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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes no fucking difference if post number or not as no fucker messages"
Is that why you’re pissed off and think that there are too many idiots on the site? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It makes no fucking difference if post number or not as no fucker messages
Who are the idiots then if nobody messages? "
U get folk online that will look at ur profile even if they not after single guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes no fucking difference if post number or not as no fucker messages
Who are the idiots then if nobody messages?
U get folk online that will look at ur profile even if they not after single guys"
Yeah, I hate it when that happens. People who aren’t looking for single guys shouldn’t be able to look at single guy’s profiles should they. |
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"It makes no fucking difference if post number or not as no fucker messages
Who are the idiots then if nobody messages?
U get folk online that will look at ur profile even if they not after single guys
Yeah, I hate it when that happens. People who aren’t looking for single guys shouldn’t be able to look at single guy’s profiles should they. "
Nowt wrong with a bit of window shopping   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exactly it gives the wrong idea to single men. Most sites more favour birds instead of equal ops"
Do you get all excited when someone looks at your profile because you think someone might be interested in you and then get hit with a wave of disappointment when you see that they aren’t looking for single guys?
It’s terrible that you have to suffer like that. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Exactly it gives the wrong idea to single men. Most sites more favour birds instead of equal ops
Do you get all excited when someone looks at your profile because you think someone might be interested in you and then get hit with a wave of disappointment when you see that they aren’t looking for single guys?
It’s terrible that you have to suffer like that. "
Oh the sarcasm |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Exactly it gives the wrong idea to single men. Most sites more favour birds instead of equal ops
Do you get all excited when someone looks at your profile because you think someone might be interested in you and then get hit with a wave of disappointment when you see that they aren’t looking for single guys?
It’s terrible that you have to suffer like that. "
Yep am used to the wankers online |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes no fucking difference if post number or not as no fucker messages
Who are the idiots then if nobody messages?
U get folk online that will look at ur profile even if they not after single guys"
Just because I look at someone's profile does not mean I want to send a message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes no fucking difference if post number or not as no fucker messages
Who are the idiots then if nobody messages?
U get folk online that will look at ur profile even if they not after single guys
Yeah, I hate it when that happens. People who aren’t looking for single guys shouldn’t be able to look at single guy’s profiles should they. "
Of course they can and why shouldn't they be able to? I think having the attitude of if you looked at my profile and have not messaged then your an idiot is what the issue is here, not people looking at a profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes no fucking difference if post number or not as no fucker messages
Who are the idiots then if nobody messages?
U get folk online that will look at ur profile even if they not after single guys
Just because I look at someone's profile does not mean I want to send a message. "
That’s the point OP was making, surely you can see that by looking at someone’s profile who you aren’t interested in messaging you’re giving off the wrong impression though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes no fucking difference if post number or not as no fucker messages
Who are the idiots then if nobody messages?
U get folk online that will look at ur profile even if they not after single guys
Just because I look at someone's profile does not mean I want to send a message.
That’s the point OP was making, surely you can see that by looking at someone’s profile who you aren’t interested in messaging you’re giving off the wrong impression though? "
Nope not in the slightest.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes no fucking difference if post number or not as no fucker messages
Who are the idiots then if nobody messages?
U get folk online that will look at ur profile even if they not after single guys
Just because I look at someone's profile does not mean I want to send a message.
That’s the point OP was making, surely you can see that by looking at someone’s profile who you aren’t interested in messaging you’re giving off the wrong impression though?
Nope not in the slightest.
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Think about it for a second, I'm not gonna know if I want to message someone until I have looked at their profile am I! Just because someone's profile says not looking for single men doesn't mean they aren't interested in them, they just don't want them to message them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It dont matter if posted on forums or meets as no fucker looks at them. Then that do are usually after me dressing as a woman or are too far away"
Do you like dressing up as a woman as well then? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It dont matter if posted on forums or meets as no fucker looks at them. Then that do are usually after me dressing as a woman or are too far away
Do you like dressing up as a woman as well then? "
No as it dont do nowt for me but each to their own. Most women are on here because their fellas dont give a shit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It dont matter if posted on forums or meets as no fucker looks at them. Then that do are usually after me dressing as a woman or are too far away
Do you like dressing up as a woman as well then?
No as it dont do nowt for me but each to their own. Most women are on here because their fellas dont give a shit"
Do the women on here tell you that themselves or have you spoken to their ‘fellas’ as well and they’ve told you? I must admit that no woman has ever told me she’s on here because her fella doesn’t give a shit but I guess if that’s what they’ve told you then it must be true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It dont matter if posted on forums or meets as no fucker looks at them. Then that do are usually after me dressing as a woman or are too far away
Do you like dressing up as a woman as well then?
No as it dont do nowt for me but each to their own. Most women are on here because their fellas dont give a shit"
And how do you know that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It wouldnt matter what I said as I get ripped to pieces so I will just shut up."
If you’ve been told by most the women on here that they’re only here because their fellas treat them like shit then you shouldn’t be ripped to pieces for saying it as you’re just talking the truth that you’ve learnt from what you’ve been told first hand.
You’ll only get ripped to pieces if you make claims that you have no evidence to back up and have just made up in your own head. |
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"If either sex was happy in a relationship they wouldnt need sites like this"
Eh? There are plenty of couples who have profiles on here who maybe want to spice up their sex life occasionally. Don't tar everyone with the same brush, just because you're getting no attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I admit was wrong of me to say that."
I think the people that get what they want from this side are the people that have the right attitude to it.
What I mean by that is the people that don't overthink things and understand not everybody is going to want to meet them in fact very few will want to meet them. From personal experience Getting people that you are interested in to meet you is 90% attitud and effort. Best way is don't expect anything from anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I admit was wrong of me to say that."
Yes it was. Do you feel like you should apologise to all the people you have offended and angered by saying it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If either sex was happy in a relationship they wouldnt need sites like this
Eh? There are plenty of couples who have profiles on here who maybe want to spice up their sex life occasionally. Don't tar everyone with the same brush, just because you're getting no attention. "
Absolutely spot on and there are also plenty of couples who met on here. Because we are still here absolutely does not mean we have a shit relationship in fact it's quite the opposite. We are here for our own reasons that we don't have to explain to everybody else. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I admit was wrong of me to say that.
Yes it was. Do you feel like you should apologise to all the people you have offended and angered by saying it?"
I don't think he's angered anyone.
I don't agree with his opinion however I don't need an apology and he is entitled to that opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I APOLOGISE FOR MY COMMENTS TO EVERY MAN N WOMAN."
You don't need to apologise but what I will say if your not getting what you want from the site maybe you need to change what you are doing and how you were doing it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I admit was wrong of me to say that.
Yes it was. Do you feel like you should apologise to all the people you have offended and angered by saying it?
I don't think he's angered anyone.
I don't agree with his opinion however I don't need an apology and he is entitled to that opinion."
Opinions tend to be _ased on perceived facts and develop from experiences and feelings....an untrue statement that has been made up by someone with the intention of offending people and transferring their own insecurities and failings onto others isn’t an opinion it’s just a lie. |
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"It dont matter if posted on forums or meets as no fucker looks at them. Then that do are usually after me dressing as a woman or are too far away
Do you like dressing up as a woman as well then? "
You should check his profile to see. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"The only idiot I can see ,is the OP. Attitude is absolutely rancid and seemingly very insecure.
Ps. No one wants to see a multitude of cock photos that looks like Gollums nose in winter"
Harsh |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I imagine if a woman had posted the op the responses would have gone a little differently "
people would have been alot more sympathetic not so harsh
Everyone jumps on these threads
Like it's a competition for the best put down
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And I find I sometimes don’t even need to open a profile to know I am never going to send a message. But that’s just the way I can pick up on personality traits from forum posts maybe, and I feel that we wouldn’t be on the same wavelength.
If I read a profile, I might then find it more so in there.
Op, you’ve been blunt (too many idiots - I paraphrased your opening) I think there’s too many people that feel they are entitled have it all their own way. And then they post there beef as trying to pass the bad feeling onto the idiots on here.
* I used the word idiots because he did…I promise.   |
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"It makes no fucking difference if post number or not as no fucker messages
Who are the idiots then if nobody messages?
U get folk online that will look at ur profile even if they not after single guys"
It’s like a car wreck though isn’t it, you don’t want to look but you can’t help yourself lol , maybe get out of the bitter barn and have a can do attitude! Try some swinging socials and post positively about interesting topics in the forums, I often strike up rapport with people just from their posts x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To the women in crappy relationships on here assuming I'm one as why else would I be here? I raise my glass ( relationship great btw and sex incredible)
To the " blokes in dresses" I love you and your confidence to accept and embrace your individuality is empowering.
To the "idiots " you have made me laugh this morning so thank you so much x
To the OP, Tearing people down doesn't lift you up. You have been blunt, rude and insulting. You can't go around making assumptions about people the way you have.
People are on here for different reasons and yes may look at profiles and that's their perogative.
Its not a sex site, not everyone is looking for a meet, just as if you go the the pub not every woman is going to throw themselves at you.
Tbh if you sent me a message and came across the way you have on here I would block you as we wouldn't be compatible.
Be kind and make good choices |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Its not a sex site, not everyone is looking for a meet, just as if you go the the pub not every woman is going to throw themselves at you. "
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Pub...not 'every' woman? Are you saying some will??  What have I been missing by not visiting pubs all these years?? (the wailing piteously emoji that I can't make)
Lovely sentiment in the rest of your post.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Its not a sex site, not everyone is looking for a meet, just as if you go the the pub not every woman is going to throw themselves at you.
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Pub...not 'every' woman? Are you saying some will?? What have I been missing by not visiting pubs all these years?? (the wailing piteously emoji that I can't make)
Lovely sentiment in the rest of your post. "
Thank you |
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By *akie32Man
over a year ago
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" Its not a sex site, not everyone is looking for a meet, just as if you go the the pub not every woman is going to throw themselves at you.
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Pub...not 'every' woman? Are you saying some will?? What have I been missing by not visiting pubs all these years?? (the wailing piteously emoji that I can't make)
Lovely sentiment in the rest of your post. "
you say that, but back when i was younger and used to go clubbing, a friend of mine ussed to go up to random women in a club,night club not swinging club, and ask if they fancied a fuck, he got alot of slaps around the face, but never ended up going home alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only idiot I can see ,is the OP. Attitude is absolutely rancid and seemingly very insecure.
Ps. No one wants to see a multitude of cock photos that looks like Gollums nose in winter"
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Critique the OP's post but absolutely uncalled for to stand in judgement of his profile and, most certainly, his body parts. The OP seems to be correct in some instances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Its not a sex site, not everyone is looking for a meet, just as if you go the the pub not every woman is going to throw themselves at you.
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Pub...not 'every' woman? Are you saying some will?? What have I been missing by not visiting pubs all these years?? (the wailing piteously emoji that I can't make)
Lovely sentiment in the rest of your post.
you say that, but back when i was younger and used to go clubbing, a friend of mine ussed to go up to random women in a club,night club not swinging club, and ask if they fancied a fuck, he got alot of slaps around the face, but never ended up going home alone "
Sounds cliched, doesn't it but I know this to be true. I also knew of a few acquaintances who had many unplanned liaisons this way but they didn't get the slaps. Might've been the way they approached the women.
Mind you, these were clubs. She was talking about 'pubs'. It seems we were in the wrong place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Until I looked I didn't know, you're totally on the wrong site OP, you need to be on Fabguys.
Weird thing is you've come across as a very aggressive individual. Insulting people, swearing (and no I'm not a prude and swearing does not bother me, but time and place etc), but the verifications you have paint a much nicer person.
Perhaps that nicer person should have come on here and posted without all the aggressive overtones. |
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Plenty of idiots your right...however there are some truly fantastic folk on here and part of the game..is trying to find them,talk to them and make friends....you've just go to be thick skinned enough to not worry or care about all the idiots,time wasters and fakes on this site |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"Plenty of idiots your right...however there are some truly fantastic folk on here and part of the game..is trying to find them,talk to them and make friends....you've just go to be thick skinned enough to not worry or care about all the idiots,time wasters and fakes on this site "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes no fucking difference if post number or not as no fucker messages
Is that why you’re pissed off and think that there are too many idiots on the site?"
Yea I'm trying to figure out as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Plenty of idiots your right...however there are some truly fantastic folk on here and part of the game..is trying to find them,talk to them and make friends....you've just go to be thick skinned enough to not worry or care about all the idiots,time wasters and fakes on this site "
Ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I admit was wrong of me to say that.
Yes it was. Do you feel like you should apologise to all the people you have offended and angered by saying it?
I don't think he's angered anyone.
I don't agree with his opinion however I don't need an apology and he is entitled to that opinion.
Opinions tend to be _ased on perceived facts and develop from experiences and feelings....an untrue statement that has been made up by someone with the intention of offending people and transferring their own insecurities and failings onto others isn’t an opinion it’s just a lie. "
I do like your posts.  |
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"It makes no fucking difference if post number or not as no fucker messages
Who are the idiots then if nobody messages?
U get folk online that will look at ur profile even if they not after single guys"
I just looked at your profile, because until I looked at it, I knew nothing about you other than the words posted on this thread and what you have as a profile pic.
That's how it works.
You look to learn, to see if you're compatible etc. How else would you know anything about the person until you viewed their profile?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are called 'slut' so some people think you are a woman.
You sound like one of those people who has the world against them and believes they are owed something |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll never understand why some people are so wound up by what I see as something quite trivial and not worth stressing over. I'm pretty laid back tho and don't get easily wound up
Like others have said, this site, much like life, is what you make it and if it's not working for you step away and take a break. I gave up meeting thru here before covid and only meet at socials and clubs now. |
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"The only idiot I can see ,is the OP. Attitude is absolutely rancid and seemingly very insecure.
Ps. No one wants to see a multitude of cock photos that looks like Gollums nose in winter
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Critique the OP's post but absolutely uncalled for to stand in judgement of his profile and, most certainly, his body parts. The OP seems to be correct in some instances."
Nevertheless tere's nothing like a descriptive turn of phrase to add to the simile store.
I had no idea what 'Gollum's nose looks like in any season, but I'm one step nearer knowing.
I will definitely purloin and use the simile when appropriate and safe to do so. Most probably at Eureka in the summer! |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"The only idiot I can see ,is the OP. Attitude is absolutely rancid and seemingly very insecure.
Ps. No one wants to see a multitude of cock photos that looks like Gollums nose in winter
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Critique the OP's post but absolutely uncalled for to stand in judgement of his profile and, most certainly, his body parts. The OP seems to be correct in some instances.
Nevertheless tere's nothing like a descriptive turn of phrase to add to the simile store.
I had no idea what 'Gollum's nose looks like in any season, but I'm one step nearer knowing.
I will definitely purloin and use the simile when appropriate and safe to do so. Most probably at Eureka in the summer!"
Teres? Simile? |
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o/p just see fab as a social club to share thoughts, ideas and humour. Anything else is a bonus. For single men, it's difficult regarding messaging as there are so many of us! Just try and be patient and live life outside of fab to the full. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I admit was wrong of me to say that.
Yes it was. Do you feel like you should apologise to all the people you have offended and angered by saying it?
I don't think he's angered anyone.
I don't agree with his opinion however I don't need an apology and he is entitled to that opinion.
Opinions tend to be _ased on perceived facts and develop from experiences and feelings....an untrue statement that has been made up by someone with the intention of offending people and transferring their own insecurities and failings onto others isn’t an opinion it’s just a lie.
I do like your posts. "
Thanks, I’m glad someone does, at least I’m not completely wasting my time by posting then haha. |
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"The only idiot I can see ,is the OP. Attitude is absolutely rancid and seemingly very insecure.
Ps. No one wants to see a multitude of cock photos that looks like Gollums nose in winter
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Critique the OP's post but absolutely uncalled for to stand in judgement of his profile and, most certainly, his body parts. The OP seems to be correct in some instances.
Nevertheless tere's nothing like a descriptive turn of phrase to add to the simile store.
I had no idea what 'Gollum's nose looks like in any season, but I'm one step nearer knowing.
I will definitely purloin and use the simile when appropriate and safe to do so. Most probably at Eureka in the summer!
Teres? Simile?"
Sorry meant there's.
'Simile' needs no explanation, I would have thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's my humble opinion that swinging couples are more loving than vanilla.. Going off the ones I've met in private and at clubs. Single men will always have a 'hard' time on here.. Can't comment on gay guys but I presume its similar.
My approach is to go with the flow, accept I'm not for everyone (sometimes anyone) and that's just how it is. The forum ain't no place to vent as you have OP because it's just bait for them looking to type something sarcastic, witty, funny or just plain cruel.. Golums nose in winter.. Ffs..
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That’s the point OP was making, surely you can see that by looking at someone’s profile who you aren’t interested in messaging you’re giving off the wrong impression though? "
How are you supposed to know of a person is who you're looking for if you don't look at their profile though?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just looked at your profile, because until I looked at it, I knew nothing about you other than the words posted on this thread and what you have as a profile pic.
That's how it works.
You look to learn, to see if you're compatible etc. How else would you know anything about the person until you viewed their profile?
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Well I looked at your profile and I now wish I lived in the Midlands
Exactly how it works, fab as I life you Find out about a person first, if you click then all's good, if you don't then be polite and move along. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a lot of idiots on here but it's all part of the entertainment. We certainly don't let it get to us.
We just stay away from the idiots, simple."
Hats off that’s a brilliant resume |
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