chat any day of the week!
It’s honestly not what every woman wants.
A guy could laugh me into bed, rather than tempt me there with seedy chat
It erm doesn't need to be seedy? It can be seductive and beguiling.
You’ve clearly never been on the receiving end of my “sexy” chat! "
Worrying that you wouldn't remember if I had been... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, I’d rather have your chat than sleazy chat any day of the week!
It’s honestly not what every woman wants.
A guy could laugh me into bed, rather than tempt me there with seedy chat
Some times that’s the best approach though!
I mean I do love sexting but it’s usually with somebody I know and talk normal to as well.
Exactly what I do. I don't sext with just anyone
And after looking at your profile, I’m sure that you get plenty of people (see - guys) trying to get you to do so!"
I get my share. A few may find out if I am any good at writing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, I’d rather have your chat than sleazy chat any day of the week!
It’s honestly not what every woman wants.
A guy could laugh me into bed, rather than tempt me there with seedy chat
Some times that’s the best approach though!
I mean I do love sexting but it’s usually with somebody I know and talk normal to as well.
Exactly what I do. I don't sext with just anyone
And after looking at your profile, I’m sure that you get plenty of people (see - guys) trying to get you to do so!
I get my share. A few may find out if I am any good at writing. "
Lucky buggers!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I feel like there's a sweet spot in that chat for sliding into something more sexual - if you* go charging right in with it, it's probably never going to happen for real and if you miss it we'll forever be talking about TV and biscuits!
*not you personally, just anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel like there's a sweet spot in that chat for sliding into something more sexual - if you* go charging right in with it, it's probably never going to happen for real and if you miss it we'll forever be talking about TV and biscuits!
*not you personally, just anyone "
Not me personally… oh. Well then… yeah… fancy a chocolate hob nob? lol |
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"I feel like there's a sweet spot in that chat for sliding into something more sexual - if you* go charging right in with it, it's probably never going to happen for real and if you miss it we'll forever be talking about TV and biscuits!
*not you personally, just anyone
Not me personally… oh. Well then… yeah… fancy a chocolate hob nob? lol "
Sure! Seen any good boxsets lately ? |
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"I feel like there's a sweet spot in that chat for sliding into something more sexual - if you* go charging right in with it, it's probably never going to happen for real and if you miss it we'll forever be talking about TV and biscuits!
*not you personally, just anyone
Not me personally… oh. Well then… yeah… fancy a chocolate hob nob? lol
Sure! Seen any good boxsets lately ?"
Lol. Funny you say that, we’ve just been catching up on “hanna” on prime and just started the new season tonight. |
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