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Biggest turn off?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Repeatedly sending me face or dick pics. Or their own photo album with every message.
Just don't.
Don't even send me a face pic to start with because we probably won't be meeting anyway. |
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"Getting a private message after I've made a comment or contribution to a forum thread. Does my head in. Grrrr.  "
Oh god yes, I hate that. It's fine if the conversation has moved on and it would be awkward to reply then (or if the thread has closed), but otherwise just keep it to the forum! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I saw you in Asda earlier. 
I've had something similar...like, I know you!
Great next time you see me say hi....they have never seen me before in their life  "
I'd say that's so you message bk ha xx |
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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago
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Yep! "What you looking for?".. having ignored absolutely everything on my profile.... it's far too long to read after all.. get told that a lot too... then they wonder about a lack of interest from me |
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"Yep! "What you looking for?".. having ignored absolutely everything on my profile.... it's far too long to read after all.. get told that a lot too... then they wonder about a lack of interest from me"
Yep, my profile is a load of bollocks simply for that reason ! Fucking donkey smuggler!  |
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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago
Gleam Street |
"Yep! "What you looking for?".. having ignored absolutely everything on my profile.... it's far too long to read after all.. get told that a lot too... then they wonder about a lack of interest from me
Yep, my profile is a load of bollocks simply for that reason ! Fucking donkey smuggler! "
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"I saw you in Asda earlier.
I've had something similar...like, I know you!
Great next time you see me say hi....they have never seen me before in their life I'd say that's so you message bk ha xx"
Yes...I know.
It's good to see you on the forum x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I saw you in Asda earlier.
I've had something similar...like, I know you!
Great next time you see me say hi....they have never seen me before in their life I'd say that's so you message bk ha xx
Yes...I know.
It's good to see you on the forum x"
ahh ty x |
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"Yep! "What you looking for?".. having ignored absolutely everything on my profile.... it's far too long to read after all.. get told that a lot too... then they wonder about a lack of interest from me"
Because reading is hard when you are scrolling with just one hand  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dirty nails in pics
Dirty house in the background 
Gaping bum hole pics
Going on about they’d like to buy you stuff or pay you 
Talking to me like it’s not a couples account
Smart arses in the forum lol |
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Demanding immediate meets, without any discussion or flexibility whatsoever, nor consideration of my needs and situation.
I was in Australia 3 years ago and had a similar proposition. When informed I was there, the 'offer' was extended to the following day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Teeth that have never seen a toothbrush or dentist and poor personal hygiene, with the exception of the dentist the other 2 are cheap and easily done.
I get that people may suffer medical conditions that affect both but for others it’s laziness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People's posts on the forum. Turns out it can put you right off people sometimes 
LvM
Ditto  "
Starting to think there’s a little depth to this post , and others that agreed 
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Text speak- as far as I'm aware, we're not paying per letter?
Bombarding with messages before you even have time to read and reply to the first one.
Living miles away but "happy to travel".
Discrepancies in profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dirty nails in pics
Dirty house in the background
Gaping bum hole pics
Going on about they’d like to buy you stuff or pay you
Talking to me like it’s not a couples account
Smart arses in the forum lol"
Hate those smart arses… especially the ones that are oblivious it’s then |
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Smart arses in the forum lol
Hate those smart arses… especially the ones that are oblivious it’s then
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You had me worried until I got to the 'oblivious' bit!
Maybe that's why I don't get many meets from Fab. However I tend to meet swingers in real life and then catch up on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember someone describing themselves as being affluent.. that was off putting.
Not much help if they can't spell!"
What does spelling have to do with it? Did I miss something? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That message, "what you in to" read the fookin' profile !!
Haha yes! And pictureless profiles...
... and what do I say about pictureless profiles on my fookin' profile text?!!!"
I just sigh and regret opening the said message. |
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being asked to role play and pretend we are in certain scenarios...
No, I don't want to be called Mum or Auntie or Sister or Big cousin etc...
Cj doesn't want to be called Daddy or Uncle or Brother etc...
No we can't deal with dummies, nappies, talking like a baby, cuddly toys, safety blankies, school uniforms and so on, grow the fuck up if you want to get it on with us.
Simples.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A straight man randomly messaging and asking if I'll suck his cock.
Erm no."
I get the opposite. The guys all seem to want to suck me. Bragging about how they could get it all in and deepthroat me.
I tell them it's 3 inches so it wouldn't reach the back of their throat. I really shouldn't double my size when messaging back though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A straight man randomly messaging and asking if I'll suck his cock.
Erm no.
I get the opposite. The guys all seem to want to suck me. Bragging about how they could get it all in and deepthroat me.
I tell them it's 3 inches so it wouldn't reach the back of their throat. I really shouldn't double my size when messaging back though "
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I remember someone describing themselves as being affluent.. that was off putting.
Not much help if they can't spell!
What does spelling have to do with it? Did I miss something? "
It was a feeble attempt at a joke.
(Affluent v effluent)
Way beneath the standard expected on here. |
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"Unclean people or people who look like houses are unkempt as I feel that’s how they are about themselves also "
Guests can't get access to the unkempt part of my house. Nor can I unless I move things aside or stack them up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This entire thread.
It would have helped if all contributors had bothered to read the opening post carefully. Most did but not all."
Well i think its somewhat open to interpretation, as in, at what point before meeting?
Either way, for anyone else reading this thread it probably feels like stepping out into a minefield of anxiety. The sheer level of negativity. At least thats how im seeing it. Theres already enough "this turns me off" on ppls profiles.
And no offence to some of you but some of these just seem petty. |
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haha 
Oh, and liars. 