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OK uhm, right, I mean... what exactly am I supposed to do with this info?  What even is she trying to say? Is she saying I should try my best to grow taller? Cause that's NOT HOW THE HUMAN BODY WORKS! 
Is she telling me she only finds me attractive in pictures, because she doesn't have to see my height
Or is she trying to compliment me and insult me at the same time?
What could it be? I wonder...I might need scooby do and the mystery Inc. to help me get to the bottom of this.
Man, this is just as bad as some other comments I get, like " I usually don't go for short guys, but in your case I might make an exception " ...well aren't I fucking special  You social skills lacking bafooness!
I haven't replied to the message...I really can't be bothered today ( and the day just started) , so to lift up the mood, can you all give me your best short guy jokes?  | |||
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Jokes aside, I find it bizarre people message someone that way - it’s a compliment but a bizarre one delivered equally bizarrely. Move on from that  | |||
Keep your head high, handsome x | |||
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"I’d tell you a joke but it would go straight over your head
Jokes aside, I find it bizarre people message someone that way - it’s a compliment but a bizarre one delivered equally bizarrely. Move on from that "grow up . Short jokes are beneath you. | |||
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"Anyway, I hate dad jokes so I am not gonna go there and spare you today
Keep your head high, handsome x "No dad jokes but then a dad joke  | |||
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 I honestly don’t get why people say things like this when it’s something you can’t change. I once got a first message and all it said was your nostrils are massive like why haha
I always forget to look at people’s heights on their profile it’s not something I ever really think about.
I guess at least she said it at the beginning rather than after you had been chatting to her for a while.
Try not let it get to you there are plenty of other ladies who think you are perfect  | |||
"So I got a message earlier that said this " you are so hot...if you were just a bit taller you'd be perfect "
OK uhm, right, I mean... what exactly am I supposed to do with this info? What even is she trying to say? Is she saying I should try my best to grow taller? Cause that's NOT HOW THE HUMAN BODY WORKS!
Is she telling me she only finds me attractive in pictures, because she doesn't have to see my height
Or is she trying to compliment me and insult me at the same time?
What could it be? I wonder...I might need scooby do and the mystery Inc. to help me get to the bottom of this.
Man, this is just as bad as some other comments I get, like " I usually don't go for short guys, but in your case I might make an exception " ...well aren't I fucking special You social skills lacking bafooness!
I haven't replied to the message...I really can't be bothered today ( and the day just started) , so to lift up the mood, can you all give me your best short guy jokes? "OP why let it bother you Your are fit hot handsome and can dance xxx  | |||
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"We’re all the same height when laying down "I have a sky remote to say that's not true ...  | |||
" I honestly don’t get why people say things like this when it’s something you can’t change. I once got a first message and all it said was your nostrils are massive like why haha
I always forget to look at people’s heights on their profile it’s not something I ever really think about.
I guess at least she said it at the beginning rather than after you had been chatting to her for a while.
Try not let it get to you there are plenty of other ladies who think you are perfect " no man is perfect | |||
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Anyway, do you know what always catches my eye? Short people with umbrellas | |||
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" Anyway, do you know what always catches my eye? Short people with umbrellas " | |||
" I honestly don’t get why people say things like this when it’s something you can’t change. I once got a first message and all it said was your nostrils are massive like why haha
I always forget to look at people’s heights on their profile it’s not something I ever really think about.
I guess at least she said it at the beginning rather than after you had been chatting to her for a while.
Try not let it get to you there are plenty of other ladies who think you are perfect
no man is perfect " tis true but nor is any woman but in the eyes of the right person you can be | |||
" I honestly don’t get why people say things like this when it’s something you can’t change. I once got a first message and all it said was your nostrils are massive like why haha
I always forget to look at people’s heights on their profile it’s not something I ever really think about.
I guess at least she said it at the beginning rather than after you had been chatting to her for a while.
Try not let it get to you there are plenty of other ladies who think you are perfect
no man is perfect "Noman is perfect Who? Who is this Noman guy? | |||
" I honestly don’t get why people say things like this when it’s something you can’t change. I once got a first message and all it said was your nostrils are massive like why haha
I always forget to look at people’s heights on their profile it’s not something I ever really think about.
I guess at least she said it at the beginning rather than after you had been chatting to her for a while.
Try not let it get to you there are plenty of other ladies who think you are perfect "Your nostrils are massive?
What kind of stupid shit is THAT? Beautiful girl like you turned away cos of your nostrils?! Come on... | |||
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" I honestly don’t get why people say things like this when it’s something you can’t change. I once got a first message and all it said was your nostrils are massive like why haha
I always forget to look at people’s heights on their profile it’s not something I ever really think about.
I guess at least she said it at the beginning rather than after you had been chatting to her for a while.
Try not let it get to you there are plenty of other ladies who think you are perfect
no man is perfect
tis true but nor is any woman but in the eyes of the right person you can be "Meant to put women too | |||
"I know how you feel O.P. The number of times i've had to start threads to talk about how hot I am is unbelievable. " I do that a lot, but mostly on a menopause forum. Christ on a bendy bus I'm so bloody hot. Oh... actually I'm ok now. | |||
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" I honestly don’t get why people say things like this when it’s something you can’t change. I once got a first message and all it said was your nostrils are massive like why haha
I always forget to look at people’s heights on their profile it’s not something I ever really think about.
I guess at least she said it at the beginning rather than after you had been chatting to her for a while.
Try not let it get to you there are plenty of other ladies who think you are perfect
Your nostrils are massive?
What kind of stupid shit is THAT? Beautiful girl like you turned away cos of your nostrils?! Come on... " who knows maybe it was some kind of fetish haha didn’t even give him the satisfaction of a reply he’s now in block box with all the other lovely people who like to throw insults | |||
"So I got a message earlier that said this " you are so hot...if you were just a bit taller you'd be perfect "
OK uhm, right, I mean... what exactly am I supposed to do with this info? What even is she trying to say? Is she saying I should try my best to grow taller? Cause that's NOT HOW THE HUMAN BODY WORKS!
Is she telling me she only finds me attractive in pictures, because she doesn't have to see my height
Or is she trying to compliment me and insult me at the same time?
What could it be? I wonder...I might need scooby do and the mystery Inc. to help me get to the bottom of this.
Man, this is just as bad as some other comments I get, like " I usually don't go for short guys, but in your case I might make an exception " ...well aren't I fucking special You social skills lacking bafooness!
I haven't replied to the message...I really can't be bothered today ( and the day just started) , so to lift up the mood, can you all give me your best short guy jokes? "Damn... Her loss.... You're the same height as my hubby
Also I feel really bad cus on another thread I replied that I don't normally go for muscly guys but in his case I would and now I'm hoping I haven't offended him as that's not what I meant, it was a compliment that he was so attractive and his profile was so nice that I saw past that? Oh jesus does that even make sense now #panicking.... | |||
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"Oh good I’ve had my physical appearance designated on here, my ass is too big, my thighs are like tree trunks, my nipples are too big, I look like a boy…blah blah! Jog the fuck on, there’s thousands of people on here why you feel the need to message someone and try to pull them apart is beyond me. I come as I am, like it or lump it! Rise above OP and for the record you could be 2ft or 10ft you would still be beautiful to look at xx" *oh god not good | |||
"So I got a message earlier that said this " you are so hot...if you were just a bit taller you'd be perfect "
OK uhm, right, I mean... what exactly am I supposed to do with this info? What even is she trying to say? Is she saying I should try my best to grow taller? Cause that's NOT HOW THE HUMAN BODY WORKS!
Is she telling me she only finds me attractive in pictures, because she doesn't have to see my height
Or is she trying to compliment me and insult me at the same time?
What could it be? I wonder...I might need scooby do and the mystery Inc. to help me get to the bottom of this.
Man, this is just as bad as some other comments I get, like " I usually don't go for short guys, but in your case I might make an exception " ...well aren't I fucking special You social skills lacking bafooness!
I haven't replied to the message...I really can't be bothered today ( and the day just started) , so to lift up the mood, can you all give me your best short guy jokes?
Damn... Her loss.... You're the same height as my hubby
Also I feel really bad cus on another thread I replied that I don't normally go for muscly guys but in his case I would and now I'm hoping I haven't offended him as that's not what I meant, it was a compliment that he was so attractive and his profile was so nice that I saw past that? Oh jesus does that even make sense now #panicking.... " careful...ground is shaking beneath your feet now | |||
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OP, I don't know you on a personal level but I do know that you are drop dead gorgeous. Absolutely amazingly good looking and your height to me (and I'm sure many others) has nothing to do with anything. I've dated men from 5ft 4 to 6ft 8, so I'm not picky on height! | |||
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"Judging only from your pics I honestly don't think you'll ever go short ( pun intended ) mate "Hahaha | |||
"Oh good I’ve had my physical appearance designated on here, my ass is too big, my thighs are like tree trunks, my nipples are too big, I look like a boy…blah blah! Jog the fuck on, there’s thousands of people on here why you feel the need to message someone and try to pull them apart is beyond me. I come as I am, like it or lump it! Rise above OP and for the record you could be 2ft or 10ft you would still be beautiful to look at xx" U are stunning x like those people don’t even know what they are talking about. | |||
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"So I got a message earlier that said this " you are so hot...if you were just a bit taller you'd be perfect "
OK uhm, right, I mean... what exactly am I supposed to do with this info? What even is she trying to say? Is she saying I should try my best to grow taller? Cause that's NOT HOW THE HUMAN BODY WORKS!
Is she telling me she only finds me attractive in pictures, because she doesn't have to see my height
Or is she trying to compliment me and insult me at the same time?
What could it be? I wonder...I might need scooby do and the mystery Inc. to help me get to the bottom of this.
Man, this is just as bad as some other comments I get, like " I usually don't go for short guys, but in your case I might make an exception " ...well aren't I fucking special You social skills lacking bafooness!
I haven't replied to the message...I really can't be bothered today ( and the day just started) , so to lift up the mood, can you all give me your best short guy jokes? "5’7” isn’t even short! Wtf! | |||
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"So I got a message earlier that said this " you are so hot...if you were just a bit taller you'd be perfect "
OK uhm, right, I mean... what exactly am I supposed to do with this info? What even is she trying to say? Is she saying I should try my best to grow taller? Cause that's NOT HOW THE HUMAN BODY WORKS!
Is she telling me she only finds me attractive in pictures, because she doesn't have to see my height
Or is she trying to compliment me and insult me at the same time?
What could it be? I wonder...I might need scooby do and the mystery Inc. to help me get to the bottom of this.
Man, this is just as bad as some other comments I get, like " I usually don't go for short guys, but in your case I might make an exception " ...well aren't I fucking special You social skills lacking bafooness!
I haven't replied to the message...I really can't be bothered today ( and the day just started) , so to lift up the mood, can you all give me your best short guy jokes?
Damn... Her loss.... You're the same height as my hubby
Also I feel really bad cus on another thread I replied that I don't normally go for muscly guys but in his case I would and now I'm hoping I haven't offended him as that's not what I meant, it was a compliment that he was so attractive and his profile was so nice that I saw past that? Oh jesus does that even make sense now #panicking....
careful...ground is shaking beneath your feet now "Feels like it too  I'm a massive overthinker lol and am fighting the urge to message him and apologise bahahahaha x
But seriously whoever that girl was it really is her loss x probs a fake profile anyway x | |||
"I wish I was a little bit taller. I wish I was a baller. I wish I had a girl who looked good, I would call her. " tuuuunnneeee lol | |||
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"... 5’7” isn’t even short! Wtf!" It wasn't in medieval times, but in modern times both women and men have been getting taller. | |||
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"if i was taller my weight would be perfect " | |||
"As another shorter guy, stay strong brother It’s sucks that there’s such a huge thing on height these days. 6’1 minimum is a common addition to a woman’s long list of needs Nothing on them for that either. I’ll dismiss girls under a certain cup size. It’s all preference. It just seems the height thing for guys is exceptionally cruel at the moment in how openly some women will mock men under a certain height, when if you did the reverse you’d be crucified, some women seem to be celebrated by saying anything under 6’0 is a child/friend zone/small dick energy etc Just stay strong bro " I think having a preference is fine so long as it’s respectful. Like saying nasty thing about height isn’t nice Or breasts (like … she’s a flat chested bitch) There’s respectful ways while keeping boundaries on what we might prefer
But anyway, attraction is a mix of things anyway!!! Jack Grealish is totally fiiiiineeeee and he’s not 6’4” | |||
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"Oh good I’ve had my physical appearance designated on here, my ass is too big, my thighs are like tree trunks, my nipples are too big, I look like a boy…blah blah! Jog the fuck on, there’s thousands of people on here why you feel the need to message someone and try to pull them apart is beyond me. I come as I am, like it or lump it! Rise above OP and for the record you could be 2ft or 10ft you would still be beautiful to look at xx U are stunning x like those people don’t even know what they are talking about. "Aw right back at you lovely! Xxx | |||
"... 5’7” isn’t even short! Wtf! It wasn't in medieval times, but in modern times both women and men have been getting taller." Not me, I’m tiny! | |||
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"I know how you feel O.P. The number of times i've had to start threads to talk about how hot I am is unbelievable. " | |||
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"I wish I was a little bit taller. I wish I was a baller. I wish I had a girl who looked good, I would call her. tuuuunnneeee lol " Wish I had a strap-on in my bag And a blindfold for ya
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"Oh good I’ve had my physical appearance designated on here, my ass is too big, my thighs are like tree trunks, my nipples are too big, I look like a boy…blah blah! Jog the fuck on, there’s thousands of people on here why you feel the need to message someone and try to pull them apart is beyond me. I come as I am, like it or lump it! Rise above OP and for the record you could be 2ft or 10ft you would still be beautiful to look at xx U are stunning x like those people don’t even know what they are talking about. "Isn't she just! Wow! | |||
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"It’s such a shame when 2 people can’t see eye to eye over these maters. Does make you wonder if a man ever said to this lady “Sorry, your too skinny/fat/short for me” how she’d feel about it. " Short men don't usually get in the celebrity press, seen alongside super model women... ... Unless they happen to have the wealth of a Bernie Ecclestone. That extra billion in the bank seems to add a couple of inches... | |||
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"My short guy joke The seven dwarfs go to the Vatican , and because they are the seven dwarfs, they are immediately ushered in to see the Pope. Grumpy leads the pack. 'Grumpy, my son,' says the Pope, 'What can I do for you?' Grumpy asks, 'Excuse me your Excellency, but are there any dwarf nuns in Rome ?' The Pope wrinkles his brow at the odd question, thinks for a moment and answers, 'No, Grumpy, there are no dwarf nuns in Rome .' In the background, a few of the dwarfs start giggling. Grumpy turns around and glares, silencing them. Grumpy turns back, 'Your Worship, are there any dwarf nuns in all of Europe ?' The Pope, puzzled now, again thinks for a moment and then answers, 'No, Grumpy, there are no dwarf nuns in Europe . Grumpy then says, 'Mr.. Pope! Are there ANY dwarf nuns anywhere in the world?' The Pope, really confused by the questions says, 'I'm sorry, my son, there are no dwarf nuns anywhere in the world.' The other dwarfs collapse into a heap, rolling and laughing, pounding the floor, tears rolling down their cheeks, as they begin chanting...... 'Grumpy shagged a penguin!' 'Grumpy shagged a penguin."" Grumpy is a savage | |||
"As another shorter guy, stay strong brother It’s sucks that there’s such a huge thing on height these days. 6’1 minimum is a common addition to a woman’s long list of needs Nothing on them for that either. I’ll dismiss girls under a certain cup size. It’s all preference. It just seems the height thing for guys is exceptionally cruel at the moment in how openly some women will mock men under a certain height, when if you did the reverse you’d be crucified, some women seem to be celebrated by saying anything under 6’0 is a child/friend zone/small dick energy etc Just stay strong bro I think having a preference is fine so long as it’s respectful. Like saying nasty thing about height isn’t nice Or breasts (like … she’s a flat chested bitch) There’s respectful ways while keeping boundaries on what we might prefer
But anyway, attraction is a mix of things anyway!!! Jack Grealish is totally fiiiiineeeee and he’s not 6’4” "The look of disappointment when I tell women that Tom Hardy is 5’9 (probably 5’8 since Hollywood always adds an inch or 2) is priceless | |||
"As another shorter guy, stay strong brother It’s sucks that there’s such a huge thing on height these days. 6’1 minimum is a common addition to a woman’s long list of needs Nothing on them for that either. I’ll dismiss girls under a certain cup size. It’s all preference. It just seems the height thing for guys is exceptionally cruel at the moment in how openly some women will mock men under a certain height, when if you did the reverse you’d be crucified, some women seem to be celebrated by saying anything under 6’0 is a child/friend zone/small dick energy etc Just stay strong bro I think having a preference is fine so long as it’s respectful. Like saying nasty thing about height isn’t nice Or breasts (like … she’s a flat chested bitch) There’s respectful ways while keeping boundaries on what we might prefer
But anyway, attraction is a mix of things anyway!!! Jack Grealish is totally fiiiiineeeee and he’s not 6’4”
The look of disappointment when I tell women that Tom Hardy is 5’9 (probably 5’8 since Hollywood always adds an inch or 2) is priceless "Kit Harrington aka Jon Snow is 5'7 Zac Efron is 5'7 James McAvoy is 5'7 They are all perceived as handsome or good-looking and they all have spoken up about the heightism for the men in showbiz | |||
"As another shorter guy, stay strong brother It’s sucks that there’s such a huge thing on height these days. 6’1 minimum is a common addition to a woman’s long list of needs Nothing on them for that either. I’ll dismiss girls under a certain cup size. It’s all preference. It just seems the height thing for guys is exceptionally cruel at the moment in how openly some women will mock men under a certain height, when if you did the reverse you’d be crucified, some women seem to be celebrated by saying anything under 6’0 is a child/friend zone/small dick energy etc Just stay strong bro I think having a preference is fine so long as it’s respectful. Like saying nasty thing about height isn’t nice Or breasts (like … she’s a flat chested bitch) There’s respectful ways while keeping boundaries on what we might prefer
But anyway, attraction is a mix of things anyway!!! Jack Grealish is totally fiiiiineeeee and he’s not 6’4”
The look of disappointment when I tell women that Tom Hardy is 5’9 (probably 5’8 since Hollywood always adds an inch or 2) is priceless
Kit Harrington aka Jon Snow is 5'7
Zac Efron is 5'7
James McAvoy is 5'7
They are all perceived as handsome or good-looking and they all have spoken up about the heightism for the men in showbiz
"Preach! | |||
"My short guy joke The seven dwarfs go to the Vatican , and because they are the seven dwarfs, they are immediately ushered in to see the Pope. Grumpy leads the pack. 'Grumpy, my son,' says the Pope, 'What can I do for you?' Grumpy asks, 'Excuse me your Excellency, but are there any dwarf nuns in Rome ?' The Pope wrinkles his brow at the odd question, thinks for a moment and answers, 'No, Grumpy, there are no dwarf nuns in Rome .' In the background, a few of the dwarfs start giggling. Grumpy turns around and glares, silencing them. Grumpy turns back, 'Your Worship, are there any dwarf nuns in all of Europe ?' The Pope, puzzled now, again thinks for a moment and then answers, 'No, Grumpy, there are no dwarf nuns in Europe . Grumpy then says, 'Mr.. Pope! Are there ANY dwarf nuns anywhere in the world?' The Pope, really confused by the questions says, 'I'm sorry, my son, there are no dwarf nuns anywhere in the world.' The other dwarfs collapse into a heap, rolling and laughing, pounding the floor, tears rolling down their cheeks, as they begin chanting...... 'Grumpy shagged a penguin!' 'Grumpy shagged a penguin."" ! More jokes please | |||
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"As another shorter guy, stay strong brother It’s sucks that there’s such a huge thing on height these days. 6’1 minimum is a common addition to a woman’s long list of needs Nothing on them for that either. I’ll dismiss girls under a certain cup size. It’s all preference. It just seems the height thing for guys is exceptionally cruel at the moment in how openly some women will mock men under a certain height, when if you did the reverse you’d be crucified, some women seem to be celebrated by saying anything under 6’0 is a child/friend zone/small dick energy etc Just stay strong bro I think having a preference is fine so long as it’s respectful. Like saying nasty thing about height isn’t nice Or breasts (like … she’s a flat chested bitch) There’s respectful ways while keeping boundaries on what we might prefer
But anyway, attraction is a mix of things anyway!!! Jack Grealish is totally fiiiiineeeee and he’s not 6’4”
The look of disappointment when I tell women that Tom Hardy is 5’9 (probably 5’8 since Hollywood always adds an inch or 2) is priceless
Kit Harrington aka Jon Snow is 5'7
Zac Efron is 5'7
James McAvoy is 5'7
They are all perceived as handsome or good-looking and they all have spoken up about the heightism for the men in showbiz
Preach!
Or drooling over Daniel Craig as Bond when he's 5'9. Funny as hell when you point out these blokes who get their knickers wetter than a spastics chin aren't 6ft+." | |||
"Tom Hardy is ?? ?? ?? And taller than me (a bit) and that's cool. Just own it. " That was HOT HOT HOT | |||
"As another shorter guy, stay strong brother It’s sucks that there’s such a huge thing on height these days. 6’1 minimum is a common addition to a woman’s long list of needs Nothing on them for that either. I’ll dismiss girls under a certain cup size. It’s all preference. It just seems the height thing for guys is exceptionally cruel at the moment in how openly some women will mock men under a certain height, when if you did the reverse you’d be crucified, some women seem to be celebrated by saying anything under 6’0 is a child/friend zone/small dick energy etc Just stay strong bro I think having a preference is fine so long as it’s respectful. Like saying nasty thing about height isn’t nice Or breasts (like … she’s a flat chested bitch) There’s respectful ways while keeping boundaries on what we might prefer
But anyway, attraction is a mix of things anyway!!! Jack Grealish is totally fiiiiineeeee and he’s not 6’4”
The look of disappointment when I tell women that Tom Hardy is 5’9 (probably 5’8 since Hollywood always adds an inch or 2) is priceless
Kit Harrington aka Jon Snow is 5'7
Zac Efron is 5'7
James McAvoy is 5'7
They are all perceived as handsome or good-looking and they all have spoken up about the heightism for the men in showbiz
Preach!
Or drooling over Daniel Craig as Bond when he's 5'9. Funny as hell when you point out these blokes who get their knickers wetter than a spastics chin aren't 6ft+."Jebus | |||
" I honestly don’t get why people say things like this when it’s something you can’t change. I once got a first message and all it said was your nostrils are massive like why haha
I always forget to look at people’s heights on their profile it’s not something I ever really think about.
I guess at least she said it at the beginning rather than after you had been chatting to her for a while.
Try not let it get to you there are plenty of other ladies who think you are perfect "I so had to check your nostrils then. No idea what he was on about, maybe he misspelled boobs? Mr | |||
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"As another shorter guy, stay strong brother It’s sucks that there’s such a huge thing on height these days. 6’1 minimum is a common addition to a woman’s long list of needs Nothing on them for that either. I’ll dismiss girls under a certain cup size. It’s all preference. It just seems the height thing for guys is exceptionally cruel at the moment in how openly some women will mock men under a certain height, when if you did the reverse you’d be crucified, some women seem to be celebrated by saying anything under 6’0 is a child/friend zone/small dick energy etc Just stay strong bro I think having a preference is fine so long as it’s respectful. Like saying nasty thing about height isn’t nice Or breasts (like … she’s a flat chested bitch) There’s respectful ways while keeping boundaries on what we might prefer
But anyway, attraction is a mix of things anyway!!! Jack Grealish is totally fiiiiineeeee and he’s not 6’4”
The look of disappointment when I tell women that Tom Hardy is 5’9 (probably 5’8 since Hollywood always adds an inch or 2) is priceless
Kit Harrington aka Jon Snow is 5'7
Zac Efron is 5'7
James McAvoy is 5'7
They are all perceived as handsome or good-looking and they all have spoken up about the heightism for the men in showbiz
Preach!
Or drooling over Daniel Craig as Bond when he's 5'9. Funny as hell when you point out these blokes who get their knickers wetter than a spastics chin aren't 6ft+."Maybe it isn't your height that puts women off. | |||
"Wouldn't worry about it mate. Now get back to work, them toys won't make themselves for Christmas "Now this one was funny | |||
"As another shorter guy, stay strong brother It’s sucks that there’s such a huge thing on height these days. 6’1 minimum is a common addition to a woman’s long list of needs Nothing on them for that either. I’ll dismiss girls under a certain cup size. It’s all preference. It just seems the height thing for guys is exceptionally cruel at the moment in how openly some women will mock men under a certain height, when if you did the reverse you’d be crucified, some women seem to be celebrated by saying anything under 6’0 is a child/friend zone/small dick energy etc Just stay strong bro I think having a preference is fine so long as it’s respectful. Like saying nasty thing about height isn’t nice Or breasts (like … she’s a flat chested bitch) There’s respectful ways while keeping boundaries on what we might prefer
But anyway, attraction is a mix of things anyway!!! Jack Grealish is totally fiiiiineeeee and he’s not 6’4”
The look of disappointment when I tell women that Tom Hardy is 5’9 (probably 5’8 since Hollywood always adds an inch or 2) is priceless
Kit Harrington aka Jon Snow is 5'7
Zac Efron is 5'7
James McAvoy is 5'7
They are all perceived as handsome or good-looking and they all have spoken up about the heightism for the men in showbiz
Preach!
Or drooling over Daniel Craig as Bond when he's 5'9. Funny as hell when you point out these blokes who get their knickers wetter than a spastics chin aren't 6ft+."Straight into the block bin... | |||
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"As another shorter guy, stay strong brother It’s sucks that there’s such a huge thing on height these days. 6’1 minimum is a common addition to a woman’s long list of needs Nothing on them for that either. I’ll dismiss girls under a certain cup size. It’s all preference. It just seems the height thing for guys is exceptionally cruel at the moment in how openly some women will mock men under a certain height, when if you did the reverse you’d be crucified, some women seem to be celebrated by saying anything under 6’0 is a child/friend zone/small dick energy etc Just stay strong bro I think having a preference is fine so long as it’s respectful. Like saying nasty thing about height isn’t nice Or breasts (like … she’s a flat chested bitch) There’s respectful ways while keeping boundaries on what we might prefer
But anyway, attraction is a mix of things anyway!!! Jack Grealish is totally fiiiiineeeee and he’s not 6’4”
The look of disappointment when I tell women that Tom Hardy is 5’9 (probably 5’8 since Hollywood always adds an inch or 2) is priceless "Hardy has said he’s 5’9 himself and I tend to believe him as he doesn’t come across as the sort of vain type who feels the need to ‘fab up’ his height | |||
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Really, you had to broadcast it? Why, why do you presume I would have contacted you or shown interest? Genuinely curious. Blocked for what having a differing opinion to you? If so that is echo chamber and dangerous to not expose yourself to other opinions.
Perhaps it was the joke which I have shamelessly pinched from Jimmy Carr about a spastics chin? Comedy and humor is subjective. "It is subjective that's true. More than one person reacted to that joke. Not positively. | |||
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"I feel for you there forum brother. I’m sick of getting messages from horny chicks that only want me because I’m really tall, well defined, charming and extremely fucking handsome. It’s shit. Wish they’d all just see past all that to my squishy heart and caring side." | |||
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"I feel for you there forum brother. I’m sick of getting messages from horny chicks that only want me because I’m really tall, well defined, charming and extremely fucking handsome. It’s shit. Wish they’d all just see past all that to my squishy heart and caring side." | |||
"I feel for you there forum brother. I’m sick of getting messages from horny chicks that only want me because I’m really tall, well defined, charming and extremely fucking handsome. It’s shit. Wish they’d all just see past all that to my squishy heart and caring side." One side of me is saying 'Aaaaaaaw!' the other is saying 'bastard!' Both meant with the upmost of well wishes | |||
"Interesting this thread started as "my perfect man would be tall and hot, you're just hot" to "women don't see short people as being hot". A subtle evolution of position. I suspect some women generally like tall men. Maybe it's a safety thing or a self consciousness thing of being taller in heels And maybe they do use it as a filter in the same way as people use age etc. And maybe they do look at celebrities (who really have a lot more going for them than just looks. They are top of the game when it comes to energy etc) and find them less attractive irl when they see the height ... But ... I suspect there are men out there who will "fancy" a TSbuntil they find out it's not quite what they were looking for ..." For me it’s simply because I like a man to be taller than me as I’m tall. Totally my issue not theirs at all. I won’t meet men shorter than me but there’s absolutely no need for nasty comments. | |||
"Interesting this thread started as "my perfect man would be tall and hot, you're just hot" to "women don't see short people as being hot". A subtle evolution of position. I suspect some women generally like tall men. Maybe it's a safety thing or a self consciousness thing of being taller in heels And maybe they do use it as a filter in the same way as people use age etc. And maybe they do look at celebrities (who really have a lot more going for them than just looks. They are top of the game when it comes to energy etc) and find them less attractive irl when they see the height ... But ... I suspect there are men out there who will "fancy" a TSbuntil they find out it's not quite what they were looking for ... For me it’s simply because I like a man to be taller than me as I’m tall. Totally my issue not theirs at all. I won’t meet men shorter than me but there’s absolutely no need for nasty comments. " Can I sit on your knee and tell you what I want for christmas? By the way, I've been a little naughty this year | |||
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"Interesting this thread started as "my perfect man would be tall and hot, you're just hot" to "women don't see short people as being hot". A subtle evolution of position. I suspect some women generally like tall men. Maybe it's a safety thing or a self consciousness thing of being taller in heels And maybe they do use it as a filter in the same way as people use age etc. And maybe they do look at celebrities (who really have a lot more going for them than just looks. They are top of the game when it comes to energy etc) and find them less attractive irl when they see the height ... But ... I suspect there are men out there who will "fancy" a TSbuntil they find out it's not quite what they were looking for ... For me it’s simply because I like a man to be taller than me as I’m tall. Totally my issue not theirs at all. I won’t meet men shorter than me but there’s absolutely no need for nasty comments. Can I sit on your knee and tell you what I want for christmas? By the way, I've been a little naughty this year " In that case you’d better bend over my knee | |||
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"Interesting this thread started as "my perfect man would be tall and hot, you're just hot" to "women don't see short people as being hot". A subtle evolution of position. I suspect some women generally like tall men. Maybe it's a safety thing or a self consciousness thing of being taller in heels And maybe they do use it as a filter in the same way as people use age etc. And maybe they do look at celebrities (who really have a lot more going for them than just looks. They are top of the game when it comes to energy etc) and find them less attractive irl when they see the height ... But ... I suspect there are men out there who will "fancy" a TSbuntil they find out it's not quite what they were looking for ... For me it’s simply because I like a man to be taller than me as I’m tall. Totally my issue not theirs at all. I won’t meet men shorter than me but there’s absolutely no need for nasty comments. Can I sit on your knee and tell you what I want for christmas? By the way, I've been a little naughty this year In that case you’d better bend over my knee " You may need help. Any elves with time on their hands? | |||
"So I got a message earlier that said this " you are so hot...if you were just a bit taller you'd be perfect "
OK uhm, right, I mean... what exactly am I supposed to do with this info? What even is she trying to say? Is she saying I should try my best to grow taller? Cause that's NOT HOW THE HUMAN BODY WORKS!
Is she telling me she only finds me attractive in pictures, because she doesn't have to see my height
Or is she trying to compliment me and insult me at the same time?
What could it be? I wonder...I might need scooby do and the mystery Inc. to help me get to the bottom of this.
Man, this is just as bad as some other comments I get, like " I usually don't go for short guys, but in your case I might make an exception " ...well aren't I fucking special You social skills lacking bafooness!
I haven't replied to the message...I really can't be bothered today ( and the day just started) , so to lift up the mood, can you all give me your best short guy jokes? "Such a low blow to use a physical feature you have no control over....Lucky escape I think | |||
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"So I got a message earlier that said this " you are so hot...if you were just a bit taller you'd be perfect "
OK uhm, right, I mean... what exactly am I supposed to do with this info? What even is she trying to say? Is she saying I should try my best to grow taller? Cause that's NOT HOW THE HUMAN BODY WORKS!
Is she telling me she only finds me attractive in pictures, because she doesn't have to see my height
Or is she trying to compliment me and insult me at the same time?
What could it be? I wonder...I might need scooby do and the mystery Inc. to help me get to the bottom of this.
Man, this is just as bad as some other comments I get, like " I usually don't go for short guys, but in your case I might make an exception " ...well aren't I fucking special You social skills lacking bafooness!
I haven't replied to the message...I really can't be bothered today ( and the day just started) , so to lift up the mood, can you all give me your best short guy jokes?
Such a low blow to use a physical feature you have no control over....Lucky escape I think"Another advantage of not being tall, easier to escape more situations! | |||
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"I feel for you there forum brother. I’m sick of getting messages from horny chicks that only want me because I’m really tall, well defined, charming and extremely fucking handsome. It’s shit. Wish they’d all just see past all that to my squishy heart and caring side. One side of me is saying 'Aaaaaaaw!' the other is saying 'bastard!' Both meant with the upmost of well wishes " I get that a lot. | |||
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"OP, did you ever reply ?" I did not reply, but she did saw the thread and judging by her second message she was not happy , and I'm an immature sensitive Snowflake for opening this thread...ouch | |||
"OP, did you ever reply ? I did not reply, but she did saw the thread and judging by her second message she was not happy , and I'm an immature sensitive Snowflake for opening this thread...ouch "Like I said earlier lucky escape! What a shallow a-hole | |||
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"Its not your height,it was just the easiest way for her to say she wasn't interested. Just move on." Dude, she messaged first...I didn't even reply | |||
"Its not your height,it was just the easiest way for her to say she wasn't interested. Just move on. Dude, she messaged first...I didn't even reply "interesting. I didn't take your original post as her giving you a huge insult. Maybe a poor neg, or a backhanded compliment. Love to know the follow up message ! | |||
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"5’7 is quite tall but I’m 5’4 so I guess it’s relative. Anyway, as my dad used to say, we’re the last to know it’s raining but the first to know about the flood. Be happy in your skin "But would you meet someone that is shorter than you? See if a man would say " I am quite muscly so I don't mind a bigger/curvier woman as long as she is not bigger/doesn't weigh more than I do" ...wouldn't that be off putting? The whole point if this is how people are ignorant in expressing their preferences And no height is not relative, as it is measurable... and the average height for men in the UK is 5'9, therefore a 5'7 man is short | |||
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"I think she is taking the time to compliment you, while at the same time not wasting your time by giving you false hope, and being decent enough to explain why for her personally you are not what you are looking for, but you would be for others. Maybe this is the reason men complain about women and couples not replying to them. " Omg why don't people understand that I didn't contact this lady...she just randomly messaged me | |||
"I think she is taking the time to compliment you, while at the same time not wasting your time by giving you false hope, and being decent enough to explain why for her personally you are not what you are looking for, but you would be for others. Maybe this is the reason men complain about women and couples not replying to them. Omg why don't people understand that I didn't contact this lady...she just randomly messaged me "We do. So what I said stands. She was complimenting you without you thinking it was an invite, so you didn't waste your time. This attitude is why men don't get women contacting them and also why they don't get replies. | |||
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"I think she is taking the time to compliment you, while at the same time not wasting your time by giving you false hope, and being decent enough to explain why for her personally you are not what you are looking for, but you would be for others. Maybe this is the reason men complain about women and couples not replying to them. Omg why don't people understand that I didn't contact this lady...she just randomly messaged me
We do. So what I said stands. She was complimenting you without you thinking it was an invite, so you didn't waste your time.
This attitude is why men don't get women contacting them and also why they don't get replies. "It really isn’t. She was out of order. | |||
"I think she is taking the time to compliment you, while at the same time not wasting your time by giving you false hope, and being decent enough to explain why for her personally you are not what you are looking for, but you would be for others. Maybe this is the reason men complain about women and couples not replying to them. " No shes was rude | |||
"I think she is taking the time to compliment you, while at the same time not wasting your time by giving you false hope, and being decent enough to explain why for her personally you are not what you are looking for, but you would be for others. Maybe this is the reason men complain about women and couples not replying to them. Omg why don't people understand that I didn't contact this lady...she just randomly messaged me
We do. So what I said stands. She was complimenting you without you thinking it was an invite, so you didn't waste your time.
This attitude is why men don't get women contacting them and also why they don't get replies.
It really isn’t. She was out of order.
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"I think she is taking the time to compliment you, while at the same time not wasting your time by giving you false hope, and being decent enough to explain why for her personally you are not what you are looking for, but you would be for others. Maybe this is the reason men complain about women and couples not replying to them. Omg why don't people understand that I didn't contact this lady...she just randomly messaged me
We do. So what I said stands. She was complimenting you without you thinking it was an invite, so you didn't waste your time.
This attitude is why men don't get women contacting them and also why they don't get replies. "Are you for real? she could have just fabbed my pictures without saying anything, she could have just said she finds me attractive but is not interested in meeting at the moment...there are so many other ways she could have expressed this....she literally said I would be "perfect" if I'd be just a bit taller. Why? Why say it like that? Anyway have your opinion...for me the whole message was unnecessary. I did not see it as a compliment | |||
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If someone wants you, they want/accept the whole you. Not "in spite of". Or "you'd be perfect if only.."
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"5’7 is quite tall but I’m 5’4 so I guess it’s relative. Anyway, as my dad used to say, we’re the last to know it’s raining but the first to know about the flood. Be happy in your skin
But would you meet someone that is shorter than you? See if a man would say " I am quite muscly so I don't mind a bigger/curvier woman as long as she is not bigger/doesn't weigh more than I do" ...wouldn't that be off putting?
The whole point if this is how people are ignorant in expressing their preferences
And no height is not relative, as it is measurable... and the average height for men in the UK is 5'9, therefore a 5'7 man is short"I tend to make my choices on here more by personality than looks so it wouldn’t be an issue to me and height is measurable but if people are judging by their own height it is indeed relative. | |||
"OP, did you ever reply ? I did not reply, but she did saw the thread and judging by her second message she was not happy , and I'm an immature sensitive Snowflake for opening this thread...ouch "Uh oh. They never like when you bring their wrongdoings to light..
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"Don't worry OP, us short people are always getting overlooked." | |||
"I think she is taking the time to compliment you, while at the same time not wasting your time by giving you false hope, and being decent enough to explain why for her personally you are not what you are looking for, but you would be for others. Maybe this is the reason men complain about women and couples not replying to them. Omg why don't people understand that I didn't contact this lady...she just randomly messaged me
We do. So what I said stands. She was complimenting you without you thinking it was an invite, so you didn't waste your time.
This attitude is why men don't get women contacting them and also why they don't get replies. "She's incredibly stuck up if she thinks every man on here would fuck her. She told him not to waste his time when he didn't even contact her??! Oh such bollocks!! | |||
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"OP, did you ever reply ? I did not reply, but she did saw the thread and judging by her second message she was not happy , and I'm an immature sensitive Snowflake for opening this thread...ouch
Uh oh.
They never like when you bring their wrongdoings to light..
Not sure how she displayed sensitivity with her message.. "Dunno about this lass as I don't know her so not my place, but what is it about the general use of 'snowflake' like it's a free pass to treat people like shit? | |||
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