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I'm far too facetious, I just can't help it. I'm always cracking jokes in really bad situations... I just don't know why I do it, I suppose I'm always trying to lighten the mood even though I know people will assume I'm being inappropriate. It's a blessing and a curse.  |
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over a year ago
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I got loads now im too competitive too loyal too stubborn have manic moments too up and down overthinking over reacting numbness to compliments self sabotage high stress hyperfucussed i have developed many since the world ended  |
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over a year ago
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To nice for my own good
Dose me harm trying to be nice to everyone even though I reconside they toxic behaviour and influence on people
Ie don’t converse with you at all when you post nice things or general chit chat
But post something controversial and they the first people to reply to you
Shows me they only here for a agreement and not nice people at all |
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"To nice for my own good
Dose me harm trying to be nice to everyone even though I reconside they toxic behaviour and influence on people
Ie don’t converse with you at all when you post nice things or general chit chat
But post something controversial and they the first people to reply to you
Shows me they only here for a agreement and not nice people at all "
Don't let them trolls bring you down   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To nice for my own good
Dose me harm trying to be nice to everyone even though I reconside they toxic behaviour and influence on people
Ie don’t converse with you at all when you post nice things or general chit chat
But post something controversial and they the first people to reply to you
Shows me they only here for a agreement and not nice people at all
Don't let them trolls bring you down "
Thanks I try not to but it’s hard |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To nice for my own good
Dose me harm trying to be nice to everyone even though I reconside they toxic behaviour and influence on people
Ie don’t converse with you at all when you post nice things or general chit chat
But post something controversial and they the first people to reply to you
Shows me they only here for a agreement and not nice people at all
Don't let them trolls bring you down
Thanks I try not to but it’s hard "
Being straight forward and nice is not a great trait for fab |
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"To nice for my own good
Dose me harm trying to be nice to everyone even though I reconside they toxic behaviour and influence on people
Ie don’t converse with you at all when you post nice things or general chit chat
But post something controversial and they the first people to reply to you
Shows me they only here for a agreement and not nice people at all
Don't let them trolls bring you down
Thanks I try not to but it’s hard Being straight forward and nice is not a great trait for fab "
Can’t change who I am |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Iv a new tendency to winge like a dog waiting to be put down from time to time "
 that properly made me laugh
Overthinking. It really is quite tiring and it’s not overthinking the big things, it’s anything. I had a Victoria sponge cake but should I have had a Red Velvet - you get the picture |
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Trying to predict what people will say or do in any given situation - like I create scenes in my head and try to work out what someone will say, how I will respond etc etc and end up having a completely imaginary conversation. That then ends up with me not doing or saying what I want to do/say because they reacted badly in my head  |
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We've all got traits......
I don't think any of mine are toxic.
Some days some traits surface more than others but none of them toxic and all of the helpful tools.....
btw.... O.P. being facetious is not toxic - not in my book. |
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My need for open communication which is mostly a positive but if there's a disagreement then I need a full honest discussion to be able to process and move on.
What I've found is that a lot of people need a bit of time alone with their thoughts before clearing the air. Whereas I need to immediately discuss, restore peace and process. I can see now how annoying I must be! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im too chaotic. Comes in many forms as some of you may have already noticed. I actually have to hold back and refrain from making certain comments or getting involved in certain discussions cos i know ppl will get triggered. Im definitely not the most orthodox or predictable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Patience. I don't have it, none at all."
I can relate to that, I have very little patience. I'm naturally upright, so can lose it at the slightest thing that others happily let fly. It's genuinely something I'm working to fix. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Blocking dangerously stupid people for comments they post about covid at the moment.
That and cheese cake.
I also suffer with a gü chocolate salted caramel cheesecake addiction "
I'm so sorry. That must be hard to live with. Also, where does one buy them? Asking for a (toxic) friend |
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"I think I can be thoughtless and judgmental
Oh now that's just not true 
I certainly can be! Not traits I like about myself "
I was exercising my facetious , sarky trait..... 
Put 'impervious' on your list |
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"Patience. I don't have it, none at all.
I can relate to that, I have very little patience. I'm naturally upright, so can lose it at the slightest thing that others happily let fly. It's genuinely something I'm working to fix. "
Did you mean 'upright' ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I can be thoughtless and judgmental
Oh now that's just not true
I certainly can be! Not traits I like about myself
I was exercising my facetious , sarky trait.....
Put 'impervious' on your list "
I think I shall put gullible on there...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like bullshit.
Get to the point or move on..
No patience I suppose 
Bullshit or being over verbose ?
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Just in a few simple words what's required. Not a few simple paragraphs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Patience. I don't have it, none at all.
I can relate to that, I have very little patience. I'm naturally upright, so can lose it at the slightest thing that others happily let fly. It's genuinely something I'm working to fix.
Did you mean 'upright' ?"
Haha, I'm certainly not naturally upright, though I am fair bit of the time!!! Sorry, r is next to t on the keyboard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like bullshit.
Get to the point or move on..
No patience I suppose
Bullshit or being over verbose ?
Just in a few simple words what's required. Not a few simple paragraphs. "
Sometimes things need more elaborate explanation so there is no misunderstanding. On that note.. what is dry shite? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My tolerance is low, people generally annoy me.
I'm very cynical about everyone.
I overthink everything.
Basically, I'm great to be around! "
^^This plus I am a super hot head |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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Well some random online toxic trait test labelled me as The Mansplainer...
I'm a Mansplainer. I live to illuminate those around me, often without evidence I know what I'm talking about. Self-awareness is the first step! |
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